He is 65 and She is 23

[M.O 6]

[DeniseBill 4]

Why would love have to do anything with age?? Not speaking of the USCIS finding it weird but in general. If theyre happy, who are you to judge that? Only one is allowed to judge and that is God. Let them live their life. Theyre asking que stions, let them be. Give them an answer to their questions or stay out of the thread. Keep your personal opinions to yourself. Ï've dated someone once that could've been my father but why do others care?

There's a saying "If you don't have anything nice to say, Don't say anything"

Good luck with everything

[D_n_M 0]

65 and 23 is a suspicious age difference. I don't want to hear about love being the most important. It is important but a 42 year age difference is suspicious.

[R de la R 2]

Heck I am 87 and my wife turned 18 the day before we married and we had no issue. Heck she even had a baby by me, got to love viagra!

Age doesn't matter at all.

Btw it's not true, our age difference that is.

[-Cinnamon- 0]

Thank you DeniseBill!

The very truthful response I got. .

Some post mean responses. . but who cares anyway, maybe they thought about that because they were afraid on their own shadow???? who happen to live life with suspicious and unsatisfied. .

I was just asking your views not your personal mean attack. .

Thought this site, would help VJ members gain confidence and strength to face their journey. . But guess have some other interpretation on it now, but to those people who really are concern about, thank you superrr much! I appreciated it, and you know who you are. . God bless you!

xoxo

[meauxna 15]

That's gross...just gross. I mean I know this happens all the time, but it makes me sick how many cases like this clog up the system for the rest of us.

Are you serious? You aren't required to post every thought that passes between your ears, you know.

There is an actual human being on the other end of that question. As long as what she's doing is legal, why don't you just agree to disagree--there are a LOT of people out there different from you.

How would you like a review of your situation, just to make sure I agree with everything you are doing in your life, eh? Shall I post my opinion of your TimBits habit?

If any of you can comment specifically on the material *issue* at hand, great (and thanks to those who have) but seriously, take your opinions about other people's lifestyles to OT or elsewhere.

sheesh.

edit: that is your first post? I hope you find more compassion and help here than you've extended so far. Please consider reading the TOS and site rules.

Edited June 30, 2009 by meauxna

[-Cinnamon- 0]

Does it really matter when it come to interview at USEM? Would the consol give you a hardtime about it?

HELPPPP!!!!!!!

Is it really that bad where you live that you actually want somebody that old? Why would you throw your life away like this. If you didn't file a petition yet I would wait until your dream man comes along. I mean seriously don't do this to yourself. I could not imagine some 23yr old marrying my Pop Pop ILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NASTYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.

??????. . . Who cares anyway, If I want to throw my life of someone who loves me with all his heart. . . Sorry about your luck but Im just waiting for my NOA2. Look, I am just blessed to have someone like HIM, though true about age difference but who cares??? I was just asking about views not mean stupid #######! And yes imagine it, the reality is I AM MARRYING THAT 65 year old man because of LOVE!

[-Cinnamon- 0]

65 and 23 is a suspicious age difference. I don't want to hear about love being the most important. It is important but a 42 year age difference is suspicious.

Thank you DeniseBill!

The very truthful response I got. .

Some post mean responses. . but who cares anyway, maybe they thought about that because they were afraid on their own shadow???? who happen to live life with suspicious and unsatisfied. .

I was just asking your views not your personal mean attack. .

Thought this site, would help VJ members gain confidence and strength to face their journey. . But guess have some other interpretation on it now, but to those people who really are concern about, thank you superrr much! I appreciated it, and you know who you are. . God bless you!

xoxo

Why would love have to do anything with age?? Not speaking of the USCIS finding it weird but in general. If theyre happy, who are you to judge that? Only one is allowed to judge and that is God. Let them live their life. Theyre asking que stions, let them be. Give them an answer to their questions or stay out of the thread. Keep your personal opinions to yourself. Ï've dated someone once that could've been my father but why do others care?

There's a saying "If you don't have anything nice to say, Don't say anything"

Good luck with everything

Thank you DeniseBill!

The very truthful response I got. .

Some post mean responses. . but who cares anyway, maybe they thought about that because they were afraid on their own shadow???? who happen to live life with suspicious and unsatisfied. .

I was just asking your views not your personal mean attack. .

Thought this site, would help VJ members gain confidence and strength to face their journey. . But guess have some other interpretation on it now, but to those people who really are concern about, thank you superrr much! I appreciated it, and you know who you are. . God bless you!

xoxo

[-Cinnamon- 0]

it doesn't matter how much stats you want to see this is not a debate so stop trolling for one. 65 and 23 is a big age difference, that is the truth..... OP needs to deal with it, again, prepare as much as possible.

ayyyt!

Thank you soOOo! And since I love this MAN, then i have to be prepared and deal with it.

xoxo

[-Cinnamon- 0]

i disagree with u USAGROOM

i think people fall in love

they dont shop for wife

i have a 33 years age difference but i am very happy with my wife

since we met we never ever discuss the age

she never ask me and even her parents before the wedding never said anything about the age

when u love someone the age has no bearing.

