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Childless by choice, and proud of it! Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with reproducing and carrying on the family name but it's just not for me. My oldest sisters both have children and think I'm a freak for not wanting any of my own. The way I see it, after you have children your kids get prioritized over your spouse, and I just love my marriage too much the way it is to have it changed. Also, travelling definitely is much more difficult. You either have to find a family member to look after them while you're gone, or pay double to take em with you.

Last but not least, and this is probably going to hurt some feelings out there, but here it comes anyways: I don't see the point in reproducing more children of my own where there's millions of them out there in orphanages praying for a loving family to adopt them.

People think us anti-babyists are lacking that maternal instinct by not wanting to reproduce, by the way I see it, we're not lacking a single thing we just have a different set of priorities.

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should we visit the deep wipe poll again?

I probably wrote the same thing about the no-wiper. :blush: Then again, it is worthy of celebration when it happens.

Have I mentioned my large bladder volume?

I'm jealous of your bladder! I pee ALL the time! I don't have diabetes so it may have something to do with how much water I drink :unsure:

Same with me Amber, I not only pee a lot, but when I feel like I have to go, it's pretty much a I have to go now or I'll pee in my pants need. I also never had any insulin deficiency issues, my sugar levels are fine, and there's no explanation for it apart from the fact that I drink water like a nut.

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Childless by choice, and proud of it! Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with reproducing and carrying on the family name but it's just not for me. My oldest sisters both have children and think I'm a freak for not wanting any of my own. The way I see it, after you have children your kids get prioritized over your spouse, and I just love my marriage too much the way it is to have it changed. Also, travelling definitely is much more difficult. You either have to find a family member to look after them while you're gone, or pay double to take em with you.

Last but not least, and this is probably going to hurt some feelings out there, but here it comes anyways: I don't see the point in reproducing more children of my own where there's millions of them out there in orphanages praying for a loving family to adopt them.

People think us anti-babyists are lacking that maternal instinct by not wanting to reproduce, by the way I see it, we're not lacking a single thing we just have a different set of priorities.

Agreed 100%.

Child birth is an extremely selfish act - it's a statement to the world that says two things:

1) My DNA is better than yours, so I will not adopt

2) I don't care about overpopulation or the world's problems - I want a baby and I'm going to have one and #### you all

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Is this now the golden shower thread? :unsure:

Where the *bleep* is Charles today???

Man, he'd be all over this material.

He's been awol for hours!

He's not allowed to do that, don't you guys know you're all here for my entertainment, and I expect the VJ circus to be going on 24X7 to amuse me?

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should we visit the deep wipe poll again?

I probably wrote the same thing about the no-wiper. :blush: Then again, it is worthy of celebration when it happens.

Have I mentioned my large bladder volume?

I'm jealous of your bladder! I pee ALL the time! I don't have diabetes so it may have something to do with how much water I drink :unsure:

Same with me Amber, I not only pee a lot, but when I feel like I have to go, it's pretty much a I have to go now or I'll pee in my pants need. I also never had any insulin deficiency issues, my sugar levels are fine, and there's no explanation for it apart from the fact that I drink water like a nut.

:lol: no tickling either. I have been known to pee myself. I don't even try to hide it.

Life is a ticket to the greatest show on earth.

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When my girlfriend was pregnant about 25 years ago, I asked her WHY would she want to have a baby.

Her answer was : Because I want one !

I thought that was rather selfish.

Don't just open your mouth and prove yourself a fool....put it in writing.

It gets harder the more you know. Because the more you find out, the uglier everything seems.

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should we visit the deep wipe poll again?

I probably wrote the same thing about the no-wiper. blush.gif Then again, it is worthy of celebration when it happens.

Have I mentioned my large bladder volume?

I'm jealous of your bladder! I pee ALL the time! I don't have diabetes so it may have something to do with how much water I drink unsure.gif

Same with me Amber, I not only pee a lot, but when I feel like I have to go, it's pretty much a I have to go now or I'll pee in my pants need. I also never had any insulin deficiency issues, my sugar levels are fine, and there's no explanation for it apart from the fact that I drink water like a nut.

laughing.gif no tickling either. I have been known to pee myself. I don't even try to hide it.

I've been known to disrupt nice long walks by the beach 'cus I had to run back and find a bathroom as soon as we reached the beach. :lol:

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(Puerto Rico) Luis & Laura (Brazil) K1 JOURNEY
04/11/2006 - Filed I-129F.
09/29/2006 - Visa in hand!

10/15/2006 - POE San Juan
11/15/2006 - MARRIAGE

AOS JOURNEY
01/05/2007 - AOS sent to Chicago.
03/26/2007 - Green Card in hand!

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS JOURNEY
01/26/2009 - Filed I-751.
06/22/2009 - Green Card in hand!

NATURALIZATION JOURNEY
06/26/2014 - N-400 sent to Nebraska
07/02/2014 - NOA
07/24/2014 - Biometrics
10/24/2014 - Interview (approved)

01/16/2015 - Oath Ceremony


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I think Charles! found a vibrator...

or something...

My Advice is usually based on "Worst Case Scenario" and what is written in the rules/laws/instructions. That is the way I roll... -Protect your Status - file before your I-94 expires.

WARNING: Phrases in this post may sound meaner than they were intended to be. Read the Adjudicator's Field Manual from USCIS

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You ladies might be interested in the Freshette: 407267Lrg.jpg

It allows you to pee standing up--very handy if you have to take a piss on a hike or find yourself in a less-than-sparkling roadside bathroom. Even with my LBV (large bladder volume), I occasionally have to pee. The Freshette is also fun to use recreationally (e.g., at home).

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When my girlfriend was pregnant about 25 years ago, I asked her WHY would she want to have a baby.

Her answer was : Because I want one !

I thought that was rather selfish.

That's basically it.

I think this kind of attitude is well summarized in this post.

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