Any tips on how to manage anger against your husband?

[luckymom 0]

During my first marriage, every time there are issues or problems to deal with my ex-husband just start the conversation and he was not the type that says a lot. At the course of conversation, he will just leave the house if the topic is escalating to the next level - the argument. It upsets me more if he will just leave and not resolve anything. We can't even meet at the middle. When he comes back, he acted as nothing happened and he doesn't even care to mention what was the unresolved topic. And I wasn't in a fighting mood already. I think he is the one managing my anger.

Now, there's a bit of difference because every time there is an issue or problem, it is my USC husband who always talks. We are almost two years together and with that short period of time he knows how to counteract immediately if he sense danger (if there will be issues to escalate). It doesn't happen that we have come to a point of a heated argument, unresolved issues or petty nonsense topics. Maybe people will say that our relationship is boring but it is what it is. I'm not saying we have the best relationship but it is one of a kind. I attribute my good relationship now to GOD and my husband's and I great sense of maturity. There's no sense in fighting over small stuffs. That's not cute for me and that's stressful.

[Ban Hammer 13,345]

it's also difficult to argue when getting GIVING oral too.

F!xx0rd that for ya, Charles.

based on the OP's timeline, she is not with her husband yet. which makes me wonder how an oral is possible?

he could fedex it to her.

[Bobby+Umit 161]

Bring your Husband a beer and sandwich, with a smile?

then superglue him to the bed....

[DanielParul 50]

Realise that the argument is about something or some situation which is bothering you hence the anger is against that situation not against the person. Take a deep breath everytime you feel anger or want to say something hurtful. Discuss and don't make it a competition that you have to win everytime. You love that person and it will not kill you to listen to his view.

[MikeMc 38]

A SERIOUS REMEDY PROVEN TO WORK....

The next time an argument become heated, remove all clothing, every stitch!!! It is hard to argue with a lady with no clothes.

What if he's blind?

[brnidokiegurl 0]

you just stop and ask yourself if this really worth the argument time and effort, remember both have been raised with different backgrounds, then i tell him REMEMBER IM THE BOSS ANYWAY seems to have worked so far