How do you feel about strippers?

[JillA 2]

Wow this thread is moving fast!

Nev I love the story how you hit the man's thang, that's awesome!

I don't mind if my husband goes to a strip club for a friend's bachelor party, he has a few times, that's what alot of guys do at bachelor parties. No big deal, nothing to worry about. He told me the one they went to in FL was really dirty and some of the girls were fat and gross. Anyway, obviously if he enjoyed it and went alot I'd be pissed but for a bachelor party it's fine. "Look, don't touch" is the rule As long as he TELLS me, I don't want him lying about going because that would be wierd. He told me he was going in FL and I said have fun!

I've been to a few male ones and while I don't find the guys hot by any means, it's a fun/funny night out with the ladies when I have gone. It's all in good fun!

Edited July 19, 2009 by JillA

[tbaygrrl 2]

As the girl who's best friends have always been males, and has gone on occasion to the clubs with my buds, I can tell you this for sure....

If a man, is not a frequenter of the Strip joints (ie. eats lunch there daily, spends $$$$ on them), but goes only when there is a gathering of his buddies (ie. bachelor party), and this man is in a healthy, happy relationship, the whole time he is there, all he is wanting to do, is get back home to you, to get it on

Thye don't sit there and fantazise about the woman who's up on stage shaking there thang, there actually sitting there, getting reved up, and coming up with a game plan of what they want to do to you when they get home.

Now if a dude is a regular, well that's a whole other thing

[Chica Yeyé 41]

It's a non-issue. Neither the redhead or yours truly frequent bars, let alone strip joints -- just not our thing. If he was going to a bachelor party, chances are he would end up lecturing the stripper on military history and the Japanese Imperial Navy, giving me some Len time

[SuperDuper! 230]

As the girl who's best friends have always been males, and has gone on occasion to the clubs with my buds, I can tell you this for sure....

If a man, is not a frequenter of the Strip joints (ie. eats lunch there daily, spends $$$$ on them), but goes only when there is a gathering of his buddies (ie. bachelor party), and this man is in a healthy, happy relationship, the whole time he is there, all he is wanting to do, is get back home to you, to get it on

Thye don't sit there and fantazise about the woman who's up on stage shaking there thang, there actually sitting there, getting reved up, and coming up with a game plan of what they want to do to you when they get home.

Now if a dude is a regular, well that's a whole other thing

Thanks for letting us know that itz still ok to have a private stripper lap dance, complete with rump rotating crotch grinding party-in-your-pants dry humping because the man is thinking of his wife or gf the whole time?

[ashenflowers 5]

I really don't think I'd like it.. ESPECIALLY if there were lap dances involved, I'd be really not impressed. lol I trust my fiance and would not be worried about cheating, but the whole purpose of a strip club and lap dance is really just to turn people on, no? All the girls there just want some money and some sort of response from the men... our money can be spent elsewhere. There are other ways to have fun without some random chick having to shove her bits in my man's face or touch him or dance on him near areas reserved for me... lol

no thanks.

[minnew 4]

I had an ex boyfriend who I guess you could catagorize as a "regular" to the strip clubs. He in fact would go with his buddies and at one time went with his father. When he returned they both had glitter all over their faces. They go a few times a month. It really did bother me alot.

If your husband/fiance/boyfriend is really not interested in going and only would go for a "special occasion" like his bachelor party then that is okay. I have told my fiance I do not mind if there is a bachelor party and strippers, but I would really appreciate it if he didn't get any lap dances. "Look but don't touch." I don't care if he gets boobies in his face while they are on stage or he is throwing money at them or whatever. I just don't like the idea of a stripper giving him a lap dance and grinding all over him. My fiance said "well its not like I am going home with them", yeah I understand that, and I also understand that he is not a regular at the strip clubs, but the lap dances would really bother me. I asked him if he would be okay with me getting a lap dance from a guy, I guess it doesn't bother him much.

I am not interested in male strippers at all, watching them dance okay maybe, but getting too close to me and giving a lap dance...ummm...no!

Anyways, if he got a lap dance from a stripper at the club, he already knows not to even bother touching me when he gets home, go straight for a shower and burn the clothes...

[thetreble 19]

Thanks for your opinions, girls and guys!

