Need Some Advice...

[kaibigan 8]

There's nothing wrong for filipinos sending money to their relatives in the Philippines if they have extra of there's an emergency or occasions but sending it without your knowledge and beyond your budget is too much.your wife's too generous and actually not helping them,she's tolerating them to be lazy and just make them stay at home because they knew that even if they dont work,they have the money to look forward to.and as for your wife,maybe she thinks that she's making them happy with the remittance she's sending them but not realizing that she's ruining her marriage.have a heart to heart talk with her and make her realize how you want to help her family but she must consider helping your own too.Remember,it's better to learn how to catch fish than give them fish

i agree!

ask your wife to face and fix the problem before it

will be too late.. what is more important..saving your marriage or her family?

what i mean is yes we all love our relatives in the philippines..

but your wife is in a different situation now, she has her own family

and that should be her first priority..