help me about chats..pls...

[Ken-Love 0]

hello!

i posted about it before but i can't find it here...we chatted for 3 years but sad to say i don't have a copy of 2005 to november 2008 chats.2005-2006 i am using cafe then 2007 and before 2008 about to end i had my own pc but my pc crashed down and had to do re-programming and re-installed stuffs and everything on it.all i had is the december 2008 till today chats. is it ok if i just select random of our nice,clean, loving chats we had from december 2008 up to the present? my fiance is not so fond of email too, just had a few.

thanks!

Edited June 9, 2009 by Ken-Love

[NatPatBen 3]

Do you have enough other evidence so that the chat history doesn't matter?

Visits, phone call logs? If so, then you may not even need to include your chat history.

But if you want/need to include the chats, I think a random sample will be sufficient, perhaps one screenshot per month, or one every other month. The goal is just to show a continued relationship. From what I've read of interview experiences, often times they don't even look at half the evidence people bring with them.

[Ken-Love 0]

Do you have enough other evidence so that the chat history doesn't matter?

Visits, phone call logs? If so, then you may not even need to include your chat history.

But if you want/need to include the chats, I think a random sample will be sufficient, perhaps one screenshot per month, or one every other month. The goal is just to show a continued relationship. From what I've read of interview experiences, often times they don't even look at half the evidence people bring with them.

yes,we had lots of pictures together when he visited me,e-mails,postal cards.i able to saved my phone call logs when i still had a landline. here in philippines they had pre-screening interview before yuo will have an interview with the consul.

thank you!

[skparker 0]

Do you have enough other evidence so that the chat history doesn't matter?

Visits, phone call logs? If so, then you may not even need to include your chat history.

But if you want/need to include the chats, I think a random sample will be sufficient, perhaps one screenshot per month, or one every other month. The goal is just to show a continued relationship. From what I've read of interview experiences, often times they don't even look at half the evidence people bring with them.

yes,we had lots of pictures together when he visited me,e-mails,postal cards.i able to saved my phone call logs when i still had a landline. here in philippines they had pre-screening interview before yuo will have an interview with the consul.

thank you!

When my husband had his interview they didn't look at any past evidence...granted we are in totally different places.

A recommendation to maybe help the lost information you have....is write a note saying you and your fiance met this date, spoke on skype (or whatever you used), and you sign it, your fiance signs it, and if your parents always saw (if your still living at home) you always on...have them sign it too. if not, just you and your fiance sign it. i would pick out a few emails from each month you have spoke and a bunch of photos of course. if you guys ever used the phone...call your phone company if you dont have the call log and they should be able to send it to you or you should even be able to look it up online.

letters from each of your parents stating you have had a legit relationship from 05-08 (i believe you said) wouldnt hurt and have them sign it. im sure your embassy isnt have easy to get through....so that would be my own opinion of what would help you....not that i have gone through your embassy.

good luck on your journey

[Ken-Love 0]

Do you have enough other evidence so that the chat history doesn't matter?

Visits, phone call logs? If so, then you may not even need to include your chat history.

But if you want/need to include the chats, I think a random sample will be sufficient, perhaps one screenshot per month, or one every other month. The goal is just to show a continued relationship. From what I've read of interview experiences, often times they don't even look at half the evidence people bring with them.

yes,we had lots of pictures together when he visited me,e-mails,postal cards.i able to saved my phone call logs when i still had a landline. here in philippines they had pre-screening interview before yuo will have an interview with the consul.

thank you!

When my husband had his interview they didn't look at any past evidence...granted we are in totally different places.

A recommendation to maybe help the lost information you have....is write a note saying you and your fiance met this date, spoke on skype (or whatever you used), and you sign it, your fiance signs it, and if your parents always saw (if your still living at home) you always on...have them sign it too. if not, just you and your fiance sign it. i would pick out a few emails from each month you have spoke and a bunch of photos of course. if you guys ever used the phone...call your phone company if you dont have the call log and they should be able to send it to you or you should even be able to look it up online.

letters from each of your parents stating you have had a legit relationship from 05-08 (i believe you said) wouldnt hurt and have them sign it. im sure your embassy isnt have easy to get through....so that would be my own opinion of what would help you....not that i have gone through your embassy.

good luck on your journey

thank you!

we didnt have lots of emails, he just started sending last year when i told him that e-mails can be a proof of on going relationship.im living alone.