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Good afternoon ladies!

A question. I know we have built good relationships on this site especially us in the yardie thread. How do u refer to friends on here to ur SO. I was talking to hubby and I said my internet friend and he is like :blink::blink: . He says how can I be friends with someone I have not met b4. Do I make sense :wacko:

My friends think I'm crazy all the time and so did Roc. I have Dallas friends that I refer to as that my Dallas girls and then there are my Vj girls. If I am talking bout one of yaw cuz u knwo I talk about all of u like a (lol) no I’m joking I don’t talk about my Vjers like that, I be like my VJer said this or did that.

The bond some of us have with one another is crazy weird. I can now se how people fall in love over the internet because with some of you I really have formed a tight bond with. Shoot you know it must be something when we come on here telling a million plus people our business. Some of it before you tell your good friends. Its really quite crazy and I'm a newbie so I cant even imagine how tight some of the more uhh well how do you say :blush: more mature VJers are....lol

I say my website buddies.

One of my (face to face) friends says, " Why you putting your business up on that site?? You need to get a life and deal with real people! :blink::blink::blink: " I say hmm just cause we talk by typing don't mean they aren't real people. She is hateful most days and I wonder why I even consider her a friend.

Wakey,

I had a friend like that..I recently had to de-friend. I tried for a long time to be tolerant of her behavior and dismiss it as a lil green envy.I even tried to help her work past it.. but it didn't work. So that friendship was for a season.

Been thinking of doing that myself..the downside is she is my workout buddy (coach). I enjoy having someone to work out with and she is like Jillian on biggest loser. However, she doesn't hesitate how big people disgust her (not me though cause I'm doing something to get better :blink: ) She has moments of goodness and we laugh and so forth but when she is hateful she is the meanest person.

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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Hey Gina **waving** girl i just figured out who ya was on fb lol thanks KK i know who u are on fb after the chipmunk thingy lol... umm can we talk a lil about females like that why are you envious of a person who you call a friend??? i have one like this we going out she see me now she gotta change or wanna call me 50 times asking me what im wearing or even down to how much weight i lose i lost 5 she lost 10 the ###### annoys the hell outta me!!! i am forever dumping her a$$ as a friend! but am a sucker for a pityful sorry guess it's the cancer in me :)

newly, you make a cute couple!

:blush::blush::blush::blush::blush: Thankz JA...

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11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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CUZ DALLAS is HOT like that dada LOL!!! kidding.. u got me rolling chat bout ur friend keeps falling LOL.. i used to wear flats and tennis shoes, but now that i am getting older i am trying to be a likkle more sexy.. LOL

hey.. i got this off of sus's fb page, this is the capricorn horoscope and check out the last sentence

The existing problems must be dealt with one way or another.

If you can't trust someone, question the connection.

Your outgoing nature might work against you this week.

Pleasure trips will induce exciting and passionate encounters with those of foreign extraction.

hmmm..they got that right!!!

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Da,

Sometimes u can't get the same effect from the look in flats or a low heel...so we tolerate the pain

But girl if you’re going to complain all night long from the time we leave your house and get in the club and while we are in the club and on our way back home don’t wear them. My one friend wears them and they hurt but she grins and bears it because she knows it was her choice to wear them but this other one. Oh my freaking goodness its all I hear all night long. Its so annoying and then she is not even drunk and she is forever falling in them. I think after a while her feet gives up on her. That is why I’m saying wear flat or lower hills so you don’t have to complain all night.

I wish I could wear heels but I cant. I have heard I don’t have arch in my foot so as soon as I put them on my feet SCREAMS!! So I have no choice but to take them off plus I can’t walk in them either. Sometimes it was a bummer because certain heels with certain outfits look so sexy I must admit.

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I need to go home and just find my living room packed to the ceiling with $100 bills. I would rather be shopping right now. <_<

....if that happens remember your VJ friends..like that cowboy who won the powerball..one day he was a struggling cowboy..the next day..not so much

Shoot he just lost his home and look how god blessed him. I know the people who foreclosed on his home he wants to tell them where they can kiss..

U know I started day dreaming what would I do if it was me.. You know where I would be right now. E-mailing you all from JAMAICA!!!! I would be in JA starting my business and sorry Journee you would have to watch out because I had the same idea as you so with the money I would be opening up shop and house hunting for mi yaad, putting the kids in private schools and just enjoy being a rich ish on the BEACH!!!!

