Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part16)

[^KK^ 3]

Dada - I think that excuse Steve Harvey says is BS. It takes a weak person to cheat. You made a vow to be with your husband or wife...they break that vow by cheating. No excuse.

[My4rmylife 0]

Dada - I think that excuse Steve Harvey says is BS. It takes a weak person to cheat. You made a vow to be with your husband or wife...they break that vow by cheating. No excuse.

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[Shemmy 4]

Sorry to hear that Shemmy, but I am thrilled about the clothes they are hot Sis!

Thanks again for your help. I thought about you the entire time...glad I made you proud

[My4rmylife 0]

OK my parents 31 st wedding anniversary is the 15 th and i have no idea what to get them any ideas

[sus 70]

OK my parents 31 st wedding anniversary is the 15 th and i have no idea what to get them any ideas

What about tickets to a show or something that they wouldn't ordinarily do for themselves

[*JG* 2]

my husband even has a name for this party...it is called "The Playoff"

I need to get my #### home to see what the hell is going on...

he probably has the backyard turned into the dancehall by now...

Finese this party thing has me rolling.It sounds like your hubby was trying to plan a street party like how they do in JA. So give us details did the cops have to come and shut it down or what?LOL

Yeah, wondering too.

[sus 70]

Sus I had to BOAL @ the 'DJ knocked the strainer' comment! I've had my IUD (sorry if that's TMI) for two months now and the cramping can be pretty rough. I hope my body adjusts after 6 months like my doctor suggested it might. It's still worth not having to remember the pill though.

Ells, I can honestly tell you that my cramping with the IUD was worse than what I ever had without - you eventually adjust to it - it was a small price to pay for the other conveniences. Just be very sure that you get it checked regularly to make sure it's in the right place, lol

[My4rmylife 0]

OK my parents 31 st wedding anniversary is the 15 th and i have no idea what to get them any ideas

What about tickets to a show or something that they wouldn't ordinarily do for themselves

yeah but nothing is happeneing here that my parents would want to go to ...

[My4rmylife 0]

OK my parents 31 st wedding anniversary is the 15 th and i have no idea what to get them any ideas

What about tickets to a show or something that they wouldn't ordinarily do for themselves

yeah but nothing is happeneing here that my parents would want to go to ...

I think i may do a scrapbook for them ... showing from their wedding day and the years in between..

[DaDa 1]

Good Morning All….

How was everyone’s weekend?

Well after listening to Steve Harvey this morning I think we should follow suit and have a discussion about … Marriage. This weekend I watched Fireproof and ladies I must admit the movie was really good and I do want to get the book Love Dare. I even enjoyed the songs played during the movie and said I might buy the soundtrack. Well after hearing about Steven McNair and the governor from down south who got busted it just made me think what the heck is going on with marriages these days. Its like they are getting out of control with all the cheating. Steve Harvey and them were discussing how men and woman step out of their marriages because their mate is not freaky enough. So you all agree? Some viewers thought your mate is always freaky and then once you say I do its like you go to regular boring sex. The others said sometimes the husband doesn’t want to get that freaky with their wives because they put them on a pedal stool and there are certain things you just don’t want to do with your mate wive because you have to look at her the next morning but still I would think if you have made vows to be with this man the rest of your life. U have to be creative to keep the other one interested. I agree with the comment you do some much to get your mate and then once you get them you stop. So what do you all think?

I think alot of people are guilty of doing enough to hook people then they dont do those things no more ... But i think the whole thing that they dont want to do certain things with their wives is crazy because i seem to remember being told by a man that the they want a lady in the street but a freak in the sheets ( i think thats in a song lol) . i think its a scope out when they use the excuse that the mate wouldnt do this or that . I personally think that its communication that the problem people dont talk anymore ... If people would talk about how they feel and their mates listened then things would be better in marriages these days..

Funny you mention this when I was watching Fireproof I forget how the phrase went but it was something about listen more and talk less. I think that is my problem as I'm sure you ladies can tell I talk way more than I listen. I think because when something is on my mind I'm so quick to go off to get my point across and when the person is talking back to me I'm so busy thinking of the next thing I'm going to say I'm not concentrating on what my mate has said. My husband used to always tell me "Would you let me talk" my reply back was well if you weren’t' so darn slow with talking maybe I would... Mean I know but that was me. I don’t know after seeing the movie I just for some reason am now seeing marriage being more serious than what I thought.

[DaDa 1]

Dada - I think that excuse Steve Harvey says is BS. It takes a weak person to cheat. You made a vow to be with your husband or wife...they break that vow by cheating. No excuse.

Ooohh KK I see claws!!!! LOL

[My4rmylife 0]

Good Morning All….

How was everyone’s weekend?

