Hitting and Swearing

[RonMay 1]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

true. communication is the key to a solid marriage, no name calling, no swearing. just sit down and talk.

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

People who likes to create trouble and thrives in conflict.

that's war freak.. local terms here in the Philippines.

i say this... i think the OP is a troll. But honestly, I don't like it when my husband uses foul words... I can accept it when I know that it is a joke (clear in context) but if he's serious about it like if he is angry... it will offend my feelings to no end.

so if someone like drama all the time that is a war freak?

not only drama but wants to create trouble, conflict in an aggressive way, not a care in the world who they hurt or attack ... just a term of a negative person

[DEFA17 0]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

true. communication is the key to a solid marriage, no name calling, no swearing. just sit down and talk.

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

People who likes to create trouble and thrives in conflict.

that's war freak.. local terms here in the Philippines.

i say this... i think the OP is a troll. But honestly, I don't like it when my husband uses foul words... I can accept it when I know that it is a joke (clear in context) but if he's serious about it like if he is angry... it will offend my feelings to no end.

so if someone like drama all the time that is a war freak?

not only drama but wants to create trouble, conflict in an aggressive way, not a care in the world who they hurt or attack ... just a term of a negative person

ok thanks ....... just a lot of drama going on with my girl since i put in the paperwork

[chinese_mutt 11]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

true. communication is the key to a solid marriage, no name calling, no swearing. just sit down and talk.

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

People who likes to create trouble and thrives in conflict.

that's war freak.. local terms here in the Philippines.

i say this... i think the OP is a troll. But honestly, I don't like it when my husband uses foul words... I can accept it when I know that it is a joke (clear in context) but if he's serious about it like if he is angry... it will offend my feelings to no end.

so if someone like drama all the time that is a war freak?

not only drama but wants to create trouble, conflict in an aggressive way, not a care in the world who they hurt or attack ... just a term of a negative person

ok thanks ....... just a lot of drama going on with my girl since i put in the paperwork

hummm... maybe the stress of filing a petition is getting to both of you.. take a step back and chill with your girl for a while without mentioning visa stuffs.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

true. communication is the key to a solid marriage, no name calling, no swearing. just sit down and talk.

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

People who likes to create trouble and thrives in conflict.

that's war freak.. local terms here in the Philippines.

i say this... i think the OP is a troll. But honestly, I don't like it when my husband uses foul words... I can accept it when I know that it is a joke (clear in context) but if he's serious about it like if he is angry... it will offend my feelings to no end.

so if someone like drama all the time that is a war freak?

not only drama but wants to create trouble, conflict in an aggressive way, not a care in the world who they hurt or attack ... just a term of a negative person

ok thanks ....... just a lot of drama going on with my girl since i put in the paperwork

Not to worry. Filipinos are used to expressing emotion in a way that is uncomfortable to the American male at times, and then be completely reserved the next moment. Get used to the drama. Sometimes it seems Filipinas are always on stage. They think whatever they see in the Telenovelas is the way they are supposed to act in real life. I just asked my wife, and she says, "Sometimes."

[DEFA17 0]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

true. communication is the key to a solid marriage, no name calling, no swearing. just sit down and talk.

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

People who likes to create trouble and thrives in conflict.

that's war freak.. local terms here in the Philippines.

i say this... i think the OP is a troll. But honestly, I don't like it when my husband uses foul words... I can accept it when I know that it is a joke (clear in context) but if he's serious about it like if he is angry... it will offend my feelings to no end.

so if someone like drama all the time that is a war freak?

not only drama but wants to create trouble, conflict in an aggressive way, not a care in the world who they hurt or attack ... just a term of a negative person

ok thanks ....... just a lot of drama going on with my girl since i put in the paperwork

Not to worry. Filipinos are used to expressing emotion in a way that is uncomfortable to the American male at times, and then be completely reserved the next moment. Get used to the drama. Sometimes it seems Filipinas are always on stage. They think whatever they see in the Telenovelas is the way they are supposed to act in real life. I just asked my wife, and she says, "Sometimes."

ok thanks for the advice.....it is weird she can be freaking out about something one minute then the next conversation be fine and be my sweetheart again....maybe the stress because I know I was stressing last week when I was putting the packet together wanted to make sure everything was good to go....I just can't wait to go out to see her on the first again

[pasaway na angel 2]

hi! i can't help but think that she's emotionally disturbed and you have communications problem. i can say that coz i am somewhat like her. i was raised in a family where anyone can do the talking about problems but it is not necessary that you get listened to. this made me bottle up my emotions and keep them to myself.

i never had a BF before my hubby and so i never got to really practice communicating how i feel when something's bothering me. unlike your wife though, i never hit people nor get violent. i tend to cry.

once in an argument, i would just keep quiet and not tell my hubby what i think was wrong. then, he said the most incredible thing. he told me, "bebe, i love you and i want to help you but i wouldn't know how til you tell me. i wouldn't know what you want me to do or not want me to do unless you tell me." suddenly, it's not just about me or my behavior, it's about him and me and how we can make things work.

try to make her see that you are not mad at her but of what she did. it might work.

[Ban Hammer 13,282]

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

a republican.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

a republican.

[RonMay 1]

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

a republican.

charles be nice...

i might be a republican

[sasha414 0]

ninja in disguise i guess.

you ought to just give her a cold shoulder

she wouldn't expect a 'no-reaction' treatment from you

and then just tell her that you can't talk about it!

if you use the "silent treatment", she will make the first move to talk to you . well at least, thats what usually happens. right now, maybe she is making pakipot, playing hard to get .

OR MAYBE!!!!! she is thinking of another Ninja Moves....LOL

well seriously, TALK...COMMUNICATE with her! it will be hard I know.,but atlis you've tried!

true. communication is the key to a solid marriage, no name calling, no swearing. just sit down and talk.

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

People who likes to create trouble and thrives in conflict.

that's war freak.. local terms here in the Philippines.

i say this... i think the OP is a troll. But honestly, I don't like it when my husband uses foul words... I can accept it when I know that it is a joke (clear in context) but if he's serious about it like if he is angry... it will offend my feelings to no end.

so if someone like drama all the time that is a war freak?

not only drama but wants to create trouble, conflict in an aggressive way, not a care in the world who they hurt or attack ... just a term of a negative person

ok thanks ....... just a lot of drama going on with my girl since i put in the paperwork

then she must be a "drama queen"?

[Cherry&Ed 4]

Too freakin' ####### for a Filipina...

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Tomboy ang palagay sa'yo?

[maritoni 3]

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

Warfreak is a Trouble maker!

[Ban Hammer 13,282]

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

a republican.

charles be nice...

i might be a republican

prove it, post a pic of your gun collection

oh btw, i'm a republican. and a gun owner

Edited June 20, 2009 by charles!

[Robert E Lee 0]

Can I ask a question??? What is a war freak???? I saw it mentioned a few times in this thread?

a republican.

charles be nice...

i might be a republican

prove it, post a pic of your gun collection

oh btw, i'm a republican. and a gun owner

I'm chugged full to be a gun-totin' Southern Republican!