Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Morning Yardies, I just found out that my Fiance has been talking to his baby mother/ex almost every day for hours at at time while I am at work. I think this is it for me I cant take it anymore. I looked at the phone bill and couldnt believe it.

I am sorry to hear that

Now, as many of you know I am normally the first one to jump out saying DUMP HIM, but is there a possibility it ISN'T what you assume it to be?

Ie, does he have any friends here to call and chat with??

Does she have someone else, ie could they be just friends?

Reason I ask is that when you're bored, you often just find ANYONE to chat to to pass time with.....

[yankeesgirl79 0]

Morning Yardies, I just found out that my Fiance has been talking to his baby mother/ex almost every day for hours at at time while I am at work. I think this is it for me I cant take it anymore. I looked at the phone bill and couldnt believe it.

I am sorry to hear that

Now, as many of you know I am normally the first one to jump out saying DUMP HIM, but is there a possibility it ISN'T what you assume it to be?

Ie, does he have any friends here to call and chat with??

Does she have someone else, ie could they be just friends?

Reason I ask is that when you're bored, you often just find ANYONE to chat to to pass time with.....

true...i gotta agree jaenglish.....however if i found our richard were talking tohis baby mama/ex i would prolly flip out too and that would be the straw that broke the camels back.....i often wonder if he has more to do with her than he tells me......as much as i agree with you i see where you are coming off lovesponge......

[My4rmylife 0]

good morning ... hope everyone has a joyous day..

[My4rmylife 0]

Morning Yardies, I just found out that my Fiance has been talking to his baby mother/ex almost every day for hours at at time while I am at work. I think this is it for me I cant take it anymore. I looked at the phone bill and couldnt believe it.

I think it something you guys need to talk about and not jump to any conclusions ..Maybe she is just his connection to home ... But no matter what do whats right for you ...

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Morning Yardies, I just found out that my Fiance has been talking to his baby mother/ex almost every day for hours at at time while I am at work. I think this is it for me I cant take it anymore. I looked at the phone bill and couldnt believe it.

Sponge; I'm so sorry. Forget being pissed about who he's talking, I'd have to kill his a$$ for running up the phone bill. Do what you have to do and what you feel is right. I know you're upset/hurt (and I would be too), but, well, you know what to do. You know how to reach me if you want to talk.

ENGLISH;

Your photos had my family visiting from England in tears last night. Woke up this morning to 6 women in my kitchen cook, it felt like I was at home.

[sus 70]

Morning all - I am in a little better shape this am than last night - not much, but see a glimmer of sun now. Thanks for all the support.

Lovesponge, I am so sorry to hear that - I agree with the other ladies, talk to him - and I would kick his azz for running up the bill too

[NatPatBen 3]

Sponge; I'm so sorry. Forget being pissed about who he's talking, I'd have to kill his a$$ for running up the phone bill. Do what you have to do and what you feel is right. I know you're upset/hurt (and I would be too), but, well, you know what to do. You know how to reach me if you want to talk.

Echo that! You can't mess with people's money!

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Morning Yardies, I just found out that my Fiance has been talking to his baby mother/ex almost every day for hours at at time while I am at work. I think this is it for me I cant take it anymore. I looked at the phone bill and couldnt believe it.

this broke my heart

i am so pissed and sad and its not even me

its like i can feel your pain from just reading that alone

this is so messed up

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

I think it something you guys need to talk about and not jump to any conclusions ..Maybe she is just his connection to home ... But no matter what do whats right for you ...

i suppose it depends on the nature of the relationship

but i just think talking to your ex for hours and hours on your fiance's dime is inappropriate

even if you are platonic freinds

what is there to talk about with your ex? other than the kids you share? what else is appropriate to be discussing for hours?

Edited July 1, 2009 by Bunzarelli

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Bunz, when last you eat some good bammi and fry fish....that's what I woke up to this morning. I didn't have time to eat the bannana porridge, but it smell so good.

[*JG* 2]

And no I am not on your side. Children are a blessing and it is the best thing that has happened to me in my life....you are going to kick yourself that you waited to long once you have one. You will never know the love you can have for someone until you have a child. IMHO

How long would you say is too long? I'm thinking to wait until 30 (3 yrs), but Steven wants me to have one yesterday. Perhaps it's because people rather talk about the bad (unordinary) than the good (ordinary), but every coworker that has kids talks about the amount of money kids cost & the restrictions on travel they have with young kids.

There is no perfect time to have kids.

How long would you say is too long? I'm thinking to wait until 30 (3 yrs), but Steven wants me to have one yesterday. Perhaps it's because people rather talk about the bad (unordinary) than the good (ordinary), but every coworker that has kids talks about the amount of money kids cost & the restrictions on travel they have with young kids.

I would wait. You need to to make sure you two are compatible before rushing into parenthood, so many marriages fail these days you need to make sure you're building on a strong foundation....Not saying that your marriage is necessarily doomed, but I think it's madness to rush into having kids too soon....

I could not agree with this more!

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

is what kind of big cooking going on there?

Tre is a damn shame but i can't even remember

a couple weeks ago i had a niiiice steam fish

but then i'm not really a fish person so maybe that's why

curry chicken is my thing

[*JG* 2]

I'm so excited....going to NY for 4 days......ALLLLLLLLL BY MYSELF....no hubby and no kid Gonna shop and have fun til I drop.

I'm jealous.

[*JG* 2]

Bad week, Bunz - kinda feeling like everything just shattered

Talk to me, Sus.

[*JG* 2]

This one is for you, Shaunsgirl!!! Hee hee............

OK! I have not been on the site since you posted this. I am going to getcha. I look like a big baked potato (and I don't mean that in a good way)! Next time pleaz photoshop me or somethin'.

BTW. Hi All! I am going back to catch up from page 233. I hope everyone is doing fine.

Baked potato? Ha ha ha.....

Forgot you told me to Photoshop you into the crowd at the wedding cause you were late. That was hilarious.