Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part16)

[phillyfashionista 8]

KK - I took a yoga class in 105 degrees. It's hot hot hot in my belly dance class.....it's good for you.

Why I don't have a stalker

Shemmy Hush are you serious 105 degrees? Well the upside is I am sure you lost some water weight during that workout LOL

Trust me you don't want a stalker they are way to much trouble!

[dancehallquana 5]

Ok I just laughed out loud at work haaaaaa maybe he can get rid of her Demon!!!!!!

He used to sing this pum pum song to me ( remember he is nuts) He is Trini and plays the steel drums and remixed one of his band's songs and sang about pum pum I saved it on my phone if I needed it for any type of proof

DUDE... PLEASE get a life..

[*JG* 2]

Thanks Quana, Anthony is super competitive... I was teaching him how to bowl and half way thru he flip the script cause we were losing start telling me ur frame is good but you need to throw the ball a little harder.... I tell people all the time he is shy if you want to see the other side of him just wip out some cards, dominoes or any game and he turns into a different person!!!....

Hubby is the same way. Other couples stopped inviting us to pay games...he whips everyone in EVERY game....including basketball and bowling which he only played once He really whips my behind in air hocky Way too competitive...no sympathy. That's why we don't have a WII...

on the air hockey.. NO WAY.. roger need more practice... i said come on keeper.. ya know how fi guard ya hole gainst dis STRIKER!!!!!!

u know...u say no sympathy.. why do this oh so sensitive and loving man laugh EVERYTIME i cry at a movie???

him FALL OUT bawl and laugh like dis .. he look for me to cry now so he can laugh LOL>. i told him NO MORE sad movies w/ him, i will have to find me a boyfriend #2 to watch with.. oh well, everything can't be perfect..

I need to play them in air hockey. Last time I played, the puck hit my finger and gashed it. I was bleeding all over the floor. I refused to quit playing cause I was winning.

[finesse 3]

Okay I can't do this sidekick ish so I'm on the ells list until I can get to a regular comp so I would have a lot of catchin up to do I'm double and triple postin the same thing oh heck naw thanks everyone I'm trying to keep my head up quanna u r right cause I thought the same thing imma talk to a lawyer, dara listen I'm not goin to the libary to use they comp lmao lmao

lawya fi wha? wha mi miss?

u chat bout her runon sentence han ya nuh read ie????? lol

i skip over half of it cuz i thought mi head was gonna explode...

[dancehallquana 5]

Thanks Quana, Anthony is super competitive... I was teaching him how to bowl and half way thru he flip the script cause we were losing start telling me ur frame is good but you need to throw the ball a little harder.... I tell people all the time he is shy if you want to see the other side of him just wip out some cards, dominoes or any game and he turns into a different person!!!....

Hubby is the same way. Other couples stopped inviting us to pay games...he whips everyone in EVERY game....including basketball and bowling which he only played once He really whips my behind in air hocky Way too competitive...no sympathy. That's why we don't have a WII...

on the air hockey.. NO WAY.. roger need more practice... i said come on keeper.. ya know how fi guard ya hole gainst dis STRIKER!!!!!!

u know...u say no sympathy.. why do this oh so sensitive and loving man laugh EVERYTIME i cry at a movie???

him FALL OUT bawl and laugh like dis .. he look for me to cry now so he can laugh LOL>. i told him NO MORE sad movies w/ him, i will have to find me a boyfriend #2 to watch with.. oh well, everything can't be perfect..

I need to play them in air hockey. Last time I played, the puck hit my finger and gashed it. I was bleeding all over the floor. I refused to quit playing cause I was winning.

DYAM JG.. i think blood would have stopped me LOL but i was murdering him.. i kept putting that puck in on the first hit.. roger didn't have a chance..

it WAS his first time, but hey. victory is victory!!!!

[phillyfashionista 8]

Now that Hubby is here he won't just come to the house and sit in front of the door for hours like he has an invisible car like Wonder Woman's Jet ( umm dude I see you out there you are not really on the highway as you claim to be while talking on the cell you are right in front of the door!!!!) When he kept calling the house phone , cell phone, hang up, house phone cell phone and Hubby picked up and he heard that voice he stopped calling me and called my Mother!!!!!! She told him to he needs to pray when she told me that I fell out JG this man is really touched he used to tell me I had a Demon blocking my emotions that's why I wouldn't let him in emotionally! :blink: Ummm nooooooooooooooooo that was not the reason!!!!!!!

lol.. dont u hate when u have a saved and sactified stalker LOL chat bout invisible jet.. so he would be talking to u from outside ur house and say he was on the hwy.. omg..

Quanna this comment made my day!

Yes girl he was right outside the whole time and in front of the house at that, he was as bad as my Fat @zz Baby Daddy hiding in the naked bush with no leaves! Dude I can see you!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

ya;'ll have a blessed weekend, will miss you all...going to pick up my son's birthday cake, it's a Jamaican Flag, if you ask my son where he was born he says, Trelawny, Jamaica! which much pride...whenever he gets money for his birthday, he ask me what I want him to buy. So, I tell him buy what you want and he says, no I have to buy something for my mommy. I pray he never changes.

