Aggressive VJers

[rebeccajo 14]

Religion did not have anything to do about my request about delays and second visas, it was a detail, it was my way of being thorough

It's a mighty damn big detail if it's enough to de-rail the entire process.

I agree, i know how big it is to me, but it's my process and my decision

and my question was not "should i wait or not" because we have already decided this, and that's what i wanted to be respected. I've been in this rlp for 4 years, and i know what expensive draining and long is already, and we decided it was time to start, and I decided to ask for details so i could have an idea of the big picture

Is that reasonable?

It's your money and your time and your life, so whatever floats your boat.

[Staashi 371]

VJ can be a harsh place, but a welcoming place too. One is bound to find all the information here that they will need to deal with USCIS and DOS and back to USCIS during the later part of their journey. If one has questions in the upper forums, feel free to post them - but try to do so after reading all of the pinned topics and USCIS/DOS pages that pertain to your situation and not finding your answer. People on this forum will normally be glad to provide some insight into your situation and maybe post links to other threads where someone brought up a similar issue.

Aside from that, Ioukta - I would like to say one thing...USCIS/DOS will leave God out of the visa process, you might want to do the same. Remember, you will be at the mercy of those two government agencies, not God's mercy. They will provide you with a timeframe as to when you have to complete your process. Once you submit the paperwork for your K1 you are working on USCIS/DOS time, not God's time. When you and your fiance are completely ready to apply for the visa (aka "saved") do so. Good luck with your journey - may the Holy Spirit breathe into you both real soon!

[NickD 202]

Actually, I am only 4'7", tip the scales at 68 pounds and feel very safe behind my firewall, so can express myself however I feel. If things get too rough, can unplug my computer, go up to my room, and suck my thumb, and think of other nasty things to say.

Besides my knowledge of dynamic IP's soft and hardware firewalls, also have knowledge of proxies, so try and find me, if you can. That really gives me the power to be nasty and really be a big a$$hole. I like being an a$$hole.

[NArocks 13]

Actually, I am only 4'7", tip the scales at 68 pounds and feel very safe behind my firewall, so can express myself however I feel. If things get too rough, can unplug my computer, go up to my room, and suck my thumb, and think of other nasty things to say.

Besides my knowledge of dynamic IP's soft and hardware firewalls, also have knowledge of proxies, so try and find me, if you can. That really gives me the power to be nasty and really be a big a$$hole. I like being an a$$hole.

[Brad and Vika 129]

I just read the original thread that is being discussed here. And IMO ioukta, I really don't see how people were attacking you BEFORE you wrote your super long rant about how you were being attacked. People expressed confusion about what being "saved" meant (since as I see you know, we all have different beliefs about what that means), people gave you advice that you clearly did not like, and something mentioned that you might get aggressive answers because it might look like you were throwing the process away that all of us try very hard to get into.

I don't see how that was attacking your religion at all. Many MANY times people gave you the advice of postponing interview or Packet 3, but you seemed to ignore that and just keep on asking, "how do I postpone interview?" (instead of doing a search of -postpone interview- or posting in the French forum as someone also told you to do).

Get off your high horse and stop complaining that religion had nothing to do with the topic. Because if that was true, you wouldn't have mentioned it in your original post AND HEADLINE TITLE. Before you got offended people gave you the answers you needed, then you chose to take offense and then I stopped reading so maybe they did attack you after that.

And you said earlier that this forum was not for expressing opinions? What is it for then?? None of us are professional experts in the Visa process. We are people that have gone through the process, are going through the process or plan on going through the process. Some of us have been around for a long time and therefore have read a lot of posts and had a lot of experiences, but at the end of that day what we are giving is our advice and our opinions about what people should/n't do.

Exactly so - this is why I was teasing in my earlier post. I tried to give the best answers I could in the last go-round, but wasn't getting through.

[SuperDuper! 230]

Actually, I am only 4'7", tip the scales at 68 pounds and feel very safe behind my firewall, so can express myself however I feel. If things get too rough, can unplug my computer, go up to my room, and suck my thumb, and think of other nasty things to say.

Besides my knowledge of dynamic IP's soft and hardware firewalls, also have knowledge of proxies, so try and find me, if you can. That really gives me the power to be nasty and really be a big a$$hole. I like being an a$$hole.

Ahh, gaining those summer pounds again? Get back to an even 60 bucks, and you will be feeling slim and less bloated in no time.

[tmma 467]

IMO all the OP of the closed thread was asking was how long do they have in the process and what do they do if they want to refile if they can refile.......? Does the reasons behind delaying or refiling really matter...really? Seems to me like a bunch of people just decided it was their business to either find offense ( 'slap in the face to vj'...) or deem the OP reasons for the questions somehow kind of invalid...Well that's how it reads to me......

I think the OP was just trying to find answers pertinent to their situation. What's the hoopla about?

OP---Some have answered without all the extra bunk, take what's of value from that, and ignore the rest. You certainly don't have to explain your personal reasons to people on here.....

[john & jean 37]

Actually, I am only 4'7", tip the scales at 68 pounds and feel very safe behind my firewall, so can express myself however I feel. If things get too rough, can unplug my computer, go up to my room, and suck my thumb, and think of other nasty things to say.

Besides my knowledge of dynamic IP's soft and hardware firewalls, also have knowledge of proxies, so try and find me, if you can. That really gives me the power to be nasty and really be a big a$$hole. I like being an a$$hole.

so it is you making the noobs feel like a goldfish swimming with sharks

[tmma 467]

Hello,

I was just wondering if others thought that the members on this board were rather aggressive and rude when replying to threads. I haven't personally had any problems, but I've read many threads on here and it seems like 90% of the threads end up with some kind of insults.

I'm not saying all the replies are like that, but some are. I'm a member on another forum (for a completely different topic) and everyone on there are the nicest and friendliest people you could cyber-meet.

Just wondering.

D.

[NArocks 13]

The pot calling the kettle black

sucked in by VJ

Hello,

I was just wondering if others thought that the members on this board were rather aggressive and rude when replying to threads. I haven't personally had any problems, but I've read many threads on here and it seems like 90% of the threads end up with some kind of insults.

I'm not saying all the replies are like that, but some are. I'm a member on another forum (for a completely different topic) and everyone on there are the nicest and friendliest people you could cyber-meet.

Just wondering.

D.

[tmma 467]

The pot calling the kettle black

sucked in by VJ

Hello,

I was just wondering if others thought that the members on this board were rather aggressive and rude when replying to threads. I haven't personally had any problems, but I've read many threads on here and it seems like 90% of the threads end up with some kind of insults.

I'm not saying all the replies are like that, but some are. I'm a member on another forum (for a completely different topic) and everyone on there are the nicest and friendliest people you could cyber-meet.

Just wondering.

D.

I know that's why it made me chuckle.

[JSVP08 3]

We are all adults. We should be aware of the different views on here. And, that nothing here should replace what happens in the real world.

What? This isn't real? You #######! I am reporting you to the thought police immediately.

luv ur punchlines brad!!

[almaty 19]

lol

[Brad and Vika 129]

We are all adults. We should be aware of the different views on here. And, that nothing here should replace what happens in the real world.

What? This isn't real? You #######! I am reporting you to the thought police immediately.

luv ur punchlines brad!!

We aims ta please

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Darn! No drama here either.