Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)

[finesse 3]

ahhahaha @ Philly..but seriously...it is tough for children especially young child..u guys know what i used to go thru with Kimora and Kashi and he is her biological father...just time

Yes one thing I have learned in life is no matter what drama we go through on a day to day basis FAMILY Drama is the worst Drama!

Sounds like you depended on him a lot before... maybe he feels like you don't need him anymore...

Maybe you should talk to him alone, just the two of you. Take him to a movie or something and try to understand his feelings.

(((Philly)))

That is very true Princess

He is an introvert and likes to do his own thing so I would let him, but he helped me a lot because he is big for his age, tall and husky. Since he is so strong I depend on him to help me with a lot of things around the house and in the garden. Although Hubby has taken on alot of responsibilities to help me around the house and the vehicles I always engage my son to help in the garden which he loves! ( but not lately LOL)

LOL have you ever tried to really talk to a teenager, it kind of goes like this. So whats up whats going on with you tell me how you feel :blink: can you expound on that :blink:

Well how did you reach that high score on PS3

LOL Princess those are great ideas though

BOAL! DWL!!!

my son exactly!!!!!

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I need to laugh...

sus falling down on the job

[phillyfashionista 8]

Sus was the concert a packed house!

That is pretty Major for Machel, Radio City Music Hall! I know you had a ball

LOL have you ever tried to really talk to a teenager, it kind of goes like this. So whats up whats going on with you tell me how you feel :blink: can you expound on that :blink:

Well how did you reach that high score on PS3

LOL Princess those are great ideas though

BOAL! DWL!!!

my son exactly!!!!!

Yuh See it!

haaaaaa

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

a who push sus out ar chair... (((((((((((((((sus))))))))))) where are you I need some pictures

[phillyfashionista 8]

Quanna, are you taking a half day today?

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Tomorrow is the last day of school

[JAPrincess 27]

Lawny...

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ok..can we spice up this place a likkle...mi a drap a sleep reading

[phillyfashionista 8]

Tomorrow is the last day of school

Lawny I feel your pain trust me!

Lawny...

Wha deh Raas?

[dillon 6]

ok..can we spice up this place a likkle...mi a drap a sleep reading

I could tell you about my bachelorette party that I had this past weekend. It will spice up the place. LOL!

[phillyfashionista 8]

ok..can we spice up this place a likkle...mi a drap a sleep reading

LOL you want to hear my crazy Kitty stories

ok..can we spice up this place a likkle...mi a drap a sleep reading

I could tell you about my bachelorette party that I had this past weekend. It will spice up the place. LOL!

Yes yes do tell, this is way better than my crazy kitties

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ok..can we spice up this place a likkle...mi a drap a sleep reading

I could tell you about my bachelorette party that I had this past weekend. It will spice up the place. LOL!

[sus 70]

Sus was the concert a packed house!

That is pretty Major for Machel, Radio City Music Hall! I know you had a ball

It wasn't packed, but it was crowded - I think the economy hurt ticket sales - He sold out MSG last year, though -

a who push sus out ar chair... (((((((((((((((sus))))))))))) where are you I need some pictures

LOL, bathroom break AGAIN, sorry!

[dancehallquana 5]

whoo.. ya'll are talking up in HERE!!

philly.. girl i feel for u.. its gonna take time girl.. u know i am dreading that day when i have to be in ur shoes, .. its hard ESP when u are REALLY close w/ ur kids b4 another man comes.. NO MATTER how much time u spend w/ them it seems they have these feelings.. i would do extra for the kids and go on more play dates, hoping that when i get on the phone w/ roger they would be OKAY.. NOOOOO still attitude sometimes..

it has gotten better but i know when he comes that will be another adjustment..

like princess said, just continue to be open to him and talk w/ him.. hubby talking to him helps too, even tho ur son might not act like it at first.. u take notice when someone shows care and concern for u, even if u are a stubborn teen..

i don't blame u for being stern too.. after all the crying and taliking, trying to understand her point of view.. i finally told my oldest, u don't have to like him, but he is an adult and u WILL respect him and respect me when i am on the phone.

[wakeywakeup 1]

Hey Yardie crew, My boo is watching the Magic game so I had some time to catch up. I have been reading a lot about being honest and adjustments and all so I decided to post what I been going through.

My boo has been here about a six weeks now and I love that he is here, I still believe that we are meant for each other and cant wait to walk down the aisle. BUT it has been anything but easy. The first week we got into a huge argument about my ex because he called me to wish me a happy mothers day. He is very jealous and kind of insecure. I dont think he trusts me %100 but he says otherwise. We are good most of the time and usually talk through our disagreements, but we we argue we ARGUE. I mean cussing, yelling and once he had to go outside to cool down.

The hardest part of the adjustment for me has been our different parenting styles with my daughter. She is 4 years old and kind of spoiled rotten thanks to mommy. She is my only child and even though I know its bad I basically give her anything she wants. When he came he was like ####### she is rude as hell (she is). I had to pray on this a lot because I knew he was right but somhow I felt like he has no right to tell me how to raise my child but then... oh yea he does he is gonna be my husband and the only father she has ever known. He is really good to her but he also lays down the law and does not play when she is being rude and wanting her own way.

Did I say I am tired as hell, I have never worked, cooked, cleaned, washed and take care of everyone like this my whole life.

Other than the adjustments, we are doing great. He has only been gone 3 hrs and I am missing him like crazy right now. I love coming home to him everyday from work, I love going grocery shopping, going to the mall, hanging out with family and doing every day things with my boo. Most of all I love sleeping next to him every night, and the sex is GREAT. even better than it was in JA lol. The thing I love about him is he is such a family man, he likes to watch movies together,hang out at the park and take my daughter outside to ride her bike. He gets so excited, he races with her. I just sit there and smile at them.

No relationship is easy it takes a lot of HARD work, patience, understanding, forgiveness and you have to really pray and stay close to GOD, only he can help make it work or get you out if its not working.

Hey LoveSponge!! These are the stories I love to hear...You made my day. I'm sure the fights will calm down when you all get in your parenting groove.