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Hey Gina **waving** girl i just figured out who ya was on fb lol thanks KK i know who u are on fb after the chipmunk thingy lol... umm can we talk a lil about females like that why are you envious of a person who you call a friend??? i have one like this we going out she see me now she gotta change or wanna call me 50 times asking me what im wearing or even down to how much weight i lose i lost 5 she lost 10 the ###### annoys the hell outta me!!! i am forever dumping her a$$ as a friend! but am a sucker for a pityful sorry guess it's the cancer in me :)

newly, you make a cute couple!

:blush::blush::blush::blush::blush: Thankz JA...

I don't know half the folks on facebook. I think we should put our screenname somewhere in there. I just accept the friends invite but don't know who it is..I guess I could just ask.. :wacko:

Intimacy, like charity, begins at home. If we cannot be intimate with ourselves, we have no way to bring to intimacy with another person.

Intimacy with ourselves takes time. We need time for rest, time for walks, time for quiet, and time to tune into to ourselves. We cannot completely fill up our lives with activities and become intimate with ourselves. Nor can we just sit quietly indefinitely and become intimate with ourselves. We have to have the time and energy to be our lives and to do our live in order to establish and intimate relationship with ourselves.

Surprisingly, as we become intimate with ourselves, we discover our connection with others

Intimacy....In/to/me/see...

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Hey Gina **waving** girl i just figured out who ya was on fb lol thanks KK i know who u are on fb after the chipmunk thingy lol... umm can we talk a lil about females like that why are you envious of a person who you call a friend??? i have one like this we going out she see me now she gotta change or wanna call me 50 times asking me what im wearing or even down to how much weight i lose i lost 5 she lost 10 the ###### annoys the hell outta me!!! i am forever dumping her a$$ as a friend! but am a sucker for a pityful sorry guess it's the cancer in me :)

newly, you make a cute couple!

:blush::blush::blush::blush::blush: Thankz JA...

I don't know half the folks on facebook. I think we should put our screenname somewhere in there. I just accept the friends invite but don't know who it is..I guess I could just ask.. :wacko:

yes wakey, u shud!! i don't feel bad at all asking someone who they are cuz we know we've nver seen each other b4.. no biggie..

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CUZ DALLAS is HOT like that dada LOL!!! kidding.. u got me rolling chat bout ur friend keeps falling LOL.. i used to wear flats and tennis shoes, but now that i am getting older i am trying to be a likkle more sexy.. LOL

hey.. i got this off of sus's fb page, this is the capricorn horoscope and check out the last sentence

The existing problems must be dealt with one way or another.

If you can't trust someone, question the connection.

Your outgoing nature might work against you this week.

Pleasure trips will induce exciting and passionate encounters with those of foreign extraction.

hmmm..they got that right!!!

Girl she is. That is like Memorial weekend we went to the club. I started sipping drinks and dancing on the floor and she wanted to go to another room because we were at one of them clubs where there are many rooms and so you bounce from one to the other. Well we were coming from the bathroom bobbing and swaying to the beat and next thing I know she fell flat. I mean flat on her tummy. Everyone started to help her up and we had VIP passes sp she could have hid in VIP but no she wanted to go like always. Normally we leave with her but not this time I wasn’t ready to go so she left. Yes I laughed so hard I almost peed my pants. This one was funny but she falls all the time. Last time she fell and got up and fell again. We were at a cook out this weekend and she was sitting on a hill. I swear I couldn’t enjoy myself I was so scared she was going to roll ova de hill.

Hey Gina **waving** girl i just figured out who ya was on fb lol thanks KK i know who u are on fb after the chipmunk thingy lol... umm can we talk a lil about females like that why are you envious of a person who you call a friend??? i have one like this we going out she see me now she gotta change or wanna call me 50 times asking me what im wearing or even down to how much weight i lose i lost 5 she lost 10 the ###### annoys the hell outta me!!! i am forever dumping her a$$ as a friend! but am a sucker for a pityful sorry guess it's the cancer in me :)

newly, you make a cute couple!

:blush::blush::blush::blush::blush: Thankz JA...

I don't know half the folks on facebook. I think we should put our screenname somewhere in there. I just accept the friends invite but don't know who it is..I guess I could just ask.. :wacko:

I agree I'm still trying to match names with faces. For those that do friend request me and put there VJ name thank you!!!

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I need to go home and just find my living room packed to the ceiling with $100 bills. I would rather be shopping right now. <_<

....if that happens remember your VJ friends..like that cowboy who won the powerball..one day he was a struggling cowboy..the next day..not so much

Shoot he just lost his home and look how god blessed him. I know the people who foreclosed on his home he wants to tell them where they can kiss..

