Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)

[JAPrincess 27]

Morning Yardies!

I have a gift card for the movie theater that I haven't used. Going to take my boy to see UP tonight

Supposed to be good

[finesse 3]

hi finesse!!!!.. i dont remember anybody recently???.. maybe somebody can come w/ more info..

hey quana. hope all is well with you. looks like you man is coming for a visit...enjoy. if anyone has filed an I-130 for a stepchild please please PM me.

Refer to this post: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=200636

thanks roxie. that post wasn't much help. my questions have to do with the embassy part of it so I need someone from jamaica who has done it. from the research that I have done every country's requirements at the embassy stage are slightly different when it comes to the paperwork needed to show legal custody of the child....some need an actual court order and others will accept a notarized letter from the bio parent giving permission for the child to leave the country. i'll PM Jengles. I suppose I could call the embassy directly and ask....anyone know the number I could call to get such info?

[finesse 3]

hi finesse!!!!.. i dont remember anybody recently???.. maybe somebody can come w/ more info..

hey quana. hope all is well with you. looks like you man is coming for a visit...enjoy. if anyone has filed an I-130 for a stepchild please please PM me.

Refer to this post: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=200636

thanks roxie. that post wasn't much help. my questions have to do with the embassy part of it so I need someone from jamaica who has done it. from the research that I have done every country's requirements at the embassy stage are slightly different when it comes to the paperwork needed to show legal custody of the child....some need an actual court order and others will accept a notarized letter from the bio parent giving permission for the child to leave the country. i'll PM Jengles. I suppose I could call the embassy directly and ask....anyone know the number I could call to get such info?

also, the dna test part. some cases get through without a dna test being required. not sure how they determine which cases require a dna test and which don't. if a dna test is required in our case (which I am anticipating it will be), does my husband have to go to jamaica to do it? i see all these ads for immigration dna testing where it is possible for my husband to go to a lab here and his daughter go to a lab in jamaica and they mail the info between the two....but at a cost of around $600+ after shipping and lab fees. just want to be prepared for this monster we call immmigration! i have a headache already...

[*SunRay* 1]

Sunray...I love Bob Marleys at Universal....We used go there on Friday nights. during my summer breaks.nice music for dancing. I never ate there though.

I enjoyed it to when I went there last year. Ray may think it's too commerical but we'll have to make the best of it. lol

Thanks Roxcie, I'll try to enjoy it. lol

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Hey Mich..where the heck have u been

KK ..poor yuh...LOL..the passes allows us to go to the beaches and pools here..

Finesse not sure of ur question exactly...but can ur hubby be in JA for testing 600 is a plane ticket...sometimes the DNA test gets done if the fathers particulars are added sometime after the child is born...

for 401ks I thought once ur married for ur spouse not to be the beneficiary he/she would have to sign a waiver and given to ur employer?

prenup ting...hmmmm--my take

[^KK^ 3]

is that NY thing about the beaches? I wonder if I'm suppose to do that here in Maryland.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Hey Mich..where the heck have u been

KK ..poor yuh...LOL..the passes allows us to go to the beaches and pools here..

Finesse not sure of ur question exactly...but can ur hubby be in JA for testing 600 is a plane ticket...sometimes the DNA test gets done if the fathers particulars are added sometime after the child is born...

for 401ks I thought once ur married for ur spouse not to be the beneficiary he/she would have to sign a waiver and given to ur employer?

prenup ting...hmmmm--my take

Kimmy, there is some truth in some of what you have stated but not all. I can leave any portion of my 401 that was aquired prior to be married to whom ever I wish. I can designate with an agreement in writting, that all monies aquired pior to being married will not be used as part of an divorce/death dispereement.

is that NY thing about the beaches? I wonder if I'm suppose to do that here in Maryland.

KK, in Maryland they use your car registration as proof of residency when you are trying to get into the parks and beaches that requires money for entrance.

[^KK^ 3]

roxie...do you know of any nice parks beaches in maryland?

[NatPatBen 3]

I never knew that in some states/cities, the parks and beaches aren't free & open. Funny how there are these types of differences. Some places, zoos are free & parks aren't. Others, vice versa.

Like, at my university, students had to pay a HUGE amount of money for football games, whereas other schools gave students free tickets.

Please excuse my off-topic rambling.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

roxie...do you know of any nice parks beaches in maryland?

Yes, I will put this disclaimer out.... There are no beaches i Maryland that can compare to any beaches in the Caribbean or in Florida.

Now, I would say that Point Look-out is a very nice beach in Maryland. It's about a 2 hrs drive from you...straight down Rt5 going south. You can go to Ocean City or Rehoboth beach, they are nice too. But since I live alittle more south than you, for day trips IO tend to go to Point Look Out.

I never knew that in some states/cities, the parks and beaches aren't free & open. Funny how there are these types of differences. Some places, zoos are free & parks aren't. Others, vice versa.

Like, at my university, students had to pay a HUGE amount of money for football games, whereas other schools gave students free tickets.

Please excuse my off-topic rambling.

Nat, alot of this depends on the states budget.

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Rox...my statement didn't make much sens caus of the typos ...but if ur married a spouse is the beneficiary until they sign the waiver for someone else...even if the spouses name is not listed on 401k papers....

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Rox...my statement didn't make much sens caus of the typos ...but if ur married a spouse is the beneficiary until they sign the waiver for someone else...even if the spouses name is not listed on 401k papers....

Kimmy, that is true.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

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KK...trust mi no excited sey wi affi get passes fi go a BEACH taxes alreasdy a get paid...aww bwoy!!

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

There is no Sun here in MD, where is the sun.........