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dancehallquana   5

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philly.. i am so sorry honey for u loss, i know it was what u guys dreaded and hoped not to be true.. i am inspired by ur strength my gyal.. its such a GINORMOUS weight, the Lord is strong enough to hold u up...

i understand hubby's anger, and no matter how misguided, he is hurt right now and we get irrational sometimes.. i know he knows its not the kids fault.

I pray that God gives u wisdom and strength during this time, gives ur hubby patience and tolerance and gives ur children compassion and selflessness, and fills ur home w/ peace and unyielding love.. HOLD ON MY SISTER...

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philly.. i am so sorry honey for u loss, i know it was what u guys dreaded and hoped not to be true.. i am inspired by ur strength my gyal.. its such a GINORMOUS weight, the Lord is strong enough to hold u up...

i understand hubby's anger, and no matter how misguided, he is hurt right now and we get irrational sometimes.. i know he knows its not the kids fault.

I pray that God gives u wisdom and strength during this time, gives ur hubby patience and tolerance and gives ur children compassion and selflessness, and fills ur home w/ peace and unyielding love.. HOLD ON MY SISTER...

Very well said. :thumbs:(L)(F)

dillon Experienced

dillon   6

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God, I don't want to be here today. Busy fun weekend and now this................UGH!

And you have a fun weekend lined up for this coming weekend too! :dance:

AOS

9/25/09 -Mailed I-485/I-131/I-765

9/27/09 - Received by Chicago Lock Box

10/2/09 - Date on NAO1's

10/5/09 - Received NAO1's in the mail

10/5/09- Check cashed

10/11/09 - Received Biometrics letter in the mail

10/29/09- Biometrics appointment

10/14/09 - Walked in for Biometrics appointment

10/15/09 - Touch I-485/I-765

10/16/09 - I-485 transferred to CSC

11/6/09 - EAD approved

11/9/09 - Advance Parole approved

11/23/09- Received EAD/AP

12/2/09 - Email Card Production Ordered!!!!

12/9/09 - Card received

dillon Experienced

dillon   6

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Sorry for your loss Philly!

AOS

9/25/09 -Mailed I-485/I-131/I-765

9/27/09 - Received by Chicago Lock Box

10/2/09 - Date on NAO1's

10/5/09 - Received NAO1's in the mail

10/5/09- Check cashed

10/11/09 - Received Biometrics letter in the mail

10/29/09- Biometrics appointment

10/14/09 - Walked in for Biometrics appointment

10/15/09 - Touch I-485/I-765

10/16/09 - I-485 transferred to CSC

11/6/09 - EAD approved

11/9/09 - Advance Parole approved

11/23/09- Received EAD/AP

12/2/09 - Email Card Production Ordered!!!!

12/9/09 - Card received

jawi876 Experienced

jawi876   2

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Philly I feared the worst when you first posted about spotting and cramping. I'm so sorry for your loss. No words will ever be enough to take away the hurt and the emptiness you feel whenever you think about this angel.

I agree with JaE...you were still very early in your pregnancy...I don't think the boys are responsible for you loosing the baby. Pregnant women deal with stressful situations all the time. I do think stress should be kept to the minimum...but it will happen again in God's time.

I think you are dealing with your boys in frustration and anger...you and your husband need to try a different approach. If you think about it like this...you had a WHOLE lot more time to get to know your husband and fall in love with him. Your kids have feelings and react just like any other human...they don't have to immediately take to this new person in their home. They may feel that he has become more important to you than them...there is no telling what is going on in their minds about the new family dynamic.

I would be curious to know why they accepted him during the first week or so...and why it has changed so drastically now that he is really settling in. They are acting out because they are hurting in some way...resentment...anger...fear...something. You just have to find a way to get to the real emotion behind the strife they are causing.

I will continue to keep you and the family in my prayers.

Hey yardies!

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According to God's favor...Happily married on 09~09~09

See "Our Story" for K-1 timeline

~AOS Timeline~

Nov 28, 2009 ~~ Mailed off Packet

Dec 01, 2009 ~~ Delivered to Chicago Lockbox and signed for by "L. Box"

Dec 07, 2009 ~~ Check Cashed!

Dec 12, 2009 ~~ All 3 NOA1s received in the mail (dated 12/7/09)

Dec 17, 2009 ~~ InfoPass appointment (Emergency AP granted)

Dec 28, 2009 ~~ Biometric Letter arrived (dated 12/15/09)

Dec 28, 2009 ~~ RFE for I-693 (dated 12/22/09)

Jan 11, 2010 ~~ Completed Biometrics

Jan 14, 2010 ~~ Sent I-693 in sealed envelope via US Priority Mail

Jan 19, 2010 ~~ Reply to RFE delivered to Lee's Summit, MO @ 5:03 PM signed for by "C BUCHHOLZ"

Jan 20, 2010 ~~ USCIS acknowledged receipt of RFE on I-485 only

Jan 22, 2010 ~~ I-131 AP and I-765 EAD approved (email notice on 1/25/10)

Jan 28, 2010 ~~ USCIS email that I-485 was transferred to CSC on 1/26/10

Jan 30, 2010 ~~ Received EAD and AP via US Postal Service

Feb 01, 2010 ~~ Received notification of case transfer via USPS

May 07, 2010 ~~ Email notification that card production ordered for 1-485

Jun 01, 2010 ~~ Greencard finally arrives w/approval date 2/23/10 (Huh??)

