Hitting and Swearing

[maritoni 3]

OMGosh! I'm having goosebumps and an itching head with this KUTO thing.....have you seen LICE (Kuto) crawling on someone's head? not a good site!

Now, my head is itchy....do u think this is kuto?

Go get yourself a comb!!!that's a kuto for sure hehehehe

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

OMGosh! I'm having goosebumps and an itching head with this KUTO thing.....have you seen LICE (Kuto) crawling on someone's head? not a good site!

Now, my head is itchy....do u think this is kuto?

Go get yourself a comb!!!that's a kuto for sure hehehehe

hindi kaya Garapata na ito ate?!!hahahahahahaha

[maritoni 3]

OMGosh! I'm having goosebumps and an itching head with this KUTO thing.....have you seen LICE (Kuto) crawling on someone's head? not a good site!

Now, my head is itchy....do u think this is kuto?

Go get yourself a comb!!!that's a kuto for sure hehehehe

hindi kaya Garapata na ito ate?!!hahahahahahaha

[loveaboo 0]

She was chatting with her family and I was next to her. She then started started talking about lice for some reason to me, it must have been a topic with her family. She then grabbed my head saying this is what they do and hit the top of my head relly hard with her fingernails. Thats when I swore, what the F. She then hit me in the mouth. After ending the chat with her family she started saying things like F you! You want to F me? and hit me a few more times slapping my face etc. Through all this I did nothing to retaliate and told her to stop.

This is how I'm reading your story...She was trying to demonstrate you how to kill lice in the head and she probably didn't mean to hurt you but you took offense and over-reacted and said a bad word and she felt hurt, that's why she hit you in your mouth (like what older filipinos do to young kids saying bad words). She got hurt with your reaction...And you responding to her that way just made it worse.

Anyways, I hope you'll be able to work things out soon. Best of luck!!!

[L179 1]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

[sasha414 0]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

[sasha414 0]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

true. communication is the key to a solid marriage, no name calling, no swearing. just sit down and talk.

[DEFA17 0]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

true. communication is the key to a solid marriage, no name calling, no swearing. just sit down and talk.

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

[chinese_mutt 11]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

true. communication is the key to a solid marriage, no name calling, no swearing. just sit down and talk.

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

People who likes to create trouble and thrives in conflict.

that's war freak.. local terms here in the Philippines.

i say this... i think the OP is a troll. But honestly, I don't like it when my husband uses foul words... I can accept it when I know that it is a joke (clear in context) but if he's serious about it like if he is angry... it will offend my feelings to no end.

[SMOKE 1,426]

to anyone who has called troll: i can assure you the OP is not a troll. it is a regular poster using an alias to protect their ID. i have recieved pms from this account & the OP's original account verifying it is them.

Edited June 19, 2009 by SMOKE

[Don José 2]

to anyone who has called troll: i can assure you the OP is not a troll. it is a regular poster using an alias to protect their ID. i have recieved pms from this account & the OP's original account verifying it is them.

Aha! So, it's you!

[SMOKE 1,426]

to anyone who has called troll: i can assure you the OP is not a troll. it is a regular poster using an alias to protect their ID. i have recieved pms from this account & the OP's original account verifying it is them.

Aha! So, it's you!

nope not me...but it is a regular.

[justashooter 430]

She was chatting with her family and I was next to her. She then started started talking about lice for some reason to me, it must have been a topic with her family. She then grabbed my head saying this is what they do and hit the top of my head relly hard with her fingernails. Thats when I swore, what the F. She then hit me in the mouth. After ending the chat with her family she started saying things like F you! You want to F me? and hit me a few more times slapping my face etc. Through all this I did nothing to retaliate and told her to stop.

The rest of the night was fine. We looked at houses online to make a list of what to send to our agent. Later when we went to bed I lay down next to her cuddling up to her back and put my arm around her waist like I always do. She then turned around and hit me a few more times and swore some more and then slapped my face hard. and thats when I slapped her back and told her to stop.

She now says I'm a violent person and saying things like its over, we will live together but not be together and says that I hate her and dont love her. No matter what I do to try and convince her otherwise. She hit me 7+ times before I hit her back once.

sounds like she is having a hard time seperating from family. video chatting re-creates the seperation each time you shut it down. she is expressing the anger she feels at the loss of her family relationship, i suppose.

try to teach her how to use words, rather than fists. if she is emotionally underdeveloped this will take some time.

[DEFA17 0]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

true. communication is the key to a solid marriage, no name calling, no swearing. just sit down and talk.

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

People who likes to create trouble and thrives in conflict.

that's war freak.. local terms here in the Philippines.

i say this... i think the OP is a troll. But honestly, I don't like it when my husband uses foul words... I can accept it when I know that it is a joke (clear in context) but if he's serious about it like if he is angry... it will offend my feelings to no end.

so if someone like drama all the time that is a war freak?