Gosh, didn't know I could love someone so much, my son is my sunshine!

[dancehallquana 5]

KK - I took a yoga class in 105 degrees. It's hot hot hot in my belly dance class.....it's good for you.

Why I don't have a stalker

Shemmy Hush are you serious 105 degrees? Well the upside is I am sure you lost some water weight during that workout LOL

Trust me you don't want a stalker they are way to much trouble!

shemmyman.. yoga is too hard already than trying to do it in 105 degrees LOL

i don't mind sweating, when i go dancing, wata is running down my face.. the guys are trying to get me napkins and wipe my head..im like.. "IM GOOD" it looks worse than it feels i guess LOL

[phillyfashionista 8]

Ok I just laughed out loud at work haaaaaa maybe he can get rid of her Demon!!!!!!

He used to sing this pum pum song to me ( remember he is nuts) He is Trini and plays the steel drums and remixed one of his band's songs and sang about pum pum I saved it on my phone if I needed it for any type of proof

DUDE... PLEASE get a life..

Yuh see it?

I am supposed to be doing all these Visio diagrams I can't even concentrate today! I can't wait to get home and hear about my Hubby's 1st day at work! You know I keep calling him right LOL

[finesse 3]

Now that Hubby is here he won't just come to the house and sit in front of the door for hours like he has an invisible car like Wonder Woman's Jet ( umm dude I see you out there you are not really on the highway as you claim to be while talking on the cell you are right in front of the door!!!!) When he kept calling the house phone , cell phone, hang up, house phone cell phone and Hubby picked up and he heard that voice he stopped calling me and called my Mother!!!!!! She told him to he needs to pray when she told me that I fell out JG this man is really touched he used to tell me I had a Demon blocking my emotions that's why I wouldn't let him in emotionally! :blink: Ummm nooooooooooooooooo that was not the reason!!!!!!!

lol.. dont u hate when u have a saved and sactified stalker LOL chat bout invisible jet.. so he would be talking to u from outside ur house and say he was on the hwy.. omg..

Quanna this comment made my day!

Yes girl he was right outside the whole time and in front of the house at that, he was as bad as my Fat @zz Baby Daddy hiding in the naked bush with no leaves! Dude I can see you!

damn philly, what were you doing to these men to make them cannot live without you???

Edited July 10, 2009 by finesse

[Ellsinlove 2]

Afternoon Yardies!

Its funny that we share some adjustment storeis today cause when I go to work this morning and saw it was 7/9 I was like huh its our 7months POE anniversay, I should write and update onf VJ.....

I normally don't share too much but my hubby is very private and don't like it when i share our issues or anything.. and since we have met and become friends with some of the yardies that makes it worst. But I will share some.

A and I have fun together we play like children... and I do mean children.. we play hide and seek in the house (don't laugh) we chase each other around, sometimes I feel like we need adult supervision...

90% of the time we are fantastic its the other 10% that's been our challenge and it one issue only..... work/school

A is currently in school I have no issues with being the sole provider while he is in school cause moving from NY to NC has saved us so much money and reduce our expense drastically... When he first got here I got the GED book for him and figure he could study it and within 3 months take the test and move on to some other trade school.... well that has not being the case.. I know he went to school in JA and I did too and the education I got there waas above the one I received when I got here... So I was thinking this would just be a refresher for him but it seem like he went to school and didn't really pay too much attention so alot of things I thought he should know he didn't. So I got fustrated with helping him and he did too with me helping him.. So now he is in school 3 day a week.

Well the other part of our issues comes up with work because A has been working since he was 18 and he has not work for the past 7 months again I have no issues with it cause I want him to focus on getting the GED it would be nice if he had a PT job and can get out the house more during the day. Well ever couple of weeks are so he really gets depress about not working and me being the sole provider (financially) when he gets like that I remind him of everything we have achieve and how it would not have been possible for me to have done it without him... but sometimes that just not enough to get him out the funk, I have had to call his best friend in JA for him to talk to him once cause he was just so down and nothing I did made him feel better... He said he would have waited in JA longer if he knew it would take him this long to find a job... I try to remind him of the ppl I know with college degrees that don't have a job and the ppl he know in JA that did the same line of work he did and have since passed away...

But when he gets like that he constantly asked me if he is causing me added stress with him not working.... which I told him is very annoying cause i have told him no time and time again.... Then I feel like when he gets like this he don't focus on school which makes me mad..... I tell him to focus on the things he can control and leave the rest to God...

One of our other issues was my mouth I am very sarcastic and he does take things literally so I had to watch how I respond to certain things and he had to learn not to always take me literally...

