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I wouldn't worry if it was a stripclub...I know someone who claims to be happily married yet spends time online with women (other than his wife) having online *private* strip shows, now that would peeve me if it way my guy.

aehm that is something I wouldnt agree with. I have no problem with him going to a strip club (since I'd like to see it once too), but as far as CS goes. No way.

I agree, the guy I'm talking about was doing this while his wife was preg with their second child....he is a total jerk. He emails/talks to my fiance sometimes I wish he would just get lost. He tried flirting with me numerous times he would ask for pictures of me topless, CS and *worse*. etc..I ended up blocking him on msn.

arg. :o his girl was pregnant and he is so desperate to do that??? Well I think there are several other ways to satisfy a guy even though you are pregnant and since he is the source of her being pregnant....hey guy just go through it. :lol: Sex is not everything (Ok I am talking as a woman here :innocent: )

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I wouldn't worry if it was a stripclub...I know someone who claims to be happily married yet spends time online with women (other than his wife) having online *private* strip shows, now that would peeve me if it way my guy.

aehm that is something I wouldnt agree with. I have no problem with him going to a strip club (since I'd like to see it once too), but as far as CS goes. No way.

I agree, the guy I'm talking about was doing this while his wife was preg with their second child....he is a total jerk. He emails/talks to my fiance sometimes I wish he would just get lost. He tried flirting with me numerous times he would ask for pictures of me topless, CS and *worse*. etc..I ended up blocking him on msn.

arg. :o his girl was pregnant and he is so desperate to do that??? Well I think there are several other ways to satisfy a guy even though you are pregnant and since he is the source of her being pregnant....hey guy just go through it. :lol: Sex is not everything (Ok I am talking as a woman here :innocent: )

Well kinda, I have known him for nearly 4 years and he has been doing it all that time with women online....but she was pregnant the *last* time I heard of him getting busted by her *again* yup.

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I would want to know in advance not just for him to be like oh btw I went to a strip club.

I would rather go with him when he goes but it is cook if he goes on his own.

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Wouldnt mind if Jan did.. Know he wouldnt.. just hope he doesnt get upset when its my turn... ..

My daughters friends are planning a night on the town for her bachorlette party.. gonna see some men.strip show.. like chippendales.. . ha ha but ultimaetly end up at the "Queen" show.. ... female impersonators..

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Its a normal nature of a guy... It's their happiness to just adore a beautiful body. Its the reason why we, being a wife is going to let our husband just adore us by doing strip dancing for them too.only few woman do this but to grind here and grind there would be fun and good exercise at the same time we are pleasing our husbands...

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I'm going to buck the trend here, because I really would not be happy about it.

It's not that I don't feel secure in my husband, it's that I don't feel secure enough in my body to let him go and then not think that he would be disappointed when he came home.

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I'm going to buck the trend here, because I really would not be happy about it.

It's not that I don't feel secure in my husband, it's that I don't feel secure enough in my body to let him go and then not think that he would be disappointed when he came home.

I kinda feel that way as well atm....I wouldn't really care if he went, but I would feel a little insecure about my body compared to a strippers. hell I'm paranoid about going for the medical exam due to my weight right now :crying:

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I'm very secure with my relationship however in no way shape or form would that be ok with me. It would honestly really hurt me that he felt the need to do that and I would have a realyl hard time dealing with it. I'm also 4 months pregnant and super emotional but this will always be a no way for me - and vice versa. If I went to a Chipp and Dale's show or something my hubby would not be ok with that.

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First of all, I DO NOT think so.:bonk: Secondly, we are Christians. Ryan wouldn't ask, or go to a strip club.:no: The only one he wants to admire that way, IS ME!:wub:

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well.. i bet there are christian strippers too.. arent they? :lol:

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I'm very secure with my relationship however in no way shape or form would that be ok with me. It would honestly really hurt me that he felt the need to do that and I would have a realyl hard time dealing with it. I'm also 4 months pregnant and super emotional but this will always be a no way for me - and vice versa. If I went to a Chipp and Dale's show or something my hubby would not be ok with that.

A fair point-it will depend on the dynamic of the relationship. Most of us are secure enough not to be threatened by a guy looking at strippers. Doesn't mean that everyone will like it!

There is, I think, a difference between a "need" to go to a strip club and a guy who goes as a one off with some of his buddies once in a while. The former is bordering on the unhealthy and implies some issues which need to be examined. The latter-which is what I took the OP's post to imply-not an issue.

well.. i bet there are christian strippers too.. arent they? :lol:

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I would feel totally creeped out by the idea of him going to a strip club. Wouldn't have an issue with him looking at porn but these are real, live women. Don;t think it's a question of feeling jealous or threatened (but maybe I'm in denial!), I just wouldn't like it.

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I would feel totally creeped out by the idea of him going to a strip club. Wouldn't have an issue with him looking at porn but these are real, live women. Don;t think it's a question of feeling jealous or threatened (but maybe I'm in denial!), I just wouldn't like it.

They're real, live women that he can't touch (unless it's a bad club), just like porn. I'm interested to know what the difference is in looking at a live woman or looking at one on-screen? Would it make it better if they were on a glass-fronted stage, like some clubs do? Just curious!

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To be honest, I'm not sure. Maybe because porn is one stage removed from reality - it's a recording, not actually happening for real as he watches.

And of course I wouldn't want any touching, but even the idea of him watching a real show just freaks me out.

2004

April A friend told me that she thought my ideal man lived in Wyoming or Montana.

May 17 Did search on match.com. Found no-one in Wyoming. Only wrote to one person in Montana...his name was John. He replied two hours later.

Jun 26 Flew to Missoula to meet him & a weekend trip turned into a five week visit...

Many trips between US, Canada & Europe.

2005

March 31 During a meeting in Vancouver, John proposed & I said YES!!!

Jun 2 Finally sent off our I-129F & a few days later we received NOA1. I am now officially an alien bride-to-be.

Aug 22 Email notification of NOA2.

Sep 12 Received letter to say application would be forwarded to US Embassy.

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