Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part16)

[JAPrincess 27]

lol.. u crazy princess!!! man i loved that guy heehee

Serious thing... we were dating for like 3 months and I let him stay at my house... woke up and him and my car were gone

When he did not answer his cell or call all day I tried to file a police report... dem say dem cyaan file nothing cause is a domestic dispute and I gave him access to my keys

Girl he was gone for 2 days with my wheels... damn crack addict...

I got his Momma's number from the 411 and she told me ALL ABOUT it...

Still could not get the dude out of my head and couple weeks later I was at his house hiding my keys for I went to sleep

DUMB!!!!

[dancehallquana 5]

Talking about abuse by weak individuals that only have strenght for the women in their life, I was a kid with a mom who went through the same thing all the time. She used to hide behind me to get away from him and he would give her black eyes because he could. But I remember when i was younger and I asked her what was she doing was finally her wake up call to realise that her little girl knew he was wrong to point it out. She they became a demon in his life cause then the shoes was on the other foot and she started to beat him

WHAT???

ells and i were just talking bout this the other day.. my mom didn't listen to us.. just kept taking up for them.. but i don't blame her.. love can make u do some CRAZY things..

Yes girl she started to beat him, she chopped him, almost burned down his house, gave him quite a few black eyes to make up for what he gave her. The crazy thing is that they stayed together and she cheated on him like there was no tomorrow. He knew but he stuck around but when I migrated her they broke up. When I asked him what caused the change of heart he said that he stayed around to make sure I had all that I needed but since I was no longer there he had no reason to stick around

WOW.. do u think that was the right thing to do?? i mean do u think u benefited from it??.. i decided not to stay for my children and my situation was no physical abuse.. ive heard many ppl say that enduring things for children is not good, but many other ppl that have grown up and said they were blessed by seeing their parents stay together..

[damniecy 0]

Talking about abuse by weak individuals that only have strenght for the women in their life, I was a kid with a mom who went through the same thing all the time. She used to hide behind me to get away from him and he would give her black eyes because he could. But I remember when i was younger and I asked her what was she doing was finally her wake up call to realise that her little girl knew he was wrong to point it out. She they became a demon in his life cause then the shoes was on the other foot and she started to beat him

WHAT???

ells and i were just talking bout this the other day.. my mom didn't listen to us.. just kept taking up for them.. but i don't blame her.. love can make u do some CRAZY things..

Yes girl she started to beat him, she chopped him, almost burned down his house, gave him quite a few black eyes to make up for what he gave her. The crazy thing is that they stayed together and she cheated on him like there was no tomorrow. He knew but he stuck around but when I migrated her they broke up. When I asked him what caused the change of heart he said that he stayed around to make sure I had all that I needed but since I was no longer there he had no reason to stick around

WOW.. do u think that was the right thing to do?? i mean do u think u benefited from it??.. i decided not to stay for my children and my situation was no physical abuse.. ive heard many ppl say that enduring things for children is not good, but many other ppl that have grown up and said they were blessed by seeing their parents stay together..

I dont really know the reason why my mom stayed, i think it was the fact that she could get his money. He on the other hand said it was because of me. I really didnt like the fact that they were together cause they were always fighting and cussing and trying to involve me into it and it was just not healthy at all. I remember I helped my mom fighted him once when I was 12yrs. I had no respect for him but now I look back and think that he did a lot for both me and my bro not to justify what him and my mom went through. Funny enough they are good friends now

[JAPrincess 27]

I chose to end it with my baby's daddy too, but we NEVER got along. Granted there was no physical abuse, but I did not want my son to grow up seeing people fight every day...

I think that if the base of a marriage is love and both people are willing to work on it, then by all means stick it out!

Not sure what my parents went through as they did not share the details with me their baby (I was 10) But I know my Dad was at the door with flowers every damn day it seemed... bringing my Mom music and things... he really loved her....

I think he cheated

But I would never ask him, and Momma is passed...

[dancehallquana 5]

lol.. u crazy princess!!! man i loved that guy heehee

Serious thing... we were dating for like 3 months and I let him stay at my house... woke up and him and my car were gone

When he did not answer his cell or call all day I tried to file a police report... dem say dem cyaan file nothing cause is a domestic dispute and I gave him access to my keys

Girl he was gone for 2 days with my wheels... damn crack addict...

I got his Momma's number from the 411 and she told me ALL ABOUT it...

Still could not get the dude out of my head and couple weeks later I was at his house hiding my keys for I went to sleep

DUMB!!!!

dumb but smart to hide ur keys the second time girl LOL... ur mistake was not bing w/ him, but just leaving ur keys around him..

[dancehallquana 5]

I chose to end it with my baby's daddy too, but we NEVER got along. Granted there was no physical abuse, but I did not want my son to grow up seeing people fight every day...

I think that if the base of a marriage is love and both people are willing to work on it, then by all means stick it out!

