I don't know if I can make it...

[sara..... 371]

i dont know if i can make it either

jackie stop that! after all u guys have been thru this last year YOU ARE going to make it

sara

[-Cinnamon- 0]

God is GOOD! ALL the TIME!!!

[*Maureen* 0]

I agree with what the others said, you really should EXPECT AP, its pretty standard and shouldnt be seen as a 'bad sign', but rather just more to endure.....

dont worry, all this waiting will end at some point and you'll move on to the oh so fun adjustment phase

so true!!!!!

[brnidokiegurl 0]

Jackie you will, isnt it done all except for him getting on the plane? Girl go mow that yard few more time, paint, move the furniture like u did before. Take that gdaughter swimming, to the zoo go on one of your short road trips, time will pass

[~Jackie~ 30]

thx you guys for the encouragment.

yes, all that is left is him getting on a plane~only problem with that is..he wont/cant til end of the year. This concept of 'having a visa' and not using it...is fuked up. I CANT wrap my brain around it.

So I give him grief, then I feel bad cuz he says its out of his hands. I havnt cried in many months, and now the tears are flowing like rain. I dont think he will try to visit in July, I think he will ask the embassy to extend his exit date PAST dec 4

[sara..... 371]

thx you guys for the encouragment.

yes, all that is left is him getting on a plane~only problem with that is..he wont/cant til end of the year. This concept of 'having a visa' and not using it...is fuked up. I CANT wrap my brain around it.

So I give him grief, then I feel bad cuz he says its out of his hands. I havnt cried in many months, and now the tears are flowing like rain. I dont think he will try to visit in July, I think he will ask the embassy to extend his exit date PAST dec 4

jackie i cant say i know how u feel exactly, but i know the crying and the missing and the feeling of being alone, but u will get thru it, i dont know the reason why he is not able to come yet cuz i have not really been watching a lot of things on the board lately, but ur in my prayers.

sara

[Staashi 371]

Girl, just look at it like Santa is bringing you one huge gift. You know, I realize it is June, but Christmas is truly right around the corner...or at least I look at it that way. I don't know why, but I can't wait for it to be here. Maybe it's just that Florida is so freaking hot right now and all I want to do is dream summer away. At least you know that you'll have a warm body there on those freezing cold Chicago nights.

[~Jackie~ 30]

government work contract and they wont let him leave the airport without a clearance

I will focus on being grateful for what we do have~not what we don't. (but i still wanna punch a wall~or paint it )

jJ

[JeanneVictoria 55]

government work contract and they wont let him leave the airport without a clearance

I will focus on being grateful for what we do have~not what we don't. (but i still wanna punch a wall~or paint it )

jJ

Can you meet him and fly home together? Perhaps for a couple weeks!

[Nagishkaw 510]

It's 16 days until the interview and it hit me like a ton of bricks last night. I'm so nervous im sick. I can't stop crying, All i can do is pray, cry, puke and freak out.

Every thing I have ever wanted depends on this day inshalla it will be fine but i can't shake the feeling of not knowing. I have no idea how i will react if they say denied or AR. I wish i could question the CO and ask if they understand the impact of the choice they make on the lives of others? My mind is spinning and all i know right now is i need my heart and my soul, my sweet perfect Habibi. Abdalla and i were lucky so far, we never had an RAF, every thing has seemed to happen so fast and not this long drawn out wait is killing me.

How did you guys get threw this? how do you cope? what do i do? I feel like im falling apart

Your miracle is just around the corner, Sis. Keep pressing in.