want to file for divorce...

[It's me 1]

thats it. look like the end. after 3 years of marrige.

he hurt me like no other man before. cheated and also try to apply for credit cards in my name.

cant take it no more! but its still feel sad.

i wanted to ask you people what happen if i file for divorce right now. i just got my 10 year GC two weeks ago.

if i file for divorce right now it can affect my status? can they take my GC?

thanks for your help.

So sorry to hear this dear. i dont know how this or if this will affect your status but I pray that all will be well with you

[princess1 0]

thats it. look like the end. after 3 years of marrige.

he hurt me like no other man before. cheated and also try to apply for credit cards in my name.

cant take it no more! but its still feel sad.

i wanted to ask you people what happen if i file for divorce right now. i just got my 10 year GC two weeks ago.

if i file for divorce right now it can affect my status? can they take my GC?

thanks for your help.

No they cant take your GC away... However, it will take you 5 years to apply for your citizenship as opposed to the 3 years if you were still married. Good luck!

yes i know but like i said before he try to apply for credit cards in my name so i dont have any option other then divorce him.

[Dakine 26]

thats it. look like the end. after 3 years of marrige.

he hurt me like no other man before. cheated and also try to apply for credit cards in my name.

cant take it no more! but its still feel sad.

i wanted to ask you people what happen if i file for divorce right now. i just got my 10 year GC two weeks ago.

if i file for divorce right now it can affect my status? can they take my GC?

thanks for your help.

No they cant take your GC away... However, it will take you 5 years to apply for your citizenship as opposed to the 3 years if you were still married. Good luck!

yes i know but like i said before he try to apply for credit cards in my name so i dont have any option other then divorce him.

I applied for credit cards for my wife and she didn't divorce me. She was denied tho as she doesn't have any credit rating yet.

[Peggy 1]

If we all put ourselves into the OP's shoes.... wouldn't we do the same thing.

Assume she entered into the marriage with good intent, intending to have a long life with her spouse, until she finds out that he has cheated on her and tried to get credit cards in her name.

You have now settled into life in the U.S. and don't really want to leave, but you can no longer stay married to your spouse.

Wouldn't you too wait until after you got your GC so that you have the choice about whether to stay in the U.S. or leave, especially when it wasn't your fault that the marriage didn't work out????

I think SO.

[*julez* 124]

Sorry but your timing is TO perfect!

TOO bad your spelling isn't as perfect.

If you can't differentiate between "to" and "too", perhaps you should avoid crititcizing others. Original "TO"was perfect, yours "TOO" is not so...

Actually, it is time for you to brush up on proper use of To and TOO. My correction was exactly right. Back to third grade for you!

Oh, and you spelled criticizing wrong, too! TOO hilarious!

[bhajishah 4]

and its labor not labour british pompass ####

[NArocks 13]

in before the lock

[*julez* 124]

and its labor not labour british pompass ####

Even more hilarious! And it's pompous. I'm a pompous American!

[MikeMc 38]

thats it. look like the end. after 3 years of marrige.

he hurt me like no other man before. cheated and also try to apply for credit cards in my name.

cant take it no more! but its still feel sad.

i wanted to ask you people what happen if i file for divorce right now. i just got my 10 year GC two weeks ago.

if i file for divorce right now it can affect my status? can they take my GC?

thanks for your help.

No they cant take your GC away... However, it will take you 5 years to apply for your citizenship as opposed to the 3 years if you were still married. Good luck!

yes i know but like i said before he try to apply for credit cards in my name so i dont have any option other then divorce him.

Yes if he is doing it to ruin your credit, then best to divorce him and not put up with the years of your credit being stained and the time it takes to pay them all back, which I pretty much can say it will take longer than 2 years to get all of that straightened out.

Good Luck and I wish you the best with your decision.

Make sure you try and dump off the debt on him that he incurred and give yourself a clean credit card.

[princess1 0]

thats it. look like the end. after 3 years of marrige.

he hurt me like no other man before. cheated and also try to apply for credit cards in my name.

cant take it no more! but its still feel sad.

i wanted to ask you people what happen if i file for divorce right now. i just got my 10 year GC two weeks ago.

if i file for divorce right now it can affect my status? can they take my GC?

thanks for your help.

No they cant take your GC away... However, it will take you 5 years to apply for your citizenship as opposed to the 3 years if you were still married. Good luck!

yes i know but like i said before he try to apply for credit cards in my name so i dont have any option other then divorce him.

Yes if he is doing it to ruin your credit, then best to divorce him and not put up with the years of your credit being stained and the time it takes to pay them all back, which I pretty much can say it will take longer than 2 years to get all of that straightened out.

Good Luck and I wish you the best with your decision.

Make sure you try and dump off the debt on him that he incurred and give yourself a clean credit card.

thanks. you are right cus thst's exactly what he was trying to do.

he never told me about it. i got a letter from the bank that i open a new account and this is how i found out.

[ziia 9]

I don't understand why this thread is still going? The question has been answeared a long time ago.

Pricess, whatever your reasons are, you can divorce and still keep your Green Card and apply for citizenship 5 years after the date of issuance of your Green Card(conditional or permanent).

[Fandango 1,440]

If we all put ourselves into the OP's shoes.... wouldn't we do the same thing.

Assume she entered into the marriage with good intent, intending to have a long life with her spouse, until she finds out that he has cheated on her and tried to get credit cards in her name.

You have now settled into life in the U.S. and don't really want to leave, but you can no longer stay married to your spouse.

Wouldn't you too wait until after you got your GC so that you have the choice about whether to stay in the U.S. or leave, especially when it wasn't your fault that the marriage didn't work out????

I think SO.

Damn skippy

[NArocks 13]

However the ironic part is the OP is now asking when she can apply for citizenship

Citizenship question

[dumDumDUM 0]

>.< just wanted to delete my post

Edited July 30, 2009 by dumDumDUM

[princess1 0]

However the ironic part is the OP is now asking when she can apply for citizenship

Citizenship question

yes i ask it and it was for my friend. and even if it was for me do u have a problem with it????????????

let see you dealing with a cheating husband who have a baby with another women after you got married and also try to get credit cards on your name behind your back.

why don't you mind your own business!!!!!!!!!!!!!!