BTW how much u paid for ur bride?

abby n sheryl

Thanks abby n sheryl. .

Ayyyyt! Then I have to be more prepared about this Q.

I just hope and pray CO wont mentioned it. .

But anyhow, I am not afraid of it, since I am sincere about our LOVE. .

Just need some views and how people react. .

BTW, pweettyy wedding! congrats! your blessed, she is a filipina!

xoxo

[mattandash 0]

That's gross...just gross. I mean I know this happens all the time, but it makes me sick how many cases like this clog up the system for the rest of us.

Are you serious? You aren't required to post every thought that passes between your ears, you know.

There is an actual human being on the other end of that question. As long as what she's doing is legal, why don't you just agree to disagree--there are a LOT of people out there different from you.

How would you like a review of your situation, just to make sure I agree with everything you are doing in your life, eh? Shall I post my opinion of your TimBits habit?

If any of you can comment specifically on the material *issue* at hand, great (and thanks to those who have) but seriously, take your opinions about other people's lifestyles to OT or elsewhere.

sheesh.

edit: that is your first post? I hope you find more compassion and help here than you've extended so far. Please consider reading the TOS and site rules.

Hey meauxna,

That's just my opinion. When I post a question online about my personal situation or my timbit habit feel free to comment....good, bad or otherwise. If the OP didnt't want honest opinions he shouldn't have posted a question.

[-Cinnamon- 0]

That's gross...just gross. I mean I know this happens all the time, but it makes me sick how many cases like this clog up the system for the rest of us.

Are you serious? You aren't required to post every thought that passes between your ears, you know.

There is an actual human being on the other end of that question. As long as what she's doing is legal, why don't you just agree to disagree--there are a LOT of people out there different from you.

How would you like a review of your situation, just to make sure I agree with everything you are doing in your life, eh? Shall I post my opinion of your TimBits habit?

If any of you can comment specifically on the material *issue* at hand, great (and thanks to those who have) but seriously, take your opinions about other people's lifestyles to OT or elsewhere.

sheesh.

edit: that is your first post? I hope you find more compassion and help here than you've extended so far. Please consider reading the TOS and site rules.

Thank you superrr much!

need some shoulder here . .

xoxo

[-Cinnamon- 0]

Heck I am 87 and my wife turned 18 the day before we married and we had no issue. Heck she even had a baby by me, got to love viagra! Age doesn't matter at all.

Btw it's not true, our age difference that is.[/

This is so nasty. Is it right that your child be raised without a father? You are 87 and she is 18? Ok let's tell the truth you always had a feddish for little girls, and you know darn well that no American 18yr old girl would have wanted you because if you had millions of dollars you would have gotten your blond hair blue eye dream girl.

Just pointing to the bolded part of his post, maybe you missed it.

To the OP,

you will def have more to prove to the CO in comparison to someone who is close to the age of their husband/wife. As others have said. Get ready for the tough questions that you might get during the interview and prepare prepare prepare!

Ayyyyt! Thank you superrrr much!

Then I will surely be more prepare about it. .

God bless you!

xoxo

[endoftheroad 1]

I dont think i really understand your question. are you asking something about the age difference and if that impacts your interview at the embassy?

or whether it matters when the case arrives at the embassy and how old you are then?

I think the question is pretty plain. Would the consol at the US Embassy take the age difference as a factor. After reading many American Chinese sites I would think.............. NO, if you are a rich American. Most of those men are older, rich, and want much younger Chinese wives. They get them. They buy them essentially.

Did you buy your Chinese wife? Another generalization from an expert.

Can you read jerk? http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...t&p=3076383

I guess my comment hit close to your home huh?

[-Cinnamon- 0]

That's gross...just gross. I mean I know this happens all the time, but it makes me sick how many cases like this clog up the system for the rest of us.

Are you serious? You aren't required to post every thought that passes between your ears, you know.

There is an actual human being on the other end of that question. As long as what she's doing is legal, why don't you just agree to disagree--there are a LOT of people out there different from you.

How would you like a review of your situation, just to make sure I agree with everything you are doing in your life, eh? Shall I post my opinion of your TimBits habit?

If any of you can comment specifically on the material *issue* at hand, great (and thanks to those who have) but seriously, take your opinions about other people's lifestyles to OT or elsewhere.

sheesh.

edit: that is your first post? I hope you find more compassion and help here than you've extended so far. Please consider reading the TOS and site rules.

Hey meauxna,

That's just my opinion. When I post a question online about my personal situation or my timbit habit feel free to comment....good, bad or otherwise. If the OP didnt't want honest opinions he shouldn't have posted a question.

Ohh well. .

was hoping views of people here will strengthing my journey. . never expected someone could ever post a comments like that after they were blessed and passed through their visa journey. . Isnt it possible to be thankful to God and be someone to give good advices rather than stupid ####### thought????