Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part16)

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

finese a who wake you...I feel like eating some bammi and fry fish

di dyam alarm!! and i got my son at work with me. i already got him shredding paper

I do that too. My co-workers love my son, the last time they saw him he was 2 and someone went and bought a beach ball and you know they were in one of the conference rooms playing football...the big boss at that

SUS where are you I need a photo today, something to free my mind

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

lmao finesse i bet your son is having a ball shredding

[phillyfashionista 8]

Morning Ladies Happy Friday!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Morning Ladies Happy Friday!

Hi Philly; how are you doing, hubby and the boys?

[Shemmy 4]

Wow...took me all night to catch up.

Quana..ur my VJ soulmate...hahahaha...demanding American food night...hahahahaha

Lovesponge - I'm wishing you the best. Love is in the Air. Jagged Edge's song..Let's get married comes to mind.

Jomo = Strength....ur a powerful and strong WOMAN!!!

Ells - (((hugs)))

Shemmy - We might go to concert in Baltimore, July 30th.

Which concert? The Baltimore Caribbean carnival is this weekend too.

Good morning VJ.

[sus 70]

SUS where are you I need a photo today, something to free my mind

[dancehallquana 5]

good morning ALL!!!

i got my chili dogs last night.. really didn't have anything else to eat LOL.. that man have used up all my seasonings in 3 weeks and i have had them things since i moved there 4 MNTHS AGO DYAAAMMMMM..

i am sad, well going shopping today.. PAY DAY YAAYYYYYY

anyhoo.. on the ganga.. i never knew anyone to smoke that growing up.. only one person in my adult life, so its not something that i would like to deal w/ day to day, but to each his own.. it sounds like many of the women are ok w/ what their men do, its just when it becomes a hinderance in the relationship.. ANYTHING good or bad that breaks down our relationship should be dealt with and jomo didn't do that..

shoot jg even gave him an allowance for it and that right there can get PLAYED out.. i don't drink. but i know Roger does, he doesn't do it alot so i am ok.. him being here tho.. i have to fit the bill and i understood that b4 he came, BUT this being something i never had to budget, its def an adjustment for me..

i try and get him 6 pack of guinness and he is good about spreading that throughout the week..

i also thought of mrs p when jawi asked the question.. her story is what made me change my mind about the way i thought.. if something was totally out of our control and kept us in a LDR for a unknown amount of time.. i don't think i would be so quick to move on now.. i don't think LOL

[*JG* 2]

once again my chair is vibrating

Ha ha....no comment

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Shemmy,

Beres Hammond and Culture -- mi no know who else is suppose to be at wolftrap

a lot of things going on this weekend

the Jamaican family fun day is up on my end this Sunday

[dancehallquana 5]

portland.. i feel ur pain.. i try to hip roger to the bad economy, he is always talking bout working when he get her too jawi.. oh i can't wait.. i hope i dont be outta work for a while.. im like TRUSS MI.. u are.. i try and give him examples and he say.. "di cat and puss nuh ave di same luck"

alright then.. i got a saying too.. "u don't believe fat meat is greasy" LOL

he is getting a lil frustrated even now sitting at home.. i told him and TRIED to beat it in his head how it was gonna be hard staying at home all day.. UGHH.. Roger has it soo bad about tryng to be so optimistic and not looking at the reality of it, so yesterday i saw it in his eyes, esp i guess cuz the cable is off

i asked him if he wanted to go home early that we could change his ticket.. i work 6 days a week and really can't compensate all his alone time in the afternoons cuz the kids have to have their time too.. but he says he isn't ready to leave me yet.. we'll see..

portland i think u and ur hubby are soooo cute.. when roger and i went bowling.. i kept thinking bout ur FB pics LOL

[*JG* 2]

Comfort him if you feel the need or even say something to them at work; but don't say anything that will reflect badly on you if it gets out when he's pissed and spills you said it.

Thank you all for being blunt and telling me to stay out of it! I will listen and stay my black azz over in my own yard I promise. The part that got to me is that he does not know that his friend is the one who made him not get the job. Anyway, you are right.

I know you want to help and you hate the injustice. People don't think when they get ticked off. They just talk. YOU are still at that company. He's isn't. He has nothing to lose. You could be blackballed. Wish it weren't so. People are so petty sometimes.

[^KK^ 3]

Wow...took me all night to catch up.

Quana..ur my VJ soulmate...hahahaha...demanding American food night...hahahahaha

Lovesponge - I'm wishing you the best. Love is in the Air. Jagged Edge's song..Let's get married comes to mind.

Jomo = Strength....ur a powerful and strong WOMAN!!!

Ells - (((hugs)))

Shemmy - We might go to concert in Baltimore, July 30th.

Which concert? The Baltimore Caribbean carnival is this weekend too.

Good morning VJ.

Let me go check..but I thought the Bere Hammond concert will be at Rams Head Live in Baltimore on the 30th.

[sus 70]

do you guys beleive its unrealistic for ppl of certain differing cultures to try to make a marriage work? i know different strokes for different folks but do u think its highly unlikely that ppl from certain cultures will last long as a union?

I don't think it's unrealistic at all - I think what gets unrealistic is when one culture demands that the other culture adapts all of its ways - I think that you have to work together as a couple, and find a compromise that will blend both of your cultures together in a way that works for you.

For example (and I know this is on a much smaller scale) - My family has a mix of Italian (my godfather), and Polish and Irish - We always spent Easter together growing up - As a result, we have raviolis, the traditional ham dinner, then kielbasa and hard boiled eggs with horse radish -

[*JG* 2]

I think today is the day I spill my guts cause it fits this conversation. Those that already know this, thanks for listening to my vents and having such strong shoulders. Those who don't.....well, maybe this can help you one day.

Don't mourn for me. I am fine. In fact, my friends and family will tell you I am happier today then I have been in a long time. I have moved on and life is good. I don't live every day in fear cause of his stupidity anymore. And, I'm not lonely anymore.

All jokes aside. I am freaking proud of you! Your strength will continue to inspire me. Love you girl and I got your back!

Right back at you!

[^KK^ 3]

morning yardies

TIRED very tired!

We can only imagine why...

DaDa - U see.... Nat is coming on out of that shell...