privacy between married couple

[-Cinnamon- 0]

Sorry OP, but HE is cheating. . . excuse me for saying this, but the situation is far behind with so called "PRIVACY". .

Once you are married, you've vow to each other, to love and respect one another. How can you build a so called "TRUST" that even in a little thing called "passwords" he can't even share to you. For your heart's sake you are the wifey. . . You can close your eyes to things you don't want to see, but you can't close your heart to the things you don't want to feel. Pray, and ask God to guide you in whatever decision you will take. Remember that breaking up is just like having the worst nightmare after having the best dream. So Good luck and God bless you. xoxo

[HannahP 119]

Man, my husband wishes that I would look at the nude pics that he keeps on his computer. "That'd be hot."

[Ban Hammer 13,346]

Man, my husband wishes that I would look at the nude pics that he keeps on his computer. "That'd be hot."

who are the pics of?

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Man, my husband wishes that I would look at the nude pics that he keeps on his computer. "That'd be hot."

I luvz sister HannahP

We share passwords -- Bren asks me to reply to his email and his FB cuz he hates the interwebzzzz

[brendon1101rebz 0]

his mom talked to me about this and told me that i should relax since the girl who keeps on bugging him is in the Philippines. i told her that it doesn't follow that just because the girl is not in US, i'm already safe from infidelity. she asked me to give my husband more time adjusting in our new life sine we're only 3 months married. she also added that my husband is not used to share everything since he is only child. (i really don't know what to feel after our conversation. ofcourse she's the mom of my hubby.. she'll defend him no matter what.)

i'm pretty sure that the nude pics are not spam. i already have a copy of the nude pics and the email address of the girl. i emailed her about this and ofcourse, as expected she's not replying. (i also find it weird that the girl uses 2 different names)

i talked with my husband and told him that i can't forget what happened. it even haunts me in my dreams. he said that i'm his wife and he married me, that simply means, he wants me, not the girl. i answered him that marrying me is not a proof that he won't cheat on me.

while browsing his email, i also checked his facebook and friendster, and saw the name of the girl is blocked. he assured me that he's not cheating on me. but how can i have my peace of mind if he won't give me his passwords? i don't know if i still have to push him to give me his codes. i don't want to have another argument.

i don't know if i should be regretful that i invaded his "online privacy". i know it's bad but what if i'm still completely clueless about it? what will happen to me and in our relationship?

i told him that i left my family and job in Philippines just to be with him and i don't deserve to be treated like this. i rather go home if he'll just fool around. but he begged not to leave him.

i love him and i know he loves me too. but why is this happening to us? i thought that we'll be living in a perfect world. is there a such? (i know, this is the bad effect of reading too much fairy tales.)

i'm so confused, i trusted him so much that i never expected this coming. i really don't know what to do. my mind says not to trust fully and dig for more info until i reach my peace of mind. but my heart says, take all the risk and give him another chance. i know he's a good man, just a bit childish.

i prayed to God to give me a sign. should i stay or should i go? 2 days after the confrontation, i received a letter with our interview appointment. i don't know if i should take this as His sign.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Just be real about it. Praying is all very nice; but it won't solve your trust issues. Be honest with yourself and establish open communication with your husband. You both are indeed adjusting to a new life. I wish you the best of luck.

[JSVP08 3]

You say you trust him but not the babes around him? Bull. You either trust him or not and if you trust him then do not worry about hot babes around.

Going through his private accounts was a huge wrong you did and now you are wanting to put the blame on him. That is wrong and you should be ashamed.

wow this is exactly what my man said to me. i have choosen to trust him, no issues.

[mawilson 2,133]

i'm pretty sure that the nude pics are not spam. i already have a copy of the nude pics and the email address of the girl. i emailed her about this and ofcourse, as expected she's not replying. (i also find it weird that the girl uses 2 different names)

Be sneaky about it. Register a new email address and send her an email pretending to be your husband.

