Very Frustrated and annoyed at my friend who cheated

[Chica Yeyé 41]

[Usui Takumi 1,562]

I know I know i'm heading to my spaceship now

Edited June 25, 2009 by lancer1655

[NArocks 13]

No like a hoover ask the hubby

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Personal insults are personal insults even if you think they are 'funny'. They are still a violation of TOS and not allowed.

[Usui Takumi 1,562]

You obviously put too much value behind being a good human being, I personally would prefer to suck as one myself, so then of course you'd have to define to what level you must suck before it becomes an insult. I'd say my bar is very low hence alot of suckage must occur before i'm insulting someone. Just suck it up!

Edited June 25, 2009 by lancer1655

[mox 298]

Personal insults are personal insults even if you think they are 'funny'. They are still a violation of TOS and not allowed.

I think it'd be a pretty good idea if you took a little time to determine intent before pulling the trigger so quickly. I've been a victim of your itchy "personal insult" finger too, and I really think you've got your squelch setting adjust WAY too high.

[Krikit 1,164]

The hidden post was directed at a specific person and crossed the line for the upper forums. It was absolutely a good decision on Kathryn's part to remove it.

Now back to topic.

[Bobby+Umit 161]

Well - one solution to this "fiancee" problem would be to implement some sort of "mail-order" system.

Try it out for 90 days, and if you don't like it, return it for a full refund...

[mox 298]

Well - one solution to this "fiancee" problem would be to implement some sort of "mail-order" system.

Try it out for 90 days, and if you don't like it, return it for a full refund...

I tried that. The problem was that they didn't poke holes in the box. It was...messy.

[Usui Takumi 1,562]

The hidden post was directed at a specific person and crossed the line for the upper forums. It was absolutely a good decision on Kathryn's part to remove it.

Now back to topic.

I think I've outlined that it was joke. My point is this, if your going to openly censor someone's comments without bothering to actually check on the situation then things will get worse. I've basically hijacked this thread because I wasn't particularly happy with her decision. Is that right or wrong? I don't bloody care. Had she been a little less heavy handed the last page of comments wouldn't even be here.

I think "sucking as a human being" is vague and benign enough that its not insulting. Have I ever directly insulted anyone on this forum before? No.

[Nessa 23]

Well - one solution to this "fiancee" problem would be to implement some sort of "mail-order" system.

Try it out for 90 days, and if you don't like it, return it for a full refund...

I tried that. The problem was that they didn't poke holes in the box. It was...messy.

[Krikit 1,164]

My response was an attempt to respond to another member's concerns. I cannot help if you feel victimized. Off Topic has less stringent restrictions if you wish to play down there.

Back to topic.

[Usui Takumi 1,562]

I do not feel victimized, his concerns were related to mine.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

It is good to remember that we respond as moderators to reported threads. In this case we are not the only ones who saw the post as insulting (and no, it was not a report from the targeted individual).

[Usui Takumi 1,562]

A light touch goes a long way as Moxy mentioned. My point is simply that a lighter touch avoids confrontation.