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How would you react if you get to know that your hubby or fiance went to a strip bar last night?

My hubby went to one, with his guyfriends. :blink:

Isabel

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I guess for me, I'm secure that my husband loves me enough to know that it was just a night out with the guys...nothing to bite my nails over or get all bent out of shape. The thing is, with my husband, he would tell me he was going, and would tell me what it was like when he gets home. I guess it depends on your security level with your SO. :thumbs:

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As Long as he did'nt keep it a secret & told me before he went i would'nt mind!! :thumbs:

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I would be fine with it because I know he love me, even though we are apart still I would be ok with it.

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As Long as he did'nt keep it a secret & told me before he went i would'nt mind!! :thumbs:

I agree with both posters..as long as it was out in the open it would be more bearable for me.. I am not actually a big fan of the event.. but could deal if it were out in the open and ofcourse there was NO touching

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As Long as he did'nt keep it a secret & told me before he went i would'nt mind!! :thumbs:

I agree with both posters..as long as it was out in the open it would be more bearable for me.. I am not actually a big fan of the event.. but could deal if it were out in the open and ofcourse there was NO touching

As a rule patrons aren't allowed to touch the strippers so you'd have no worries there ;)

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hey that is cool :). He told me when we were chatting today. I had to laugh so badly cos he told me that like he had killed my favourite puppy. I am 150% sure he wont cheat on me, so it is fine with me too. But hey I am astonished that so many woman are ok with their guys going to a strip bar. And then guys complain all the time woman are toooo sticky.

Haha

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Ah. The titty bar.

I'd prefer to be told BEFORE he went, but it wouldn't break me up to find out after the fact. If something HAD happened, he sure as hell wouldn't be telling you he went!

I'd probably be more interested in finding out how much money he spent. The drinks in those joints are pricey and watered down!!

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Ah. The titty bar.

I'd prefer to be told BEFORE he went, but it wouldn't break me up to find out after the fact. If something HAD happened, he sure as hell wouldn't be telling you he went!

I'd probably be more interested in finding out how much money he spent. The drinks in those joints are pricey and watered down!!

haha :lol: , you know what I was afraid to even ask how much money he spent, since they went to another "regular" bar before. Three guys, each of them threw two rounds of beer and they drunk before and afterwards....he said he wasnt that drunk for almost a half year. I could tell because when I saw him on the webcam, his hangover was obvious. So to ask how much money he spent would probably make me upset. But you know, since he is working two jobs I think it is more than ok that he had fun that night. He doesnt do it very often though.

Is there actually an entrance fee for a strip bar??? :huh:

BTW he told me he didnt touch any of the girls....noooo he explained in detail how he put the 1 $ bill in her G-string, when she was kneeling in front of him. She was actually lifting it and let it snap back when the bill was in the right position. *rolleyes* Like I wanted to know it so detailed :wacko:

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Edited by Isabel

OUR TIMELINE

01/20/06...married

02/28/06...NOA1....I-130 VSC

May 2006..Medical in Frankfurt

06/14/06...I-130 approved via email [day 111]

06/19/06...NOA2....I-130 received via mail

07/10/06...talked to embassy to expedite the process

07/12/06...NVC stated case completed and sent to FRANKFURT[day 147]

07/17/06...received packet 3 from embassy

07/29/06...received packet 4

08/15/06...INTERVIEW at 7:30am- APPROVED

08/21/06...VISA received

08/23/06...Flight to US

08/23/06...I am back home

09/20/06...received greencard in mail

09/27/06...received SSC in Mail

09/23/07...our daughter was born :)

30/05/07...filed for Removal of Conditions

07/05/08...received NOA for I-751

01/07/08...college here I come :)

waiting for biometrics and Approval.....

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I wouldn't worry if it was a stripclub...I know someone who claims to be happily married yet spends time online with women (other than his wife) having online *private* strip shows, now that would peeve me if it way my guy.

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I wouldn't worry if it was a stripclub...I know someone who claims to be happily married yet spends time online with women (other than his wife) having online *private* strip shows, now that would peeve me if it way my guy.

aehm that is something I wouldnt agree with. I have no problem with him going to a strip club (since I'd like to see it once too), but as far as CS goes. No way.

OUR TIMELINE

01/20/06...married

02/28/06...NOA1....I-130 VSC

May 2006..Medical in Frankfurt

06/14/06...I-130 approved via email [day 111]

06/19/06...NOA2....I-130 received via mail

07/10/06...talked to embassy to expedite the process

07/12/06...NVC stated case completed and sent to FRANKFURT[day 147]

07/17/06...received packet 3 from embassy

07/29/06...received packet 4

08/15/06...INTERVIEW at 7:30am- APPROVED

08/21/06...VISA received

08/23/06...Flight to US

08/23/06...I am back home

09/20/06...received greencard in mail

09/27/06...received SSC in Mail

09/23/07...our daughter was born :)

30/05/07...filed for Removal of Conditions

07/05/08...received NOA for I-751

01/07/08...college here I come :)

waiting for biometrics and Approval.....

usa1.gifKeith & IsabelgermanyWHT_rd30.gif

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I wouldn't worry if it was a stripclub...I know someone who claims to be happily married yet spends time online with women (other than his wife) having online *private* strip shows, now that would peeve me if it way my guy.

Uh. Yeah. That wouldn't be happening my house.

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I wouldn't worry if it was a stripclub...I know someone who claims to be happily married yet spends time online with women (other than his wife) having online *private* strip shows, now that would peeve me if it way my guy.

aehm that is something I wouldnt agree with. I have no problem with him going to a strip club (since I'd like to see it once too), but as far as CS goes. No way.

I agree, the guy I'm talking about was doing this while his wife was preg with their second child....he is a total jerk. He emails/talks to my fiance sometimes I wish he would just get lost. He tried flirting with me numerous times he would ask for pictures of me topless, CS and *worse*. etc..I ended up blocking him on msn.

Edited by JC75

  • Feb 13th Applied for I129F
  • May 3rd I129F Approved and sent to Department of State for processing.
  • **Waiting for Notice of I129F approval to show up in the mail!**
  • NOA2 Showed up in mail Wed 24th May 2006
  • ** Nervous as all hell - Still no Instruction packet**
  • ** 27th June Email - Saying Application Approved??? **
  • July 7th Packet 3 Arrived (First one went missing? - this one was marked 'duplicate')
  • Pack 4 arrived 31st July
  • Appointment 18th Aug

 

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