Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)

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iRE--WELCOME BACK...!!!

English..NO POSS NO MROE BAXIDE PICHA..MI MOUT IS WATERING OVA YAH SO..AWWW AUGUST SOON COME..LOL

wah gwaan yardies?

[IrieCat 2]

iRE--WELCOME BACK...!!!

English..NO POSS NO MROE BAXIDE PICHA..MI MOUT IS WATERING OVA YAH SO..AWWW AUGUST SOON COME..LOL

Hi! Thanks!

Hey are all you ladies on FB?

Find Me! "Catherine Francis"

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Hey Mich..where the heck have u been

KK ..poor yuh...LOL..the passes allows us to go to the beaches and pools here..

Finesse not sure of ur question exactly...but can ur hubby be in JA for testing 600 is a plane ticket...sometimes the DNA test gets done if the fathers particulars are added sometime after the child is born...

for 401ks I thought once ur married for ur spouse not to be the beneficiary he/she would have to sign a waiver and given to ur employer?

prenup ting...hmmmm--my take

true, but unless we were going to jamaica for some other reason or timed it to go there for vacation to coincide with the dna test, i'm sure the dna cost in jamaica is not cheap either

ok..just a thought...but it's probably not aas bad as it seems right now

Hey Mich..where the heck have u been

KK ..poor yuh...LOL..the passes allows us to go to the beaches and pools here..

Finesse not sure of ur question exactly...but can ur hubby be in JA for testing 600 is a plane ticket...sometimes the DNA test gets done if the fathers particulars are added sometime after the child is born...

for 401ks I thought once ur married for ur spouse not to be the beneficiary he/she would have to sign a waiver and given to ur employer?

prenup ting...hmmmm--my take

I've been here peeping. lol I actually have been patiently waiting for Ray's EAD/AP but it seems like USCIS went on vacation. Everything good with you?

Glad to see u..yuh dip out pon wi Org? It soon come...vacation soon done..we're good just a live yuh know

hey love hows hubby?

1luv.totally know what ur saying..i didnt try to hide mine because we talked about it while he was in ja..all during making plans for the wedding and visiting and such..just be honest even his money cant make a dent in ur debt u must still be open with it..this also teaches them about credit and such..sorry babes..

Hey Kimmy, how are those pretty girls doing? Hubby is fine just bored as hell somtimes but he will get over it.

The girls are good Love..dem soon start get pure kick inna face!! LOL..i can imagine how hubby is BORED..lol..u should si Kashi when he just got here good thing he didn't have to wait too long for his GC and SS..

iRE--WELCOME BACK...!!!

English..NO POSS NO MROE BAXIDE PICHA..MI MOUT IS WATERING OVA YAH SO..AWWW AUGUST SOON COME..LOL

Hi! Thanks!

Hey are all you ladies on FB?

Find Me! "Catherine Francis"

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A little morning wisdom:

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio.

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone...

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first pay cheque.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past - so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry - God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no-one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No-one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words, ’In five years, will this matter ?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No-one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we’d grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come.

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

Morning ya'll!! Thanks for this Sus!!! It's much needed..

[NatPatBen 3]

Good morning!!! Time to focus on work this morning.

You're right about that! Since I was out sick on Friday, I had extra messages to take action on & respond to.

Shrewdgal, I was thinking the same thing this weekend. After going to Jamaica very often before & during this visa process, it'll seem weird not going at all for at leat a year once my SO gets here. I told him that & he asked if I'd go without him. I don't think that would be wise.

DaDa, I wish I had seen that House Swap episode! That's one I know I'd enjoy. I'mma have to see if it's on Hulu or something.

Islandwoman, that story had me laughing for a bit. I can only imagine your shocked face at seeing him bald and at knowing that he let a 7 yr old cut his hair!

IrieCat, how did you teach yourself to do that? My SO plans to lock it up, too, and I'd love to save money by doing it myself.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

sus;

I need a can of mountain dew and a can of red bull -- if you can find some magnum that would be nice (but) di fus two we do

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Ok...been having some behavioural issues with my 8 (soon 9 year old)

Been asking for some alternative punishments and my co workers have suggested

making him stand in the corner

making him do yard work for neighbours

making him eat unsweetened oatmeal for dinner

standing in the corner arms outstretched with a can of beans in each hand

Can anyone else suggest some legal and effective punishments??

I have been taking him toys and games away, making him stay in his room, to no avail. So will try these, but would love to hear some more!

[^KK^ 3]

Has anyone used skyauction for any of their travel bookings?

[sus 70]

sus;

I need a can of mountain dew and a can of red bull -- if you can find some magnum that would be nice (but) di fus two we do

They found cocaine in Red Bull - still want it?