U know I started day dreaming what would I do if it was me.. You know where I would be right now. E-mailing you all from JAMAICA!!!! I would be in JA starting my business and sorry Journee you would have to watch out because I had the same idea as you so with the money I would be opening up shop and house hunting for mi yaad, putting the kids in private schools and just enjoy being a rich ish on the BEACH!!!!

well i will not contest to being an event planning assistant aboard :) ummm but my pay needs to be umm around 150k please and thank you!

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Love...Live...Life... (It's is better to have loved than to have never loved at all)

4/9/09 - Sent I-129F to Vermont Service Center via USPS

4/10/09 - VSC received packet

4/13/09- VSC opened package

4/15/09- VSC mailed NOA1

4/17/09- VSC cashed check

4/17/09-NOA1 online

4/20/09-NOA1 hard copy

4/20/09-Touched

4/20/09- now we wait...

8/27/09- touched

8/31/09- approved!!

9/4/09- letter saying they mailed info to kingston

11/16/09 sent DS230 via email

11/18/09 rec email stating interview was scheduled for Dec

11/19/09 sent email asking what day in Dec and they responded Dec 8th!!!!! 2WEEKS

11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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The bond some of us have with one another is crazy weird. I can now se how people fall in love over the internet because with some of you I really have formed a tight bond with. Shoot you know it must be something when we come on here telling a million plus people our business. Some of it before you tell your good friends. Its really quite crazy and I'm a newbie so I cant even imagine how tight some of the more uhh well how do you say :blush: more mature VJers are....lol

Awww, DaDa. You're falling in love with us! :blush::P

Oh Louis' misses dominoes also! We got a set and teach everyone how to play... he has a couple hooked!

Only problem...no swearing, drinking and SLAMMMMMMING the tiles down on plywood tables! :P

This gave me a mental picture. My ex is part of a group of guys that play dominoes every Saturday from noon until the wife kicks them out. I wonder if Steven would ever consider hanging out with my ex to play. :no:

Dada...I always wonder how ladies where the highest heels all night at the club. I guess it's the price to be cute...

That price is too "high" for me. :rofl: Rimshot!

I don't know half the folks on facebook. I think we should put our screenname somewhere in there. I just accept the friends invite but don't know who it is..I guess I could just ask.. :wacko:

I have a spreadsheet linking the FB names with the VJ names. (No comments, Philly)

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Good Afternoon all...can't wait to go home...since being preggo I keep falling asleep at my desk...good thing i have an understanding boss who just laughs at me... :wacko: ...so me and hubby is cool again...(i tell you its such a roller coaster ride)...so we went out Friday night to Amazura in Queens...what an entertainment...my friend/tenant is a dj...and it was their event...their sound is called Black Love Sound...there wasn't really a crowd but here is the reason why they say it wasn't a crowd but to me it should have been the opposite:

So they have Black Rhyno, JahVinci, who are Kartel artists, and Bounty Killa...who is supposedly have beef with Kartel...they also had Ron Brown (Pop Champagne) but he left early...i guess he couldn't handle the yardie style.... :lol: ...but anyway Black Rhyno and JahVinci was on stage playing their tunes getting the crowd hype...Jah Vinci singing Watch Yu Friends...Black Rhyno was the bomb though...but he is sooo tiny...looks like my son age... :huh: ...they had like 20 people in their entourage on stage...so their was this big dude that came on stage who we found out was Bounty Killa's people...so all of a sudden u see Black Rhyno and JahVinci trying to talk to the big guy to get him off stage since they are still performing... :no: ...the big guy wasn't moving...and then to make matters worse...my friend (the dj) instigated it by putting on a Bounty Killa rhythm...(which got the crowd really hype) and you see Bounty Killa come on stage...tons of security had to get on stage and pull people apart...Bounty Killa had like 40 people in his entourage...So all you see is Black Rhyno and JahVinci and their entourage mad cursing and carrying on while leaving the place....it was great... :rofl: ...my hubby was laughing his a** off and was like he can't wait to tell his friends back home how Bounty run way Kartel artist...

But unfortunately my friend said that they didn't make any money since their wasn't a crowd...he said Bounty killed it for them cause he went on radio talking that this will go down if Kartel artist say his name on stage at the event...so they was like that made people scared to come out and that is why Ron Brown left...to me i would think that would bring a crowd since that is like history in the making...I don't think it would have gotten out of hand like that...IDK...

