help me very sad

[foreverlove 0]

Hello fellow members u know I had my interview last 2 and 3 of June for k3 and k4 visa but very sad the first interview so kind to me Filipino guy but he told me madam I don’t know only the consular decision your application because your husband has active fiancée petition from other woman and until now he didn’t cancel he asked me that So I answered ohh my God we thought me and my husband it was cancelled automatically..God its mistakes and then about my husband affidavit of support cannot reach the poverty level and they don’t allow my co-sponsor my mother in-law .maybe because she’s retired and old and also they question our relationship if genuine too short time we got married immediately is that really love first meeting after one week got married ..But god knows in my self knows that I really love my husband but they don’t believe that u know so many questions they really interrogated me at inside the fraud unit my background they check everything about my passed of ex boyfriend b4 daddy of my daughter my ex boyfriend on chat room they asked that ..You know I’m so sad now they really compared our petition and petition of ex girlfriend of my husband the petition of ex gf was very good statements than mine my husband told me because he was using lawyer before that’s why like that ..ok back to investigation they really wanted me to tell them that I don’t love my husband my intention is immigrant only ..i cried there that I said no I love my husband but where’s the love that’s very short visit then got married that‘s stupidity he said and he told me that better I say no because I have chance I never waste my money to come back and come like other people there the same situation to me fraud unit..Take years because the consul cant convince it ..u know I had tourist visa application before it was denied right after denied I met my husband on net so they really think I want only immigrant visa..so they conclude that .i cried there u know I said I love my husband that’s why I married to him immidiately..but they said i love only for immigrant reason and also they said I just wanted to marry American because of my daughter future ..i said no sir that’s wrong conclusion..my daughter has good life my daughter is secured already because her daddy supporting her and he didn’t abandon her , to be honest I don’t look after money I have bit good life in my place to be honest and also the consul said why I choose poor man that I’m pretty woman and educated I said I love my husband that’s why I really want go to America and i said I want to stay with my husband for the rest of my life but again they don’t believe that coz husband just once went here honestly my husband when we got married he don’t have job and he stayed her 27 days only and after married and never come back because his working hard now and save money but the consul don’t convince that..so now in my statement I married my husband no love and I just married to him just to come over in usa..but so sad because i know myself I love him so much .anyway I explained already to my husband but he understand that they interrogated me because of her petition..ok in June 3,2009 I signed my statements and if I didn’t sign they will bond me for the whole life and all my relatives cant go to USA if I don’t withdraw that petition ..because and they file case against me if they find out more about me, about my business I had business before but I wont scared because i paid taxes and no debts at all only customers has debts to me..so now the consul said to me maam please dont ruin your life and your future..i prayed that time that everything went well anyway that’s what im doing at that time ..so at that time I said to the consul maam I will withdraw the petition now she said maam thank you I would be greatful that ur being honest to us..i just really trying to help you maam..so after signing the papers..She asked me any questioned the only question I thought at that moment are..maam can I apply again for visa? she said yes maam anytime as u like but immigrant visa is suitable for u and can my husband file for me a petition? she said yes..But maam tell your husband to come with you and solve the problem..She meant about other petition that still active until now..im very sad…anyway that’s my situation during interviewed and now I need your advices is anyone the same situation with me here?..i had my immigrant pending at NVC the I-130 that’s approved we choose the k3 and k4 so that I can take my daughter with me but it goes wrong. Guy’s please advice us what we‘re going to do and how to start again because at the moment I’m so upset and I can’t understand my self very sad and my husband too. Anyway maybe God has plan to our lives. Your comments and advices is appreciated .Please enlighten us what to do now.thank you advance

[AbbynSheryl 0]

I fell so bad for u , yes in my opinion next time he files get a good attorney and make sure to in the interview with ur husband.

good luck.

abby n sheryl

[maritoni 3]

Sorry to hear...but iv'e no advice to offer...Wait till "Haole" come up with useful advice...God bless..

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

Tatagalugin ko na lang para magkaintindihan tayo ng husto.

Nakikisimpatya ako sa nangyari sa yo.. Maging positibo ka. Wag mawalan ng pag asa. Manalig sa nasa ITAAS. Humanap kayo ng magaling na abogado.

Wala na akong ibang maipapayo..

[DEDixon 39]

Your husband has to clean up the past, I guess.

You should probably get ready for a very long wait for coming to the USA. Cases much less complicated than your case cause people to wait years.

It is good that you have a good life there in the RP. Concentrate on schooling, go back to college, improve your education while you wait, because education is key to a successful life in the USA. Without education, with standard RP type of education, you'll be stuck in entry level jobs here. Get a Masters Degree while you wait... really, you most likely will have time to finish it.

Sad to hear what happen to you.

[Brian and Dona 0]

