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thetreble   19

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Oh he knew. I just didn't think he realized her intention was to pull him away from his family. We all saw it but it appears he still struggle to do so. I'm praying for him because while I think he has been an idiot, I love him and know that he's a good person.

"...My hair's mostly wind,

My eyes filled with grit

My skin's white then brown

My lips chapped and split

I've lain on the prairie and heard grasses sigh

I've stared at the vast open bowl of the sky

I've seen all the castles and faces in clouds

My home is the prairie and for that I am proud…

If You're not from the Prairie, you can't know my soul

You don't know our blizzards; you've not fought our cold

You can't know my mind, nor ever my heart

Unless deep within you there's somehow a part…

A part of these things that I've said that I know,

The wind, sky and earth, the storms and the snow.

Best say that you have - and then we'll be one,

For we will have shared that same blazing sun." - David Bouchard

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Sprailenes   47

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If the stress of a wedding did this to her, please make sure she's on an ample amount of birth control or the stress of children just may make her spontaneously combust. :lol:

Surprisingly childbirth would probably change her not so nice ways, most have a different outlook on life after kids.

:lol:

That was his friends' piece of advice before he hit the church alter "Don't procreate until you know the marriage will last!"

What I don't get is when couples have kids in order to "strengthen their marriage." If you're marriage has problems already, kids are not going to suddenly solve it. I doubt anyone would argue that kids make life more complex.

Maybe they think the fear of child support would scare the ####### out of the other person and they won't leave? I know people that are paying an insane amount and probably would've figured out a way to stay with the person to keep it from happening if they could or would've chopped off their schwance before doing something stupid when young LOL.

Possibly, but that still proves that "children make life more complicated." :P

Children make life a lot more interesting...........

I have to disagree. She is so controlling now she would probably be more controlling after kids, I think it's safe to say that she'd use those kids to control him.

If the stress of a wedding did this to her, I could imagine how having kids would make things. I think women use an event such as a wedding as an excuse to be a zilla, there's no excuse to treat people that way. Could you imagine when morning sickness kicks in? Sheesh nine months of hearing her whine and complain and then a lifetime of having her hanging those kids in his face whenever he steps out of line. :lol:

If you're a b1tch before, you're a b1tch after and kids don't necessarily change things. Sometimes it makes things worse unfortunately.

Sprai,

I wasn't referring to her controlling ways I was referring to the total disregard/disrespect with everyone around her.

Sometimes when people are this self centered something drastic has to happen for them to change and children are one of the drastic things that can do that.

But as far as being a B1, she will be a lifer in that club!!! :yes:

I will agree to disagree. It's an optimistic view to feel that it could change her but I am not an optimist when it comes to people like her. :P

I don't think children would change her. She's a Jersey girl.. kids are only going to burden her lifestyle. :lol:

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Sprailenes   47

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Oh he knew. I just didn't think he realized her intention was to pull him away from his family. We all saw it but it appears he still struggle to do so. I'm praying for him because while I think he has been an idiot, I love him and know that he's a good person.

True that, he'll always be your brother in law.

A family shouldn't grieve after a wedding, they shouldn't worry about losing one of their family members.

My prediction is that the marriage won't last. I don't know your brother in law but I don't think he would continue to take this. Though it's hard to say. But this early on in the marriage and she's already putting down his father. Can he honestly say he's happy? I doubt it.

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A family shouldn't grieve after a wedding, they shouldn't worry about losing one of their family members.

Very well said sister Sprai! :thumbs:

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thetreble   19

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As of today, they are getting a divorce....She has moved all her things out and she's gone. He told her last night it was not going to work out.

"...My hair's mostly wind,

My eyes filled with grit

My skin's white then brown

My lips chapped and split

I've lain on the prairie and heard grasses sigh

I've stared at the vast open bowl of the sky

I've seen all the castles and faces in clouds

My home is the prairie and for that I am proud…

If You're not from the Prairie, you can't know my soul

You don't know our blizzards; you've not fought our cold

You can't know my mind, nor ever my heart

Unless deep within you there's somehow a part…

A part of these things that I've said that I know,

The wind, sky and earth, the storms and the snow.

Best say that you have - and then we'll be one,

For we will have shared that same blazing sun." - David Bouchard

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Wow... that was fast.

