Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part16)

[Jengles 0]

jengy mi si yuh wah gwaan

mi deh yah!!!

I just feel like i'm running all the time, putting out fires. mr jengs and the van had me going over the moon.

now u hail me up...help me out with some advice nuh...

yuh done know mi dey yah anytime..link mi..u dash wey mi #

Kimmy...."that's why I love you"

thank you QUANA for giving me some advice cause if is was kimmy mi a wait pon, mi would have dead...

anyhoo - now responding to Quana's advice " look bout two pages back Kimmy and you will see my posts"

she calls him on his cellphone..first she used to call him about anything..she actually called my house once at 1am to tell him how someone who wasn't even related to him had died. but now she has the child call. mr jengs does for the child. I tried to be patient then i had to cuss and cussed everyone, as far as I see mr jengs doesn't encourage her but I think 10pm on a saturday is a bit much. Once when I asked her why she call so much and she said she don't want to deny the little girl her father...

that mama know she ain't right..if my kids ask about their dad.. i know enough to tell them we will call 2moro if its too late.. she is not denying them their father by having good sense and manners..sounds like she is trying to send a msg.. "they can call whenever they like it"

if its gonna cause strife w/ mr if u make a stink about it, and u've already told him how u feel and he doesn't see it that way.. come on good advice givers!

this last time I haven't told him...instead i got on the phone and was trying to make the child say anunty jengy..lol

[finesse 3]

its been a long time since we had some new filers come to the yardie thread... why ya nuh go invite some new ppl dem finesse?? or maybe u run dem all off wid ur spy talk..

lurkers doan undastand our sarcasm so when they read a little of this thread, they say fock this and gaane

Dats why u mus go play ambassador and invite dem so dem feel comfortable.. who ago be di ambassador.. kk, ive seen u invite some ppl and u too sus.. are ya'll on ya'll job.. we nuh ave nuh freshman in mnths!!!!

ow bout new one tiday?...chat bout lawyer

yeah.. she a one.. she need some classmates..

kk.. mi see dem.. mi jus not as nice as u and finesse and sus LOL

ow u see dem?

[Ellsinlove 2]

mi nuh knoa wha fi seh jengy?? what is she calling for just to talk.. does mr jengs have a cell phone, let him bodda wid it.. i feel u.. i talk to roger's lil cousins every once and a while to catch up, but that often and at all those odd times is annoying..

but if mr jengs nuh see it?? wha u to do but nuh answa unless he's there if u don't wanna be bothered..is that mean??

Yep, don't answer if you have the option. If mister wants to answer, let him. That's what I do when Lehi's family calls at 5:30 a.m. since they forget the time difference. I don't even bother opening my eye...he can jump out of bed to answer if he wants but otherwise, it's going to the machine or voice mail.

How does a baby at the age of 3 know that daddy doesn't care about them anymore since he went to farrin and he doesn't put money in their bank book, or daddy didn't send nuff pretty clothes and slippas for her to touch the road? That's not a child speaking....that is a child repeating. His mother told me this...that his kids were saying this in public while he was in Canada working for them. What happened to the money? Why were they still hungry? I know $600 is not much...but it makes a dent every month if she was helping make ends meet.

That is definitely the mom talking....and it sounds like she's not putting the money where it's supposed to be going. AND $600 is about 5-6 times MORE than many people even make there in a month so that is A LOT of money. CHO! (Look at me trying to use my patwah....hee hee hee!)

she calls him on his cellphone..first she used to call him about anything..she actually called my house once at 1am to tell him how someone who wasn't even related to him had died. but now she has the child call. mr jengs does for the child. I tried to be patient then i had to cuss and cussed everyone, as far as I see mr jengs doesn't encourage her but I think 10pm on a saturday is a bit much. Once when I asked her why she call so much and she said she don't want to deny the little girl her father...

What I want to know is why is the child up so late? Why isn't she making the child go to bed at a reasonable hour??

My mom was asking me yesterday if I was waiting til I'm 40 to have kids. I told her to just say it straight..she want more grandkids.

mi nuh sey a ting bout ie.. when YOU a breed is a question like.. when di world ago end.. nuh wrack yuh brain ca ya nuh knoa till ie appen!!!

Why is she rushing you? It's not like you're old or anything.....tell her to be patient. You'll give her her grand pickney when you're ready.

