Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)

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Maybe because I have children I do agree. I just don’t think its fair when a parent doesn’t pay child support because they don’t want to. Now granted if the absent parent is trying then fine but if they are sitting at home or doing illegal things just to avoid it hell to the naw and the deserve what ever they get. Think of it this way if I decided to sit at home just because I didn’t feel like taking care of my kids then what?? My kids would be in the system or starving .I have a responsibility and a right to take care of them kids. They didn’t ask to be here I was the one who wasted 2 minutes of my time to conceive them.

The things listed don’t happen right away they gradually happen and our state uses it as way to GET people motivated to do better. Suspending your license well they’ll trying to make it tough for you. I whole heartily agree and most times you will see men running done to the support office to make a payment when they know there almost at them stages.

I just think I have to support these children so do you.

I would love to see how effective this policy is. Usually if they got that far..the parent is not getting much...

I thought the whole point was so that the child can be properly supported...when in the end..you get sparely payments??

Don't get me wrong..I do think the parents should have to pay and should be responsible.

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he will laugh either way.. im telling u, this tx accent have me messing up the words even if I think im saying them right LOL

That TX accent me and Zee was just talking about that last night Quana. I told her the only bad thing about moving South is the accents. My oldest asked me the odda day. So when we move I will have to start calling u momma instead of mom?? I told him if he does I will pop him upside the head. The momma thing drives me crazy!!! I told him a lot of people will say he has an accent He was like but I don’t. I told him you will to them.

DaDa, I'm sorry but people from PA have an accent as well!! LOL..

(As she crosses her arms across her chest) No we don't.....LOL

Yes Love you do!!!

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I've been hearing a lot about this man that has 21 kids and he is only 29.

http://www.uniquedaily.com/the-man-with-21-kids/

I can't pull it up at work but is this the one that he works at McDonalds so his kids only get a 1.98 each??

Yes..DaDa....but he pays his child support...because legally they can only garnish 50% of your pay.

[Rick Ross 0]

Never heard of it. I do want to read Sista Soulja's {sp} new book. I plan to get some books to read on my vacation in Miami.

Are you speaking of Midnight KK?? If so it was just alright to me. Nothing even close to her Coldest Winter Ever...

Yeah...that's the book. So it wasn't as good as the first one???? Oh now. I was looking forward to reading it. I will probably still read it though.

I guess I could wait on the pdf.

No still read it I think you will enjoy it just dont expect it to be anything like A Coldest Winter Ever. With a Coldest Winter I couldnt put the book down it was soo good and kept me on the edge of my seat but with Midnight. Well I kept reading waiting for the juice to come and honestly it never did. There were some good points but not nearly as many as Coldest.

Ladies you know who was my first favorite author... I'm LMAO just thinking about it... Jackie Collins. Whoo did I love me some Jackie Collins and I think I started reading her in high school. I'm not sure how I came across the book but somehow I did and before you knew it I read every series and I used to look forward to her next book. I haven’t read her in years. I wonder if she has any new books out but she had it all. Sex, murder, money and lies. You couldn’t ask for anything more and her sexual scenes were off the hook back then. I loved how she was vulgar and she didn’t sugar coat it by saying he thrust his throne in my secret garden. Naw that broad brought it to ya like he stuck his bleep in her bleep. I was like ok go Jackie!!!! But that was my girl.

Oh and another one Zane!!! Why hasn’t she came out with any new books by herself that has only one story in it. She was on a role I don’t know what made her start writing short stories with other authors. She was doing it for a while and I thought she was going to stop but she is still going. It’s like enough already!!!!

Zane is the Sh$%!!

[DaDa 1]

Is anyone a Terri Woods fan? If so I have a question. I have read all three of the Dutch Books. Now I seen Angel but I never bought it because I always assumed Angel was Dutch II renamed. Am I wrong and this is actually a different book?

Hey Dada, yall see I'm trying to catch up when I should be completing this project! LOL

Yup I love Terri Woods Philly author fi true@ No Angel is supposed to be a separate book from Dutch II

http://www.amazon.com/Teri-Woods/e/B001H6Q...3NKR009GJCCFM6B

she is releasing a new book Alibi this summer can't wait!

Thanks Philly!! So I do need to get Angel then. Did you read it? I was reading Deadly Reigns II and I seen an introduction to it but I didnt read it thinking it was Dutch II. So you read all her books? Have you started the Deadly Reigns series?? I loved One but Two it took me a while to get into.

