Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)

[1luv 1]

Good morning ladies...

LoveSponge...thanks for ur adjustment story!

Quana...I am really excited for u!

Portland ...our job as a wife and/or mother is NEVER done!

[dancehallquana 5]

lol!!! yeah right.. i guess never say never, but i seriously doubt i will be able to stay away from the yardies!!!.. im still at boring rass work remember!!!

i am soo excited tho.. and scared and happy and worried

aww. i can't see ur pic j2..

thanks 1luv.. im glad im at work.. keep myself busy and not stress all day..

ya'll this weekend it was SOOOO freaking hot.. it makes no sense to be sweating just standing outside!! i will be a hermit if this keeps up

[*JG* 2]

Shaunsgal, that sounds like that tv show with Reba McEntire. I didn't know that happened in real life.

OMG...........I LOVE that show.

Me too. Reba is so funny.

Barbara Jean is pure comic genius.

She IS my favorite character. Do any of you have any favorite episodes? One of my faves is when Barbara Jean had a crush on the priest who liked Reba.

Halloween where they dupe Reba.

And the one where Kyra video tapes Van saying I am not a doof and posts on internet.

Honestly, I LOVE all the episodes though. I own seasons one and two SO FAR.

[sus 70]

From Saturday night:

[J2A♥oasis 2]

lol!!! yeah right.. i guess never say never, but i seriously doubt i will be able to stay away from the yardies!!!.. im still at boring rass work remember!!!

i am soo excited tho.. and scared and happy and worried

aww. i can't see ur pic j2..

thanks 1luv.. im glad im at work.. keep myself busy and not stress all day..

ya'll this weekend it was SOOOO freaking hot.. it makes no sense to be sweating just standing outside!! i will be a hermit if this keeps up

It's nothing, I'm just really happy and excited for you. Hope your day goes by really fast.

[*JG* 2]

It has taken a lot for me to post personal things in public on here. Mostly cause I got beat the shyt out of on another board for saying things. You tend to become gun shy everywhere. Mostly, I have tested the waters about non-confrontational personal subjects and saved the others for PMs or emails with people I truly trust.

If I hear someone mention something similar I have been through or I think they can help me, I will PM and spill or ask for advice. Those of you who I have spilled to know exactly what I am talking about.

I understand completely and am the same way.

Side Note: If anyone is from Chicago. Hubby has a gig with his band at the Washington Park on July 3rd for the annual city reggae festival.

Oh, BM.....we forgot about you when making that list of vets.

How is the baby?

I will not be in Chicago July 3rd. Going to see my favorite band here on our levee. Wish I was though.

On that note.....is there anyone at all in the Kansas City, MO area on here? I am headed that way this weekend. I think the only person I know that way is no longer on here.

Morning all! I could not sleep, lol - Think I am too excited about Machel tonight!

I just had the wierdest experience - Logged in here and went to reply, and my typing was BACKWARDS!! I had to shut down my computer and reboot, lol

Good excuse. Yeah blame it on the computer. M-O-V-E A-W-A-Y from the RUM.

LMAO, Shaunsgal - I don't drink rum unless it's rum cream!

Side Note: If anyone is from Chicago. Hubby has a gig with his band at the Washington Park on July 3rd for the annual city reggae festival.

That's great Belwin - sounds like the band is doing well - Have you ever gone to see Anthem when they play at Wild Hare? Hopefully I will get back out there with them one of these days - I liked that place.

Ha sus....we really are alike. Love my rum cream.

Have you tried Amerula?

[*JG* 2]

Hey wakey...i can imagine..lol...how r u doing?

Giiiiiiiiiirrrrll My back was killing me yesterday. The little chairs they give you to sleep in at the hospital is a joke. I'm going to get dressed and head back over there in an hour or so...

I'm sitting here researching a new business. The travel one isn't generating enough money for me and the only way to get the good money is to bring others to the business. Not my thing. I'm not good at pitching that. lol. I'm thinking of jewelry or purses cause I know women like our accessories. Whatchathink?

ahhahaa..dang no cots...

i think jewelry would be great

There was this reclining leather chair and I couldn't adjust it correctly. If I let the back down to far it would throw my feet in the air and if I left it up to far I was sleeping sitting up. Just a hard position for sleeping.

Jawi is doing good so far pain not as bad as yesterday and she is going to bathroom by herself and eating solid foods. Whoot Whoot. I'm praying for her total healing with this surgery. Amen

Send her my best wishes, Wakey.

I hope the same thing.

It has taken a lot for me to post personal things in public on here. Mostly cause I got beat the shyt out of on another board for saying things. You tend to become gun shy everywhere. Mostly, I have tested the waters about non-confrontational personal subjects and saved the others for PMs or emails with people I truly trust.

If I hear someone mention something similiar I have been through or I think they can help me, I will PM and spill or ask for advice. Those of you who I have spilled to know exactly what I am talking about.

JG, speaking for myself I do appreciate your reaching out to me and you are one of the main reasons why I stayed on this thread. I felt that those who happened to have stepped in some sh8t on here were made to feel stupid and also that there were only two categories of relationships on here. Those who had a perfect relationship and those who were destined for failure because of their 'dumbness' (yes I made up my own word). Most people don't mind advice, ideas, gut feeling, etc. but please don't make the person feel stupid for being blinded. At least not during the painful process, maybe after the mourning process.

Just my two cents!