Hello fellow members u know I had my interview last 2 and 3 of June for k3 and k4 visa but very sad the first interview so kind to me Filipino guy but he told me madam I don’t know only the consular decision your application because your husband has active fiancée petition from other woman and until now he didn’t cancel he asked me that So I answered ohh my God we thought me and my husband it was cancelled automatically..God its mistakes and then about my husband affidavit of support cannot reach the poverty level and they don’t allow my co-sponsor my mother in-law .maybe because she’s retired and old and also they question our relationship if genuine too short time we got married immediately is that really love first meeting after one week got married ..But god knows in my self knows that I really love my husband but they don’t believe that u know so many questions they really interrogated me at inside the fraud unit my background they check everything about my passed of ex boyfriend b4 daddy of my daughter my ex boyfriend on chat room they asked that ..You know I’m so sad now they really compared our petition and petition of ex girlfriend of my husband the petition of ex gf was very good statements than mine my husband told me because he was using lawyer before that’s why like that ..ok back to investigation they really wanted me to tell them that I don’t love my husband my intention is immigrant only ..i cried there that I said no I love my husband but where’s the love that’s very short visit then got married that‘s stupidity he said and he told me that better I say no because I have chance I never waste my money to come back and come like other people there the same situation to me fraud unit..Take years because the consul cant convince it ..u know I had tourist visa application before it was denied right after denied I met my husband on net so they really think I want only immigrant visa..so they conclude that .i cried there u know I said I love my husband that’s why I married to him immidiately..but they said i love only for immigrant reason and also they said I just wanted to marry American because of my daughter future ..i said no sir that’s wrong conclusion..my daughter has good life my daughter is secured already because her daddy supporting her and he didn’t abandon her , to be honest I don’t look after money I have bit good life in my place to be honest and also the consul said why I choose poor man that I’m pretty woman and educated I said I love my husband that’s why I really want go to America and i said I want to stay with my husband for the rest of my life but again they don’t believe that coz husband just once went here honestly my husband when we got married he don’t have job and he stayed her 27 days only and after married and never come back because his working hard now and save money but the consul don’t convince that..so now in my statement I married my husband no love and I just married to him just to come over in usa..but so sad because i know myself I love him so much .anyway I explained already to my husband but he understand that they interrogated me because of her petition..ok in June 3,2009 I signed my statements and if I didn’t sign they will bond me for the whole life and all my relatives cant go to USA if I don’t withdraw that petition ..because and they file case against me if they find out more about me, about my business I had business before but I wont scared because i paid taxes and no debts at all only customers has debts to me..so now the consul said to me maam please dont ruin your life and your future..i prayed that time that everything went well anyway that’s what im doing at that time ..so at that time I said to the consul maam I will withdraw the petition now she said maam thank you I would be greatful that ur being honest to us..i just really trying to help you maam..so after signing the papers..She asked me any questioned the only question I thought at that moment are..maam can I apply again for visa? she said yes maam anytime as u like but immigrant visa is suitable for u and can my husband file for me a petition? she said yes..But maam tell your husband to come with you and solve the problem..She meant about other petition that still active until now..im very sad…anyway that’s my situation during interviewed and now I need your advices is anyone the same situation with me here?..i had my immigrant pending at NVC the I-130 that’s approved we choose the k3 and k4 so that I can take my daughter with me but it goes wrong. Guy’s please advice us what we‘re going to do and how to start again because at the moment I’m so upset and I can’t understand my self very sad and my husband too. Anyway maybe God has plan to our lives. Your comments and advices is appreciated .Please enlighten us what to do now.thank you advance

I am sorry to hear this, and it sound very similiar to my case. My wife in the Philippines was denied her visa, because they did not believe our relationship. And the case was sent back to the USCIS and sat there for two years before I got advise from lawyer to refile and be present during the interview. Meanwhile I have saved every document possible for the last 5 years and refiled and will be present during the interview here in the coming months ahead. I strongly suggest seek advice from a good lawyer and possibly refile and have your significant other present during the interview. I also suggest making several visits while in the immigration process. I made two trips in the two year wait. And save all evidence and hope that everything will be worked out the next time around. I know how they can play there scare tactic ways during the interview and for that I hold them forever accountable and I will let them know when I show up at the interview. I will not budge at their childish games, and infact I can beat them at their own game. If they doubt the relationship, they do anything they can to break you down and interogate you like a murder suspect. In my situation they didn't even look at the evidence I sent my wife, so this time I will force them to look at it, all 8 inches of papers. I am still mad at them 3 years later. But anyway I hope for a quick resolution for you.

[sojen 0]

Hello fellow members u know I had my interview last 2 and 3 of June for k3 and k4 visa but very sad the first interview so kind to me Filipino guy but he told me madam I don’t know only the consular decision your application because your husband has active fiancée petition from other woman and until now he didn’t cancel he asked me that So I answered ohh my God we thought me and my husband it was cancelled automatically..God its mistakes and then about my husband affidavit of support cannot reach the poverty level and they don’t allow my co-sponsor my mother in-law .maybe because she’s retired and old and also they question our relationship if genuine too short time we got married immediately is that really love first meeting after one week got married ..But god knows in my self knows that I really love my husband but they don’t believe that u know so many questions they really interrogated me at inside the fraud unit my background they check everything about my passed of ex boyfriend b4 daddy of my daughter my ex boyfriend on chat room they asked that ..You know I’m so sad now they really compared our petition and petition of ex girlfriend of my husband the petition of ex gf was very good statements than mine my husband told me because he was using lawyer before that’s why like that ..ok back to investigation they really wanted me to tell them that I don’t love my husband my intention is immigrant only ..i cried there that I said no I love my husband but where’s the love that’s very short visit then got married that‘s stupidity he said and he told me that better I say no because I have chance I never waste my money to come back and come like other people there the same situation to me fraud unit..Take years because the consul cant convince it ..u know I had tourist visa application before it was denied right after denied I met my husband on net so they really think I want only immigrant visa..so they conclude that .i cried there u know I said I love my husband that’s why I married to him immidiately..but they said i love only for immigrant reason and also they said I just wanted to marry American because of my daughter future ..i said no sir that’s wrong conclusion..my daughter has good life my daughter is secured already because her daddy supporting her and he didn’t abandon her , to be honest I don’t look after money I have bit good life in my place to be honest and also the consul said why I choose poor man that I’m pretty woman and educated I said I love my husband that’s why I really want go to America and i said I want to stay with my husband for the rest of my life but again they don’t believe that coz husband just once went here honestly my husband when we got married he don’t have job and he stayed her 27 days only and after married and never come back because his working hard now and save money but the consul don’t convince that..so now in my statement I married my husband no love and I just married to him just to come over in usa..but so sad because i know myself I love him so much .anyway I explained already to my husband but he understand that they interrogated me because of her petition..ok in June 3,2009 I signed my statements and if I didn’t sign they will bond me for the whole life and all my relatives cant go to USA if I don’t withdraw that petition ..because and they file case against me if they find out more about me, about my business I had business before but I wont scared because i paid taxes and no debts at all only customers has debts to me..so now the consul said to me maam please dont ruin your life and your future..i prayed that time that everything went well anyway that’s what im doing at that time ..so at that time I said to the consul maam I will withdraw the petition now she said maam thank you I would be greatful that ur being honest to us..i just really trying to help you maam..so after signing the papers..She asked me any questioned the only question I thought at that moment are..maam can I apply again for visa? she said yes maam anytime as u like but immigrant visa is suitable for u and can my husband file for me a petition? she said yes..But maam tell your husband to come with you and solve the problem..She meant about other petition that still active until now..im very sad…anyway that’s my situation during interviewed and now I need your advices is anyone the same situation with me here?..i had my immigrant pending at NVC the I-130 that’s approved we choose the k3 and k4 so that I can take my daughter with me but it goes wrong. Guy’s please advice us what we‘re going to do and how to start again because at the moment I’m so upset and I can’t understand my self very sad and my husband too. Anyway maybe God has plan to our lives. Your comments and advices is appreciated .Please enlighten us what to do now.thank you advance

