Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)

[finesse 3]

Girl the cheaper the better....these people have to fork out a lot of money to be in a wedding you really need to think about that. The dresses my girls wore were 45.00. Remember they have to get their hair done, jewelry, travel etc. You can still have them look nice without having them pay an arm and a leg.

And no I am not on your side. Children are a blessing and it is the best thing that has happened to me in my life....you are going to kick yourself that you waited to long once you have one. You will never know the love you can have for someone until you have a child. IMHO

No..not for my wedding...for my friend's wedding. She can get a little pricey with stuff...so I wanted to know what would be considered reasonable.

I don't think I'll be kicking myself...I really want my kids to have the best and be able to provide for them emotionally and financially. I consider myself still young..lol. I just got a job where I'm not working 60-80 hour weeks and making enough money to be financially sound. I see the blessings that everyone has with their kids and I think it's great. But when I'm ready..I'll be ready. And I hope that it's in God's plan for me to be ready.

how mi know finese woulda say dat!!!

everybody in di picha need a little tone up..

I think this is one day...where you just let it all hang....lmao..

i see

[^KK^ 3]

Girl the cheaper the better....these people have to fork out a lot of money to be in a wedding you really need to think about that. The dresses my girls wore were 45.00. Remember they have to get their hair done, jewelry, travel etc. You can still have them look nice without having them pay an arm and a leg.

And no I am not on your side. Children are a blessing and it is the best thing that has happened to me in my life....you are going to kick yourself that you waited to long once you have one. You will never know the love you can have for someone until you have a child. IMHO

No..not for my wedding...for my friend's wedding. She can get a little pricey with stuff...so I wanted to know what would be considered reasonable.

I don't think I'll be kicking myself...I really want my kids to have the best and be able to provide for them emotionally and financially. I consider myself still young..lol. I just got a job where I'm not working 60-80 hour weeks and making enough money to be financially sound. I see the blessings that everyone has with their kids and I think it's great. But when I'm ready..I'll be ready. And I hope that it's in God's plan for me to be ready.

i'd say $150 max for the dress...unless she is buying then go with $300 dress

thanks finesse..

[NatPatBen 3]

And no I am not on your side. Children are a blessing and it is the best thing that has happened to me in my life....you are going to kick yourself that you waited to long once you have one. You will never know the love you can have for someone until you have a child. IMHO

How long would you say is too long? I'm thinking to wait until 30 (3 yrs), but Steven wants me to have one yesterday. Perhaps it's because people rather talk about the bad (unordinary) than the good (ordinary), but every coworker that has kids talks about the amount of money kids cost & the restrictions on travel they have with young kids.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

http://Tara956.zenfolio.com/p879973771/e34c06e91

bway ppl brave eeh!

wish i had her courage

[finesse 3]

And no I am not on your side. Children are a blessing and it is the best thing that has happened to me in my life....you are going to kick yourself that you waited to long once you have one. You will never know the love you can have for someone until you have a child. IMHO

How long would you say is too long? I'm thinking to wait until 30 (3 yrs), but Steven wants me to have one yesterday. Perhaps it's because people rather talk about the bad (unordinary) than the good (ordinary), but every coworker that has kids talks about the amount of money kids cost & the restrictions on travel they have with young kids.

depends on your goals. do you have a college education? do you have a good job? can you support another human being?

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

How long would you say is too long? I'm thinking to wait until 30 (3 yrs), but Steven wants me to have one yesterday. Perhaps it's because people rather talk about the bad (unordinary) than the good (ordinary), but every coworker that has kids talks about the amount of money kids cost & the restrictions on travel they have with young kids.

I would wait. You need to to make sure you two are compatible before rushing into parenthood, so many marriages fail these days you need to make sure you're building on a strong foundation....Not saying that your marriage is necessarily doomed, but I think it's madness to rush into having kids too soon....

[dillon 6]

Now, ya'll see why I ONLY did this when I was about 300lbs lighter and my costume was way smaller than these

Girl you would rock it now!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

http://Tara956.zenfolio.com/p879973771/e34c06e91

bway ppl brave eeh!

wish i had her courage

yuh nuh si di RESS!!

[IrieCat 2]

And no I am not on your side. Children are a blessing and it is the best thing that has happened to me in my life....you are going to kick yourself that you waited to long once you have one. You will never know the love you can have for someone until you have a child. IMHO

How long would you say is too long? I'm thinking to wait until 30 (3 yrs), but Steven wants me to have one yesterday. Perhaps it's because people rather talk about the bad (unordinary) than the good (ordinary), but every coworker that has kids talks about the amount of money kids cost & the restrictions on travel they have with young kids.

Money is a factor for sure! It is expensiveto have a child. I want to have another and so does Louis. But I do not have health insurance right now so it is out of the question. When I had Tierra my company paid 100%.

I go through alot with my daughter but I wouldnt give her up for ANYTHING! And I traveled everywhere with her. It is only harder now that she is schoolage. Before we could get up and go anytime.

Only you will know when the "right" time is. When it feels right, when everything comes together.

[finesse 3]

How long would you say is too long? I'm thinking to wait until 30 (3 yrs), but Steven wants me to have one yesterday. Perhaps it's because people rather talk about the bad (unordinary) than the good (ordinary), but every coworker that has kids talks about the amount of money kids cost & the restrictions on travel they have with young kids.

I would wait. You need to to make sure you two are compatible before rushing into parenthood, so many marriages fail these days you need to make sure you're building on a strong foundation....Not saying that your marriage is necessarily doomed, but I think it's madness to rush into having kids too soon....

i agree. 50% of all marraiges end in divorce. i wonder the statistic of intercultural marraiges.....

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

English yuh is a wicked woman fi continue snapping shots of that woman

a who tell har seh she coulda lef har house look so!?!

dem no love har!

[Islandwoman 0]

speaking of cell phones..at what age would you get your child a cell phone?

Ryan got his last year - when he just turned 11. I think when they start going places with just their friends they should have one.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

English yuh is a wicked woman fi continue snapping shots of that woman

a who tell har seh she coulda lef har house look so!?!

dem no love har!

di ooman WELL wah di attention, she did a run round like some mad bull, running up to the barriers and posing.....she lucky yaw :rofl: :rofl:

[Shemmy 4]

English yuh is a wicked woman fi continue snapping shots of that woman

a who tell har seh she coulda lef har house look so!?!

dem no love har!

di ooman WELL wah di attention, she did a run round like some mad bull, running up to the barriers and posing.....she lucky yaw :rofl: :rofl:

She was a mess. It's one thing to be heavy but having fat flopping around that like...ain't cute.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

a how mi nuh see finesse comment yet?

come on girl mi need a extra laugh now

lol