How do you feel about strippers?

[trailmix 77]

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[Chica Yeyé 41]

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[Ban Hammer 13,283]

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i'm still waiting for the strip off due to len's challenge.

[thetreble 19]

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And what...

[Sandrila 1]

Thank you so much for enlightening me Poprocks

"Women who should worry, are one's who are prude's and a snore in the bedroom...seriously. The type of woman that only engage in one sexual position, with the lights off, only when the mood is right...and the thought or suggestion of any sex toys is unheard of....yeah...you're doomed. And let me guess, your husband says 'no way honey, I don't need all that...I love you...all I want is you....that kind of stuff is for people who need help or are bored of their wives'....yeah, those are the same guys that come to the club....while their wives think they are at a 'business dinner' and they like to partake in any sexual mischief they can get in to...even if it is just talk about sex...and the first thing that always comes out of their mouths....'yeah, my wife is not into that....'....'she's a good mother, and I love her'....'but the sex....is not that good' My husband is proof of this. He tells me of his last relationship that was seemingly functional in every other aspect. She prided herself on the fact that she was respectful and 'classy'...but she was not that adventurous or experimental in the bedroom, and he admits that he was bored of the sex. I'm sure she had no clue

And I know that many of you will read this and say 'not my husband' and I will tell you that half of those women....have no clue...trust me. I have met thousands and I mean thousands of men...through research, industry related events etc...and all too often when it comes to a spouse and sex....men want 'a lady in the street' and 'a wh*re behind closed doors"

So by this statement and the rest of your blubbering I am guessing that you have deemed yourself a real expert on the subject and what ALL the men really want and need.

And I will also assume that based on this statement that we should not trust our men because in the back of their minds they really only want just some hot “lady of the street” type whose only mission is to be as dirty as they want them to be, always obligatory and at their beck n call in the sack.

Gee having said that how would any normal, decent woman be able to fully trust their man or feel “acceptable” in their eyes?

Why marry your wife if all you wanted was a #######??

I mean you are leaving yourself open for review here.

I mean if the world only revolved around men and THEIR fantasies.

THE INDUSTRY and FANTASIES are not the real world and the reason we have a lot of problems in the homeland, I feel, is because people don’t always have their priorities straight.

Meaning…."get your head out of the gutter"

Real life doesn’t involve eating, sleeping and breathing sex and furthermore why should the demise of relationship always have to do with what the woman “doesn’t do” in the bedroom?? There are plenty of good women out there who need a man who knows how to do it right! You don’t see us off and running to the strip joints….but what a joke! Far be it for a man to exploit himself easier to put the pressure and the blame on the woman.

Better to not get so winded, uppity and self righteous just because someone doesn’t agree with your opinions.

Edited August 19, 2009 by Sandrila

[Sprailenes 47]

She wasn't getting winded and uppity. She had an extremely educated response that was very enlightening. If you could see past your own issues perhaps you could learn something.

All you have is insults, calling women skanks and whores. Those are some strong words for someone you don't know. You don't know all strippers, you can't speak for every woman in the sex industry. You can only speak for yourself. If you were so comfortable and secure you wouldn't be calling these women, whom you know nothing about, the names you choose to call them.

The only person I see here who is being self righteous and uppity is YOU.

[chaishai 1]

I wouldn't mind if my husband went at all. I have actually been to one before. I think that I am equally or more physically attractive than many of them, plus smart, funny, compatible with him, etc - so the package for him. So its really not a threat to me so why would I care? I also dont think that all strippers are talentless scum. Many of them are very wealthy, take care of themselves and have amazing athletic ability to climb up a stripper pole with their thighs. Its entertainment.

[Arabella 4]

Thank you so much for enlightening me Poprocks

"Women who should worry, are one's who are prude's and a snore in the bedroom...seriously. The type of woman that only engage in one sexual position, with the lights off, only when the mood is right...and the thought or suggestion of any sex toys is unheard of....yeah...you're doomed. And let me guess, your husband says 'no way honey, I don't need all that...I love you...all I want is you....that kind of stuff is for people who need help or are bored of their wives'....yeah, those are the same guys that come to the club....while their wives think they are at a 'business dinner' and they like to partake in any sexual mischief they can get in to...even if it is just talk about sex...and the first thing that always comes out of their mouths....'yeah, my wife is not into that....'....'she's a good mother, and I love her'....'but the sex....is not that good' My husband is proof of this. He tells me of his last relationship that was seemingly functional in every other aspect. She prided herself on the fact that she was respectful and 'classy'...but she was not that adventurous or experimental in the bedroom, and he admits that he was bored of the sex. I'm sure she had no clue

And I know that many of you will read this and say 'not my husband' and I will tell you that half of those women....have no clue...trust me. I have met thousands and I mean thousands of men...through research, industry related events etc...and all too often when it comes to a spouse and sex....men want 'a lady in the street' and 'a wh*re behind closed doors"

So by this statement and the rest of your blubbering I am guessing that you have deemed yourself a real expert on the subject and what ALL the men really want and need.

And I will also assume that based on this statement that we should not trust our men because in the back of their minds they really only want just some hot “lady of the street” type whose only mission is to be as dirty as they want them to be, always obligatory and at their beck n call in the sack.

