Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)

[Islandwoman 0]

Since ya'll were taling about the GSAT yesterday-

So is this taken in 5th or 6th grade? Because a month ago, my stepdaughter called a talking about some test. But she is only 9..can't be in 5th or 6 grade right? I know she told me 4th.

Signed,

Totally confused and need your help

GSAT is for 6th grade - to see what high school they go to. Maybe she was taking an end of the school year exam.

[IrieCat 2]

Irie - I hate for any parent to do that to a child...it PISSES me off! This was one of the reasons I stayed with me EX so long after my son was born, because I didn't want my son to go through that...but in the end I was suffering and I couldn't deal with it anymore.

I left Tierra's dad when she was 3 months old. He tried to KILL me when I was 9 months pregnant. I stayed long enough to make a plan and get the hell out. His wife now is a different kind of person than me. We talked about it once... she told me he tried to put his hands on her and she kicked his ####! I don't know how she did it! LOL .. but more pwer to her!

The touching questions and ####### make me so mad. After she stays in July this year I am going to "reasses" things. If I have to go through the reprogramming again I am going to have to go back to court. I want T to be able to see her dad, she misses him, but this family can only take so much!

I have to do the same thing, if he's with his father for more than a week. My son goes to bed at 8pm I don't care if you're sleepy or not, you better be in your bed. I don't let him watch music videos or movies with cussin in it. The first time I heard my son say sh*t, I damn near fainted. I don't curse in my house, sometimes I might slip and say damn, but that's about it. After he gets back from his dad he's wants to do whatever and I'm not having that. His father also tells him that he's not to listen to my husband because that's not his dad and he can do whatever he wants. See, my EX was never punished by his mom, so he's a mummah bway rass spoiled bratt

Is your ex from MD? Maybe its in the water!

They sound related!

[SupportOAFJF 0]

I understand Island..sometimes men (some) can make this sooo ridiculous..."i can BUT i dare u to"

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Open Arms for Jamaica's Future is a non-profit organization that a bunch of us ladies on here started to help our children in Jamaica to stay in school. We had an epiphany and realzied no matter how long this journey is there are ppl way less fortunate than us.

We have selected a school..St.Martin primart in, St.Mary..and we will help keep this child in school for the school year and if allowed be mentor.

wow, that is great

do u guys get any help from/partner with any big companies?

i've always had an interest in being in something that helps mentor kids, esp boys because laaaawd we need some real men

[SupportOAFJF 0]

excellent Irie...i hoped ur dad gave him two good ones with the handle

[IrieCat 2]

OK..TOPIC

every one that had children in a previous relationship

Is ur current relationship the 1st one after u separated from ur ex? why are they "concerned". Don't get me wrong. I would be a maniac too if my children all of a sudden have another woman in their lives to confuse the heck out of them in regards to mommy and daddy relationship.. BUT do u guys see where I'm going with this?

I may have dates a few guys but my daughter never met them. My daughters father HATES Louis.. but it is all jealousy. Louis gets to spend more time... blah blah. I can say some of the problems btween my daughter and Louis stem from her father. He questions her about stuff (asked if Louis touches her!!) Also told her Louis will never be her real dad... all that. Tierra gets very confused...

On the other she has a stepmom that I get along with. We can talk when I have a concern. I also let Tierra know she can love us all the same. That should should respect Stepmom and Louis equally. She should listen to us all becuase we love her and want her to be safe.

Its hard when it is one-sided! But I think Tierra's dad's "concern" is selfesh! He doesn't want Tierra calling anyone else daddy.

I might be crazy but I dont mind if Tierra calls step-mom "mom".. I know who I am!