I am sorry to hear this, and it sound very similiar to my case. My wife in the Philippines was denied her visa, because they did not believe our relationship. And the case was sent back to the USCIS and sat there for two years before I got advise from lawyer to refile and be present during the interview. Meanwhile I have saved every document possible for the last 5 years and refiled and will be present during the interview here in the coming months ahead. I strongly suggest seek advice from a good lawyer and possibly refile and have your significant other present during the interview. I also suggest making several visits while in the immigration process. I made two trips in the two year wait. And save all evidence and hope that everything will be worked out the next time around. I know how they can play there scare tactic ways during the interview and for that I hold them forever accountable and I will let them know when I show up at the interview. I will not budge at their childish games, and infact I can beat them at their own game. If they doubt the relationship, they do anything they can to break you down and interogate you like a murder suspect. In my situation they didn't even look at the evidence I sent my wife, so this time I will force them to look at it, all 8 inches of papers. I am still mad at them 3 years later. But anyway I hope for a quick resolution for you.

I am sorry it happened to you and I really don't know how to help you. But don't lose hope and patience. Just take this situation as one of your trials that will make your marriage stronger. It is also a bit difficult to get approved too if your husband did not reach the 125% poverty guideline.

To dona and Brian, I am just curious. did your wife go to that room too where they interrogate and let her sign some papers? or they just deny it right away?

[Brian and Dona 0]

Hello fellow members u know I had my interview last 2 and 3 of June for k3 and k4 visa but very sad the first interview so kind to me Filipino guy but he told me madam I don’t know only the consular decision your application because your husband has active fiancée petition from other woman and until now he didn’t cancel he asked me that So I answered ohh my God we thought me and my husband it was cancelled automatically..God its mistakes and then about my husband affidavit of support cannot reach the poverty level and they don’t allow my co-sponsor my mother in-law .maybe because she’s retired and old and also they question our relationship if genuine too short time we got married immediately is that really love first meeting after one week got married ..But god knows in my self knows that I really love my husband but they don’t believe that u know so many questions they really interrogated me at inside the fraud unit my background they check everything about my passed of ex boyfriend b4 daddy of my daughter my ex boyfriend on chat room they asked that ..You know I’m so sad now they really compared our petition and petition of ex girlfriend of my husband the petition of ex gf was very good statements than mine my husband told me because he was using lawyer before that’s why like that ..ok back to investigation they really wanted me to tell them that I don’t love my husband my intention is immigrant only ..i cried there that I said no I love my husband but where’s the love that’s very short visit then got married that‘s stupidity he said and he told me that better I say no because I have chance I never waste my money to come back and come like other people there the same situation to me fraud unit..Take years because the consul cant convince it ..u know I had tourist visa application before it was denied right after denied I met my husband on net so they really think I want only immigrant visa..so they conclude that .i cried there u know I said I love my husband that’s why I married to him immidiately..but they said i love only for immigrant reason and also they said I just wanted to marry American because of my daughter future ..i said no sir that’s wrong conclusion..my daughter has good life my daughter is secured already because her daddy supporting her and he didn’t abandon her , to be honest I don’t look after money I have bit good life in my place to be honest and also the consul said why I choose poor man that I’m pretty woman and educated I said I love my husband that’s why I really want go to America and i said I want to stay with my husband for the rest of my life but again they don’t believe that coz husband just once went here honestly my husband when we got married he don’t have job and he stayed her 27 days only and after married and never come back because his working hard now and save money but the consul don’t convince that..so now in my statement I married my husband no love and I just married to him just to come over in usa..but so sad because i know myself I love him so much .anyway I explained already to my husband but he understand that they interrogated me because of her petition..ok in June 3,2009 I signed my statements and if I didn’t sign they will bond me for the whole life and all my relatives cant go to USA if I don’t withdraw that petition ..because and they file case against me if they find out more about me, about my business I had business before but I wont scared because i paid taxes and no debts at all only customers has debts to me..so now the consul said to me maam please dont ruin your life and your future..i prayed that time that everything went well anyway that’s what im doing at that time ..so at that time I said to the consul maam I will withdraw the petition now she said maam thank you I would be greatful that ur being honest to us..i just really trying to help you maam..so after signing the papers..She asked me any questioned the only question I thought at that moment are..maam can I apply again for visa? she said yes maam anytime as u like but immigrant visa is suitable for u and can my husband file for me a petition? she said yes..But maam tell your husband to come with you and solve the problem..She meant about other petition that still active until now..im very sad…anyway that’s my situation during interviewed and now I need your advices is anyone the same situation with me here?..i had my immigrant pending at NVC the I-130 that’s approved we choose the k3 and k4 so that I can take my daughter with me but it goes wrong. Guy’s please advice us what we‘re going to do and how to start again because at the moment I’m so upset and I can’t understand my self very sad and my husband too. Anyway maybe God has plan to our lives. Your comments and advices is appreciated .Please enlighten us what to do now.thank you advance

I am sorry to hear this, and it sound very similiar to my case. My wife in the Philippines was denied her visa, because they did not believe our relationship. And the case was sent back to the USCIS and sat there for two years before I got advise from lawyer to refile and be present during the interview. Meanwhile I have saved every document possible for the last 5 years and refiled and will be present during the interview here in the coming months ahead. I strongly suggest seek advice from a good lawyer and possibly refile and have your significant other present during the interview. I also suggest making several visits while in the immigration process. I made two trips in the two year wait. And save all evidence and hope that everything will be worked out the next time around. I know how they can play there scare tactic ways during the interview and for that I hold them forever accountable and I will let them know when I show up at the interview. I will not budge at their childish games, and infact I can beat them at their own game. If they doubt the relationship, they do anything they can to break you down and interogate you like a murder suspect. In my situation they didn't even look at the evidence I sent my wife, so this time I will force them to look at it, all 8 inches of papers. I am still mad at them 3 years later. But anyway I hope for a quick resolution for you.