But I'm glad he realized what he had gotten himself into. Good for him for realizing it.

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He's a complete mess :( But I will be there for him no matter what.

"...My hair's mostly wind,

My eyes filled with grit

My skin's white then brown

My lips chapped and split

I've lain on the prairie and heard grasses sigh

I've stared at the vast open bowl of the sky

I've seen all the castles and faces in clouds

My home is the prairie and for that I am proud…

If You're not from the Prairie, you can't know my soul

You don't know our blizzards; you've not fought our cold

You can't know my mind, nor ever my heart

Unless deep within you there's somehow a part…

A part of these things that I've said that I know,

The wind, sky and earth, the storms and the snow.

Best say that you have - and then we'll be one,

For we will have shared that same blazing sun." - David Bouchard

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As of today, they are getting a divorce....She has moved all her things out and she's gone. He told her last night it was not going to work out.

I can't say that it wasn't coming thats for sure, but I am sad and happy for them both. I wish this could have been realized that it was not going to work before the wedding. I hope they both get closure and are able to move on. (F)

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As of today, they are getting a divorce....She has moved all her things out and she's gone. He told her last night it was not going to work out.

OMG!! ####### what the hell is your phone number!! I WANT TO CALL YOU AND HEAR THE STORY!!!

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He's a complete mess :( But I will be there for him no matter what.

Hey he gave her the wedding she always dreamed of... he really did try. I know its probably so hard for him, mostly because he knew her prior to her being a zilla. I remember you saying she had a sweet side of her, he probably wanted that side to come back. It didn't. It is probably super hard for both of them. She's too stubborn to admit she's done anything wrong.

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He's a complete mess :( But I will be there for him no matter what.

Hey he gave her the wedding she always dreamed of... he really did try. I know its probably so hard for him, mostly because he knew her prior to her being a zilla. I remember you saying she had a sweet side of her, he probably wanted that side to come back. It didn't. It is probably super hard for both of them. She's too stubborn to admit she's done anything wrong.

When I find out more of the exact details nev I will talk to you about it. Jared called me from work to tell me...he only talked to me for a minute so I don't know. All I know is they fought their entire honeymoon in Hawaii and they got home on Sunday. They've been fighting since then, too, and I guess last night after he talked to my husband, they fought some more and he just said, "enough..it's not going to work..."

And when he got home from work, the little stuff she had and herself were packed up and gone.

"...My hair's mostly wind,

My eyes filled with grit

My skin's white then brown

My lips chapped and split

I've lain on the prairie and heard grasses sigh

I've stared at the vast open bowl of the sky

I've seen all the castles and faces in clouds

My home is the prairie and for that I am proud…

If You're not from the Prairie, you can't know my soul

You don't know our blizzards; you've not fought our cold

You can't know my mind, nor ever my heart

Unless deep within you there's somehow a part…

A part of these things that I've said that I know,

The wind, sky and earth, the storms and the snow.

Best say that you have - and then we'll be one,

For we will have shared that same blazing sun." - David Bouchard

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As of today, they are getting a divorce....She has moved all her things out and she's gone. He told her last night it was not going to work out.

Don't be surprised if they break up . . . get back together . . . rinse and repeat . . .

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I'm glad he realized sooner than later. She seemed to be the type that got so into the wedding planning, and now there's nothing to plan so she doesn't know what to do with herself and took it out on your poor BIL.

My best wishes for your BIL during this tough time.

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As of today, they are getting a divorce....She has moved all her things out and she's gone. He told her last night it was not going to work out.

Don't be surprised if they break up . . . get back together . . . rinse and repeat . . .

I hope not. I really don't. I know he's called my father in law for legal counsel so...I really hope not.

"...My hair's mostly wind,

My eyes filled with grit

My skin's white then brown

My lips chapped and split

I've lain on the prairie and heard grasses sigh

I've stared at the vast open bowl of the sky

I've seen all the castles and faces in clouds

My home is the prairie and for that I am proud…

If You're not from the Prairie, you can't know my soul

You don't know our blizzards; you've not fought our cold

You can't know my mind, nor ever my heart

Unless deep within you there's somehow a part…

A part of these things that I've said that I know,

The wind, sky and earth, the storms and the snow.

Best say that you have - and then we'll be one,

For we will have shared that same blazing sun." - David Bouchard

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