Hitting and Swearing

[borednad2 0]

Yesterday my filipina wife started hiting me several times, once in the mouth just slightly off camera when she was chatting with her family back home. I swore and said "ah, what the f..." and then she would not stop swearing or hitting me. When we were going to bed she slapped my face so I slapped her back, not as hard and told her to stop because its not nice and hurts. She then hit me some more times and swore some more and now will not talk to me..

Is this sime weird philippine custom that I never heard about? Did I break some custom by hitting back and telling her to stop?

is there a reason why she hit u?if there's no reason then there might be a problem with her (psychological prhaps?)

and where was she from in the philippines?not that matters but i just wana know from which region she from.how 's ur age difference?i asked bec maybe (i really hope not) she just scammed u so she can get her gc.

i suggest the next time she slaps u or hit u then call the police.,if u dont she will

hi again..from the rest of ur story ,i still stand on the things i've said earlier..1.She is psychologically and or menrally disturbed (U need to take her to a psychiatrist),her attitude is not normal especially to a filipina. 2.she was just scamming u,so she acts things in order to get out of relationship ,hence ,u will be the guilty party later on and she will be the victim, (so i still want to know the age diffrence )call the police the next time she hits u or verbally abused u...as ive said earlier if u wont do it she would

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

Call the police...let her spend a night in Jail....then if you still love her drop the charges.

At least there are records about when it come time for divorce or when she will try to "nail you" for spousal abuse.

Do the smart thing.....

do not go down to her level and never, never hit her under any circumstance, walk away and call the police.

Few police visits and she will change her attitude...unless she is completely INSANE.

[Mr.&Mrs.A 0]

This is not good what is happening. I hope you do not mind me giving you some advice but I think you need to know some things. First, Under no circumstances hit her back! do not even swear at her no matter how bad you feel the impulse. In the US they have some very strict Domestic Violence Laws. she can without much effort, secure a Domestic Violence Injunction on you, seriously! You would not be able to return to your own home, you could no way directly or indirectly contact her. I do not know whats really going on behind closed doors, but this could turn very serious for you, very quickly. I have not even mentioned you could be arrested. Maybe she has emotional problems, its hard to know for certain. But the fact is, it could turn ugly and you could lose almost everything. Its not worth it. I truly wish you and her the very best, but by all means please be careful.

[bulaklak 0]

Yesterday my filipina wife started hiting me several times, once in the mouth just slightly off camera when she was chatting with her family back home. I swore and said "ah, what the f..." and then she would not stop swearing or hitting me. When we were going to bed she slapped my face so I slapped her back, not as hard and told her to stop because its not nice and hurts. She then hit me some more times and swore some more and now will not talk to me..

Is this sime weird philippine custom that I never heard about? Did I break some custom by hitting back and telling her to stop?

Sounds a troll to me.

perhaps you bothering her while she's talking to her family......but

troll, troll,troll troll, troll,troll

Edited June 19, 2009 by lotus101

[bulaklak 0]

Yesterday my filipina wife started hiting me several times, once in the mouth just slightly off camera when she was chatting with her family back home.

I swore and said "ah, what the f..." and then she would not stop swearing or hitting me.

When we were going to bed she slapped my face so I slapped her back, not as hard and told her to stop because its not nice and hurts.

She then hit me some more times and swore some more and now will not talk to me..

Is this sime weird philippine custom that I never heard about? Did I break some custom by hitting back and telling her to stop?

You are both crazy.....

[AngelSaint 0]

In my experience, Filipinas have four ways of expressing offense at some thing you said, or did, that embarrassed her. The first is tampo. She shuts down, doesen't say anything more than she has to, and appears withdrawn. If that doesn't work, then she will strike you. Not hard enough to hurt, just something to get your attention, nothing a tough guy like you shouldn't be able to handle. Third is the tears. Not outright crying, she will problably hide her face, but the tears will be real enough. The fourth way of expressing offense you don't want to know, and things are pretty much over at that point.

What I am trying to say here, is either you are not paying attention to what your wife is trying to tell you, and you totally fvcked up, or you stepped into something you don't want to have anything to do with. Perhaps some counseling at this point would be advised. She is probably Catholic, so both of you go see your local parish priest, and see what happens. Other than that, the Filipinos respect age, so an elderly Filipino might be able to intervene, and give you both some advise.