Jared said he stayed for the strippers but he sat at the back. A few guys got lap dances but that was it. He said it was all pretty tame. (I don't think a woman taking her clothes off is exactly "tame" haha but whatever)

I really didn't think it was a problem, especially since he didn't put the party together and his brother's friends would not be listening to the request of no strippers. Many of them are kinda raunchy guys ( ) so I sort of expected it from them.

Supposedly my brother in law was VERYYY mad when he saw them come in! But he was so intoxicated I guess he got over it pretty quick.

My husband doesn't drink at all so at least I know he has the right mind set to make judgment calls about this certain thing.

Nev- I'm not sure if she knows about the strippers. No one told him so I'm guessing no one told her! I might say something though to Chris in front of her at the wedding though like, "heard you liked your strippers!"

[Sam and Ben 2]

No strippers period and I mean it.

i agree. they should take time off during that week. a string sticking out of the g-string sure ruins the dance.

I'll admit that I am a wee bit bothered by the idea of strippers and/or a strip club. As trailmix (I believe) said, I don't see the need to look at other women tossing off their clothing when your wife or girlfriend or whathaveyou is at home waiting for you. So if my fiance went to a strip club for the hell of it with some buddies, I would be a little put off by it.

However, if he was attending someone's bachelor party and it happened to be at a strip club... I wouldn't be all that enthused about it, but it's a very different thing. Look, don't touch. And don't let them touch either!

I had an ex boyfriend who I guess you could catagorize as a "regular" to the strip clubs. He in fact would go with his buddies and at one time went with his father. When he returned they both had glitter all over their faces. They go a few times a month. It really did bother me alot.

[Krikit 1,164]

I have no problem with anyone going to see strippers. If anyone wants to do anything more than that with them, well..... that's pretty gross.

LOL! Sprailenes a cockpuncher!!

Is that cockpuncher movie for real?

I am LOLing with Moni.

Oh wow. I've just realized that I've missed a whole page of posts! *scurries back to reading*

[Krikit 1,164]

i agree. they should take time off during that week. a string sticking out of the g-string sure ruins the dance.

Not for the squeamish:

I was told that they stick them inside. (Because I was curious and asked the question.) Makes you think twice, though, doesn't it?

[Sprailenes 47]

Thanks for your opinions, girls and guys!

Jared said he stayed for the strippers but he sat at the back. A few guys got lap dances but that was it. He said it was all pretty tame. (I don't think a woman taking her clothes off is exactly "tame" haha but whatever)

I really didn't think it was a problem, especially since he didn't put the party together and his brother's friends would not be listening to the request of no strippers. Many of them are kinda raunchy guys ( ) so I sort of expected it from them.

Supposedly my brother in law was VERYYY mad when he saw them come in! But he was so intoxicated I guess he got over it pretty quick.

My husband doesn't drink at all so at least I know he has the right mind set to make judgment calls about this certain thing.

Nev- I'm not sure if she knows about the strippers. No one told him so I'm guessing no one told her! I might say something though to Chris in front of her at the wedding though like, "heard you liked your strippers!"

[thetreble 19]

he-he-he.

[MrsCat 6]

It's a non-issue. Neither the redhead or yours truly frequent bars, let alone strip joints -- just not our thing. If he was going to a bachelor party, chances are he would end up lecturing the stripper on military history and the Japanese Imperial Navy, giving me some Len time

Oh Bren!

Sorry, but I might be in the minority, but I'd have a problem with it. Strip clubs are fine for everyone else except Chris. Don't know why - they just are. Chris really isn't the strip club type though, so its a non-issue.

[thetreble 19]

Well I think I'd be uncomfortable as well with my husband voluntarily going to a strip club. I'd ask him what's wrong with what hes got at home!

This wasn't really something he had control over. I am disappointed in him though because he said he wasn't going to stick around for it, but he did. I don't care that he did but I'm more disappointed that he wanted to look like he was morally righteous to me and then didn't do what he said he was going to do. That's the kind of thing I don't like.

[MrsCat 6]

Nev- I'm not sure if she knows about the strippers. No one told him so I'm guessing no one told her! I might say something though to Chris in front of her at the wedding though like, "heard you liked your strippers!"

gold!