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You know Zane was my church giving bible study....LOL....

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KK, Steve Harvey been married and divorce 3 times, why would I listern to someone who couldn't get it right themselves. That is like the pot calling the kettle black. Those are my thoughts and comments.

how are we now blaming 1 person for the relationship to fall apart? and judging someone?

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KK, Steve Harvey been married and divorce 3 times, why would I listern to someone who couldn't get it right themselves. That is like the pot calling the kettle black. Those are my thoughts and comments.

how are we now blaming 1 person for the relationship to fall apart? and judging someone?

You know..that's true...hmmmm

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All i got to say is APF that book had me blushing!!!

(As she puts on her shades!!!!) Dang Good Morning Newly!!! We can see from all your bright colors your in the house today....LOL

What push movie are you speaking of?? And hey I do not sound country with you thick New Yorkian accent...lol

lol i wanted yall to see me today, whatever i still dont know what a New York accent is lmao you never read push its the red book with the big black letters i dont remember who wrote it but it was crazy monique is staring in the movie mariah carey it looks good the book is wrote in like ebonics girl my head was spinning with that book!

Huh!!! No I never heard of it.. I have to get it. When you say your head was spinning do you mean in a good way like it was so good you couldn’t keep up with all the things the author was throwing at your or it was confusing??

yeah it was good and sad at the same time actually it took me alot to finish the book because it was just a crazy book i dont know how to explain it... now APF was juicy damn they have APF 1 & 2 both real good i was at work reading APF 2 like a crackhead gurrrrl you can wait to the push movie but get those APF books!

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yeah it was good and sad at the same time actually it took me alot to finish the book because it was just a crazy book i dont know how to explain it... now APF was juicy damn they have APF 1 & 2 both real good i was at work reading APF 2 like a crackhead gurrrrl you can wait to the push movie but get those APF books!

I think I read those....

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

ROXCIE---I HAVE A QUESTION FOR U!

I am here, was talking to a friend about crashing at his place in LONDON for a visit.

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All i got to say is APF that book had me blushing!!!

(As she puts on her shades!!!!) Dang Good Morning Newly!!! We can see from all your bright colors your in the house today....LOL

What push movie are you speaking of?? And hey I do not sound country with you thick New Yorkian accent...lol

lol i wanted yall to see me today, whatever i still dont know what a New York accent is lmao you never read push its the red book with the big black letters i dont remember who wrote it but it was crazy monique is staring in the movie mariah carey it looks good the book is wrote in like ebonics girl my head was spinning with that book!

Huh!!! No I never heard of it.. I have to get it. When you say your head was spinning do you mean in a good way like it was so good you couldn’t keep up with all the things the author was throwing at your or it was confusing??

yeah it was good and sad at the same time actually it took me alot to finish the book because it was just a crazy book i dont know how to explain it... now APF was juicy damn they have APF 1 & 2 both real good i was at work reading APF 2 like a crackhead gurrrrl you can wait to the push movie but get those APF books!

there's a APF part 2. Gotta get it. I'm so far behind in books. Love love love Zane, Carl Weber, Nikki Turner, Noire, Terri Woods and Kiki Swinson (Wifey).

Found the book I was talking about yesterday THe Darkest Child by Dolores Phillips...gonna order that and In Love with a Younger Man

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O.k. I'm not sure what's going on. My friend just sent me some pics with Halle Berry and Jamie Fox making out on stage. His hand is on her rass and hers is on his manhood. They have a fire scene behind them and it looks like he presented her with some award. Has anyone heard about these pics??

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That is the Federal Law in every state for Child Support

Here u get to sue the dad no matter what. So what if he doesn’t have a job he still has to pay something and then they give him a certain amount of time to get a job. If not he gets locked up, his driver’s license can be revoked and it goes on his credit. He sits in jail for a while and then they let him out to find a job and if not well back to the slammer buddy…

If you take him back to court, the Judge will enforce it.

I have issues with this and maybe because I don't have kids...but I've seen it done to other people. Actually a mother. See in Florida in order to get any public benefits..insurance/welfare for child you are caring you. You must file child support on the parents.

I just don't see how locking them up, revoking his/her driver's license is even going to "help" (using that word loosely) get a job. It's like a lost cause. Now they have a record...and can't drive to work...which means the likelihood of them finding a new one is going to be harder. So they already aren't paying..I'm sure they are not worried about no credit score.

Then the effect on the child...I mean now are they really going to try to be in their life now. Shoot...they will be in jail half the time.