By striking her back, you fvcked up dude! It will take a lifetime to get her trust back, if she don't leave you at the first opportunity. Filipinas don't get mad, they get even.

I agree Mr. Bill

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

She was chatting with her family and I was next to her. She then started started talking about lice for some reason to me, it must have been a topic with her family. She then grabbed my head saying this is what they do and hit the top of my head relly hard with her fingernails. Thats when I swore, what the F. She then hit me in the mouth. After ending the chat with her family she started saying things like F you! You want to F me? and hit me a few more times slapping my face etc. Through all this I did nothing to retaliate and told her to stop.

The rest of the night was fine. We looked at houses online to make a list of what to send to our agent. Later when we went to bed I lay down next to her cuddling up to her back and put my arm around her waist like I always do. She then turned around and hit me a few more times and swore some more and then slapped my face hard. and thats when I slapped her back and told her to stop.

She now says I'm a violent person and saying things like its over, we will live together but not be together and says that I hate her and dont love her. No matter what I do to try and convince her otherwise. She hit me 7+ times before I hit her back once.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA........this is way toooo funny for me!

Ok...ok..ok...here in the Philippines its very normal for Filipino Children to have LICE (KUTO in tagalog) she just showed/demonstrate you on how we kill it using our fingernail (and YES. it really hurts!) Now, I understand that situation!

BUT HITTING YOU AGAIN just because you don't have the freaking idea what she was doing....o crapadoodledoo! major PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEM!!! and she's a MAjor Warfreak too....she gets into argument with family???

[maritoni 3]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA........this is way toooo funny for me!

Ok...ok..ok...here in the Philippines its very normal for Filipino Children to have LIES (KUTO in tagalog) she just showed/demonstrate you on how we kill it using our fingernail (and YES. it really hurts!) Now, I understand that situation!

BUT HITTING YOU AGAIN just because you don't have the freaking idea what she was doing....o crapadoodledoo! major PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEM!!! and she's a MAjor Warfreak too....she gets into argument with family???

Nabuang ka na Gani Mariel! hehe asan ang kuto dyan?hehehe,,,..teasing,teasing!

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA........this is way toooo funny for me!

Ok...ok..ok...here in the Philippines its very normal for Filipino Children to have LIES (KUTO in tagalog) she just showed/demonstrate you on how we kill it using our fingernail (and YES. it really hurts!) Now, I understand that situation!

BUT HITTING YOU AGAIN just because you don't have the freaking idea what she was doing....o crapadoodledoo! major PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEM!!! and she's a MAjor Warfreak too....she gets into argument with family???

Nabuang ka na Gani Mariel! hehe asan ang kuto dyan?hehehe,,,..teasing,teasing!

Loka loka ka ate!! I thought i mis-type it.....grrrrr ka tlga!!!!

[maritoni 3]

Loka loka ka ate!! I thought i mis-type it.....grrrrr ka tlga!!!!

The OP mistyped it not you hehe...hoy balik na sa trabaho!

[=FoxyBLUE= 2]

Loka loka ka ate!! I thought i mis-type it.....grrrrr ka tlga!!!!

The OP mistyped it not you hehe...hoy balik na sa trabaho!

no ate, i think he didnt mis-typed it....he was telling us na kinuha ng asawa nya ulo nya at start hurting him with her fingernails....or ako ang mali sa pagiintindi?lol

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

NOW..i GET IT

It is all about LICE PROBLEMS !!!!!!!!!!

The OP is really enjoying all the responses....hahahahaahah

Edited June 19, 2009 by ErosandSally

[Don José 2]

STOP FEEDING THIS TROLL!

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

STOP FEEDING THIS TROLL!

the copy and paste is getting BORING...HAHAHHAH

I read that story somewhere previously...heheheehehe

Edited June 19, 2009 by ErosandSally

[maritoni 3]

no ate, i think he didnt mis-typed it....he was telling us na kinuha ng asawa nya ulo nya at start hurting him with her fingernails....or ako ang mali sa pagiintindi?lol

Sino kaya itong nagpost dito?parang troll yata eh? shhh...