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Filed: Country: India
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Makes me appreciate my pets even more..

How could you?

When I was a puppy, I entertained you with my antics and made you laugh. You called me your child, and despite a number of chewed shoes and a couple of murdered throw pillows, I became your best friend. Whenever I was "bad," you'd shake your finger at me and ask "How could you?"-but then you'd relent and roll me over for a belly rub.

My housebreaking took a little longer than expected, because you were terribly busy, but we worked on that together. I remember those nights of nuzzling you in bed and listening to your confidences and secret dreams, and I believed that life could not be any more perfect.

We went for long walks and runs in the park, car rides, stops for ice cream (I only got the cone because "ice cream is bad for dogs" you said), and I took long naps in the sun waiting for you to come home at the end of the day.

Gradually, you began spending more time at work and on your career, and more time searching for a human mate. I waited for you patiently, comforted you through heartbreaks and disappointments, never chided you about bad decisions, and romped with glee at your homecomings, and when you fell in love. She, now your wife, is not a "dog person", still I welcomed her into our home, tried to show her affection, and obeyed her. I was happy because you were happy.

Then the human babies came along and I shared your excitement. I was fascinated by their pinkness, how they smelled, and I wanted to mother them, too. Only she and you worried that I might hurt them, and I spent most of my time banished to another room, or to a dog crate. Oh, how I wanted to love them, but I became a "prisoner of love." As they began to grow, I became their friend. They clung to my fur and pulled themselves up on wobbly legs, poked fingers in my eyes, investigated my ears, and gave me kisses on my nose. I loved everything about them and their touch-because your touch was now so infrequent-and I would've defended them with my life if need be. I would sneak into their beds and listen to their worries and secret dreams, and together we waited for the sound of your car in the driveway.

There had been a time, when others asked you if you had a dog, that you produced a photo of me from your wallet and told them stories about me. These past few years, you just answered "yes" and changed the subject. I had gone from being "your dog" to "just a dog," and you resented every expenditure on my behalf.

Now, you have a new career opportunity in another city, and you and they will be moving to an apartment that does not allow pets. You've made the right decision for your "family," but there was a time when I was your only family. I was excited about the car ride until we arrived at the animal shelter. It smelled of dogs and cats, of fear, of hopelessness. You filled out the paperwork and said "I know you will find a good home for her." They shrugged and gave you a pained look. They understand the realities facing a middle-aged dog, even one with "papers." You had to pry your son's fingers loose from my collar as he screamed "No, Daddy! Please don'tlet them take my dog!" And I worried for him, and what lessons you had just taught him about friendship and loyalty, about love and responsibility, and about respect for all life.

You gave me a good-bye pat on the head, avoided my eyes, and politely refused to take my collar and leash with you. You had a deadline to meet and now I have one, too. After you left, the two nice ladies said you probably knew about your upcoming move months ago and made no attempt to find me another good home. They shook their heads and asked "How could you?" They are as attentive to us here in the shelter as their busy schedules allow. They feed us, of course, but I lost my appetite days ago. At first, whenever anyone passed my pen, I rushed to the front, hoping it was you that you had changed your mind-that this was all a bad dream...or I hoped it would at least be someone who cared, anyone who might save me. When I realized I could not compete with the frolicking for attention of happy puppies, oblivious to their own fate, I retreated to a far corner and waited. I heard her footsteps as she came for me at the end of the day, and I padded along the aisle after her to a separate room. A blissfully quiet room. She placed me on the table and rubbed my ears, and told me not to worry. My heart pounded in anticipation of what was to come, but there was also a sense of relief. As is my nature, I was more concerned about her. The burden which she bears weighs heavily on her, and I know that, the same way I knew your every mood. She gently placed a tourniquet around my foreleg as a tear ran down her cheek. I licked her hand in the same way I used to comfort you so many years ago. She expertly slid the hypodermic needle into my vein. As I felt the sting and the cool liquid coursing through my body, I lay down sleepily, looked into her kind eyes and murmured "How could you?" Perhaps because she understood my dogspeak, she said "I'm so sorry." She hugged me, and hurriedly explained it was her job to make sure I went to a better place, where I wouldn't be ignored or abused or abandoned, or have to fend for myself-a place of love and light so very different from this earthly place

Love isn't love unless it is expressed;

caring isn't caring unless the other person knows;

sharing isn't sharing unless the other person is included

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Australia
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You have me sobbing Janet. I hope it makes people think twice about their actions.

