marriage

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

Hey Foreverlove, looks like the US Embassy gave you an offer that you cannot refuse. Next time careful with what documents you are signing. Sana maging successful na yung next petition sa'yo ng husband mo.

[LaneAndDaisy 0]

hi there..at first i couldnt figure out what really triggered them to let u sign that papers ur talking about..but after ur 2nd post with bunches of possible denials, i slowly understand why the denial of visa...first and foremost, ur hubby should have cancelled the K-1 application before u two applied for a K-3. second, one of the concrete proofs of an existing relationship is ur personal meeting, more so, he is now ur hubby ..... 2 times a year the least if u ask my opinion...third, the financial issues (bankruptcy and not meeting the poverty guidelines)

im not perfect nor trying to scare u or depress you esp. with what ur going through now but the embassy interviewers have all the rights to approve or deny the visa..U should have advised hubby that things have to be cleaned or cleared up first esp the K-1 application for his X bfore ur K-3...Nevertheless, i totally disagree by what they said that ur just after the GC or for greener pasture...u mentioned u love ur hubby no matter what economic status he is in now...and thats the spirit girl! regardless of ur effort to explain how much u love r hubby, still they told u to sign that papers banning u to leave for USA(?)...for me, honestly, if i were in ur shoes, i would rather accept whatever they think about me and my hubby and thats their opinion but NEVER their rights to let u sign for something thats NOT TRUE...for u girl, try to calm down and give it a time ..better if u will let ur hubby call or explain to them which will prove of his sincerity and enduring love to u...and tell him to cancel the K-1 application of his X and then start again for the K-3 or see how u can revive the process again...( better yet consult an immigration lawyer)...ull never know....luck comes in a cycle...ur not always at the bottom,,,who knows u might succeed on ur next application ...also tell ur hubby if he can possibly visit u...ive never been to the States but im sure no government wants to be liable for immigrants' misfortune,if and when it happens....

re: the veracity of ur marriage in the PI, its all true and legal..so dont worry...

for now, try to look back what u missed as far as evidences /proofs are concerned...and at the same time PRAY that ur next attempt will be a successful one....whats more enduring and heroic than the love u have towards each other...that will calm u down now...have faith in Him ...God bless my friend...

[chinese_mutt 11]

Okay, I think your main issue here is your husband still has a pending K1 petition. That should've been withdrawn long before you got married.

The rest I believe was just an excuse to make you sign a document. They cannot completely ban you for life arbitrarily. Yes, these consuls have the power to approve or deny your visa but they must likewise do so with proofs. Otherwise, they would be all powerful, and I don't think the US government bestows such big and all compassing powers to them.

So make sure you ask your husband to write to USCIS stating that he is withdrawing his K1 petition. Likewise, get a lawyer... you signed the document under duress. Maybe it is still possible to have it voided. I don't know the legalities, but surely... when you sign a form that says you married for immigration purposes then somehow you are lying to the US government in your petition which may constitute a misrepresentation thus leading to an actual ban.

But your marriage is valid. Don't worry about that.

For now, concentrate on getting that document invalidated. Contest it. And most importantly, learn to communicate well in English so that next time you get a chance on an interview... you won't panic so much and answer the questions without problem. (I'm not taking a jab at your English here, just an honest advice since English is not our main language here in the Philippines, I'm sure it was hard to communicate with the CO)

Good luck!!

Edited July 27, 2009 by tngirl21809

[LaneAndDaisy 0]

to add on, we should always read whats written on the contract/ paper before we sign and if we are 100% aware that what was written there isnt true, there is no reason for us to sign bcoz it will appear like we are admitting to a crime we didnt commit... u know what i mean...

btw,,,did they furnish u a copy of that paper u signed??im curious...

thanks and god bless

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

It's back to the drawing board for you Foreverlove. You were made to sign a document against your will. But the document you did sign doesn't make your marriage null and void. Only the Philippine courts can do so. Tell your husband to cancel his previous K1 petition and hire a counsel to help you with this immigration process. You've got your work cut out for you. Good luck.

[xboxaddict 0]

Hello fellow members I'm here again ,I'm very sad all the time if thinking my last k3 interviewed that I withdrawn of what I did sign in the embassy during interview inside the Freud unit because they don't satisfied my our relationship is genuine and came out so many issues, they don't believe that no love at all , so in my statement I signed I married my husband for immigrant purposes and married no love but I know god knows how much I love my husband and my husband knows that too ,but what always bother me that maybe because of that statement make our marriage void please please enlighten me for those who has the same situation of me like that during interviewed .Is there any possibility that statement I signed make our marriage void ?but our marriage is legal recorded in NSO and we still love each other and in fact my husband visited me here after withdrawn my k3 application because I'm so sad. Your reply it's my honor to understand and read that here .thank you advance

tagalugin ko na lng ha...yung pinirmahan mo ibig sbihin pinakasalan mo lang ung asawa mo pra mkarating ka sa amerika khit hindi naniwla sau yung CO pinaglaban mo pren dpat na mahal mo yung asawa mo at hindi lng immigrant purposes ang habol mo

void parin nman ung marriage nyo sa philippines un nga lng nde ng USEM kc nga pumirma ka ng papers saying you married your husband for immigrant purposes only i dont know if u can still come here (nde sa tinatakot kita) pero sana mkalagpasan nyo itong problem nyo goodluck

[xboxaddict 0]

Hello fellow members I'm here again ,I'm very sad all the time if thinking my last k3 interviewed that I withdrawn of what I did sign in the embassy during interview inside the Freud unit because they don't satisfied my our relationship is genuine and came out so many issues, they don't believe that no love at all , so in my statement I signed I married my husband for immigrant purposes and married no love but I know god knows how much I love my husband and my husband knows that too ,but what always bother me that maybe because of that statement make our marriage void please please enlighten me for those who has the same situation of me like that during interviewed .Is there any possibility that statement I signed make our marriage void ?but our marriage is legal recorded in NSO and we still love each other and in fact my husband visited me here after withdrawn my k3 application because I'm so sad. Your reply it's my honor to understand and read that here .thank you advance

tagalugin ko na lng ha...yung pinirmahan mo ibig sbihin pinakasalan mo lang ung asawa mo pra mkarating ka sa amerika khit hindi naniwla sau yung CO pinaglaban mo pren dpat na mahal mo yung asawa mo at hindi lng immigrant purposes ang habol mo

void parin nman ung marriage nyo sa philippines un nga lng nde ng USEM kc nga pumirma ka ng papers saying you married your husband for immigrant purposes only i dont know if u can still come here (nde sa tinatakot kita) pero sana mkalagpasan nyo itong problem nyo goodluck

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Goodluck Foreverlove

Naway maging maayos ang lahat s inyo ng asawa mo...

Hangad ko ang inyong tagumpay,.

*pasensya n ng double post, bago p lng kc d2... hehe