Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part16)

[dancehallquana 5]

morning everyone!! sorry i just took off yesterday. i had a date with my husband and we went shopping.....note to self: when shopping for home furnishings, go by yourself

I love shopping with my husband.

Side note: My husband doesn't like the term wifey...he thinks it's disrepectful. So I think I'll use husband for now.

Just my thought.

so u have been calling your husband wifey?

Fact: No we were talking and I said something about someone being my friends wifey..and he went on spill on how he felt about the word.

Fact: He definitely doesn't like the word DUDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i love spills.. my mom went on one today about having a mate that is financially equal to u.. hmm, did she not see what happened the last time i did that LMAO!!!!!!!!!

[MrsBuggy 0]

Morning Quana, Dada, KK, Stone, Legz & Sus!! I made it to work today.. was out sick yesterday.

QUANA... what are we doing this weekend???????

oops, i missed Finesse!!

[^KK^ 3]

i love spills.. my mom went on one today about having a mate that is financially equal to u.. hmm, did she not see what happened the last time i did that LMAO!!!!!!!!!

Quana - that is always hard spill. I mean ...sometimes people have to chose between being financially Happy and unhappy or financial stable and Happy.

Which brings me the the spill my husband had yesterday during dinner. I asked about one of his friend - He says Money can be a bless or sometime a curse. You gotta be careful.

Awh...mi luv em.

Morning Quana, Dada, KK, Stone, Legz & Sus!! I made it to work today.. was out sick yesterday.

QUANA... what are we doing this weekend???????

oops, i missed Finesse!!

Hi MrsBuggy,

I hope that you feel better.

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LIST OF KIMMY'S DISLIKES

LIKES

DUDE IS MY WORD..BUT I DON'T CALL MY HUSBAND DUDE

MANGOES

GUINEPS

WHEN MY HUSBAND SAYS..MI WIFE SEXY ENUH..AND HE WATCHES ME WALK AWAY..HEHHE

DISLIKES

BRAGGING

FOOLISHNESS

DUMB PPL

THERE'S MORE..MI A TINK

[^KK^ 3]

Disclaimer* I'm only going to post one quote today. Here it goes:

VERSE:Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.-- 1 Corinthians 13:6

THOUGHT:Love does have its delights. One of those delights is in what is authentic and genuine -- TRUTH! So as Jesus' disciples, we are not deceitful, manipulative, or coercive in our relationships. Instead,we are transparent, intimate, and honest. Why? Because true love delights in truth.

PRAYER:O LORD, God of love and truth, as you pour your love into myheart through your Holy Spirit, please refine my love to be genuine and true, without guile, manipulation, and deceit. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

LIST OF KIMMY'S DISLIKES

LIKES

DUDE IS MY WORD..BUT I DON'T CALL MY HUSBAND DUDE

MANGOES

GUINEPS

WHEN MY HUSBAND SAYS..MI WIFE SEXY ENUH..AND HE WATCHES ME WALK AWAY..HEHHE

DISLIKES

BRAGGING

FOOLISHNESS

DUMB PPL

THERE'S MORE..MI A TINK

So you don't have any fruits that you dislike?

[dancehallquana 5]

hey buggy boo.. not much this weekend... gonna go to work sat morn

my friend tell me bout this place called beamers w/ free buffet.. i might check it out 2night w/out roger.. haven't been out alone in a min..

i think roger was interested in going to the jamaican indep dance at the grill sat night..

mek mi knoa wus up, if ya'll wanna cook or somthing, i think my kids will be at the outlaws..

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HEY MRS BUG..WAH GWAAN..HOW TINGS

[finesse 3]

finesse still tiyad from shop wid hubby..

i don't htink hubby is like wifey.. hubby is good right LOL

mi husband wan fi decorate di dyam house in some sort of pimped out bachelor pad style (he been watching too much mtv cribs)....and mi ave a more natural type pottery barn crate n barrel style

we gave up and came home to di rum cream...

[dancehallquana 5]

kk u right.. thats something i am totally ready to accept i want to be happy and as long as he not selling my possessions for drugs or have me begging in the streets.. i know he is a good man and she knows it too. she (like anyother mom) just sees so much for her daughters.. the fancy cars, the big houses, the lavish possessions and vacations.. i told her i am gonna be okay..

[finesse 3]

Dada - I'm confused...

here is what i got from the story...

you had a man in JA for 2 years who was a con artist but chose another woman over you because she gave him money and you didn't...so what exactly was he using you for?

and now u found a new man but you are still married?

U get a star for the day!!!!