[finesse 3]

where's tre? she go to jamaica yet?

[finesse 3]

75 more posts til my heart...damn this is hard work

[finesse 3]

i am the 9th highest poster of the day with 56 posts. the #1 person has 126....#######?? what this person chat so much about??

am i talking to myself here? where everybody go?

[dancehallquana 5]

stupid me nuh ave no order for C/S.. he always did for his kids, i never had to worry about monetary things.. but now i see that was only cuz he thought there would be some sort of reconciliation..he told me he would help but since the divorce he has given me maybe $300.. when i get an order he would have to pay almost $700/mnth.. i NEVER asked for that.. i'm not trying to break him, i would have been happy with $300/mth honestly cuz i do well enough.. but i'll be dyamed if im gonna spend all my money to pay bills and u sitting over in the house and don't wanna help none, tell me i need to TELL u when they need something and u will go get it!! HELL NO

so di ppl will be on him and he won't like it.. but its his own fault..

[finesse 3]

i haven't done a damn thing today. i better do some work

[jamerican 2]

Sorry if I am repeating what someone has already said but I am way behind in the board.......Got 2 emails today

200% Additional Bonus Credit with LIME Jamaica Top Ups this Friday 24th of July!

For example if you send a $10 top up to a LIME Jamaica customer, the subscriber in Jamaica then receives a second $20 minute top up to the same LIME phone for free.

That is, top up your mobile and receive balance for free!

Please inform your friends about this promotion!

The ezetop team

AND

Remember this July Digicel is giving you Summer Love!

From July 20th to July 31st 2009 when you add airtime using Digicel Online Top you get an extra 25% of the amount added to your account for FREE!Get the love or share the love this summer, send airtime to someone of top up your own phone!

Just click here to get started.

Share the love!

The Digicel Team

[^KK^ 3]

My mom was asking me yesterday if I was waiting til I'm 40 to have kids. I told her to just say it straight..she want more grandkids.

mi nuh sey a ting bout ie.. when YOU a breed is a question like.. when di world ago end.. nuh wrack yuh brain ca ya nuh knoa till ie appen!!!

kk - follow di diagram if u not sure ow it go

quana, kk, and me top 20 posters list for today

LOL @ the diagram

I'm not even trying to get preggo right now. The hubby has to get a job first.

[dancehallquana 5]

jengy mi si yuh wah gwaan

mi deh yah!!!

I just feel like i'm running all the time, putting out fires. mr jengs and the van had me going over the moon.

now u hail me up...help me out with some advice nuh...

yuh done know mi dey yah anytime..link mi..u dash wey mi #

Kimmy...."that's why I love you"

thank you QUANA for giving me some advice cause if is was kimmy mi a wait pon, mi would have dead...

anyhoo - now responding to Quana's advice " look bout two pages back Kimmy and you will see my posts"

she calls him on his cellphone..first she used to call him about anything..she actually called my house once at 1am to tell him how someone who wasn't even related to him had died. but now she has the child call. mr jengs does for the child. I tried to be patient then i had to cuss and cussed everyone, as far as I see mr jengs doesn't encourage her but I think 10pm on a saturday is a bit much. Once when I asked her why she call so much and she said she don't want to deny the little girl her father...

that mama know she ain't right..if my kids ask about their dad.. i know enough to tell them we will call 2moro if its too late.. she is not denying them their father by having good sense and manners..sounds like she is trying to send a msg.. "they can call whenever they like it"

if its gonna cause strife w/ mr if u make a stink about it, and u've already told him how u feel and he doesn't see it that way.. come on good advice givers!

this last time I haven't told him...instead i got on the phone and was trying to make the child say anunty jengy..lol

lol.. how old is she??? sounds like a young toddler?? she mek dat baby call like that?? awwww

[jawi876 2]

what $600.00 isn't much...what am I missing...is that U.S. or if it's even Canadian...it is still more than she would get if he was there. because let's keep it real a lot of them weren't making that much anyway...and is she were working his money was doing a whole lot.

