Everyone going through Administrative Processing in ISLAMABAD

[hshah08 0]

USmomo... Im nt going to Pakistan... .. the plan was if the interview result was Ap then I wont wait and have ruksati in pakistan.... My uncle (I have a god uncle and a bad one lol) was gona go to pakisttan with me for my ruksati....I had made my mind 100% for AP. I was able to make alternate changes in case of AP... like going to Pakistan and live with hubs and staying away from my uncle and his politics... Everything would have been smooth. Not to sound unthankful to Allah but the alternate plans made me kinda want to go to AP.

You know what when my husband told me no AP for the first 5 minutes I mourned... I was like Hell NOOoo... lol... But then after five minutes I was jumping where I was.... I was so happy with the thought tht he is finally coming.

having ruksati in USA might not be very smooth for me i guess... the time around my ruksati.. everyones gona be very nice to me especially in front of my in laws they ll pretend like they have kept me like a princesses.....The problem I have with them I do not want them to be nice anymore. They have given me real hard times.... Now I dunt want to fake a good time with them..... There r going to be probs when they ll try to contribute financially but I willhave to tell them NO... They have already started planning booking a hall in marriott....... I am kinda worried on how to tell them no and have a simple ruksati..... So yeh anyways....

anyupdates from ur side?

[ZaheersShezadi 0]

ZaheerShezadi. I am really sorry to hear all tht. Specially how you had to leave ur daughter at the airport. Ahhhh... Allah is testing you. Keep praying hard. You must pass this test since u r already in the situation and you cant fail. He cant keep you away from your daughter. She is just a little girl. And you are her mother. I am a pre law student, and I didnt think this is a possibility to keep a child away frm mother at this age. But once your husband comes here you guys will be able to show them tht u can keep her well fed and well sheltered Inshallah. This is going to be a time When ur X fails and you can celebrate your sucess time. Keep yourself strong and Say No to Fear. This is where we fail. we have lots of fears tht keeps us weak inside. Say No to fear. Initiate a step even if its hard and keep all your trust in Allah. Trust me.. it gauranteed... when we initiate a step in unfavorable circumstances only having a strong honest faith in Allah... then Allah makes us go through the end and grant us with success. If a person is having a trust in Allah... Allah wont do anything to fulfil the trust? Impossible....

Keep you faith Strong. These times are making you stronger. You are not going to be a person that have fears anymore. These situations only makes us stronger. I have experienced tht. I know I still have lots of fears .... but I have tried tht.... Taking a step with a trust in Allah... When nothing works out Allah makes u go through tht. Also do not forget to Thank Allah for what He has blessed you with. You have parents, a family, you have a loving husband mashallah and your second child is on ur way. Hope u r well fed and well sheltered. And the moments you r waiting for are right at the corner. Inshallah. I have lived without parents.... There have been times when I have missed them more than anything. In my own mind I have argued with Allah for why He took them away... But then I understood Allah has my best interest... if not in this world then the next final world. But I know Allah will not be unfair to me. If all these hardships makes me come closer to Allah then why not. I do not want to be one of those who have everything but they are not close to Allah. They have everything even then they do not Thank Allah. I will still Thank Allah for making me stay well fed and giving me shelter even if something important is missing.

These situations keeps us closer to Allah. The ones who have hardships in lives are the chosen ones. It gives them a reason to stay near to Allah. And if they only look at Allah, He comes closer and listen to them....

Keep ur self strong sweets... It will be over soon. The time is just around the corner when u ll be with ur two kids and ur husband.. Inshallah... Keep smiling and enjoy the time thinking about the baby who is coming soon Inshallah.

You are in my prayers.

thanks so much. I appreciate your kind words. I am thankful to Allah all the time because I know that He has my best interests in mind. Things are working out for me slowly. I still just wait for Zaheer to be here because he is my strength, but I am assuming tthat as soon as I see my baby girl for the first time, I will be a little more upbeat. I still pray constantly and try not to lose faith. I know my ex cannot keep her from me. It is illegal to voluntarily and without good reason (abuse), keep a child from the non-custodial parent. He can go to jail or get sentenced to 10 yrs probation, and yeah, they will probably drug test him, and knowing him, I doubt he will pass. I just feel bad for my parents because they miss her too and want to see her and he is keeping her away from them too by not bringing her around. But he doesnt care. Well, thanks to all and good luck everyone who is struggling with AP as well. I hope all of us will hear some good news soon. Insha'Allah. Good luck to those of you whose spouses are on their way. Safe POE to all.

