Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part16)

[MRStee 19]

Good night everyone!

[DaDa 1]

Dada - So that's all the info she could offer. Does she know what happened?

On onodda note..what mek dem nat jon VJ.com? If dem ave Yaad man.....

Because he's not truly her man just yet. She's waitng for him to be her man once he leaves his wife who he married to come to the states.. Oops I know Quana is going to be vexed wid me let me shut up... See KK you're getting me in trouble.

Really Dada - how could someone do that? She really thinks he is going to go through it and leave the wife? Is she sending him money? Maybe he is using her for money?

Man that is just messed up. I know of people that this has happened to. It's not a good feeling.

Mi nah lik ow u frend stay..

Well the way it went down was she met him in JA but he had already swindled some woman into marrying him but he didn’t tell her. So he brought his sorry rass ova to the sates and came to see her first but told her he had family in his another state that he had to go visit. It was another one of our friends who opened her eyes like family my rass that boy is living with a woman. Well after some detective work she found out our other friend was right and that he did have a wife. He has been with the wife for two years and once on paper he was supposed to leave her and come live with our friend well Quana's friend..lol but he now wants to bring his family ova so he had to stick it out another year which she is letting him do. The only reason why I show no sympathy is because the wife knows about our friend and she ignores it as if its not happening. Sorry but when they went to the interview if I was the wife I wouldn’t have went nor would I have showed any evidence or got my family to vouch for you. Now if I we just couldn’t get along and we parted as friends fine I'll help you what the heck but if you have been cheating on me the whole time hecks no!!!!!

[NatPatBen 3]

DaDa, I find that story semi-depressing. I wish all men were honest and all women were strong enough to be alone if the alternative is being with a no-good dude.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Ok i think i'm gonna get on fb

i think nat had a spreadsheet of fb names

i'm thinking of a screen name cuz i'm not too keen on using my govt name

Edited August 6, 2009 by Bunzarelli

[^KK^ 3]

HELLOO??? ( anyone home)

Hey Ladies,

Wha gwaan? Just decided to stop back thru to say Hello. All is well with me.. my Journey is done, kaput, gone.. but im okay with it. I have prayed, cried and at the end of the day, did what benefitted me the best. I hope everyone is doing well!!! Though there is no more mister and i have a damn size 14 wedding dress i cant get rid of, JA soon come again, cause one monkey dont stop my show.

Be blessed ladies

Hey Honey...u come on and bounce right off.

[NatPatBen 3]

Ok i think i'm gonna get on fb

i think nat had a spreadsheet of fb names

i'm thinking of a screen name cuz i'm not too keen on using my govt name

lol @ govt name

What's causing the change of heart?

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

boredom and restlessness i guess

[^KK^ 3]

Jawi - I typed a whole message to you and then just decided to erase it.

I'm now waiting on what it is that God has in store for you. Keep your faith and call on God's name.

I know I kid around on this thread a lot...but you situation is really sitting heavily on my heart this evening. Soon you'll look back and say..God is in control.

God bless.

[DaDa 1]

Bunz my mom is there and the hospital staff know us by name, my grandmother is just ready to give up and go one...she says she's tired.

I know that tired feeling and I haven't lived half as long or experienced half of what she has. Your grandmother is in my prayers...but I'm ready to give up too. I'm not even excited about A coming. I just want out of this pain any way possible. I have enough pills to end it.

Whooo I don't like how this sounds. I know you’re in pain. Lately I have been experiencing the worst back pain and I'm miserable. Its so hard getting out of bed, driving, walking let alone doing laundry and being a mother of four I have no time to not be mobile. Now I know my pain compares nothing to yours but I'm simply saying life does through some punches your way and then my finances are out of control and the list just goes on and on I’m telling you life is throwing me for a loop right now but as hard as it is I'm trying to keep my head up and even though it hurts you have to too Jawi..

Man I need to stay away form VJ I haven’t even met you and I'm getting emotional typing this because I can someone how feel you. I know your repeatedly saying when will it ever end. Your a mother too so I know it’s hard dealing with this for sooo long but I know there is light at the end of the tunnel. U have only two weeks to go so the clock is ticking. I'm really hoping with A coming that will at least provide you some help at home.

Aww Jawi please stay strong and STEP AWAY FROM THE PILLS. Unless you need them.

(In my Madea voice) I would really hate for something to happen to you and the first time we meet it would be me coming to ATL to act a FOOL!!!!! Cuz girl you do something stupid and I'm going to perform....

U been warned!!!!

LOL

I'm tired of being strong and suffering. The pain is unbearable...then to have people treat you like sh*t because they think I'm faking. I tired of the looks at work....I'm tired of upper management looking at me like I'm a liability and how can they get rid of me. One day I'm okay...but it is far too many days in between when I think how easy it would be to take more than the dosage I'm supposed to. No body understands this pain because you can't see it. You can see the effects of cancer/chemo or MS or something life threatening. Besides me not being able to move like a normal person or turn my head...nobody would know what I am going through. Instead of decreasing medications...I'm getting more. These are the meds that I have on me everyday:

Valium, Percocet, Oxycotin, Gabapentin (nerve pill that I can't stop taking on my own or I can have seizures and can only take at night because it makes me off balance like my equilibrium is off)...and now Ultram ER. Oh wait I forgot Meloxicam too.