Done until November 25, 2011!!!

dillon Experienced

dillon   6

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Yes JaPrincess they did...they will be ready to be picked up on Thursday.

AOS

9/25/09 -Mailed I-485/I-131/I-765

9/27/09 - Received by Chicago Lock Box

10/2/09 - Date on NAO1's

10/5/09 - Received NAO1's in the mail

10/5/09- Check cashed

10/11/09 - Received Biometrics letter in the mail

10/29/09- Biometrics appointment

10/14/09 - Walked in for Biometrics appointment

10/15/09 - Touch I-485/I-765

10/16/09 - I-485 transferred to CSC

11/6/09 - EAD approved

11/9/09 - Advance Parole approved

11/23/09- Received EAD/AP

12/2/09 - Email Card Production Ordered!!!!

12/9/09 - Card received

newlynluv Enthusiast

newlynluv   0

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Hey Jawi how you feeling today?

** I been to hell and back but the key words is I'm back thanks to the grace of god! **

Love...Live...Life... (It's is better to have loved than to have never loved at all)

4/9/09 - Sent I-129F to Vermont Service Center via USPS

4/10/09 - VSC received packet

4/13/09- VSC opened package

4/15/09- VSC mailed NOA1

4/17/09- VSC cashed check

4/17/09-NOA1 online

4/20/09-NOA1 hard copy

4/20/09-Touched

4/20/09- now we wait...

8/27/09- touched

8/31/09- approved!!

9/4/09- letter saying they mailed info to kingston

11/16/09 sent DS230 via email

11/18/09 rec email stating interview was scheduled for Dec

11/19/09 sent email asking what day in Dec and they responded Dec 8th!!!!! 2WEEKS

11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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jawi876 Experienced

jawi876   2

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Hey Jawi how you feeling today?

Thanks for asking NNL...I'm hanging in there.

0insijou.png

According to God's favor...Happily married on 09~09~09

See "Our Story" for K-1 timeline

~AOS Timeline~

Nov 28, 2009 ~~ Mailed off Packet

Dec 01, 2009 ~~ Delivered to Chicago Lockbox and signed for by "L. Box"

Dec 07, 2009 ~~ Check Cashed!

Dec 12, 2009 ~~ All 3 NOA1s received in the mail (dated 12/7/09)

Dec 17, 2009 ~~ InfoPass appointment (Emergency AP granted)

Dec 28, 2009 ~~ Biometric Letter arrived (dated 12/15/09)

Dec 28, 2009 ~~ RFE for I-693 (dated 12/22/09)

Jan 11, 2010 ~~ Completed Biometrics

Jan 14, 2010 ~~ Sent I-693 in sealed envelope via US Priority Mail

Jan 19, 2010 ~~ Reply to RFE delivered to Lee's Summit, MO @ 5:03 PM signed for by "C BUCHHOLZ"

Jan 20, 2010 ~~ USCIS acknowledged receipt of RFE on I-485 only

Jan 22, 2010 ~~ I-131 AP and I-765 EAD approved (email notice on 1/25/10)

Jan 28, 2010 ~~ USCIS email that I-485 was transferred to CSC on 1/26/10

Jan 30, 2010 ~~ Received EAD and AP via US Postal Service

Feb 01, 2010 ~~ Received notification of case transfer via USPS

May 07, 2010 ~~ Email notification that card production ordered for 1-485

Jun 01, 2010 ~~ Greencard finally arrives w/approval date 2/23/10 (Huh??)

Done until November 25, 2011!!!

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SupportOAFJF   0

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in jamaica, is "getting something stamped by a JP" the same thing as notarized? if so,what is required to do so? just an ID?

Finesse, it would good if ur hubby or his childs mother knows a JP, cuz nowadays JPs do not want to sign anything for anyone they do not know, paying or not...But he can sure try..does the bank do it?

husband knows several but his daughters mother does not personally know them. he is planning to call one of them to arrange for her to get the stamp and hoping they don't give her a hard time about it..but getting anything done over the phone always seems to be a challenge. hate to have to go there just to accomplish this..

OK..MI hope so..cause it would be a pain to just go for that..

:angry: Which one of ya'll took the twix bar off my desk

kimmy did

lawd jesas..doan mix mi! like Shebada sey !! mi no nyam twix

u di trouble maker roun hereso....u di obvious chice

:rofl::rofl: yuh si how mi get bad name roun yere

Sorry for ur loss Philly..I agree with English's comment...u know the pregnancy hormone doesn't mean preggo sometimes...coud be a false pregnancy and ur body gets rid of it..best to u

MOTIVATE A CHILD... SUPPORT OPEN ARMS FOR JAMAICA'S FUTURE, INC. WE NEED A BRIGHTER TOMORROW !!!!!!

 
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