want to send her home while i can

[Heidelberg 0]

in short want to send the crazy,immature,selfcentered woman home before she betrays me,her 2 year green card is going to expire and i and going to let it...i have tryed everything marrage counceling,having family members talk to her but she continues to have these crazy mood swings,honestly i think she has a demon living in her..

now here is the thing we have 1 year old twins and i would freely let them go with her to the phillippines,,,now what can she do if her green card expires and i refuse to go any farther with the visa process???

[Otto 83]

Great First Post...

[DanielParul 50]

She can remove conditions on her own. She will have to prove that the marriage was entered in good faith and you both do have kids too.

[Anh map 2,098]

It's not your green card to let expire. She can apply for removal of conditions on her own.

Edited July 3, 2009 by Anh map

[diadromous mermaid 36]

To be pedantic, she doesn't have a need for a "visa" anymore so there isn't a visa "process" to be concerned about. A visa is used to enter the country. Once here an alien adjusts status and becomes a permanent resident with rights to remain....with or without a continuing marriage. Give her the documentation she needs to remove the conditions on her green card without you, a smooth divorce, plenty of child support and move on.

in short want to send the crazy,immature,selfcentered woman home before she betrays me,her 2 year green card is going to expire and i and going to let it...i have tryed everything marrage counceling,having family members talk to her but she continues to have these crazy mood swings,honestly i think she has a demon living in her..

now here is the thing we have 1 year old twins and i would freely let them go with her to the phillippines,,,now what can she do if her green card expires and i refuse to go any farther with the visa process???

[Heidelberg 0]

wont she need money for the fee's,??,i control the money..at this point the only money she will get is enough for one way plane tickets and monthy payment for the kids

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Sounds like you control more than just the money.....

wont she need money for the fee's,??,i control the money..at this point the only money she will get is enough for one way plane tickets and monthy payment for the kids

[rebeccajo 14]

wont she need money for the fee's,??,i control the money..at this point the only money she will get is enough for one way plane tickets and monthy payment for the kids

The phrase "throwing the bab(ies) out with the bathwater" springs to mind...............

[Anh map 2,098]

You are one tough hombre.

Why not just divorce and move on from the marriage?

[NArocks 13]

in short want to send the crazy,immature,selfcentered woman home before she betrays me,her 2 year green card is going to expire and i and going to let it...i have tryed everything marrage counceling,having family members talk to her but she continues to have these crazy mood swings,honestly i think she has a demon living in her..

now here is the thing we have 1 year old twins and i would freely let them go with her to the phillippines,,,now what can she do if her green card expires and i refuse to go any farther with the visa process???

So she has demon and you are willing to let your children go? Bud you need to look at this picture, first of all she can go to catholic charities especially with 2 babies and I am sure she can get help.

i control the money

You look a little controlling just from this post. How easy for you to just say back to your country? #######

monthy payment for the kids

or is the fact that by her living in another country it would be cheaper for you to support the children who have nothing to do with the way the relationship turned out?

before she betrays me

Seriously you may want to seek some type of help my good man Edited July 3, 2009 by NArocks

[sjr09 155]

in short want to send the crazy,immature,selfcentered woman home before she betrays me,her 2 year green card is going to expire and i and going to let it...i have tryed everything marrage counceling,having family members talk to her but she continues to have these crazy mood swings,honestly i think she has a demon living in her..

now here is the thing we have 1 year old twins and i would freely let them go with her to the phillippines,,,now what can she do if her green card expires and i refuse to go any farther with the visa process???

Wow! " we have 1 year old twins and I would freely let them go with her to the Philippines" Who's immature and selfcentered? Not much of a father or a man.

[john & jean 37]

TROLL MUCH?

[NArocks 13]

TROLL MUCH?

Thinking the same thing, member since 06 and this is the first post???????

[nowhereman 1]

in short want to send the crazy,immature,selfcentered woman home before she betrays me,her 2 year green card is going to expire and i and going to let it...i have tryed everything marrage counceling,having family members talk to her but she continues to have these crazy mood swings,honestly i think she has a demon living in her..

now here is the thing we have 1 year old twins and i would freely let them go with her to the phillippines,,,now what can she do if her green card expires and i refuse to go any farther with the visa process???

Wow! " we have 1 year old twins and I would freely let them go with her to the Philippines" Who's immature and selfcentered? Not much of a father or a man.

Especially if she is "crazy" as this guy suggests. Based on the OP's comments I'm guessing he's a few fries short of a happy meal.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

wont she need money for the fee's,??,i control the money..at this point the only money she will get is enough for one way plane tickets and monthy payment for the kids

Oh, yeah, that would do it. Hmmm, me thinks I have found the source of the demon.