He used to live in MD then moved to Florida... so now we are FAR away! I think it would be easier sometimes if we were closer. Then daddy's house wouldnt be this magical place that is full of presents when she gets there.

that is too sad irie.. does ur ex live close???

mine does some of the same.. he asks a million questions and tells them all kinds of nasty things about my friends, not only Roger.. and tells them not to talk to them and if i bring them around ppl he doesn't approve of for them to call him..

luckily my girls know all this is pure phockery.. they know their daddy doesnt mean it and he is just still angry about our family not being together anymore..

and just like u... he has a girlfriend..i hve never said a bad word about her, i also encourage the kids that i will be ok and the can have fun w/ her and their daddy w/out worrying about hurting me.. WHY OH WHY cant he do the same.. i really wish all 4 of us could get along and be there for our kids.. it could be sooo easy but they make it sooo hard..

and it makes it very hard for our SO..i know roger gets angry at the phockery that goes on, but he knows i am trying to keep peace.. but i know he won't be able to keep seeing and hearing the mess that goes on.. i try not to tell him too much

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Open Arms for Jamaica's Future is a non-profit organization that a bunch of us ladies on here started to help our children in Jamaica to stay in school. We had an epiphany and realzied no matter how long this journey is there are ppl way less fortunate than us.

We have selected a school..St.Martin primart in, St.Mary..and we will help keep this child in school for the school year and if allowed be mentor.

wow, that is great

do u guys get any help from/partner with any big companies?

i've always had an interest in being in something that helps mentor kids, esp boys because laaaawd we need some real men

No Buz. not yet..we are trying to get the legalities out of the way..We are slowly trying to spread the word

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Bunz; I get that question all the time and really I don't know how to answer it. I'd broken up with him before because he wouldn't step up to the plate. So, we separtated for 2 years; got back together and carelessness on my part I got pregnant and that's when his bad behavoir started up again. I prayed and hoped and even did counseling in hopes that he would change but it just got worse, then he started accusing me of cheating (poor mi) and it was HELL after that. I volunteer at a woman's shelter and have been doing so since 1992 and I use to wonder why some women stay, especially when they're being abused and I can't speak for everyone, but something takes a hold of you, your mind, your spirit, I don't know what it is, but all that matters is you GET OUT and I did. I took my son and I left. I walked away from my home with everything in it (got it back later)...but my son was more important to me than anything.

Out of shame and embrassement I hid my abuse and alot of women do this. I should have know better since I had seen it at the shelter and have gone to rescue women myself who were stuck in abusive relationships...mi no know, but God guided me and I got out and got back on my feet. I use to beat myself up about staying so long, but I've gotten over it now with God's help.

[NatPatBen 3]

In talking to VSC:

Thursday: "Your case is where it should be."

Friday: "Your case is assigned to an officer."

Monday: "Your case is NOT assigned to an officer."

Tuesday: "Your case was assigned to an officer on June 3."

Nat -- VSC is sending you on an emotional rollercoaster, eh?! Congrats on the good news -- celebrate every little step!

Good morning, yardies. I woke up thinking it was Wednesday. I haven't done that since I was in college -- not having to go to work has all of the days running together.

That's so funny you woke up thinking it was Wednesday. I thought it was Tuesday this morning! In my post about the days, I wrote Monday & Tuesday when I meant Wednesday & Thursday.

[dancehallquana 5]

i am so proud of u hotty.. (mi nuh call u kimmy no more???) go open arms for Jamaica!!!

[SupportOAFJF 0]

i am so proud of u hotty.. (mi nuh call u kimmy no more???) go open arms for Jamaica!!!

Thnx Q..yuh know mi HOT fram mi bawn LOL

[dancehallquana 5]

nat and unruly don't be pushing the week back.. i need it to SPPEEEEDDDD up

hey is jawi's surgery today??

[SupportOAFJF 0]

couldn't do it w/o the ladies of OPEN ARMS FOR JAMAICA'S FUTURE !!!

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Ladies we will gladly accept one time donations, for the project. We will be sponsoring our 1st child this Sept.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

nat and unruly don't be pushing the week back.. i need it to SPPEEEEDDDD up

hey is jawi's surgery today??

Yes, a tiday...my sister is also having surgery today at 12:30...you see how long I been on VJ I can't concentrate on work until her husband calls me.