Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part16)

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Just talked to DJ's brother - He doesn't know what happened to the phone (which is still off) but said that DJ seemed to be doing better last night and was coming around and talking - he's going to go see him after work and will call me when he's there -

yyeaaaaa...i'm glad things are looking up

[finesse 3]

Thanks ladies! We need some good Yardie news NOW, approvals, babies, weddings ( positive vibes ) to all.

I don't want to add more $hit to the pot but I have a wedding in 4 days & I can't shake the cranky bug. I don't know what my problem is. I don't think it's cold feet but I do think there's something going on with me. Anyway...

It's nerves and stress Ells! You want everything to be perfect and the planning along with working full time is alot to deal with! Just take time to breathe and take it one day at a time, your special day soon come!

U know Ells - You don't seem like the Bridelliza type.

Finesse - U gone to lunch?

I guess that my clue to get back to crunching these numbers...

i went go pick up my son from my brothers house and he beg beg beg mi to stay there one more night...so i said ok. they were going for a bike ride and then to the pool. good big brother!

[SupportOAFJF 0]

He can't even help me pick out songs for the DJ or even what our 'first dance' song should be. I guess we don't really have 'our song'. For some reason, his lack of assistance with the song choices is bugging me....he was snoozing by 9:00 last night & here I am trying to gather together a list of things to give the DJ. Then he wants to wake up at 4:30 a.m. & start wiggling his foot in bed.....he almost got banished to the couch this morning.

have u picked some songs and listen to them together? with us..we always would play songs foreach other over the phone..no talking sometimes...just a couple songs..and with our wedding...my friend made me a list of songs and we went thru them together

[finesse 3]

We need another prayer!!!

At least I do.

P.S. I'm so in Love with my Hubby. And the great part is..he's so in Love with me too!!!!!!!!!!!

wha u need prayer fa?

[SupportOAFJF 0]

i went go pick up my son from my brothers house and he beg beg beg mi to stay there one more night...so i said ok. they were going for a bike ride and then to the pool. good big brother!

plus a child out a yuh hair

[MRStee 19]

Just talked to DJ's brother - He doesn't know what happened to the phone (which is still off) but said that DJ seemed to be doing better last night and was coming around and talking - he's going to go see him after work and will call me when he's there -

yyeaaaaa...i'm glad things are looking up

Thank God!

[Ellsinlove 2]

No sah! Mi nah breed! Auntie Flo is on her way out of town so I know that can't be. I'm just really tired & frustrated. Mister has been sleeping a lot lately (maybe he's depressed?) & I'm not getting the kind of input from him on some of our planning that I would like. I feel like I'm doing everything!

Oh...u really want his help on the planning?

What are you doing for the honeymoon? Trying to get preggo?

I do want help with the music....that's all I'm even asking his input on. The rest is being handled by my friend who is planning our reception. He only has to worry about what he's going to wear (& he keeps changing his mind after we've bought a 2nd set of clothes) & the little bit I'm asking his input on & so far he's not helping at all.

We aren't having a honeymoon (back to work & school on Monday) & I don't plan on removing the 'strainer' for a couple years at least. If this keeps up, I don't think I want kids.

[^KK^ 3]

He can't even help me pick out songs for the DJ or even what our 'first dance' song should be. I guess we don't really have 'our song'. For some reason, his lack of assistance with the song choices is bugging me....he was snoozing by 9:00 last night & here I am trying to gather together a list of things to give the DJ. Then he wants to wake up at 4:30 a.m. & start wiggling his foot in bed.....he almost got banished to the couch this morning.

Ells

Is this the Ells I know?

IMO, you should express how you feel to him. I know you may feel like this is something he should be doing without you asking...but sometimes people really don't know what ur expectations are. I'm sure he'll help you out.

[SupportOAFJF 0]

No sah! Mi nah breed! Auntie Flo is on her way out of town so I know that can't be. I'm just really tired & frustrated. Mister has been sleeping a lot lately (maybe he's depressed?) & I'm not getting the kind of input from him on some of our planning that I would like. I feel like I'm doing everything!

Oh...u really want his help on the planning?

What are you doing for the honeymoon? Trying to get preggo?

I do want help with the music....that's all I'm even asking his input on. The rest is being handled by my friend who is planning our reception. He only has to worry about what he's going to wear (& he keeps changing his mind after we've bought a 2nd set of clothes) & the little bit I'm asking his input on & so far he's not helping at all.