Yes I'm still married. Me and hubby have been separated for almost two years now. I was so unhappy in my marriage for the longest. Now ladies don’t get the wrong impression I really am a faithful loving girl when you have me you have my all so that is what I gave my husband my all but he never gave me his back. I was more like his mother then his wife. So we have been going at it but truth be told Roc was what made me leave him. I accidentally met Roc when I went down JA for my dad's 60 birthday and at first me and Roc were just friends yes I was sneaking and calling him and what not and we formed a friendship because my feelings for him was so strong I was scared. But with Roc he showed me how I should be treated. The attention the connection the way he listened to me and we could talk about everything the way I had problems and he helped me solve them. It was mad crazy and he gave me the courage to leave my husband. See I met my husband young so as a woman I never knew what I wanted from a man I just took what my husband gave me and rolled with it but Roc showed me what I desired and I knew how I liked to be treated and I refuse to settle for anything less. So BOOM I leaves hubby he's distraught begging pleading crying and asked me to go to counseling. So I cut EVEYTHING OFF with Roc and tried to make it work with hubby. Nope in my heart I couldn’t do it and I missed Roc terribly but in my I figured I would give it one more chance because I thought my hubby was serious and wanted to make it work but it was just too little to late. So I told hubby what I felt we continued to stay separated and now I'm filing for divorcee but Hubby refused to sign the papers so i have to sit the two years out until its finalized.

Honestly the only thing I lost with Roc was love. I think what happened with Roc was probably he heard what he COULD be getting out of me. Maybe times did get tuff and he knew I wasn’t nor could I afford to help him so maybe he met someone else who is more financially stable then me and can spend a little more cash on him Dada doesn’t HAVE it and so he has moved on with her. He did hit a hard spot. Because of his attitude he left a really good job for a crappy one and got paid less but had to do more work and I guess the girl with money who was willing to help him out just looked better in his eyes to him. I cant tell you because I haven’t heard this from Roc or any of his friends it came from a third party.

sounds messy......i guess u live and u learn....glad u have moved on....everyone deserves happiness

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Disclaimer* I'm only going to post one quote today. Here it goes:

VERSE:Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.-- 1 Corinthians 13:6

THOUGHT:Love does have its delights. One of those delights is in what is authentic and genuine -- TRUTH! So as Jesus' disciples, we are not deceitful, manipulative, or coercive in our relationships. Instead,we are transparent, intimate, and honest. Why? Because true love delights in truth.

PRAYER:O LORD, God of love and truth, as you pour your love into myheart through your Holy Spirit, please refine my love to be genuine and true, without guile, manipulation, and deceit. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

LIST OF KIMMY'S DISLIKES

So you don't have any fruits that you dislike?

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So you don't have any fruits that you dislike?

LIKES

DUDE IS MY WORD..BUT I DON'T CALL MY HUSBAND DUDE

MANGOES

GUINEPS

WHEN MY HUSBAND SAYS..MI WIFE SEXY ENUH..AND HE WATCHES ME WALK AWAY..HEHHE

DISLIKES

BRAGGING

FOOLISHNESS

DUMB PPL

PAPAYA

GRAPEFRUIT

[^KK^ 3]

finesse still tiyad from shop wid hubby..

i don't htink hubby is like wifey.. hubby is good right LOL

mi husband wan fi decorate di dyam house in some sort of pimped out bachelor pad style (he been watching too much mtv cribs)....and mi ave a more natural type pottery barn crate n barrel style

we gave up and came home to di rum cream...

Finesse - I just gave my husband the basement to furnish how he please. It doesn't look too bad. He want to paint it over again..he doesn't like the color I pick last year now..and wants to change it.

[^KK^ 3]

kk u right.. thats something i am totally ready to accept i want to be happy and as long as he not selling my possessions for drugs or have me begging in the streets.. i know he is a good man and she knows it too. she (like anyother mom) just sees so much for her daughters.. the fancy cars, the big houses, the lavish possessions and vacations.. i told her i am gonna be okay..

Quana - you can still have both. You neva know what God has in store for you and Roger. The sky is the limit.

[dancehallquana 5]

LIST OF KIMMY'S DISLIKES

LIKES

DUDE IS MY WORD..BUT I DON'T CALL MY HUSBAND DUDE

MANGOES

GUINEPS

WHEN MY HUSBAND SAYS..MI WIFE SEXY ENUH..AND HE WATCHES ME WALK AWAY..HEHHEDISLIKES

BRAGGING

FOOLISHNESS

DUMB PPL

THERE'S MORE..MI A TINK

ewwww...

finesse still tiyad from shop wid hubby..

i don't htink hubby is like wifey.. hubby is good right LOL

mi husband wan fi decorate di dyam house in some sort of pimped out bachelor pad style (he been watching too much mtv cribs)....and mi ave a more natural type pottery barn crate n barrel style

we gave up and came home to di rum cream...

hmm, maybe he can have a room or two and u have a room.. u can have different motifs and everybody happy??

[finesse 3]

finesse still tiyad from shop wid hubby..

i don't htink hubby is like wifey.. hubby is good right LOL

mi husband wan fi decorate di dyam house in some sort of pimped out bachelor pad style (he been watching too much mtv cribs)....and mi ave a more natural type pottery barn crate n barrel style

we gave up and came home to di rum cream...

Finesse - I just gave my husband the basement to furnish how he please. It doesn't look too bad. He want to paint it over again..he doesn't like the color I pick last year now..and wants to change it.

that what i was thinking....our basement only partially finished and right now it is full of ####### (not literally.... just used for storage)...i better get the rest finished and organized before i come home to pool table instead of the dining room table....