Not sure what my parents went through as they did not share the details with me their baby (I was 10) But I know my Dad was at the door with flowers every damn day it seemed... bringing my Mom music and things... he really loved her....

I think he cheated

But I would never ask him, and Momma is passed...

that was me princess.. i wanted my kids to see a relationship w/ love and admiration.. thats why i love vj cuz it makes me think those kind of relationships are possible.. i don't expect to have no problems at all but dyam, we don't want have to fight everyday!!! but i ask my kids and they said they thought everything was fine..they were happy.. we did good at not fighting in front of them, but that usually meant me just eating dirt to silence him..

[My4rmylife 0]

I chose to end it with my baby's daddy too, but we NEVER got along. Granted there was no physical abuse, but I did not want my son to grow up seeing people fight every day...

I think that if the base of a marriage is love and both people are willing to work on it, then by all means stick it out!

Not sure what my parents went through as they did not share the details with me their baby (I was 10) But I know my Dad was at the door with flowers every damn day it seemed... bringing my Mom music and things... he really loved her....

I think he cheated

But I would never ask him, and Momma is passed...

tHIS WAS THE PROBLEM I HAD WITH MY KIDS FATHER WE FOUGHT ALL THE TIME ...

[Ellsinlove 2]

Afternoon Yardies!

Please say a prayer for me this afternoon. My co-worker just got a frantic phone call from his Baby Mama that their 16 y/o son just got shot in a drive-by. He was shot in the stomach & I've tried to assure my co-worker that he'll be okay but I'm saying a prayer right now too. We were just talking about his son this morning & he was telling me that his kid had stopped hanging out with the bad kids & was starting to think about going to college on basketball scholarships. It is so so sad the struggles young people have to go through & just when things seem to be turning around....

[damniecy 0]

Afternoon Yardies!

Please say a prayer for me this afternoon. My co-worker just got a frantic phone call from his Baby Mama that their 16 y/o son just got shot in a drive-by. He was shot in the stomach & I've tried to assure my co-worker that he'll be okay but I'm saying a prayer right now too. We were just talking about his son this morning & he was telling me that his kid had stopped hanging out with the bad kids & was starting to think about going to college on basketball scholarships. It is so so sad the struggles young people have to go through & just when things seem to be turning around....

Prayers going up. I pray that he has a speedy recovery

[My4rmylife 0]

Afternoon Yardies!

Please say a prayer for me this afternoon. My co-worker just got a frantic phone call from his Baby Mama that their 16 y/o son just got shot in a drive-by. He was shot in the stomach & I've tried to assure my co-worker that he'll be okay but I'm saying a prayer right now too. We were just talking about his son this morning & he was telling me that his kid had stopped hanging out with the bad kids & was starting to think about going to college on basketball scholarships. It is so so sad the struggles young people have to go through & just when things seem to be turning around....

SORRY TO HEAR THIS ..I WILL KEEP THEM IN MY PRAYERS

[JAPrincess 27]

Afternoon Yardies!

Please say a prayer for me this afternoon. My co-worker just got a frantic phone call from his Baby Mama that their 16 y/o son just got shot in a drive-by. He was shot in the stomach & I've tried to assure my co-worker that he'll be okay but I'm saying a prayer right now too. We were just talking about his son this morning & he was telling me that his kid had stopped hanging out with the bad kids & was starting to think about going to college on basketball scholarships. It is so so sad the struggles young people have to go through & just when things seem to be turning around....

OMG Ells!!!

My prayers are with your co-worker and son

Keep the faith!

What is with all the shootings this past week??

7 people shot in Richmond and another one on 580 this morning??

[JAPrincess 27]

WHY DO WE STILL NOT HAVE THIS THREAD PINNED????

[My4rmylife 0]

WHY DO WE STILL NOT HAVE THIS THREAD PINNED????

LOL YOU HAVE THE CRAZIEST SMILEYS

[My4rmylife 0]

i AM SO THANKFUL FOR THE PEOPLE ON THE YARDIE THREAD ... i HAVE READ SOME OF THE OTHER JUST BROWSING AND ARE THE RUDE AND NASTY TO EACH OTHER ... SURE WE HAVE DISCUSSIONS AND DISAGREEMENTS BUT NOT LIKE THE OTHER THREAD

[Lovesponge 0]

Evening Yardies, I am Officially a MARRIED WOMAN. It feels really good and I am very happy. Everything turned out really nice, I am trying to post a pic for you guys but I really dont know how to HELP!

Ok, go to www.tinypic.com

Upload the pic from your pc there.

Then, after it uploads, copy the entire SECOND link which is called IMG Code for Forums & Message Boards

Just copy and paste the entire link in your post and the photo will show up

Congrats girlie!!

I got it Thanks JaEnglish and thank you all I am still in honeymoon mode even though I didnt go anywhere