Allah Hafiz.

~Tara

[wellmux 3]

wellmux did you hear any updates? I'm praying for you all insha'Allah to hear good news!!!

no update yet , i even stopped going outside home now a days because everyone who see me they ask me when i am going usa why i have not visa yet and some says oh its ur wife shes not interested in the case thats why ur still here but they dont know about this situation of AP they says ur wife is american and that should not be a problem and just ur wife is not interested. migraine migraine migraine...

[ZaheersShezadi 0]

Im sorry that people are giving you a hardtime Wellmux. Same thing is happening to Zaheer. his coworkers and family, especially his older brother, keep asking him daily when he is leaving and why he hasn't gone yet. My family always asks me "Is he gonna be here in time for the baby to be born?" I can only say I hope so. Well, I hope things go well for both of us this week, Bhai. I am praying we will hear something soon. Insha'Allah.

Allah Hafiz.

~Tara

[Hopeful786 0]

no update yet , i even stopped going outside home now a days because everyone who see me they ask me when i am going usa why i have not visa yet and some says oh its ur wife shes not interested in the case thats why ur still here but they dont know about this situation of AP they says ur wife is american and that should not be a problem and just ur wife is not interested. migraine migraine migraine...

Oh gosh, my fiance went through the samething. Why can't people just be sympathetic and nice... some of his relatives said oohhh someone went to america in a matter of 4 months through the fiance case. With these people you have to REALLY be patient and don't pay any heed to it. Just say tawakal tu elaha.... insha'Allah you WILLL get that visa. INSHA'ALLAH all of you waiting will

[Usmomo 0]

hshah08,

Aww.. But Allah swt has better plans for all of us! Must b some good in this too InshaAlllah,

I can well imagine how would u have felt when ur huby told u of no Ap! so mashaAlllah good for u! abt us we r still waiting keeping our fingers crossed dont know if thats to satisfy hearts by hoping to get the visa package within a month like many Vj menbers.

Its been so hard to pass these days after interview, i have added so many countdown gadgets on my laptop as well LOL ..we still have 18 more days to go for one month countdown from interview! This Ap is hard and counting everyday is even harder! But im truly happy for u.. mashaAlllah

I am also worried abt us getting nice jobs in US or atleast any job to get us started. I am also medical doctor did my Lisencing exams from us aswell n then got married. tried to get into residency traing but bad luck! so is my hub is also a dr but he still has to pass those exams in US. Sometimes i get so worried abt getting a job in us for us but at the same time im also very excited and looking forward to go to US , my home ASAP InshaAllah

okz inshaAlah will get a hold of u very soon, Will call u sometime,

till then continue ur happy dance lol ! May Allah bless us All Ameeeen!

~MOMO

USmomo... Im nt going to Pakistan... .. the plan was if the interview result was Ap then I wont wait and have ruksati in pakistan.... My uncle (I have a god uncle and a bad one lol) was gona go to pakisttan with me for my ruksati....I had made my mind 100% for AP. I was able to make alternate changes in case of AP... like going to Pakistan and live with hubs and staying away from my uncle and his politics... Everything would have been smooth. Not to sound unthankful to Allah but the alternate plans made me kinda want to go to AP.

You know what when my husband told me no AP for the first 5 minutes I mourned... I was like Hell NOOoo... lol... But then after five minutes I was jumping where I was.... I was so happy with the thought tht he is finally coming.

having ruksati in USA might not be very smooth for me i guess... the time around my ruksati.. everyones gona be very nice to me especially in front of my in laws they ll pretend like they have kept me like a princesses.....The problem I have with them I do not want them to be nice anymore. They have given me real hard times.... Now I dunt want to fake a good time with them..... There r going to be probs when they ll try to contribute financially but I willhave to tell them NO... They have already started planning booking a hall in marriott....... I am kinda worried on how to tell them no and have a simple ruksati..... So yeh anyways....

anyupdates from ur side?

