K3 Visa returned to USCIS

[magnolia2002 0]

After the Embassy held our file for almost six months, they returned it to the USCIS. My senator's office just informed me that the USCIS told them to contact them in another 6-9 months.

I don't know what else to do.

I haven't seen my husband in a year after having been married for almost 2 years and having lived with him in Jordan for 7 months. Proving we have a true marriage was never the problem.

No one will tell us why....Not the embassy, not the USCIS, not the NVC. They wouldn't even tell my senator's office. He has no criminal record, no red flags (that I'm aware of) and no reason whatsoever for any of this. He is 50 years old and I am 45. The only reason I am not with him in Jordan now is because I'm the only one who can care for my mother who has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's, so I had to return to the states.

Now I'm torn. Do I put my mother in a nursing home and return to my husband? Do I stay without my husband for 1-2 more years while I care for my mother? We are 50 and 45 and not getting any younger. It's a no-win situation and this is tearing my heart out and I am so very tired.

I've tried lawyers...I've paid so much money for them to tell me that they want more money that I have no money left. I've tried to find someone with a similar situation on here but I can't.

If anyone knows what else I could possibly do other than contacting my senator/representative, spending money on a lawyer to tell me the same thing the senator's office did, please...please...let me know.

Please.

[JustJ 0]

I wish I could help, but I'm really new at all of this.

I just felt the need to post and tell you how sorry I am for you.

If you ever want to just vent, message me. Maybe I can help in that way.

[YGandMAT 0]

I wish I could help, but I'm really new at all of this.

I just felt the need to post and tell you how sorry I am for you.

If you ever want to just vent, message me. Maybe I can help in that way.

I understand it can be very difficult. However, I would never leave my mother in a nursing home, I would not have the heart to abandon her. Your heart can guide you, follow it.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I also dont have any advise, just lending some support. I hope you can make the right decision for you. Do you have any siblings that can help keeping an eye on mom if you did place her? There are a lot of facilities that specialize in the care of alziemers patients. You may find that she may even do better in a setting where they are trained and equipped to care for her 24/7.

good luck in your decision.