Well after listening to Steve Harvey this morning I think we should follow suit and have a discussion about … Marriage. This weekend I watched Fireproof and ladies I must admit the movie was really good and I do want to get the book Love Dare. I even enjoyed the songs played during the movie and said I might buy the soundtrack. Well after hearing about Steven McNair and the governor from down south who got busted it just made me think what the heck is going on with marriages these days. Its like they are getting out of control with all the cheating. Steve Harvey and them were discussing how men and woman step out of their marriages because their mate is not freaky enough. So you all agree? Some viewers thought your mate is always freaky and then once you say I do its like you go to regular boring sex. The others said sometimes the husband doesn’t want to get that freaky with their wives because they put them on a pedal stool and there are certain things you just don’t want to do with your mate wive because you have to look at her the next morning but still I would think if you have made vows to be with this man the rest of your life. U have to be creative to keep the other one interested. I agree with the comment you do some much to get your mate and then once you get them you stop. So what do you all think?

I think alot of people are guilty of doing enough to hook people then they dont do those things no more ... But i think the whole thing that they dont want to do certain things with their wives is crazy because i seem to remember being told by a man that the they want a lady in the street but a freak in the sheets ( i think thats in a song lol) . i think its a scope out when they use the excuse that the mate wouldnt do this or that . I personally think that its communication that the problem people dont talk anymore ... If people would talk about how they feel and their mates listened then things would be better in marriages these days..

Funny you mention this when I was watching Fireproof I forget how the phrase went but it was something about listen more and talk less. I think that is my problem as I'm sure you ladies can tell I talk way more than I listen. I think because when something is on my mind I'm so quick to go off to get my point across and when the person is talking back to me I'm so busy thinking of the next thing I'm going to say I'm not concentrating on what my mate has said. My husband used to always tell me "Would you let me talk" my reply back was well if you weren’t' so darn slow with talking maybe I would... Mean I know but that was me. I don’t know after seeing the movie I just for some reason am now seeing marriage being more serious than what I thought.

yeah i understand ... i can talk too but i have learned that you have to listen also... you can hear what they say but are you really listening... I see my friends marriages going downhill and from the outside looking in its always communication... Cause even though i wasnt married to my kids father he and i had no communication when i tried to talk to him he blew me off....

[DaDa 1]

So Quana the trolls are back ey?? So how is that going?

[dancehallquana 5]

its sooo funny.. the kids have been back since Wednesday and it is def DIFFERENT.. (like i had been warning him lol)

after i had finally sat down thursday i told him i missed him and he said i miss u too baby.. just in one day we saw the DRASTIC change in time together, i get tired alot quicker, i guess cuz i am not lounging around, i am always up and doing something or thinking about what i have to do next... and that is just w/ ONE child cuz the other had spent the night at a friends LOL

my kids are quiet more or less so i didn't expect much conversation between them and roger, the youngest didn't talk to him much and when he talked to her she would act all shy or just shake her head, she would go in her room and close the door at times. it was just wierd having to deal w/ roger by herself. the girls are usually always together.. she wouldn't eat the caribbean food as we expected, taylor liked EVERYTHING tho and they both LOVE his chicken, brown stew and curry is their fav..

we played chutes and ladders w/ the kids and then went bowling friday w/ my sister and her hubby.. roger was FANTASTIC!!! he got like 4 strikes and when he didn't get a strike he still ended up knocking all the pins down after the first try.. he fell in love w/ bowling that night LOL

sat was the cookout at my moms.. we played the outdoor games and then family feud (party favorite) we came home and roger, the kids and i went outside our apt to watch fireworks.. they were doing them at the park RIGHT across the st from us so we just took a blanket and enjoyed...

roger had cooked after the kids and i went to church (still praying 4 him to come lol) and after i lounge around w/ the kids.. roger and i went back to the lake and hung out.. he took a video of me turning flips.. can u say HOT MESS!!! lol

as the weekend went on.. i prompted the kids to ask roger stuff instead of me.. like my oldest asked what kind of chicken were we eating, i told her ask roger, he made it.. she was like.. thats ok LOL..they are just shy not rude so its ok.. he is always trying to joke w/ them to make them feel more comfy and i think he is wearing on them ..sunday was real nice..

[dancehallquana 5]

Sorry to hear that Shemmy, but I am thrilled about the clothes they are hot Sis!

Thanks again for your help. I thought about you the entire time...glad I made you proud

so shemmy.. u gonna tell u about ur friends drama?? .. i bet ur daughter and damien missed u to pieces...

OK my parents 31 st wedding anniversary is the 15 th and i have no idea what to get them any ideas

i met roger on july 15th YAYYYY.. okay i digress.. i am not good w/ present ideas my2.. i usually just give gift cards or visa debit cards... i know SOO sorry LOL