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HannahP   119

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OKAY.

So h & I were kissy-kissing, it was great, but then I happened to mention that "I wish we had more sexy and romantic times...it feels like you don't try anymore." Okay, so bad timing on my part right?

I don't think he was offended but he was upset. Did I upset his manhood? Or, y'know, he has low self-esteem so he doesn't think he can be sexy or desiring but I obviously find him attractive... He's been kind of quiet since then, aloof.

I meant what I said but it's not like I live in a loveless, sexless marriage. But we've been together for so long...I imagine that it tends to fade after a while. Common problem. Why is he so upset?

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Is there some other way that I could phrase it? How can I bring this up? When? (At dinner?) Anyone?

we met: 07-22-01

engaged: 08-03-06

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packet 3 sent: 05-31-07

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marriage: 07-23-07

AOS sent: 08-10-07

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one...two...tree Grand Master

one...two...tree   2,762

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Surprise him one night by wearing a wig and an attire he's never seen you in before. Throw him down on the bed and then tell him, "this is what I was talking about the other day."

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Exactly make the first move........

Also toys is good :D

Why is it that the only one who can stop the crying is the one who started it in the first place?



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Surprise him one night by wearing a wig and an attire he's never seen you in before. Throw him down on the bed and then tell him, "this is what I was talking about the other day."

wow, freaky. i think it was poor timing on your part during a makeout session. maybe be spontaneous and plan something like the aforementioned, minus the wig ;)

Exactly make the first move........

Also toys is good :D

i know some guys who don't like toys. maybe it's envy, but still...

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Surprise him one night by wearing a wig and an attire he's never seen you in before. Throw him down on the bed and then tell him, "this is what I was talking about the other day."

I've done this, many times. Honestly, I feel like I'm the only one who is trying! But I didn't say that...

we met: 07-22-01

engaged: 08-03-06

I-129 sent: 01-07-07

NOA2 approved: 04-02-07

packet 3 sent: 05-31-07

interview date: 06-25-07 - approved!

marriage: 07-23-07

AOS sent: 08-10-07

AOS/EAD/AP NOA1: 09-14-07

AOS approved: 11-19-07

green card received: 11-26-07

lifting of conditions filed: 10-29-09

NOA received: 11-09-09

lifting of conditions approved: 12-11-09

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A guy that doesnt want to have sex? hmmm weird

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LOL:D I think it's okay to pass if you are not in the mood. My husband and I never had any issues concerning this. I think we don't really care about how many nights we "dont" make out:D

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HannahP   119

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A guy that doesnt want to have sex? hmmm weird

I'm not the guy!

we met: 07-22-01

engaged: 08-03-06

I-129 sent: 01-07-07

NOA2 approved: 04-02-07

packet 3 sent: 05-31-07

interview date: 06-25-07 - approved!

marriage: 07-23-07

AOS sent: 08-10-07

AOS/EAD/AP NOA1: 09-14-07

AOS approved: 11-19-07

green card received: 11-26-07

lifting of conditions filed: 10-29-09

NOA received: 11-09-09

lifting of conditions approved: 12-11-09

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I think you approached the subject at the wrong time is all.

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Surprise him one night by wearing a wig and an attire he's never seen you in before. Throw him down on the bed and then tell him, "this is what I was talking about the other day."

I've done this, many times. Honestly, I feel like I'm the only one who is trying! But I didn't say that...

Hmmm...maybe try to the opposite? The cat and mouse game. Be the mouse - hard to get and see if the cat in him comes to life. :)

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"I wish we had more sexy and romantic times...it feels like you don't try anymore."

That was as effective as reminding him to take out the trash.

Check out some porn just for laughs. If that doesn't work, take up quilting instead.

Also check out frequency of sex among couples, not the fantasy that all the couples are sexual dynamos.

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"I wish we had more sexy and romantic times...it feels like you don't try anymore."

That was as effective as reminding him to take out the trash.

Check out some porn just for laughs. If that doesn't work, take up quilting instead.

Also check out frequency of sex among couples, not the fantasy that all the couples are sexual dynamos.

But what do I say? What'll make him sexy again?

we met: 07-22-01

engaged: 08-03-06

I-129 sent: 01-07-07

NOA2 approved: 04-02-07

packet 3 sent: 05-31-07

interview date: 06-25-07 - approved!

marriage: 07-23-07

AOS sent: 08-10-07

AOS/EAD/AP NOA1: 09-14-07

AOS approved: 11-19-07

green card received: 11-26-07

lifting of conditions filed: 10-29-09

NOA received: 11-09-09

lifting of conditions approved: 12-11-09

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Not to be too personel but do you go down on him? I am a woman just fyi

Why is it that the only one who can stop the crying is the one who started it in the first place?



More Complete Story here
My Saga includes 2 step sons
USC Married 4/2007 Colombian on overstay since 2001 of B1/B2 visa
Applied 5/2007 Approved GC in Hand 10/2007
I-751 mailed 6/30/09 aapproved 11/7/09 The BOYS I-751 Mailed 12/29/09 3/23/10 Email approval for 17 CR 3/27/10
4/14/10 Email approval for 13 yr Old CR 4/23/10

Oldest son now 21 I-130 filed by LPR dad ( as per NVC CSPA is applying here )
I-130 approved 2/24
Priority date 12/6/2007
4/6/2010 letter from NVC arrives to son dated 3/4/2010
5/4/10 received AOS and DS3032 via email
9/22/10 Interview BOG Passed
10/3/10 POE JFK all went well
11/11/10 GC Received smile.png


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But what do I say? What'll make him sexy again?

here's your script:

narrator: husband enters the house after a hard days work. wife has prepared his favorite meal and is now lying on the couch butt-naked wearing only sunglasses (and a wig, colonel bg).

hannah: hi, my love. how was your day? care for a back rub?

mr. hannah: what...what....what's going on??

narrator: wife puts lotion on her hands and warms it by rubbing them. husband lies on the couch. she gives him a massage and...

DO I NEED TO ELABORATE FURTHER???? this is beginning to sound like a great porn script and i don't want anyone to steal my ideas :devil:

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