My job has messed with my paychecks...now my mortgage is late...my car note is behind...once you get behind it is hard to catch back up...I don't even have money for grocery after I got the kids school uniforms and school supplies. I know it is a test...I know that God is stronger than any problem I'm facing...and I will fight through those feelings...but I just had to get it out. I'm tired of smiling through the pain and bs...I just want to get better. I want to show those aholes at work what I'm made of...that I can wrap circles around the supervisors they decided to keep over me...but my body won't let me.

I can't even retain what I'm re-learning in training class because of the medications. One guy asked me yesterday when was I going to stop wearing my brace and get better. I said "When you loose weight fat ####!" before I could even catch myself. I thought he was a friend...he was even there when my youngest was born. Then, I find out that he was one of the main ones saying that I have been in Jamaica getting married all this time.

Thanks Quana, Ells and DaDa. Just a rough time right now.

Damn girl that is alot of meds. I hope your doc is sure about them all being taking together.No that phat sun of a bleep didn’t!!! I’m glad you still have your slick tongue. I know you was like you just don’t know how bad I wish I was in JA getting married instead of this hell hole.

Ur right I cant sympathize with the pain and I wont come with any its going to get better speeches because right now I think you don’t want to hear that ish because u know it you will u just want to rant so rant on girl rant on.

It is hard to catch up when you get behind shoot don’t I know. They looking for my car right now. I wont even tell you how they tried to come get it and I almost drove ova the tow truck at 12 midnight in a little night gown with no shoes r underwear on. He thought I came out to clean my car out. No I came to drive like a bat out of hell away but anyways I’m parking down the street and ova the hills and I’m walking miles to my house everyday. I know my neighbors are looking at me like why does she walk every day… My bills are sky high and I have to figure out how to get the school uniforms too bu I know I will think of something…I think…

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

why is fb giving me error messages?

[DaDa 1]

HELLOO??? ( anyone home)

Hey Ladies,

Wha gwaan? Just decided to stop back thru to say Hello. All is well with me.. my Journey is done, kaput, gone.. but im okay with it. I have prayed, cried and at the end of the day, did what benefitted me the best. I hope everyone is doing well!!! Though there is no more mister and i have a damn size 14 wedding dress i cant get rid of, JA soon come again, cause one monkey dont stop my show.

Be blessed ladies

I know that's right!!! Shoot hang on to it because you neva know...U might need it for the next Mr....

[^KK^ 3]

Good night everyone!

U gwan to u bed already?

Dada - So that's all the info she could offer. Does she know what happened?

On onodda note..what mek dem nat jon VJ.com? If dem ave Yaad man.....

Because he's not truly her man just yet. She's waitng for him to be her man once he leaves his wife who he married to come to the states.. Oops I know Quana is going to be vexed wid me let me shut up... See KK you're getting me in trouble.

Really Dada - how could someone do that? She really thinks he is going to go through it and leave the wife? Is she sending him money? Maybe he is using her for money?

Man that is just messed up. I know of people that this has happened to. It's not a good feeling.

Mi nah lik ow u frend stay..

Well the way it went down was she met him in JA but he had already swindled some woman into marrying him but he didn’t tell her. So he brought his sorry rass ova to the sates and came to see her first but told her he had family in his another state that he had to go visit. It was another one of our friends who opened her eyes like family my rass that boy is living with a woman. Well after some detective work she found out our other friend was right and that he did have a wife. He has been with the wife for two years and once on paper he was supposed to leave her and come live with our friend well Quana's friend..lol but he now wants to bring his family ova so he had to stick it out another year which she is letting him do. The only reason why I show no sympathy is because the wife knows about our friend and she ignores it as if its not happening. Sorry but when they went to the interview if I was the wife I wouldn’t have went nor would I have showed any evidence or got my family to vouch for you. Now if I we just couldn’t get along and we parted as friends fine I'll help you what the heck but if you have been cheating on me the whole time hecks no!!!!!

Ur friend doesn't live in Maryland does she? I'm in shock...

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Jawi - I typed a whole message to you and then just decided to erase it.

I'm now waiting on what it is that God has in store for you. Keep your faith and call on God's name.

I know I kid around on this thread a lot...but you situation is really sitting heavily on my heart this evening. Soon you'll look back and say..God is in control.

God bless.

so true

it bothers me but i have run out of comforting words to say

but you are right, she will look back knowing God was in control

[DaDa 1]

Nat how do you think Steven will adjust to your relatively sophisticated palate?

I tried to ask him just now, but he couldn't hear me over the party they're throwing for Tia...

Did she win??

U what Nat for some reson I really have a good feeling about you and Steven. I think you two are actually going to work out good.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

so i'm now on facebook (fassbook)

yay for me!

i am now in the loop