There has just to be a better way to enforce child support.

Just my view on it. I admit it might be because I haven't experienced this.

i think it's a FANTASTIC idea, in the sense that men OFTEN play the system as regards child support, ie they pretend they can't get job or they aren't working.

Now, they got the woman pregnant, the CHILD is there, if it's working in MCDONALD"S they had better take it. Now the ONLY way I feel sorry for them is if there are NO jobs to be had, but I am SURE there's SOMETHING there.

I have very mixed feelings on this - Because in some cases, there is a need for extreme measures - but all too often, the judges tar everyone with the same brush rather than dealing with the situation on a case by case situation. My ex had 2 kids when he was young (at 16) - They never had a support order in place - The woman lived on welfare, and he gave her cash (no receipts) = way way more than he should have. Welfare went after the woman to get her to give him up, and they went after him for CS - she went into the hearing and claimed he NEVER paid a dime, so he got tagged with a HUGE arrearage and a support order. If she had said he paid, she woulda been in trouble for double dipping. Since he paid cash, he had no records.

As a result, he only paid her what he was ordered to pay - still gave his girls whatever they needed, but his ex got a min,. amount in her pocket, which pissed her off and she dragged him in and out of court. Then, he got hurt on the job and was out of work - She went after him for contempt, and the judge ordered him to pay $1500 within a week, or go to jail -

How can that be valuable to anyone, or how reasonable is that? He had a valid reason why he fell behind in his support - he was injured!

Sus- I think this is the angle I'm taking with my opinion. I hope that the jail thing is more like a last resort.

Roxie -

To answer your question about self-employed. There are ways around it. Assets and Property can be seized in order to satisfy the debt. Or the Judge can always require client to pay the amount owed to the self-employed or business to a registry of the court. It's not entirely impossible.

KK, by the time the judge can set all of this in motion, the child will be 18 years of age.... listen its not that easy to get childsupport when the parent is not willing to pay.

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my ex husband, the donor, is a super jerk.. The bum does not work so he will not have to pay me child support and the system here lets him get away with it..

Uhh hun.. See u need to move to Pittsburgh. Here u get to sue the dad no matter what. So what if he doesn’t have a job he still has to pay something and then they give him a certain amount of time to get a job. If not he gets locked up, his driver’s license can be revoked and it goes on his credit. He sits in jail for a while and then they let him out to find a job and if not well back to the slammer buddy…

Dada.. they do the same thing here but only if the mother is receiving government financial assistantance and since I don't I don't matter and neither does the 24K he owes me from the 5 years we've been divorced!!! if only I had that me and da pickney could go live in JA!!

Never heard of it. I do want to read Sista Soulja's {sp} new book. I plan to get some books to read on my vacation in Miami.

Are you speaking of Midnight KK?? If so it was just alright to me. Nothing even close to her Coldest Winter Ever...

Yeah...that's the book. So it wasn't as good as the first one???? Oh now. I was looking forward to reading it. I will probably still read it though.

I guess I could wait on the pdf.

No still read it I think you will enjoy it just dont expect it to be anything like A Coldest Winter Ever. With a Coldest Winter I couldnt put the book down it was soo good and kept me on the edge of my seat but with Midnight. Well I kept reading waiting for the juice to come and honestly it never did. There were some good points but not nearly as many as Coldest.

Ladies you know who was my first favorite author... I'm LMAO just thinking about it... Jackie Collins. Whoo did I love me some Jackie Collins and I think I started reading her in high school. I'm not sure how I came across the book but somehow I did and before you knew it I read every series and I used to look forward to her next book. I haven't read her in years. I wonder if she has any new books out but she had it all. Sex, murder, money and lies. You couldn't ask for anything more and her sexual scenes were off the hook back then. I loved how she was vulgar and she didn't sugar coat it by saying he thrust his throne in my secret garden. Naw that broad brought it to ya like he stuck his bleep in her bleep. I was like ok go Jackie!!!! But that was my girl.

Oh and another one Zane!!! Why hasn't she came out with any new books by herself that has only one story in it. She was on a role I don't know what made her start writing short stories with other authors. She was doing it for a while and I thought she was going to stop but she is still going. It's like enough already!!!!

I love Jackie Collins. Lucky Santangelo is one of my favorite characters of all time. I so want to be ballsy like her!

Me Too!!! That bytch was bad wasn't she!!!!! Do you know if Jackie is still writing??