Awwwwww. Thanks SG. You made me smile this morning.

mawnin people!

hope everyone has a "bright bright sunshiney day"

(i woke up with that song running through my head)

You are so goofy, A.

[*JG* 2]

Hey Jus..

mawning yardies...its Sunday an of course mi a struggle fi submit mi homework..kissteet

homework? i thought you should be cooking

yuh neva know mi get the multitasker award18mths in a row now..mi a do everyting..just bathe tahlia now she a sleep

Ha ha....what is the multitasker award? A statue with a bunch of arms?????

oieeeeeeee deh Kimmy, wish you could join us for dinner...my backyard is full of mostly rastaman and dem a cook...dem mek up fiyah outside (nutin illegal) but, the neighbors got concerned and called the fire marshall (I think that's what they call dem)...I'm telling you August can't get here soon enough.

Underworld 3 STUNK...I'm dissapointed.

Well, mi hope u dun u homewurk...

Having a bad feeling all day, like when my grandmother first got sick...so, pray for us.

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((((((((((((((((((((chups)))))))))) Jawi

Latahs

Yeah, I thought it sucked too. Kimmy warned us, remember?

[newlynluv 0]

Mawning ladies...

Wakey how is Jawi???

Lovesponge thanks for sharing i get so nervous about the women duty thing cause honestly i am sooooo not that person my ex's did all that stuff for me smdh (spoiled)...

**Quanna wha gwan waving** i know you got the biggest kool aid smile Roger coming!!!!!!

[*JG* 2]

Hey Yardie crew, My boo is watching the Magic game so I had some time to catch up. I have been reading a lot about being honest and adjustments and all so I decided to post what I been going through.

My boo has been here about a six weeks now and I love that he is here, I still believe that we are meant for each other and cant wait to walk down the aisle. BUT it has been anything but easy. The first week we got into a huge argument about my ex because he called me to wish me a happy mothers day. He is very jealous and kind of insecure. I dont think he trusts me %100 but he says otherwise. We are good most of the time and usually talk through our disagreements, but we we argue we ARGUE. I mean cussing, yelling and once he had to go outside to cool down.

The hardest part of the adjustment for me has been our different parenting styles with my daughter. She is 4 years old and kind of spoiled rotten thanks to mommy. She is my only child and even though I know its bad I basically give her anything she wants. When he came he was like ####### she is rude as hell (she is). I had to pray on this a lot because I knew he was right but somhow I felt like he has no right to tell me how to raise my child but then... oh yea he does he is gonna be my husband and the only father she has ever known. He is really good to her but he also lays down the law and does not play when she is being rude and wanting her own way.

Did I say I am tired as hell, I have never worked, cooked, cleaned, washed and take care of everyone like this my whole life.

Other than the adjustments, we are doing great. He has only been gone 3 hrs and I am missing him like crazy right now. I love coming home to him everyday from work, I love going grocery shopping, going to the mall, hanging out with family and doing every day things with my boo. Most of all I love sleeping next to him every night, and the sex is GREAT. even better than it was in JA lol. The thing I love about him is he is such a family man, he likes to watch movies together,hang out at the park and take my daughter outside to ride her bike. He gets so excited, he races with her. I just sit there and smile at them.

No relationship is easy it takes a lot of HARD work, patience, understanding, forgiveness and you have to really pray and stay close to GOD, only he can help make it work or get you out if its not working.

Oh, Love.....that all works itself out in time. It takes time to give up some of the control you have had for so long. It's only natural. Hang in there.

As far as working so hard on all that stuff, is he helping you at all? Sounds like you are killing yourself there.

[dancehallquana 5]

thanks j2 and newly..

newly.. i am soo not that woman either and my ex just dealt w/ it i guess cuz he didn't do that stuff either lol..

roger knows WUS UP.. so he can't come acting brand new. i think that was apart of my daily greeting.. Hey baby, miss u, i can't cook..

[finesse 3]

thanks j2 and newly..

newly.. i am soo not that woman either and my ex just dealt w/ it i guess cuz he didn't do that stuff either lol..

roger knows WUS UP.. so he can't come acting brand new. i think that was apart of my daily greeting.. Hey baby, miss u, i can't cook..

i thought u were practice cook by now?

[sus 70]

Ha sus....we really are alike. Love my rum cream.

Have you tried Amerula?

I have tried Amerula - But I actually have a store near me that will get me rum cream if I ask them to order it - or I can usually find one that is made in Barbados, can't think of the name at the moment.

[dancehallquana 5]

thanks j2 and newly..

newly.. i am soo not that woman either and my ex just dealt w/ it i guess cuz he didn't do that stuff either lol..

roger knows WUS UP.. so he can't come acting brand new. i think that was apart of my daily greeting.. Hey baby, miss u, i can't cook..

i thought u were practice cook by now?

i am hopeless. HOPELESS i tell ya.. i have been doing a lil something in the kitchen but i am not a good cook and i rather not disappoint so lets just go out dangit!!!!!!!!

wha gwann finesse???

[JAPrincess 27]

thanks j2 and newly..

newly.. i am soo not that woman either and my ex just dealt w/ it i guess cuz he didn't do that stuff either lol..

roger knows WUS UP.. so he can't come acting brand new. i think that was apart of my daily greeting.. Hey baby, miss u, i can't cook..

That's me right there

I don't think he believes me tho

I bet you are so excited QUANA!!!

How did he get the visitor's visa Quana?

Sure wish my honey had one