Gee having said that how would any normal, decent woman be able to fully trust their man or feel “acceptable” in their eyes?

Why marry your wife if all you wanted was a #######??

I mean you are leaving yourself open for review here.

I mean if the world only revolved around men and THEIR fantasies.

THE INDUSTRY and FANTASIES are not the real world and the reason we have a lot of problems in the homeland, I feel, is because people don’t always have their priorities straight.

Meaning…."get your head out of the gutter"

Real life doesn’t involve eating, sleeping and breathing sex and furthermore why should the demise of relationship always have to do with what the woman “doesn’t do” in the bedroom?? There are plenty of good women out there who need a man who knows how to do it right! You don’t see us off and running to the strip joints….but what a joke! Far be it for a man to exploit himself easier to put the pressure and the blame on the woman.

Better to not get so winded, uppity and self righteous just because someone doesn’t agree with your opinions.

Poprocks said it was just her perspective. . . You do whatever is best for your marriage. . . Take her advice or leave it.

My ex husband cheated on me from year 1 of our marriage, when we were still young and I was willing to try anything. The fact is that he was just a cheater regardless of what I did. . . Her statement about a man cheating at 3am or 3pm is totally true. If he wants to cheat he will find a way with or without a strip club.

I don't think it was PopRocks's intent to say that it was a woman's fault if the man cheated, however there are many things that can negatively effect a marriage and lead to a divorce. Unfulfilling sex could be one of those things!

I agree with PopRocks that a man wants a "lady in the street, but a freak in the bed." (Usher!). Passion in lovemaking is very important to a man's self-esteem. If his wife seems disinterested or is "just getting it over with" it makes him feel terrible about himself.

Edited August 19, 2009 by Arabella

[thetreble 19]

Woah. Halt, who goes there?

She wasn't responding to ANY ONE's opinion. She doesn't disagree with any one, except for those out there who are silly enough to think that all strippers are trash. Behind the stripping, are actual human beings.

That was all she was saying. Do you realize how your comments are not constructive?

She didn't "blubber", it was a very well put piece of writing which is far more than I can say for what you wrote above which was all about saying what you wanted to say in a nasty way because you are taking a holier than thou attitude.

Poprocks also agreed with me when I said that I don't believe every man wants a crazy sex life. Did you not read that point? Or were you more interested in walking all over her because you want to assert yourself as a higher moral being? She realizes that there are men and women who are on the same level and enjoy each others company without feeling like they need more. You missed that point as well.

And the Industry IS the real world. Are the billions of dollars it brings in every year not real? Are the infidelities in marriages and relationships due to lack of common sexual ground not real? If you are that silly to equate the word "fantasy" to what is happening in the sex industry in 2009, then it is you who is not in the real world. It isn't about fantasies any more; it's not the 1950s. People are free to express and live out their fantasies which makes them REAL.

[Krikit 1,164]

Better to not get so winded, uppity and self righteous just because someone doesn't agree with your opinions.

At no point was Poprocks any of the above. Methinks you are transferring what you are feeling onto her. This has been a level-headed discussion so far. I think we prefer to keep it that way.

[Sprailenes 47]

Better to not get so winded, uppity and self righteous just because someone doesn't agree with your opinions.

At no point was Poprocks any of the above. Methinks you are transferring what you are feeling onto her. This has been a level-headed discussion so far. I think we prefer to keep it that way.

Exactly! Don't be a hater!

Woah. Halt, who goes there?

She wasn't responding to ANY ONE's opinion. She doesn't disagree with any one, except for those out there who are silly enough to think that all strippers are trash. Behind the stripping, are actual human beings.

That was all she was saying. Do you realize how your comments are not constructive?

She didn't "blubber", it was a very well put piece of writing which is far more than I can say for what you wrote above which was all about saying what you wanted to say in a nasty way because you are taking a holier than thou attitude.

Poprocks also agreed with me when I said that I don't believe every man wants a crazy sex life. Did you not read that point? Or were you more interested in walking all over her because you want to assert yourself as a higher moral being? She realizes that there are men and women who are on the same level and enjoy each others company without feeling like they need more. You missed that point as well.

And the Industry IS the real world. Are the billions of dollars it brings in every year not real? Are the infidelities in marriages and relationships due to lack of common sexual ground not real? If you are that silly to equate the word "fantasy" to what is happening in the sex industry in 2009, then it is you who is not in the real world. It isn't about fantasies any more; it's not the 1950s. People are free to express and live out their fantasies which makes them REAL.

Amanda you are SO like my favourite person. *hugz*

[thetreble 19]

Don't hate, appreciate.

Amanda you are SO like my favourite person. *hugz*

You know it.

[Sprailenes 47]

Believe me and my closet full of school girl and cheer leader outfits when I say: fantasies CAN BE REAL!

Oh wait too much info. SORRY GUYZ!

[Sandrila 1]

you guys all talk trash anywho

all quick to tell it like it is and to jump down someone's throat

all knowing right?

someone else comes in with their opinion and just squander it as if it has no relevance

whatever

I am allowed to refer the matter as garbage if I like, I never referred to anyone specifically

if that is what you got out of it that's your problem

good god

[Sprailenes 47]

Yea okay, come up with a decent explanation and you'll have listeners, but all you do is hurl insults and accuse someone of being uppity and self righteous. Get a mirror.