I am sorry it happened to you and I really don't know how to help you. But don't lose hope and patience. Just take this situation as one of your trials that will make your marriage stronger. It is also a bit difficult to get approved too if your husband did not reach the 125% poverty guideline.

To dona and Brian, I am just curious. did your wife go to that room too where they interrogate and let her sign some papers? or they just deny it right away?

According to what my wife said, they told her to sign some papers. And what they said was by her signing those papers, she admitted that she only married me to go to USA, which is hogwash. It was put on AP for about 8 weeks then denied. They sent her a letter and said if you wish to discuss this matter, email the consolor, which we both did, and of course we never heard anything from anybody. They just turned a deaf ear, and it makes me angry even more

[sasha414 0]

Hello fellow members u know I had my interview last 2 and 3 of June for k3 and k4 visa but very sad the first interview so kind to me Filipino guy but he told me madam I don’t know only the consular decision your application because your husband has active fiancée petition from other woman and until now he didn’t cancel he asked me that So I answered ohh my God we thought me and my husband it was cancelled automatically..God its mistakes and then about my husband affidavit of support cannot reach the poverty level and they don’t allow my co-sponsor my mother in-law .maybe because she’s retired and old and also they question our relationship if genuine too short time we got married immediately is that really love first meeting after one week got married ..But god knows in my self knows that I really love my husband but they don’t believe that u know so many questions they really interrogated me at inside the fraud unit my background they check everything about my passed of ex boyfriend b4 daddy of my daughter my ex boyfriend on chat room they asked that ..You know I’m so sad now they really compared our petition and petition of ex girlfriend of my husband the petition of ex gf was very good statements than mine my husband told me because he was using lawyer before that’s why like that ..ok back to investigation they really wanted me to tell them that I don’t love my husband my intention is immigrant only ..i cried there that I said no I love my husband but where’s the love that’s very short visit then got married that‘s stupidity he said and he told me that better I say no because I have chance I never waste my money to come back and come like other people there the same situation to me fraud unit..Take years because the consul cant convince it ..u know I had tourist visa application before it was denied right after denied I met my husband on net so they really think I want only immigrant visa..so they conclude that .i cried there u know I said I love my husband that’s why I married to him immidiately..but they said i love only for immigrant reason and also they said I just wanted to marry American because of my daughter future ..i said no sir that’s wrong conclusion..my daughter has good life my daughter is secured already because her daddy supporting her and he didn’t abandon her , to be honest I don’t look after money I have bit good life in my place to be honest and also the consul said why I choose poor man that I’m pretty woman and educated I said I love my husband that’s why I really want go to America and i said I want to stay with my husband for the rest of my life but again they don’t believe that coz husband just once went here honestly my husband when we got married he don’t have job and he stayed her 27 days only and after married and never come back because his working hard now and save money but the consul don’t convince that..so now in my statement I married my husband no love and I just married to him just to come over in usa..but so sad because i know myself I love him so much .anyway I explained already to my husband but he understand that they interrogated me because of her petition..ok in June 3,2009 I signed my statements and if I didn’t sign they will bond me for the whole life and all my relatives cant go to USA if I don’t withdraw that petition ..because and they file case against me if they find out more about me, about my business I had business before but I wont scared because i paid taxes and no debts at all only customers has debts to me..so now the consul said to me maam please dont ruin your life and your future..i prayed that time that everything went well anyway that’s what im doing at that time ..so at that time I said to the consul maam I will withdraw the petition now she said maam thank you I would be greatful that ur being honest to us..i just really trying to help you maam..so after signing the papers..She asked me any questioned the only question I thought at that moment are..maam can I apply again for visa? she said yes maam anytime as u like but immigrant visa is suitable for u and can my husband file for me a petition? she said yes..But maam tell your husband to come with you and solve the problem..She meant about other petition that still active until now..im very sad…anyway that’s my situation during interviewed and now I need your advices is anyone the same situation with me here?..i had my immigrant pending at NVC the I-130 that’s approved we choose the k3 and k4 so that I can take my daughter with me but it goes wrong. Guy’s please advice us what we‘re going to do and how to start again because at the moment I’m so upset and I can’t understand my self very sad and my husband too. Anyway maybe God has plan to our lives. Your comments and advices is appreciated .Please enlighten us what to do now.thank you advance

I am sorry to hear this, and it sound very similiar to my case. My wife in the Philippines was denied her visa, because they did not believe our relationship. And the case was sent back to the USCIS and sat there for two years before I got advise from lawyer to refile and be present during the interview. Meanwhile I have saved every document possible for the last 5 years and refiled and will be present during the interview here in the coming months ahead. I strongly suggest seek advice from a good lawyer and possibly refile and have your significant other present during the interview. I also suggest making several visits while in the immigration process. I made two trips in the two year wait. And save all evidence and hope that everything will be worked out the next time around. I know how they can play there scare tactic ways during the interview and for that I hold them forever accountable and I will let them know when I show up at the interview. I will not budge at their childish games, and infact I can beat them at their own game. If they doubt the relationship, they do anything they can to break you down and interogate you like a murder suspect. In my situation they didn't even look at the evidence I sent my wife, so this time I will force them to look at it, all 8 inches of papers. I am still mad at them 3 years later. But anyway I hope for a quick resolution for you.

I am sorry it happened to you and I really don't know how to help you. But don't lose hope and patience. Just take this situation as one of your trials that will make your marriage stronger. It is also a bit difficult to get approved too if your husband did not reach the 125% poverty guideline.