[Usmomo 0]

Walikum assalam,

Im so happy for u mashaALllah ! such a great news Alhamdolillah, Hard work paid off, calling n dealing with DOS sure is hard work! lol

I wish u both very beautiful and blessed life together forever Ameeen,

We r still waiting its just 11 days from interview today, seems so hard to pass these days n night... waiting is hard! dont know what to expect.. we r hoping n keeping our hopes high by expecting passsport and visa package back in like a month period time like many other pple who were put on Ap.InshaAlllah... really have no clue what to expect.,...Co toold us ap could take 2-3 months but it could be less i cant say but it could b less! so we r hoping inshaAllah it will end soon...

Do keep us in ur duas jazak Allah khairn,

~MOMO

Asalamulaikum everyone!.... so my fiance came... the POE went so smoooth and easy he was out in 30 minutes. The only question they asked was what are you here for and my fiance said to marry my fiance and jokingly gave him an invitation card. I told him to print the invitation cards from there with our names and the location of the hall... and the immigration officer laughed and said ok welcome to new york enjoy... he was supposed to arrive at 3 pm and he arrived at 1 pm to JFK and was done by 2 p.m.... How is everyone doing... USmomo any updates... zaheershezadi any updates? feisal when are you departing insha'Allah?

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[FEISAL 3]

I am still in Karachi. I have some thing to do before i leave.

Hope all get vizas soon.

[Hopeful786 0]

Walikum assalam,

Im so happy for u mashaALllah ! such a great news Alhamdolillah, Hard work paid off, calling n dealing with DOS sure is hard work! lol

I wish u both very beautiful and blessed life together forever Ameeen,

We r still waiting its just 11 days from interview today, seems so hard to pass these days n night... waiting is hard! dont know what to expect.. we r hoping n keeping our hopes high by expecting passsport and visa package back in like a month period time like many other pple who were put on Ap.InshaAlllah... really have no clue what to expect.,...Co toold us ap could take 2-3 months but it could be less i cant say but it could b less! so we r hoping inshaAllah it will end soon...

Do keep us in ur duas jazak Allah khairn,

~MOMO

I'm praying hard that your AP ends soon insha'Alllah.... remain strong, and keep him twice as strong. Some family members can be sooo envious and when the shaytan gets to them, they will tell him SO many things to get him frustrated and angry. Waiting truly is hard, especially when you don't know what you will be waiting for (request for more information, investigation, or visa call insha'Allah)... but one thing for sure is something is being done on your case, at least something or it is in line to be worked on (name check). Insha'Allah I pray that your AP ends

[ishazi 0]

All i need a little help here

My wife has her interview on March 18th. Following are the things we have prepared for the interview please let me know if i am missing anything.

Copies of all documentation i communicated with NVC. All forms and receipts

Wedding Photos

Medical

Phone records

Support recepits (Money i had sent her from here)

Please let em know if i am missing anything. Do i have to submit my W2/1099 for 2009.

[Usmomo 0]

SlamoAlaikum,

I suggest take tax return 2008 or most recent that u had sent with ur application earlier. I dont knwo if they asked u to bring one at IV or not... We were asked to bring that at IV but i have seen in other psost some pple keep them just to have it at the time...

Otherwise i guess ur good to go..

Good luck for the IV... We were together( me n hubby) Co didnot ask for anything though but he kept my Dad's 2008 Tax return and Original PCC rest he gave back!

take care all n good luck Again!

~MOMO

All i need a little help here

My wife has her interview on March 18th. Following are the things we have prepared for the interview please let me know if i am missing anything.

Copies of all documentation i communicated with NVC. All forms and receipts

Wedding Photos

Medical

Phone records

Support recepits (Money i had sent her from here)

Please let em know if i am missing anything. Do i have to submit my W2/1099 for 2009.

[ishazi 0]

Thank you Usmomo. I have already submitted everything for 2008 i wanted to know if i should send her anything for 2009 last year

[ABENITEZ 0]

UPDATE YOUR SPREADSHEET!!!! VISA IN HAND!!!! He got the call and picked it up today After only 4 months!

[bankermai 1]

UPDATE YOUR SPREADSHEET!!!! VISA IN HAND!!!! He got the call and picked it up today After only 4 months!

Congratulations

[MumtazG38 1]

UPDATE YOUR SPREADSHEET!!!! VISA IN HAND!!!! He got the call and picked it up today After only 4 months!

Done. And so many deep CONGRATULATIONS and MUBARAKS to you and your husband! You've been very patient and........it seems to have paid off!

Edited February 23, 2010 by MumtazG38