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Ok so here is the thing. I'm a shy girl when it comes to certain things in life. On the most part I'm pretty outgoing but in other areas I'm shy. I've been thinking of different things that could maybe catch my husband off guard, something he wouldn't expect as a gift or just whatever. So the other day I had nothing better to do but watch tv all night. So I ended up watching Faith & Hope, I never seen it before but nothing better was on. Anyways, she takes up stripper dancing classes to surprise her husband. Well then I watched Oprah as well and they had a lady on there, forget her name, and she as well teaches it, She's really popular and she calls it the S factor. Now I'm a christian and have no want or desire to attend a strip club or anything like that but I thought it could be kinda fun to learn in the privacy of my own home and surprise hubby. Is there anything wrong with that? Now part of me is really shy in areas such as this lol and I'm scared I'd end up being more clumsy and make a fool of myself than anything. I just want peoples oppions, ladies and men alike just to see what they think and if any of you out there would be shy about doing this but interested, you got tips on how to get over it? lol .... We will see where this goes ...

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I can't tell you how big of a smile I have on my face right now Alicia!!! :D

You really surprised me with this one! :blush: hehe

I think it's a great idea, and your hubby would be a very lucky man!!! :yes:

I say go for it!!! Who knows, you might really have fun and help you with your shyness! :)

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I can only speak for myself as a guy but honestly, the sexiest thing you can do is just be yourself (her smile does more to me than any nighty can). If you try to be somebody, you're not, for me at least, that's a big turn off. Now that isn't to say that you can't let go of some inhibitions in the safety and privacy of your husband's love. Just flow with what feels right for you, but knowing what feels right means trying things you've never done before to find out what you like. B)

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Alicia...you can go online and get a spring loaded stripper pole, they attach pretty easily, and can hold a normal weight, you just can't do any upside down moves.

It also comes with an instructional dvd so you can learn in the privacy of your own home :)

http://www.peekaboopoledancing.com/

HAVE FUN!

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Alicia...you can go online and get a spring loaded stripper pole, they attach pretty easily, and can hold a normal weight, you just can't do any upside down moves.

It also comes with an instructional dvd so you can learn in the privacy of your own home :)

http://www.peekaboopoledancing.com/

HAVE FUN!

That's awesome!!!

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good times, good times! :thumbs:

And when you're done, you just take it down & no one's the wiser :)

Are you speaking from experience here?!!! :unsure::lol:;)

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hey thanks lisa! lol .... i guess i'm just scared i'm gonna make a fool of myself. Like someone said in another forum, i feel silly just shaking my hips a bit let alone this, but hey. But I thought maybe if I learnt lol maybe he would have that shock value you know, because he knows I'm shy and probably wouldn't expect it. Lol knowing me I probably find myself laughing the whole way through it haha. The question isn't really me doing it I guess I was just curious how other people felt about it. Now I'm not talking in a public sense whatsoever, I just want to know in front of an audience of one, hence husband or whatever. It is becoming popular I guess but the lady on oprah, oh I'm sure you'd all know who she is if you saw her, she's famous actress or was I dunno if she still is and her hubby is an actor as well, I think he used to be on the west wing. Anyways thats all besides the point. I'm just curious, am I the only shy one or is this the norm between lots of couples? lol ..

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QUOTE(LisaD @ Jul 8 2006, 11:29 AM)

good times, good times!

And when you're done, you just take it down & no one's the wiser

Are you speaking from experience here?!!!

Err...I think I saw an infomercial.

Or summat

Too funny hehe

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Ok so here is the thing. I'm a shy girl when it comes to certain things in life. On the most part I'm pretty outgoing but in other areas I'm shy. I've been thinking of different things that could maybe catch my husband off guard, something he wouldn't expect as a gift or just whatever. So the other day I had nothing better to do but watch tv all night. So I ended up watching Faith & Hope, I never seen it before but nothing better was on. Anyways, she takes up stripper dancing classes to surprise her husband. Well then I watched Oprah as well and they had a lady on there, forget her name, and she as well teaches it, She's really popular and she calls it the S factor. Now I'm a christian and have no want or desire to attend a strip club or anything like that but I thought it could be kinda fun to learn in the privacy of my own home and surprise hubby. Is there anything wrong with that? Now part of me is really shy in areas such as this lol and I'm scared I'd end up being more clumsy and make a fool of myself than anything. I just want peoples oppions, ladies and men alike just to see what they think and if any of you out there would be shy about doing this but interested, you got tips on how to get over it? lol .... We will see where this goes ...

CanGal aka Alicia

The best way I can think to get over your shyness is - stand in front of the mirror butt naked

dance! ... once your comfortable with your own body. then you should be able to have a good time with your husband. :thumbs:

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haha, i giggle when i'm nervous. I'm gonna end up giggeling my whole way through it. I'm about to bust a gut just thinking about it. I guess it's worth a shot to try that lol .... butt naked dance for myself lol ... *shakes head*

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