To dona and Brian, I am just curious. did your wife go to that room too where they interrogate and let her sign some papers? or they just deny it right away?

According to what my wife said, they told her to sign some papers. And what they said was by her signing those papers, she admitted that she only married me to go to USA, which is hogwash. It was put on AP for about 8 weeks then denied. They sent her a letter and said if you wish to discuss this matter, email the consolor, which we both did, and of course we never heard anything from anybody. They just turned a deaf ear, and it makes me angry even more

what if she refuses to sign the papers? is there a possibility that theyll force her to sign it?

[sojen 0]

Hello fellow members u know I had my interview last 2 and 3 of June for k3 and k4 visa but very sad the first interview so kind to me Filipino guy but he told me madam I don’t know only the consular decision your application because your husband has active fiancée petition from other woman and until now he didn’t cancel he asked me that So I answered ohh my God we thought me and my husband it was cancelled automatically..God its mistakes and then about my husband affidavit of support cannot reach the poverty level and they don’t allow my co-sponsor my mother in-law .maybe because she’s retired and old and also they question our relationship if genuine too short time we got married immediately is that really love first meeting after one week got married ..But god knows in my self knows that I really love my husband but they don’t believe that u know so many questions they really interrogated me at inside the fraud unit my background they check everything about my passed of ex boyfriend b4 daddy of my daughter my ex boyfriend on chat room they asked that ..You know I’m so sad now they really compared our petition and petition of ex girlfriend of my husband the petition of ex gf was very good statements than mine my husband told me because he was using lawyer before that’s why like that ..ok back to investigation they really wanted me to tell them that I don’t love my husband my intention is immigrant only ..i cried there that I said no I love my husband but where’s the love that’s very short visit then got married that‘s stupidity he said and he told me that better I say no because I have chance I never waste my money to come back and come like other people there the same situation to me fraud unit..Take years because the consul cant convince it ..u know I had tourist visa application before it was denied right after denied I met my husband on net so they really think I want only immigrant visa..so they conclude that .i cried there u know I said I love my husband that’s why I married to him immidiately..but they said i love only for immigrant reason and also they said I just wanted to marry American because of my daughter future ..i said no sir that’s wrong conclusion..my daughter has good life my daughter is secured already because her daddy supporting her and he didn’t abandon her , to be honest I don’t look after money I have bit good life in my place to be honest and also the consul said why I choose poor man that I’m pretty woman and educated I said I love my husband that’s why I really want go to America and i said I want to stay with my husband for the rest of my life but again they don’t believe that coz husband just once went here honestly my husband when we got married he don’t have job and he stayed her 27 days only and after married and never come back because his working hard now and save money but the consul don’t convince that..so now in my statement I married my husband no love and I just married to him just to come over in usa..but so sad because i know myself I love him so much .anyway I explained already to my husband but he understand that they interrogated me because of her petition..ok in June 3,2009 I signed my statements and if I didn’t sign they will bond me for the whole life and all my relatives cant go to USA if I don’t withdraw that petition ..because and they file case against me if they find out more about me, about my business I had business before but I wont scared because i paid taxes and no debts at all only customers has debts to me..so now the consul said to me maam please dont ruin your life and your future..i prayed that time that everything went well anyway that’s what im doing at that time ..so at that time I said to the consul maam I will withdraw the petition now she said maam thank you I would be greatful that ur being honest to us..i just really trying to help you maam..so after signing the papers..She asked me any questioned the only question I thought at that moment are..maam can I apply again for visa? she said yes maam anytime as u like but immigrant visa is suitable for u and can my husband file for me a petition? she said yes..But maam tell your husband to come with you and solve the problem..She meant about other petition that still active until now..im very sad…anyway that’s my situation during interviewed and now I need your advices is anyone the same situation with me here?..i had my immigrant pending at NVC the I-130 that’s approved we choose the k3 and k4 so that I can take my daughter with me but it goes wrong. Guy’s please advice us what we‘re going to do and how to start again because at the moment I’m so upset and I can’t understand my self very sad and my husband too. Anyway maybe God has plan to our lives. Your comments and advices is appreciated .Please enlighten us what to do now.thank you advance

I am sorry to hear this, and it sound very similiar to my case. My wife in the Philippines was denied her visa, because they did not believe our relationship. And the case was sent back to the USCIS and sat there for two years before I got advise from lawyer to refile and be present during the interview. Meanwhile I have saved every document possible for the last 5 years and refiled and will be present during the interview here in the coming months ahead. I strongly suggest seek advice from a good lawyer and possibly refile and have your significant other present during the interview. I also suggest making several visits while in the immigration process. I made two trips in the two year wait. And save all evidence and hope that everything will be worked out the next time around. I know how they can play there scare tactic ways during the interview and for that I hold them forever accountable and I will let them know when I show up at the interview. I will not budge at their childish games, and infact I can beat them at their own game. If they doubt the relationship, they do anything they can to break you down and interogate you like a murder suspect. In my situation they didn't even look at the evidence I sent my wife, so this time I will force them to look at it, all 8 inches of papers. I am still mad at them 3 years later. But anyway I hope for a quick resolution for you.

I am sorry it happened to you and I really don't know how to help you. But don't lose hope and patience. Just take this situation as one of your trials that will make your marriage stronger. It is also a bit difficult to get approved too if your husband did not reach the 125% poverty guideline.

To dona and Brian, I am just curious. did your wife go to that room too where they interrogate and let her sign some papers? or they just deny it right away?

According to what my wife said, they told her to sign some papers. And what they said was by her signing those papers, she admitted that she only married me to go to USA, which is hogwash. It was put on AP for about 8 weeks then denied. They sent her a letter and said if you wish to discuss this matter, email the consolor, which we both did, and of course we never heard anything from anybody. They just turned a deaf ear, and it makes me angry even more

that's terrible....but that's the spirit, never give up and prove to them they can't stop you from being together.