So that was my Friday night...I had a blast since my friend/dj hooked us up and got us to chill in VIP...so we got to see the artist up close and personal...It didn't really matter though cause i didn't recognize not one of them until they got on stage...Bounty i would have recognize but he wasn't there yet...I didn't recognize Ron Brown either and he passed me to leave...i didn't know until after the fact...

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Good afternoon ladies!

A question. I know we have built good relationships on this site especially us in the yardie thread. How do u refer to friends on here to ur SO. I was talking to hubby and I said my internet friend and he is like :blink::blink: . He says how can I be friends with someone I have not met b4. Do I make sense :wacko:

My friends think I'm crazy all the time and so did Roc. I have Dallas friends that I refer to as that my Dallas girls and then there are my Vj girls. If I am talking bout one of yaw cuz u knwo I talk about all of u like a (lol) no I’m joking I don’t talk about my Vjers like that, I be like my VJer said this or did that.

The bond some of us have with one another is crazy weird. I can now se how people fall in love over the internet because with some of you I really have formed a tight bond with. Shoot you know it must be something when we come on here telling a million plus people our business. Some of it before you tell your good friends. Its really quite crazy and I'm a newbie so I cant even imagine how tight some of the more uhh well how do you say :blush: more mature VJers are....lol

I say my website buddies.

One of my (face to face) friends says, " Why you putting your business up on that site?? You need to get a life and deal with real people! :blink::blink::blink: " I say hmm just cause we talk by typing don't mean they aren't real people. She is hateful most days and I wonder why I even consider her a friend.

Wakey,

I had a friend like that..I recently had to de-friend. I tried for a long time to be tolerant of her behavior and dismiss it as a lil green envy.I even tried to help her work past it.. but it didn't work. So that friendship was for a season.

Been thinking of doing that myself..the downside is she is my workout buddy (coach). I enjoy having someone to work out with and she is like Jillian on biggest loser. However, she doesn't hesitate how big people disgust her (not me though cause I'm doing something to get better :blink: ) She has moments of goodness and we laugh and so forth but when she is hateful she is the meanest person.

I hear you! Mine was a friend that was able to pick up and go without a moments notice, I could always count on her to be able to do something or go somewhere. I don't have many friends like that..most are married or have kids so I hated having to let her go but my sanity meant more to me. I also needed a friend I could discuss different life aspects with, and my VJ journey was NOT one of those aspects. She was also in some type of mood about 70% of the time..I need to be around more upbeat people.

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I don't know half the folks on facebook. I think we should put our screenname somewhere in there. I just accept the friends invite but don't know who it is..I guess I could just ask.. :wacko:

I have a spreadsheet linking the FB names with the VJ names. (No comments, Philly)

Nat,

LOL! Can you send me a copy of THAT list?

~ 4/22/09 - sent I-129F form off to VSC

~ 11/23/09 – Interview Scheduled 11/23/2009

~ 12/09/09 – Picked up visa at MoBay DHL ofc-EXTREMELY late processing

~ 12/13/09 – Arrived at Philadelphia airport

~ 2/14/10 – WEDDING DAY FINALLY

AOS Timeline

~ 2/26/10 – mailed AOS/EAD/AP via USPS confirmed delivery

~ 2/28/10 – delivery confirmed 6:57 am

~ 3/10/10 – rec'd email acceptance confirmation from USCIS

~ 3/16/10 – rec'd NOA1's via mail for I-485, AP and EAD

~ 3/19/10 – Biometrics appt - 3/31/10 11 am

~ 3/24/10 – Walk-in Biometrics appt - 2:00 pm

~ 4/07/10 – Case transferred to National Benefits Center

~ 4/09/10 – Case transferred to CSC for processing

~ 5/01/10 – EAD card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 5/07/10 – AP rec'd in mail...no notice at all!

~ 5/24/10 – EAP rec'd in mail

~ 6/02/10 – AOS card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 6/08/10 – rec'd welcome letter in mail

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I don't know half the folks on facebook. I think we should put our screenname somewhere in there. I just accept the friends invite but don't know who it is..I guess I could just ask.. :wacko:

I have a spreadsheet linking the FB names with the VJ names. (No comments, Philly)

Nat,

LOL! Can you send me a copy of THAT list?

I want more FB Friends!! :D

You all need to find me!

You can add your VJ name as a name people can search you by....

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Nat, what a likkle gyal love mek list!!

i wish i had some of your organisation skills

i wouldn't have alot of the confusion i have in my life sometimes lol

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