We aren't having a honeymoon (back to work & school on Monday) & I don't plan on removing the 'strainer' for a couple years at least. If this keeps up, I don't think I want kids.

wow..then why bother? then u"ll be divorced soon

[^KK^ 3]

No sah! Mi nah breed! Auntie Flo is on her way out of town so I know that can't be. I'm just really tired & frustrated. Mister has been sleeping a lot lately (maybe he's depressed?) & I'm not getting the kind of input from him on some of our planning that I would like. I feel like I'm doing everything!

Oh...u really want his help on the planning?

What are you doing for the honeymoon? Trying to get preggo?

I do want help with the music....that's all I'm even asking his input on. The rest is being handled by my friend who is planning our reception. He only has to worry about what he's going to wear (& he keeps changing his mind after we've bought a 2nd set of clothes) & the little bit I'm asking his input on & so far he's not helping at all.

We aren't having a honeymoon (back to work & school on Monday) & I don't plan on removing the 'strainer' for a couple years at least. If this keeps up, I don't think I want kids.

Ells - Relax!!!!!!

[phillyfashionista 8]

Just talked to DJ's brother - He doesn't know what happened to the phone (which is still off) but said that DJ seemed to be doing better last night and was coming around and talking - he's going to go see him after work and will call me when he's there -

Great news finally yuh got word! Good news soon reach Sus I am praying fi yuh!

He can't even help me pick out songs for the DJ or even what our 'first dance' song should be. I guess we don't really have 'our song'. For some reason, his lack of assistance with the song choices is bugging me....he was snoozing by 9:00 last night & here I am trying to gather together a list of things to give the DJ. Then he wants to wake up at 4:30 a.m. & start wiggling his foot in bed.....he almost got banished to the couch this morning.

Awwee Ells, LOL don't banish the man to the couch

[^KK^ 3]

1luv - I need some hair advise...or Mrs. Philly -

I'm thinking about getting a sew-in with no hair out. But I don't know how they can make it still look somewhat natural.

Have u ever had a full cap sew in?

[MRStee 19]

He can't even help me pick out songs for the DJ or even what our 'first dance' song should be. I guess we don't really have 'our song'. For some reason, his lack of assistance with the song choices is bugging me....he was snoozing by 9:00 last night & here I am trying to gather together a list of things to give the DJ. Then he wants to wake up at 4:30 a.m. & start wiggling his foot in bed.....he almost got banished to the couch this morning.

have u picked some songs and listen to them together? with us..we always would play songs foreach other over the phone..no talking sometimes...just a couple songs..and with our wedding...my friend made me a list of songs and we went thru them together

Maybe you should just choose a song. Think about things like the first time you met, or a special place you went together or what type of love you feel for one another and pick! Men don't take things like picking a song as seriously as we do. My SO only wanted two things for sure for us. A Sunday wedding and one close to my birthday. He said tell me what to do and I'll do it! I said just show up and I got the rest. I told him we are having 100 people at our wedding. He doesn't really drink but he said, Mi gwan need a shot of White Rum! Lol.... Im about to inherit a WONDERFUL mother in law who is on point. We work TOGETHER! She from JA and me from the States....

[Ellsinlove 2]

He can't even help me pick out songs for the DJ or even what our 'first dance' song should be. I guess we don't really have 'our song'. For some reason, his lack of assistance with the song choices is bugging me....he was snoozing by 9:00 last night & here I am trying to gather together a list of things to give the DJ. Then he wants to wake up at 4:30 a.m. & start wiggling his foot in bed.....he almost got banished to the couch this morning.

have u picked some songs and listen to them together? with us..we always would play songs foreach other over the phone..no talking sometimes...just a couple songs..and with our wedding...my friend made me a list of songs and we went thru them together

We have picked plenty of Jamaican songs but I don't know what we'll actually be able to get (although I know a couple yardie friends are helping out ). He also has suggested some of the American hip hop but he isn't giving me specifics which is what I need. I wish we'd had a list to go through, that would probably help give us some ideas but I don't think we have enough time for that now. Once I turn this list in later today, that'll be some stress off of me.

[finesse 3]

1luv - I need some hair advise...or Mrs. Philly -

I'm thinking about getting a sew-in with no hair out. But I don't know how they can make it still look somewhat natural.

Have u ever had a full cap sew in?

i can give you hair advice