Love how you guys play like kids....we do that too....get into tickle fights all the time until I can't even breathe & he has to stop. I can really relate to the part where your mister went to school but it seems like he didn't pay attention. My mister claims he got as far as the 9th grade but he's really starting from the very beginning more or less. He also wants to get a part-time job ASAP but I told him as much as I'd like the financial help, I'm worried he'll get too focused on the job & start thinking he can do without education again & that's where I really want his main focus to be. Right now mister is also in school 3 days a week but I want him to progress to the 4 days a week course but I'm not pushing him much at the moment. Pretty soon I'll be expecting some serious commitment to his educational goals though.

any strong man with any amount of pride and dignity is going to feel depressed about not working. and months and months of it can really take its toll. until my husband got his EAD and was able to work he felt the same way. he cried about it. everytime i would sit down to write out the bills or pull out money from the atm or buy anything at the store he would just hang his head. there was nothing i could do or say to make him feel better about it. put yourself in his shoes. be thankful that he recognizes how hard you work and loves you enough to feel like ####### because right now he cannot do the same. A job will come.

i'll never forget my husbands first paycheck. he came home with a diamond chain and flowers for me. i cried....not because i thougth it was so sweet but because i knew it meant so much to him to be able to give something to me. hang in there.

We went thru that tooo.. but didn't want to put all that out there... yeah you know we open a join acct and he has a debit card, so he can have acess to money if he needs something.. well after a few months I notice he would never go in the acct and take money for nothing unless I ask him to go to the bank for me.. ... So the other day when KK mention that they did allowance I decided to try this and ask him how he feels about it he shrugg and said ok... So instead of just having our whatever money sit in the bank we pull a certain amount each month and split it and we both get to use it for whateve with out questions... I came home money and he went to the supermarket and purchase every kinda berry they have... blueberry, strawberry rasberry... if it ended in berry he got it I just shook my head...

But you are right it does hurt his pride and dignity.... I remeber when someone in JA spend him some money they owe him, he went and full the tank got himself a case of beer put the rest in the acct and he just couldn't stop smiling.....!!! He felt so good he was able to do something for a change!!!

That's such a sweet story finesse about your mister's first paycheck!

@ the berries!

morning yardies

TIRED very tired!

finese a who wake you...I feel like eating some bammi and fry fish

ME TOO!!

Yesterday was my son's 17th birthday. He called my brother, went to his work, they walked across the street to the cemetary and had lunch at my grandmother's grave. My grandmother would've been 92 yesterday. My son was born on her 75th birthday. They were very close. I teared up.

Shemmy,

Beres Hammond and Culture -- mi no know who else is suppose to be at wolftrap

a lot of things going on this weekend

the Jamaican family fun day is up on my end this Sunday

I know. There's some Jamaican Reggae thingy going on in Anne Arudel Sunday. Damien said he is not paying $30 to look at Yellow Man ugly face

I think he's going to give in to see Beres Hammond. He's never been to Wolftrap.

That is hilarious! I did just read about Yellowman so it's sad why he looks that way but still funny what Damien said.

No, I won't. But, I am dating...2 guys right now.

[finesse 3]

Ok I just laughed out loud at work haaaaaa maybe he can get rid of her Demon!!!!!!

He used to sing this pum pum song to me ( remember he is nuts) He is Trini and plays the steel drums and remixed one of his band's songs and sang about pum pum I saved it on my phone if I needed it for any type of proof

DUDE... PLEASE get a life..

Yuh see it?

I am supposed to be doing all these Visio diagrams I can't even concentrate today! I can't wait to get home and hear about my Hubby's 1st day at work! You know I keep calling him right LOL

we wan hear bout it too!

[dancehallquana 5]

Okay I can't do this sidekick ish so I'm on the ells list until I can get to a regular comp so I would have a lot of catchin up to do I'm double and triple postin the same thing oh heck naw thanks everyone I'm trying to keep my head up quanna u r right cause I thought the same thing imma talk to a lawyer, dara listen I'm not goin to the libary to use they comp lmao lmao

lawya fi wha? wha mi miss?

u chat bout her runon sentence han ya nuh read ie????? lol

i skip over half of it cuz i thought mi head was gonna explode...

finesse.. ya nuh heasy at ALL!!!!! are u and kimmy cousins LOL..

okay.. newly got fired cuz she told her boss she didn't know a person, that they later found out she knew..

[phillyfashionista 8]

ya;'ll have a blessed weekend, will miss you all...going to pick up my son's birthday cake, it's a Jamaican Flag, if you ask my son where he was born he says, Trelawny, Jamaica! which much pride...whenever he gets money for his birthday, he ask me what I want him to buy. So, I tell him buy what you want and he says, no I have to buy something for my mommy. I pray he never changes.

Gosh, didn't know I could love someone so much, my son is my sunshine!

Oh Lawny this warms my Heart! Happy Bawn Day to the Lil man! Enjoy your weekend!

[Shemmy 4]

KK - I took a yoga class in 105 degrees. It's hot hot hot in my belly dance class.....it's good for you.

Why I don't have a stalker

Shemmy Hush are you serious 105 degrees? Well the upside is I am sure you lost some water weight during that workout LOL

Trust me you don't want a stalker they are way to much trouble!

Yeah but it's hard to hold poses because your entire body is wet...I definitely felt every McDonald french frie I've ever eaten came outta my pores.

The instructor turned the heat down to 95 but this was skinny lady was complaining she was cold Boy I wanted to kick her in back her neck