[sojen 0]

Hello fellow members u know I had my interview last 2 and 3 of June for k3 and k4 visa but very sad the first interview so kind to me Filipino guy but he told me madam I don’t know only the consular decision your application because your husband has active fiancée petition from other woman and until now he didn’t cancel he asked me that So I answered ohh my God we thought me and my husband it was cancelled automatically..God its mistakes and then about my husband affidavit of support cannot reach the poverty level and they don’t allow my co-sponsor my mother in-law .maybe because she’s retired and old and also they question our relationship if genuine too short time we got married immediately is that really love first meeting after one week got married ..But god knows in my self knows that I really love my husband but they don’t believe that u know so many questions they really interrogated me at inside the fraud unit my background they check everything about my passed of ex boyfriend b4 daddy of my daughter my ex boyfriend on chat room they asked that ..You know I’m so sad now they really compared our petition and petition of ex girlfriend of my husband the petition of ex gf was very good statements than mine my husband told me because he was using lawyer before that’s why like that ..ok back to investigation they really wanted me to tell them that I don’t love my husband my intention is immigrant only ..i cried there that I said no I love my husband but where’s the love that’s very short visit then got married that‘s stupidity he said and he told me that better I say no because I have chance I never waste my money to come back and come like other people there the same situation to me fraud unit..Take years because the consul cant convince it ..u know I had tourist visa application before it was denied right after denied I met my husband on net so they really think I want only immigrant visa..so they conclude that .i cried there u know I said I love my husband that’s why I married to him immidiately..but they said i love only for immigrant reason and also they said I just wanted to marry American because of my daughter future ..i said no sir that’s wrong conclusion..my daughter has good life my daughter is secured already because her daddy supporting her and he didn’t abandon her , to be honest I don’t look after money I have bit good life in my place to be honest and also the consul said why I choose poor man that I’m pretty woman and educated I said I love my husband that’s why I really want go to America and i said I want to stay with my husband for the rest of my life but again they don’t believe that coz husband just once went here honestly my husband when we got married he don’t have job and he stayed her 27 days only and after married and never come back because his working hard now and save money but the consul don’t convince that..so now in my statement I married my husband no love and I just married to him just to come over in usa..but so sad because i know myself I love him so much .anyway I explained already to my husband but he understand that they interrogated me because of her petition..ok in June 3,2009 I signed my statements and if I didn’t sign they will bond me for the whole life and all my relatives cant go to USA if I don’t withdraw that petition ..because and they file case against me if they find out more about me, about my business I had business before but I wont scared because i paid taxes and no debts at all only customers has debts to me..so now the consul said to me maam please dont ruin your life and your future..i prayed that time that everything went well anyway that’s what im doing at that time ..so at that time I said to the consul maam I will withdraw the petition now she said maam thank you I would be greatful that ur being honest to us..i just really trying to help you maam..so after signing the papers..She asked me any questioned the only question I thought at that moment are..maam can I apply again for visa? she said yes maam anytime as u like but immigrant visa is suitable for u and can my husband file for me a petition? she said yes..But maam tell your husband to come with you and solve the problem..She meant about other petition that still active until now..im very sad…anyway that’s my situation during interviewed and now I need your advices is anyone the same situation with me here?..i had my immigrant pending at NVC the I-130 that’s approved we choose the k3 and k4 so that I can take my daughter with me but it goes wrong. Guy’s please advice us what we‘re going to do and how to start again because at the moment I’m so upset and I can’t understand my self very sad and my husband too. Anyway maybe God has plan to our lives. Your comments and advices is appreciated .Please enlighten us what to do now.thank you advance

I am sorry to hear this, and it sound very similiar to my case. My wife in the Philippines was denied her visa, because they did not believe our relationship. And the case was sent back to the USCIS and sat there for two years before I got advise from lawyer to refile and be present during the interview. Meanwhile I have saved every document possible for the last 5 years and refiled and will be present during the interview here in the coming months ahead. I strongly suggest seek advice from a good lawyer and possibly refile and have your significant other present during the interview. I also suggest making several visits while in the immigration process. I made two trips in the two year wait. And save all evidence and hope that everything will be worked out the next time around. I know how they can play there scare tactic ways during the interview and for that I hold them forever accountable and I will let them know when I show up at the interview. I will not budge at their childish games, and infact I can beat them at their own game. If they doubt the relationship, they do anything they can to break you down and interogate you like a murder suspect. In my situation they didn't even look at the evidence I sent my wife, so this time I will force them to look at it, all 8 inches of papers. I am still mad at them 3 years later. But anyway I hope for a quick resolution for you.

I am sorry it happened to you and I really don't know how to help you. But don't lose hope and patience. Just take this situation as one of your trials that will make your marriage stronger. It is also a bit difficult to get approved too if your husband did not reach the 125% poverty guideline.

To dona and Brian, I am just curious. did your wife go to that room too where they interrogate and let her sign some papers? or they just deny it right away?

According to what my wife said, they told her to sign some papers. And what they said was by her signing those papers, she admitted that she only married me to go to USA, which is hogwash. It was put on AP for about 8 weeks then denied. They sent her a letter and said if you wish to discuss this matter, email the consolor, which we both did, and of course we never heard anything from anybody. They just turned a deaf ear, and it makes me angry even more

that's terrible....but that's the spirit, never give up and prove to them they can't stop you from being together.

the OP stated that if she is not going to sign the papers, she will be banned from entering the US, Did they tell that to your wife too?