Ok...been having some behavioural issues with my 8 (soon 9 year old)

Been asking for some alternative punishments and my co workers have suggested

making him stand in the corner

making him do yard work for neighbours

making him eat unsweetened oatmeal for dinner

standing in the corner arms outstretched with a can of beans in each hand

Can anyone else suggest some legal and effective punishments??

I have been taking him toys and games away, making him stay in his room, to no avail. So will try these, but would love to hear some more!

LOL, I think the last one might get u in trouble! My sister made my nephews do community service - they went to serve dinner at a soup kitchen, gave them an appreciation for how good they have it.

Has anyone used skyauction for any of their travel bookings?

Yup, many times - No problems

[^KK^ 3]

thanks sus

[IrieCat 2]

Ok...been having some behavioural issues with my 8 (soon 9 year old)

Been asking for some alternative punishments and my co workers have suggested

making him stand in the corner

making him do yard work for neighbours

making him eat unsweetened oatmeal for dinner

standing in the corner arms outstretched with a can of beans in each hand

Can anyone else suggest some legal and effective punishments??

I have been taking him toys and games away, making him stay in his room, to no avail. So will try these, but would love to hear some more!

Tierra is 7, but I have some issues also. I must admit I have spanked, but that never worked... so I stopped.

She is old enough to be grounded. She is a social butterfly. So I take away "playdates" for a week. That actually helped!

She also likes to ask for a couple bucks and go to the corner store. I have taken that away for a week also.

These little things help becuase they are her favorite things to do.

I have also made her stay home when I go to the store or to run errands. Sounds silly but she loves going with me so it really hurts her when I don't let her.

I must say making her stay in her room wouldnt work because all her stuff is in there. Make him stay in the kitchen or something! Somewhere boring!

[wakeywakeup 1]

Ok...been having some behavioural issues with my 8 (soon 9 year old)

Been asking for some alternative punishments and my co workers have suggested

making him stand in the corner

making him do yard work for neighbours

making him eat unsweetened oatmeal for dinner

standing in the corner arms outstretched with a can of beans in each hand

Can anyone else suggest some legal and effective punishments??

I have been taking him toys and games away, making him stay in his room, to no avail. So will try these, but would love to hear some more!

I was just reading a novel this weekend and the lady there made her son write something like "I will pay attention in class 1500 times and he had to do it starting on Friday when all the other kids were making plans to have fun. I thought to myself that's pretty creative. lol

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Ok...been having some behavioural issues with my 8 (soon 9 year old)

Been asking for some alternative punishments and my co workers have suggested

making him stand in the corner

making him do yard work for neighbours

making him eat unsweetened oatmeal for dinner

standing in the corner arms outstretched with a can of beans in each hand

Can anyone else suggest some legal and effective punishments??

I have been taking him toys and games away, making him stay in his room, to no avail. So will try these, but would love to hear some more!

Hey English; I do this and it works, but I don't hide it, I put it where he can see it and I DEAR him to touch it and bet you seh mi no bruck all 10 a u fingah dem (I tell him just like that). The punishment has to last for a long time, MAKE HIM MISS it toys or games or tv --- at the start of the school year my son was showing out and I took away his DIGS for 3 MONTHS! no problem since and school done next week;

and yes, I'm one of those crazy mothers that will show up at school in her nightgown, with rollers in her hair, bedroom slippers and a belt wrapped around my next...

[NatPatBen 3]

Ok...been having some behavioural issues with my 8 (soon 9 year old)

Been asking for some alternative punishments and my co workers have suggested

making him stand in the corner

making him do yard work for neighbours

making him eat unsweetened oatmeal for dinner

standing in the corner arms outstretched with a can of beans in each hand

Can anyone else suggest some legal and effective punishments??

I have been taking him toys and games away, making him stay in his room, to no avail. So will try these, but would love to hear some more!

This may or may not work, but I recommend asking him why he's misbehaving, and what both of you could do to help him stop.

I tried something similar with the 2nd/3rd graders at church. I told them that I was sitting them away from their friends so that they woudln't be tempted to talk to each other during the lesson. After I assigned them seating, a couple students told me that they were still sitting by someone that they'd talk to, and asked me to move them. I was surprised.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Ok...been having some behavioural issues with my 8 (soon 9 year old)

Been asking for some alternative punishments and my co workers have suggested

making him stand in the corner

making him do yard work for neighbours

making him eat unsweetened oatmeal for dinner

standing in the corner arms outstretched with a can of beans in each hand

Can anyone else suggest some legal and effective punishments??

I have been taking him toys and games away, making him stay in his room, to no avail. So will try these, but would love to hear some more!

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