My daughter has been begging me for a puppy for months - but I won't get a pet until we move to our new city. I can't wait to go to the local animal shelter and give a mature dog a second chance.

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Brazil
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You have me sobbing Janet. I hope it makes people think twice about their actions.

My daughter has been begging me for a puppy for months - but I won't get a pet until we move to our new city. I can't wait to go to the local animal shelter and give a mature dog a second chance.

Good for you! I grew up doing this and it is very rewarding. There should be more people thinking about getting a pet that way.

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Well, I treat my pets like family so that´s why I drove 4 thousand kilometers (3 days) in my car with 3 cats and 3 dogs.

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Heard this so many times. I work in an animal shelter which is a kill shelter so unfortunately its not just words for me. Its all very real.

Do your pets a favor and spay and neuter to anyone who hasn't, don't add to the out of control population and be responsible for deaths.

Adopt an animal from a shelter and change two lives today!

Kat (Cleburne Animal Shelter, Cleburne , Texas)

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That story was so so sad but oh so true. I dont understand how anyone could get rid of their dog because of this or that excuse! You wouldnt get rid of a child so why your pets!

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Canada
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This is very poignant to read it today because my next door neighbours just asked me if I knew of someone who wanted a dog. They have an adorable 3 year old spayed beagle but since their divorce and moving the owner doesn't have time to look after the dog, her son and work so they are trying to find a better home for the dog with someone who has time for her. We have 5 cats and are not set up for a dog otherwise we would take her because she is so sweet. So, I'm going to ask my friends and ask around if anyone can give this sweet kind little dog a home. It is sad though. I could never imagine not having time enough for my cats - they were my family before Joe came along and are our family now.

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Filed: K-3 Visa Country: Canada
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:crying::crying::cry::cry:

Oh that literally still has me sobbing. I'm one of those people who will do everything in my power to save an animal. Last night I had the sad ocassion to lose a baby bird someone had entrusted into my care as they feared it would suffer a worse fate.

3 days of caring for it and thinking we were going to be ok, last night it was eating from my fingers small bits of softened fruit along with a supplimentary baby sparrow mix, and then it just went down hill and died in my hands and I've been a bit teary off and on since.

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:crying::crying::cry::cry:

Oh that literally still has me sobbing. I'm one of those people who will do everything in my power to save an animal. Last night I had the sad ocassion to lose a baby bird someone had entrusted into my care as they feared it would suffer a worse fate.

3 days of caring for it and thinking we were going to be ok, last night it was eating from my fingers small bits of softened fruit along with a supplimentary baby sparrow mix, and then it just went down hill and died in my hands and I've been a bit teary off and on since.

Aww I'm so sorry to hear that, but you did your best! :cry: That's all we can do, PK...

i saved a baby bird once who was learning to fly and somehow got thru the pool screen & fell in the pool! I just so happened to be there, so I got the skimmer thing and swooped him out. I wrapped my hands in socks & held him til he stopped shivering, and then put him in a box with a heater kinda nearby. there was this big azzed cat that was trolling the pproperty that I didn't want the little baby to encounter. The next morning, the birdy seemed ok and i put him on the roof of my house. Figured he could 'test fly' up there and would be safe from the cat.

Would you believe this bird still comes in thru the same hole in the screens and sits near me when I'm sitting out on the porch? At least I think it's the same one...if it's not, it's one ballsy lil thing...

 

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