[foreverlove 0]

Hello fellow members u know I had my interview last 2 and 3 of June for k3 and k4 visa but very sad the first interview so kind to me Filipino guy but he told me madam I don’t know only the consular decision your application because your husband has active fiancée petition from other woman and until now he didn’t cancel he asked me that So I answered ohh my God we thought me and my husband it was cancelled automatically..God its mistakes and then about my husband affidavit of support cannot reach the poverty level and they don’t allow my co-sponsor my mother in-law .maybe because she’s retired and old and also they question our relationship if genuine too short time we got married immediately is that really love first meeting after one week got married ..But god knows in my self knows that I really love my husband but they don’t believe that u know so many questions they really interrogated me at inside the fraud unit my background they check everything about my passed of ex boyfriend b4 daddy of my daughter my ex boyfriend on chat room they asked that ..You know I’m so sad now they really compared our petition and petition of ex girlfriend of my husband the petition of ex gf was very good statements than mine my husband told me because he was using lawyer before that’s why like that ..ok back to investigation they really wanted me to tell them that I don’t love my husband my intention is immigrant only ..i cried there that I said no I love my husband but where’s the love that’s very short visit then got married that‘s stupidity he said and he told me that better I say no because I have chance I never waste my money to come back and come like other people there the same situation to me fraud unit..Take years because the consul cant convince it ..u know I had tourist visa application before it was denied right after denied I met my husband on net so they really think I want only immigrant visa..so they conclude that .i cried there u know I said I love my husband that’s why I married to him immidiately..but they said i love only for immigrant reason and also they said I just wanted to marry American because of my daughter future ..i said no sir that’s wrong conclusion..my daughter has good life my daughter is secured already because her daddy supporting her and he didn’t abandon her , to be honest I don’t look after money I have bit good life in my place to be honest and also the consul said why I choose poor man that I’m pretty woman and educated I said I love my husband that’s why I really want go to America and i said I want to stay with my husband for the rest of my life but again they don’t believe that coz husband just once went here honestly my husband when we got married he don’t have job and he stayed her 27 days only and after married and never come back because his working hard now and save money but the consul don’t convince that..so now in my statement I married my husband no love and I just married to him just to come over in usa..but so sad because i know myself I love him so much .anyway I explained already to my husband but he understand that they interrogated me because of her petition..ok in June 3,2009 I signed my statements and if I didn’t sign they will bond me for the whole life and all my relatives cant go to USA if I don’t withdraw that petition ..because and they file case against me if they find out more about me, about my business I had business before but I wont scared because i paid taxes and no debts at all only customers has debts to me..so now the consul said to me maam please dont ruin your life and your future..i prayed that time that everything went well anyway that’s what im doing at that time ..so at that time I said to the consul maam I will withdraw the petition now she said maam thank you I would be greatful that ur being honest to us..i just really trying to help you maam..so after signing the papers..She asked me any questioned the only question I thought at that moment are..maam can I apply again for visa? she said yes maam anytime as u like but immigrant visa is suitable for u and can my husband file for me a petition? she said yes..But maam tell your husband to come with you and solve the problem..She meant about other petition that still active until now..im very sad…anyway that’s my situation during interviewed and now I need your advices is anyone the same situation with me here?..i had my immigrant pending at NVC the I-130 that’s approved we choose the k3 and k4 so that I can take my daughter with me but it goes wrong. Guy’s please advice us what we‘re going to do and how to start again because at the moment I’m so upset and I can’t understand my self very sad and my husband too. Anyway maybe God has plan to our lives. Your comments and advices is appreciated .Please enlighten us what to do now.thank you advance

I am sorry to hear this, and it sound very similiar to my case. My wife in the Philippines was denied her visa, because they did not believe our relationship. And the case was sent back to the USCIS and sat there for two years before I got advise from lawyer to refile and be present during the interview. Meanwhile I have saved every document possible for the last 5 years and refiled and will be present during the interview here in the coming months ahead. I strongly suggest seek advice from a good lawyer and possibly refile and have your significant other present during the interview. I also suggest making several visits while in the immigration process. I made two trips in the two year wait. And save all evidence and hope that everything will be worked out the next time around. I know how they can play there scare tactic ways during the interview and for that I hold them forever accountable and I will let them know when I show up at the interview. I will not budge at their childish games, and infact I can beat them at their own game. If they doubt the relationship, they do anything they can to break you down and interogate you like a murder suspect. In my situation they didn't even look at the evidence I sent my wife, so this time I will force them to look at it, all 8 inches of papers. I am still mad at them 3 years later. But anyway I hope for a quick resolution for you.

I am sorry it happened to you and I really don't know how to help you. But don't lose hope and patience. Just take this situation as one of your trials that will make your marriage stronger. It is also a bit difficult to get approved too if your husband did not reach the 125% poverty guideline.

To dona and Brian, I am just curious. did your wife go to that room too where they interrogate and let her sign some papers? or they just deny it right away?

According to what my wife said, they told her to sign some papers. And what they said was by her signing those papers, she admitted that she only married me to go to USA, which is hogwash. It was put on AP for about 8 weeks then denied. They sent her a letter and said if you wish to discuss this matter, email the consolor, which we both did, and of course we never heard anything from anybody. They just turned a deaf ear, and it makes me angry even more

that's terrible....but that's the spirit, never give up and prove to them they can't stop you from being together.

the OP stated that if she is not going to sign the papers, she will be banned from entering the US, Did they tell that to your wife too?

sorry my spelling it was wrong ..word banned...yes they told me that i will banned going to usa not just me all my relatives if i wont withdraw the k3 and k4 application..anyway thank you so much for all ur replies to me..but i have question hope u can help me again...what would be the best thing to do now first? is it possible to hire a good lawyer so that no mistakes again...if it is good to hire a good lawyer did u have any good lawyer to recommend us? that would be very greatful..because to be honest we really dont know where to start

[PinayAmerican 0]

It's a very sad situation. Since they are interrogating you, prove to them that YOU LOVE EACH OTHER so much. Your hubby has to sacrifice his time and money for this. If he really wants you to be with him, he will do everything he can. Let him visit you again. And now that your K3 and k4 are now withdrawn, and you are told that you can refile for an immigrant visa, be sure to hire a good lawyer and apply for a CR1 visa. Collect all the evidences that would help you on your interview. I would suggest, MORE VISITS from you husband and he must spend a longer time with you as his wife. Nothing is permanent, things will all be over in due time. I agree with what other posted, don't waste your time, study more- make yourself a stronger person. The way you speak determines who you are inside as well. It's the best time for improvement and more patience. :-) Good luck. Hope you find the best solutions to your problem.

[rheanick 42]

Tell you husband to cancel his first petition.

He should work hard to make his income above poverty line.

