Should I?

[Teacher Mark 53]

A brief synopsis:

1.) The marriage was a green card scam.

2.) We have been separated for almost 5 months.

3.) We both live in HCMC, Vietnam.

Legally I'm not required to give her any money. She's screaming poverty though and I'm afraid she's going to end up prostituting herself. Even after all the lies I don't like the thought of that.

[Otto 83]

Is there supposed to be a Poll?

Tough situation - are there children involved?

[Teacher Mark 53]

Is there supposed to be a Poll?

Tough situation - are there children involved?

No kids. I forgot to add the poll.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

You might be able to go to "manage poll settings".

If it eases your conscious, make a booty call once in a while, and drop a c note on the dresser. But, don't let blackmail ruin your life again.

Edited July 21, 2009 by Mister_Bill

[ddartt1 2]

A brief synopsis:

1.) The marriage was a green card scam.

2.) We have been separated for almost 5 months.

3.) We both live in HCMC, Vietnam.

Legally I'm not required to give her any money. She's screaming poverty though and I'm afraid she's going to end up prostituting herself. Even after all the lies I don't like the thought of that.

Sorry about your situation. Did you get married in US or Vietnam? In which country are you divorcing in? I guess you will not have a choice if alimony is part of the law in the country you are divorcing in.

Edited July 21, 2009 by ddartt1

[Teacher Mark 53]

You might be able to go to "manage poll settings".

If it eases your conscious, make a booty call once in a while, and drop a c note on the dresser. But, don't let blackmail ruin your life again.

I wouldn't sleep with her again if she was paying me.

[Teacher Mark 53]

A brief synopsis:

1.) The marriage was a green card scam.

2.) We have been separated for almost 5 months.

3.) We both live in HCMC, Vietnam.

Legally I'm not required to give her any money. She's screaming poverty though and I'm afraid she's going to end up prostituting herself. Even after all the lies I don't like the thought of that.

Sorry about your situation. Did you get married in US or Vietnam? In which country are you divorcing in? I guess you will not have a choice if alimony is part of the law in the country you are divorcing in.

We were married here in Vietnam. Where the divorce will be filed is to be determined. I consulted with an Attorney yesterday. Amazingly enough he didn't use scare tactics. Basically she doesn't have a leg to stand on with the evidence I have. She also let her boyfriend send me a death threat with her phone. It turns out that threatening a foreigner for any reason is a major no-no here. That threat adds another level to the problem. How would I meet her without wondering if some dude isn't going to come flying out of the woodwork with a sharpened piece of bamboo?

[wowswift 3]

don't give her money. she is an adult and can take care of herself. probably just screaming poverty to get more out of you.

[Amby 490]

don't give her money. she is an adult and can take care of herself. probably just screaming poverty to get more out of you.

I agree. You're too nice. Don't even speak to her. She treated you like #######.

[Ms. Squirrel 11]

I voted yes.

If it doesn't financially hurt you to give her some money to help her out, be the bigger person and help her. Although she scammed you, I think the two of you did have a genuine good time together despite her bad intentions. I don't think she faked it all the way and did like you.

I'll probably get bashing for having an opinion like this.

Money comes and goes. The good you do now will come back to you at another occasion.

[pedroh 21]

maybe some help is not bad... you never know when you're gonna need it either..

[Teacher Mark 53]

This has been a long con. She's asking for $110.00 She says she won't ask again, but I know better.

Did those in favor catch the part about the death threat? I laughed it off because they don't know where I live or work. I doubt the guy would have the stones to try anything, but you never know. This place is like the wild, wild west sometimes, except I'm the minority.

[Ms. Squirrel 11]

I must be missing a big chunk of the story! Death threat?

[almaty 19]

no $$ for her..she has been dishonest through this marriage and her request for money and being a hooker is probably also, a lie...move on..she is the other dude's problem now, not yours

[Donna A 4]

actually to tell u the truth im shocked. ive watched your life in ur you tube videos and never thought this would happen. im sorry.

anyway, if she wants to prostitute herself she is going to do it whether u pay alimony or not. that would just be more money for her.

Edited July 21, 2009 by Donna A