Strip bar- how would you react??

[*Robert* 2]

I'm Catholic. We invented Hellfire and Damnation.

I thought it was the Southern Baptists that came up with that?!

[gwenneh 7]

gwen ... gwen ... gwen ...

it shouldn't take that much research to figure out her religion! the majority of people who think it's unequivically 'bad' are those that deep into their religion!

Hey, she might have been fundie Christian, too. Or a follower of something I'm not familiar with! I'm just curious, it does get me into trouble occasionally.

I thought it was the Southern Baptists that came up with that?!

We did it first, and we had neat torture devices to go with. Baptists have Bible-thumpers and yelling. We had the Rack and yelling. Guess who I'd put my money on in a fight?

[Isabel 0]

Hm I wouldnt mind going to such a club with my hubby. I think it would be kinda funny. He still doesnt believe that I am not mad about it. I tease him about that haha....but just because he looked at me like he killed my favourite puppy! Watching girls is nothing that offends me. I like that too. So why would I forbid that. No way. As long as I can do the same thing myself with friends.....

Isabel

[gwenneh 7]

He still doesnt believe that I am not mad about it. I tease him about that haha....but just because he looked at me like he killed my favourite puppy!

Aww! They're so sweet when they're all ashamed!

[MrMrsKnight 0]

I guess for me, I'm secure that my husband loves me enough to know that it was just a night out with the guys...nothing to bite my nails over or get all bent out of shape. The thing is, with my husband, he would tell me he was going, and would tell me what it was like when he gets home. I guess it depends on your security level with your SO.

Same here!!

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

How would you react if you get to know that your hubby or fiance went to a strip bar last night?

My hubby went to one, with his guyfriends.

Isabel

The real question you should ask is "Am I overreacting?".

[Madame-Butterfly 0]

Id be upset cause if he truly loves me why would he go to those places in the fisrt place ?????

Beside I know he would never do such a thing and hes not the kind of guy to go there

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

Id be upset cause if he truly loves me why would he go to those places in the fisrt place ?????

Beside I know he would never do such a thing and hes not the kind of guy to go there

Men and woman are very different. You can't even compare what you would do with what your man will do. I love the differences, but they do exist.

Men like to masterbate too (I'd say more than women) but it doesn't mean they don't love you.

[gwenneh 7]

Id be upset cause if he truly loves me why would he go to those places in the fisrt place ?????

Beside I know he would never do such a thing and hes not the kind of guy to go there

I'm in agreement- my husband finds strip clubs pointless, hence I haven't set foot in one since before we started dating. In that past, however, even I occasionally got dragged into going-birthdays, stag nights, hen nights, etc. There are plenty of reasons a normal, average person might go that don't involve the primary purpose of ogling silicone boobs. I think that's more what the OP intended with her question,as she didn't imply that he's a serial strip-club patron (those are the scary bar-proppers).

[iceyspots 0]

should this have been continued in the Are you overreacting thread

[Veiled Princess 1]

There are plenty of strip clubs for women as well. Being a man does not excuse one from being expected to practice self control.

[gwenneh 7]

should this have been continued in the Are you overreacting thread

I don't think so, since the OP certainly didn't overreact, she was just looking to see how everyone else would react.

[luvaLimey 0]

should this have been continued in the Are you overreacting thread

Yeah right: when threads get to be that size I stop reading them.. I stopped after about 10 pages.

The original post here was for a completely different topic.

[MrMrsKnight 0]

The real question you should ask is "Am I overreacting?".

And here we go again.........

[Jaylen Brit 0]

I went once to a male strip bar (for ladeeez! not a gay one ) with some girly pals - who all thought it was wonderful..and me being usually pretty UN uptight n stuff, was all for the craiq..but..2 of the guys kept perving on me and my pal (and asked us out after the show, which i said no..tho I think she wanted to go with them lol) - and I just didn't know where to look when he was trying to dangle his danglies round me I didn't expect to react that way - I expetced to laugh a lot, maybe yell or whatever and just have a fun night out with my mates but I was just SO embarrassed (tho I was laughing and having fun, I was also wishing it would END! lol so we could go - which my mates found hilarious btw, tho not being mean, just teasing, which made it worse)..and I don't really know WHY.

I wasn't seeing anyone at that time, and I wasn't a shy virgin by a long shot ( ) but I never went to another, and now all stripshows make me anxious..maybe its cos I KNOW there was touching even tho it wasn't 'allowed' and I'd be worried about that in a girl stripbar place. I dunno.