Your husband should visit you again here in the Philippines

He should petition you again and your husband should be with you during your next interview.

[Brian and Dona 0]

I don't recall her telling me that they would deny any entry to the US if she didn't sign, but I remember that they ask her why she marry me, she replied to be with me and have a future for the family. "Have a future for the family" is what they used as motivation to say she only marry me to migrate to US. Loggically everyone wants to better themselves, but when someone makes that statement, they automatically assume that they are trying to get to US for only for the future. They don't realize that people don't spend thousands of dollars going to college for nothing, you do it to better yourself for your future. I will tell them at the interview when I go, that our relationship lasted the test of time, we where down but not out, and battle tested and we are still here.

Hello fellow members u know I had my interview last 2 and 3 of June for k3 and k4 visa but very sad the first interview so kind to me Filipino guy but he told me madam I don’t know only the consular decision your application because your husband has active fiancée petition from other woman and until now he didn’t cancel he asked me that So I answered ohh my God we thought me and my husband it was cancelled automatically..God its mistakes and then about my husband affidavit of support cannot reach the poverty level and they don’t allow my co-sponsor my mother in-law .maybe because she’s retired and old and also they question our relationship if genuine too short time we got married immediately is that really love first meeting after one week got married ..But god knows in my self knows that I really love my husband but they don’t believe that u know so many questions they really interrogated me at inside the fraud unit my background they check everything about my passed of ex boyfriend b4 daddy of my daughter my ex boyfriend on chat room they asked that ..You know I’m so sad now they really compared our petition and petition of ex girlfriend of my husband the petition of ex gf was very good statements than mine my husband told me because he was using lawyer before that’s why like that ..ok back to investigation they really wanted me to tell them that I don’t love my husband my intention is immigrant only ..i cried there that I said no I love my husband but where’s the love that’s very short visit then got married that‘s stupidity he said and he told me that better I say no because I have chance I never waste my money to come back and come like other people there the same situation to me fraud unit..Take years because the consul cant convince it ..u know I had tourist visa application before it was denied right after denied I met my husband on net so they really think I want only immigrant visa..so they conclude that .i cried there u know I said I love my husband that’s why I married to him immidiately..but they said i love only for immigrant reason and also they said I just wanted to marry American because of my daughter future ..i said no sir that’s wrong conclusion..my daughter has good life my daughter is secured already because her daddy supporting her and he didn’t abandon her , to be honest I don’t look after money I have bit good life in my place to be honest and also the consul said why I choose poor man that I’m pretty woman and educated I said I love my husband that’s why I really want go to America and i said I want to stay with my husband for the rest of my life but again they don’t believe that coz husband just once went here honestly my husband when we got married he don’t have job and he stayed her 27 days only and after married and never come back because his working hard now and save money but the consul don’t convince that..so now in my statement I married my husband no love and I just married to him just to come over in usa..but so sad because i know myself I love him so much .anyway I explained already to my husband but he understand that they interrogated me because of her petition..ok in June 3,2009 I signed my statements and if I didn’t sign they will bond me for the whole life and all my relatives cant go to USA if I don’t withdraw that petition ..because and they file case against me if they find out more about me, about my business I had business before but I wont scared because i paid taxes and no debts at all only customers has debts to me..so now the consul said to me maam please dont ruin your life and your future..i prayed that time that everything went well anyway that’s what im doing at that time ..so at that time I said to the consul maam I will withdraw the petition now she said maam thank you I would be greatful that ur being honest to us..i just really trying to help you maam..so after signing the papers..She asked me any questioned the only question I thought at that moment are..maam can I apply again for visa? she said yes maam anytime as u like but immigrant visa is suitable for u and can my husband file for me a petition? she said yes..But maam tell your husband to come with you and solve the problem..She meant about other petition that still active until now..im very sad…anyway that’s my situation during interviewed and now I need your advices is anyone the same situation with me here?..i had my immigrant pending at NVC the I-130 that’s approved we choose the k3 and k4 so that I can take my daughter with me but it goes wrong. Guy’s please advice us what we‘re going to do and how to start again because at the moment I’m so upset and I can’t understand my self very sad and my husband too. Anyway maybe God has plan to our lives. Your comments and advices is appreciated .Please enlighten us what to do now.thank you advance

I am sorry to hear this, and it sound very similiar to my case. My wife in the Philippines was denied her visa, because they did not believe our relationship. And the case was sent back to the USCIS and sat there for two years before I got advise from lawyer to refile and be present during the interview. Meanwhile I have saved every document possible for the last 5 years and refiled and will be present during the interview here in the coming months ahead. I strongly suggest seek advice from a good lawyer and possibly refile and have your significant other present during the interview. I also suggest making several visits while in the immigration process. I made two trips in the two year wait. And save all evidence and hope that everything will be worked out the next time around. I know how they can play there scare tactic ways during the interview and for that I hold them forever accountable and I will let them know when I show up at the interview. I will not budge at their childish games, and infact I can beat them at their own game. If they doubt the relationship, they do anything they can to break you down and interogate you like a murder suspect. In my situation they didn't even look at the evidence I sent my wife, so this time I will force them to look at it, all 8 inches of papers. I am still mad at them 3 years later. But anyway I hope for a quick resolution for you.

I am sorry it happened to you and I really don't know how to help you. But don't lose hope and patience. Just take this situation as one of your trials that will make your marriage stronger. It is also a bit difficult to get approved too if your husband did not reach the 125% poverty guideline.

To dona and Brian, I am just curious. did your wife go to that room too where they interrogate and let her sign some papers? or they just deny it right away?

According to what my wife said, they told her to sign some papers. And what they said was by her signing those papers, she admitted that she only married me to go to USA, which is hogwash. It was put on AP for about 8 weeks then denied. They sent her a letter and said if you wish to discuss this matter, email the consolor, which we both did, and of course we never heard anything from anybody. They just turned a deaf ear, and it makes me angry even more

that's terrible....but that's the spirit, never give up and prove to them they can't stop you from being together.

the OP stated that if she is not going to sign the papers, she will be banned from entering the US, Did they tell that to your wife too?