Aggressive VJers

[Ban Hammer 13,332]

alot of OT are people that have been here for ages and (know) or relate to the others thru time, they can joke with each other and each will know its not meant to be mean. Someone new comes in and sees this and prob doesnt know what to think (so charles and natty be nice)

am i gonna have to spike your geritol again?

i heard #######.

yum.

You heard STFU

no, all i heard is #######. im havin visions of titty.

then check out the boobies thread

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

no, i like to be off topic.

[Nagishkaw 510]

am i gonna have to spike your geritol again?

Is that why I keep falling down? I borrow Brni's when I run out.

[Brad and Vika 129]

alot of OT are people that have been here for ages and (know) or relate to the others thru time, they can joke with each other and each will know its not meant to be mean. Someone new comes in and sees this and prob doesnt know what to think (so charles and natty be nice)

am i gonna have to spike your geritol again?

i heard #######.

yum.

You heard STFU

no, all i heard is #######. im havin visions of titty.

then check out the boobies thread

He said he heard the word somewhere. Probably that thread.

[Niels Bohr 72]

This thread is full of trolls.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

This thread is full of trolls.

[Ban Hammer 13,332]

This thread is full of trolls.

why you hating on aj like that?

[Welshcookie 17]

Grrrrrr.....Grrrrrrr....

Is this aggressive enough?

I need to practice more.

[Susita 175]

**end of cartoon unicorns and Barney song** Now - STFU!!

Why stop the cartoon unicrorns?

[ioukta 0]

yes ms delila i agree,

you've been to my thread, you saw how it went smh

i thought this forum would be more welcoming than that and open given the whole world literally is represented here

smh nope not welcoming and agressive yeah, makes me not want to post anymore real shame, and good lord the vulgarity is incredible lol

anyway, i guess lurking is better here

[rebeccajo 14]

I think people need to stop confusing "aggressive Vj'ers" with not hearing what they want to hear.

There are people who make it a point to be offensive. There are people who are rude.

But some people just don't want to hear the truth. That is not the same as "aggression".

[Ban Hammer 13,332]

I think people need to stop confusing "aggressive Vj'ers" with not hearing what they want to hear.

There are people who make it a point to be offensive. There are people who are rude.

But some people just don't want to hear the truth. That is not the same as "aggression".

but you have a short time line, who's gonna listen to you?

[rebeccajo 14]

yes ms delila i agree,

you've been to my thread, you saw how it went smh

i thought this forum would be more welcoming than that and open given the whole world literally is represented here

smh nope not welcoming and agressive yeah, makes me not want to post anymore real shame, and good lord the vulgarity is incredible lol

anyway, i guess lurking is better here

ioukta -

IF your faith had nothing to do with your thread, then you did not even need to start the thread. There are dozens of threads in this community about what to do if you need to delay or cancel a visa.

Some persons in your thread asked you questions about your faith. I do not idly note that you are the one who brought up your faith. If you did not want questions about it, you should not have phrased your question as you did. You could have relied on the experience of others who had cancelled or delayed visas for whatever their reason may have been.

I think people need to stop confusing "aggressive Vj'ers" with not hearing what they want to hear.

There are people who make it a point to be offensive. There are people who are rude.

But some people just don't want to hear the truth. That is not the same as "aggression".

but you have a short time line, who's gonna listen to you?

[ioukta 0]

yes ms delila i agree,

you've been to my thread, you saw how it went smh

i thought this forum would be more welcoming than that and open given the whole world literally is represented here

smh nope not welcoming and agressive yeah, makes me not want to post anymore real shame, and good lord the vulgarity is incredible lol

anyway, i guess lurking is better here

ioukta -

IF your faith had nothing to do with your thread, then you did not even need to start the thread. There are dozens of threads in this community about what to do if you need to delay or cancel a visa.

Some persons in your thread asked you questions about your faith. I do not idly note that you are the one who brought up your faith. If you did not want questions about it, you should not have phrased your question as you did. You could have relied on the experience of others who had cancelled or delayed visas for whatever their reason may have been.

I think people need to stop confusing "aggressive Vj'ers" with not hearing what they want to hear.

There are people who make it a point to be offensive. There are people who are rude.

But some people just don't want to hear the truth. That is not the same as "aggression".

but you have a short time line, who's gonna listen to you?

um no i specifically put * in front of my questions and they were very specific i decided to give a detail and everybody decided to start talking about that detail like that was the problem, and like that's what i should change, how smart is that?

my questions with the * in front were only answered by 5% of the replies that does not make this forum a welcoming one

and i looked for answers but unfortunately i didn't have the right key words i guess since i didn't know anything about what to do, does that make me a bad candidate for a new thread?

Edited July 4, 2009 by ioukta

[rebeccajo 14]

yes ms delila i agree,

you've been to my thread, you saw how it went smh

i thought this forum would be more welcoming than that and open given the whole world literally is represented here

smh nope not welcoming and agressive yeah, makes me not want to post anymore real shame, and good lord the vulgarity is incredible lol

anyway, i guess lurking is better here

ioukta -

IF your faith had nothing to do with your thread, then you did not even need to start the thread. There are dozens of threads in this community about what to do if you need to delay or cancel a visa.

Some persons in your thread asked you questions about your faith. I do not idly note that you are the one who brought up your faith. If you did not want questions about it, you should not have phrased your question as you did. You could have relied on the experience of others who had cancelled or delayed visas for whatever their reason may have been.

I think people need to stop confusing "aggressive Vj'ers" with not hearing what they want to hear.

There are people who make it a point to be offensive. There are people who are rude.

But some people just don't want to hear the truth. That is not the same as "aggression".

but you have a short time line, who's gonna listen to you?

um no i specifically put * in front of my questions and they were very specific i decided to give a detail and everybody decided to start talking about that detail like that was the problem, and like that's what i should change, how smart is that?

my questions with the * in front were only answered by 5% of the replies that does not make this forum a welcoming one

There may have been people in the thread who said "unwelcoming" things to you. It is your call to be offended by those comments or not. IMO, while some of the comments were "personal" none of them were "aggressive". Believe me, I have read far worse around here.

Bottom line is this - you did not even have to bring up your faith in your question. In fact you did not have to ask the question at all. You could have easily researched the answer as there are dozens of thread about the topic.