Explain that your wife found out and got upset and that you want her to use this email address from

now on. Tell her "you know how I really feel about you, don't you, baby" and see how she reacts.

Just be real about it. Praying is all very nice; but it won't solve your trust issues. Be honest with yourself and establish open communication with your husband. You both are indeed adjusting to a new life. I wish you the best of luck.

See above.

[Nessa 23]

your husband is not that hot. you shouldn't worry about other women.

[GregwedsAngel 0]

his mom talked to me about this and told me that i should relax since the girl who keeps on bugging him is in the Philippines. i told her that it doesn't follow that just because the girl is not in US, i'm already safe from infidelity. she asked me to give my husband more time adjusting in our new life sine we're only 3 months married. she also added that my husband is not used to share everything since he is only child. (i really don't know what to feel after our conversation. ofcourse she's the mom of my hubby.. she'll defend him no matter what.)

i'm pretty sure that the nude pics are not spam. i already have a copy of the nude pics and the email address of the girl. i emailed her about this and ofcourse, as expected she's not replying. (i also find it weird that the girl uses 2 different names)

i talked with my husband and told him that i can't forget what happened. it even haunts me in my dreams. he said that i'm his wife and he married me, that simply means, he wants me, not the girl. i answered him that marrying me is not a proof that he won't cheat on me.

while browsing his email, i also checked his facebook and friendster, and saw the name of the girl is blocked. he assured me that he's not cheating on me. but how can i have my peace of mind if he won't give me his passwords? i don't know if i still have to push him to give me his codes. i don't want to have another argument.

i don't know if i should be regretful that i invaded his "online privacy". i know it's bad but what if i'm still completely clueless about it? what will happen to me and in our relationship?

i told him that i left my family and job in Philippines just to be with him and i don't deserve to be treated like this. i rather go home if he'll just fool around. but he begged not to leave him.

i love him and i know he loves me too. but why is this happening to us? i thought that we'll be living in a perfect world. is there a such? (i know, this is the bad effect of reading too much fairy tales.)

i'm so confused, i trusted him so much that i never expected this coming. i really don't know what to do. my mind says not to trust fully and dig for more info until i reach my peace of mind. but my heart says, take all the risk and give him another chance. i know he's a good man, just a bit childish.

i prayed to God to give me a sign. should i stay or should i go? 2 days after the confrontation, i received a letter with our interview appointment. i don't know if i should take this as His sign.

The red marks... read: mommy's boy

The purple marks... read: isn't chancing upon what you uncovered a sign already and it is making you decide the best step to do?

Your call... either you put your foot down or you put your foot down What does he do for a living anyway?

I am terribly appalled by the response of his mother to you. She sounds like the typical woman who hinges

her self esteem on the approval of her man.

[Ban Hammer 13,346]

if she's in the pi, why not put a hit out on her?

oh wait, this isn't facebook's mafia wars.

[HannahP 119]

Man, my husband wishes that I would look at the nude pics that he keeps on his computer. "That'd be hot."

who are the pics of?

Your mom, duh.

for Len!

[DanielParul 50]

Certain amount of privacy is good in a relationship, however, if there has been a situation already and now it makes one person uncomfortable then its his responsibility to put your mind at ease and even share his passwords with you for the time being. Him not doing so is kind of fishy to me. It more than the principle of the thing right now. Its about one partner's trust in the other one. I don't think he is doing enough to help your relationship. He is more concerned about you checking his e-mails than the fact that you found something that makes you not trust him. You need to have a serious talk with him and tell him how it is. Good luck!

Also, don't bother discussing anything with his family. They obviously will not help the situation.

[Ban Hammer 13,346]

Man, my husband wishes that I would look at the nude pics that he keeps on his computer. "That'd be hot."

who are the pics of?

Your mom, duh.

for Len!

so your husband is into dead people.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Wow! Sneaking a peak at your hubby's email accounts would be like me sniffing around in my wife's underwear drawer...wait..be right back...

Edited July 19, 2009 by Mister_Bill