The S Factor

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

Apparently not too shy to bring this up on a message board.

[CanGal 1]

Apparently not too shy to bring this up on a message board.

Lol i guess in some sense maybe but I can also hide behind my computer and not have a face to face with anyone :-p. I really don't think its a bad topic I just wanted oppinions. It's not too racy lol. or is it? I wasn't asking for peoples details of their private lives, just some input, am I the only one who thought it would be a good idea or is there others out there and if so are they shy about it as well but would like to pull something off as such. Thats all, I hope i haven't offended anyone by the topic of the post. If so I apologize .... I just wanted some input, that tis all

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Yes i am shy.

[CanGal 1]

For the few that have PMed me, thanks for the input i'd type ya back but my comp is super slow today, it's not wanting to work with me.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Your comp is shy too.

[CanGal 1]

Yes i am shy

:-p lol

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Yes i am shy

:-p lol

Actually, I was being serious there.

[Sharon 1]

Apparently not too shy to bring this up on a message board.

Awww poor lil guy - does that bother youuuuuu?

tsk tsk tsk

Just don't read then.

Simple.

[CanGal 1]

QUOTE(CanGal @ Jul 8 2006, 06:44 PM)

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Yes i am shy

:-p lol

Actually, I was being serious there.

I'm sorry Merc, I believe ya , really I do!

[hafiz 1]

The best way I can think to get over your shyness is - stand in front of the mirror butt naked

dance!

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Maybe I'm the only one here that has a problem with this - just what is sexy? If you believe that because a lot of guys go to strip joints, then stripping for your husband will then turn him on - you're buying into a gimmick or a fad. Find out both of each others ways of turning each other on - it can be as subtle as whispering in his ear while he's reading or doing something by himself. Sexiness is more a mental game than a physical one. Once you've realized that, you're not limiting yourself to other people's ideas of just what sexiness is.

Edited July 8, 2006 by Steven_and_Jinky

[luvaLimey 0]

I've been tempted to try it out... I've heard it's a really great workout.

I know I'm pretty klutzy usually. I run into things, trip over things, once in a dark hotel room my fiance heard "ow! OOF!" and a THUMP as I tripped over his bag in the middle of the floor coming back from the bathroom. He asks everytime I swing my arm and bash my hand/elbow/arm into a doorjamb or doorknob or whatever gets in its way how I can manage it. I honestly don't know.

I do know that when I practice a movement, my clumsiness disappears. I was in Dance in school, and when we had our recital for everyone, I had people come up to me afterward telling me they didn't even recognize me (I didn't run into anything! I know.. it was a shock for them too) and was in fact pretty graceful.

I often feel very silly doing some of the things he thinks are sexy, like licking my lips or something like that... but it really becomes a lot of fun doing those silly things when I see the way he reacts. So, probably learning something like that would be a lot of fun. Whether we both end up giggling together over it, or whether I get one of those nice reactions I like from him, I don't know... But we'll see.

[Fandango 1,439]

Maybe I'm the only one here that has a problem with this - just what is sexy? If you believe that because a lot of guys go to strip joints, then stripping for your husband will then turn him - you're buyin into a gimmick or a fad. Find out both of each others ways of turning each other on - it can be as subtle as whispering in his ear while he's reading or doing something by himself. Sexiness is more a mental game than a physical one. Once you've realized that, you're not limiting yourself to other people's ideas of just what sexiness is.

Maybe Cangirl finds it sexy, maybe she knows her husband would find HER sexy doing it....Sexy is subjective, and if that's her idea of what it is, who are any of us to tell her differently?

[luvaLimey 0]

To add to your point:

How will she know if it's something he does or doesn't find sexy unless she tries it?

What if he doens't find other women who do it very appealing at all, but when it's his own wife putting in that effort, and moving like that, he gets completely turned on? Can't know that unless she tries it out.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Maybe I'm the only one here that has a problem with this - just what is sexy? If you believe that because a lot of guys go to strip joints, then stripping for your husband will then turn him - you're buyin into a gimmick or a fad. Find out both of each others ways of turning each other on - it can be as subtle as whispering in his ear while he's reading or doing something by himself. Sexiness is more a mental game than a physical one. Once you've realized that, you're not limiting yourself to other people's ideas of just what sexiness is.

Maybe Cangirl finds it sexy, maybe she knows her husband would find HER sexy doing it....Sexy is subjective, and if that's her idea of what it is, who are any of us to tell her differently?

Exactly what I'm saying. Nobody's going on the talk show curcuit promoting whispering in your hubby's ear as a way of turning him on because it's not as titilating as the idea of learning how to strip like a pro. I was trying to encourage her to explore her options and most importantly be herself.