It was Canadian...I guess I was saying it wasn't much from an American standpoint...but I know in Jamaica it was making a huge difference. Too bad the girls didn't feel the difference. He sent money...and I bought clothes because I just love little girls...and it was so much fun shopping for them. They were still wearing the shoes I brought when he got back to Jamaica until Islandwoman took some more things to them on her last trip. I don't understand that. Whenever I see her...she is dressed to the nines. Bullsh*t!

exactly, cause he could have left her for someone in j.a.

you all are bad all now i haven't put insurance on mr jengs mini-van...

get on the phone and get that car insurance!

wicked wicked ooman!!

don't people realize that the children are the ones getting hurt here????

The kids suffer the most. I want to buy them things...but now she won't even let them wear stuff I buy. I wonder if she will turn down my money too? I don't want to bash this woman...but this subject just boils me. I know he is not just telling me stuff...because I have been there to experience it with him. He talks to her in front of me...and he knows that I understand patois...he put her on speakerphone when she told him to come home and be a family again then he can see the girls everyday. Then, she asked him if she had to pay him to phock her.

She can't make him change his mind about being with her...so she uses the girls. I don't want to take her place as mommy (not much anyway LOL) so we will try for a visitor's visa for them both. Hopefully, she will grow to accept or allow that at least. I know he is going to miss them...so be prepared for me asking for advice.

[dancehallquana 5]

its been a long time since we had some new filers come to the yardie thread... why ya nuh go invite some new ppl dem finesse?? or maybe u run dem all off wid ur spy talk..

lurkers doan undastand our sarcasm so when they read a little of this thread, they say fock this and gaane

Dats why u mus go play ambassador and invite dem so dem feel comfortable.. who ago be di ambassador.. kk, ive seen u invite some ppl and u too sus.. are ya'll on ya'll job.. we nuh ave nuh freshman in mnths!!!!

ow bout new one tiday?...chat bout lawyer

yeah.. she a one.. she need some classmates..

kk.. mi see dem.. mi jus not as nice as u and finesse and sus LOL

ow u see dem?

go to profile and then in the upper right hand corner it have all the newly joined ppl.. u can go to their page and write a nice comment and invite them..tell them nuh be frighten.. u not as crazy as u sound on di board ..

i haven't done a damn thing today. i better do some work

mi niedda.. this is such a shame.. i am not acting my wage today.. and i am soo ashamed..

[jawi876 2]

Wow! Quana you get less than that per child or total? I'm supposed to get $450 from one and $600 from the other a month. Do I get a dime? Nope.

why not?

because they quit working to avoid paying. The CS agency doesn't really care if you are not on welfare or assistance. They have told me that they suspended their driver's license and will issue a warrant for arrest. What in the world with that do...I don't know. Let me go get welfare and they will both be under the jail.

[finesse 3]

what $600.00 isn't much...what am I missing...is that U.S. or if it's even Canadian...it is still more than she would get if he was there. because let's keep it real a lot of them weren't making that much anyway...and is she were working his money was doing a whole lot.

It was Canadian...I guess I was saying it wasn't much from an American standpoint...but I know in Jamaica it was making a huge difference. Too bad the girls didn't feel the difference. He sent money...and I bought clothes because I just love little girls...and it was so much fun shopping for them. They were still wearing the shoes I brought when he got back to Jamaica until Islandwoman took some more things to them on her last trip. I don't understand that. Whenever I see her...she is dressed to the nines. Bullsh*t!

exactly, cause he could have left her for someone in j.a.

you all are bad all now i haven't put insurance on mr jengs mini-van...

get on the phone and get that car insurance!

wicked wicked ooman!!

don't people realize that the children are the ones getting hurt here????

The kids suffer the most. I want to buy them things...but now she won't even let them wear stuff I buy. I wonder if she will turn down my money too? I don't want to bash this woman...but this subject just boils me. I know he is not just telling me stuff...because I have been there to experience it with him. He talks to her in front of me...and he knows that I understand patois...he put her on speakerphone when she told him to come home and be a family again then he can see the girls everyday. Then, she asked him if she had to pay him to phock her.

She can't make him change his mind about being with her...so she uses the girls. I don't want to take her place as mommy (not much anyway LOL) so we will try for a visitor's visa for them both. Hopefully, she will grow to accept or allow that at least. I know he is going to miss them...so be prepared for me asking for advice.

i would like to believe that she will get over it eventually....maybe when she gets anew man or whatever but she really sounds like a piece a work!!!!