Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)

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Morning all! I could not sleep, so I have been up since 4 am watching John and Kate plus 8

I love that show...lol

[My4rmylife 0]

Morning all! I could not sleep, so I have been up since 4 am watching John and Kate plus 8

I love that show...lol

i do too i watch it alot ...

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

OK..TOPIC

every one that had children in a previous relationship

Is ur current relationship the 1st one after u separated from ur ex? why are they "concerned". Don't get me wrong. I would be a maniac too if my children all of a sudden have another woman in their lives to confuse the heck out of them in regards to mommy and daddy relationship.. BUT do u guys see where I'm going with this?

I may have dates a few guys but my daughter never met them. My daughters father HATES Louis.. but it is all jealousy. Louis gets to spend more time... blah blah. I can say some of the problems btween my daughter and Louis stem from her father. He questions her about stuff (asked if Louis touches her!!) Also told her Louis will never be her real dad... all that. Tierra gets very confused...

On the other she has a stepmom that I get along with. We can talk when I have a concern. I also let Tierra know she can love us all the same. That should should respect Stepmom and Louis equally. She should listen to us all becuase we love her and want her to be safe.

Its hard when it is one-sided! But I think Tierra's dad's "concern" is selfesh! He doesn't want Tierra calling anyone else daddy.

I might be crazy but I dont mind if Tierra calls step-mom "mom".. I know who I am!

a close freind of mine, her children's father convinced the kids that their mommy was being a "#######" for dating another man

and was putting all kinds of perverted thoughts in their minds about their mother

but time is the master because in EVERY case like this i know of, the the person giving problems always ends up worse off because of their foolishness

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Kimmy, in my research on the JA GSAT, I see that there are many organizations that offer some type of scholarship aid to students who does well on the GSAT. But it's the goal for our organization (OPEN ARMS TO JAMAICA) to aid the children, so they can have the opportunity to be prepare to do well on the GSAT when it is given to them in the sixth grade. By offering some type of financial assistant to a child in the 4th grade that will help aid them to stay and come to school on a daily basis will give us a great sense of accomplishment. We will be able to rejoice when that child whom we assit have scored well on the GSAT and gets accepted into one of these prestigeous HIGH SCHOOLS.

GO OPEN ARMS TO JAMAICA

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Morning all! I could not sleep, so I have been up since 4 am watching John and Kate plus 8

I love that show...lol

i do too i watch it alot ...

i used to watch it occassionally but i'm turned off now that all that drama is surrounding them

[IrieCat 2]

Irie - I hate for any parent to do that to a child...it PISSES me off! This was one of the reasons I stayed with me EX so long after my son was born, because I didn't want my son to go through that...but in the end I was suffering and I couldn't deal with it anymore.

I left Tierra's dad when she was 3 months old. He tried to KILL me when I was 9 months pregnant. I stayed long enough to make a plan and get the hell out. His wife now is a different kind of person than me. We talked about it once... she told me he tried to put his hands on her and she kicked his ####! I don't know how she did it! LOL .. but more pwer to her!

The touching questions and ####### make me so mad. After she stays in July this year I am going to "reasses" things. If I have to go through the reprogramming again I am going to have to go back to court. I want T to be able to see her dad, she misses him, but this family can only take so much!

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Passing gets u into one of the top 3 schools of ur choice. If u do not pass u will be placed a school in ur Zone

But doesn't guarantee a spot - Jr did well on his GSATs but the 1st 2 schools of his choice told him they were already full.

yes of course...thats why there r about 3 choices..and ur score matters too

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Legz; no baddah get mad, but since u blood a bubble areadi

My EX told me that he wanted to meet my husband I said fine and he was a no show; then he see him and tells everyone in church that I have a convict living with his son that smokes weed...wow, you can know that much about a person just by looking at them. He asked my son all sorts of questions and my son would come back and tell us. The worse was when we got back from Jamaica last year and my son told us that daddy hates me and hates your boyfriend; then my EX calls the police and tells them that my husband is beating my son, then the schools calls because my EX called them, then CPS got involved...when I tell you my husband deserves an award for sticking by and and I truly appreciate him, I really mean it, because he was about to go back to Jamaica.

[Islandwoman 0]

Sorry I haven't posted lately. I'm been super busy trying to get ready for the interview. My SO just called me saying he needs a paper for when he pays the visa fee at a NCB. I didn't know about a paper. Can anyone tell me where to look if there is a paper he needs. Or if he just needs to go in and pay the $131? Thanks!

Hope everyone is doing good!!

Brooke - someone might have already answered but he doesn't need a paper, just his passport --- and $131. They will ask him when the interview is, maybe that's what he is thinking - the interview letter.

[IrieCat 2]

T's dad told her that Louis has a bunch of girlfriends back in SLU and that he is going to leave me and go back to one of them! AHAHAHA!

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Kimmy, in my research on the JA GSAT, I see that there are many organizations that offer some type of scholarship aid to students who does well on the GSAT. But it's the goal for our organization (OPEN ARMS TO JAMAICA) to aid the children, so they can have the opportunity to be prepare to do well on the GSAT when it is given to them in the sixth grade. By offering some type of financial assistant to a child in the 4th grade that will help aid them to stay and come to school on a daily basis will give us a great sense of accomplishment. We will be able to rejoice when that child whom we assit have scored well on the GSAT and gets accepted into one of these prestigeous HIGH SCHOOLS.

GO OPEN ARMS TO JAMAICA

Yes Rox..Open Arms for Jamaica's Future is trying to accomplish the 1st step in KEEPING "our" child in school and try to set a foundation with possible resources so our children GET a CHANCE. Staying home b/c of no lunch money, or uniform, shoes is unacceptable.

GO OPEN ARMS FOR JAMAICA'S FUTURE!!

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Passing gets u into one of the top 3 schools of ur choice. If u do not pass u will be placed a school in ur Zone

But doesn't guarantee a spot - Jr did well on his GSATs but the 1st 2 schools of his choice told him they were already full.

yes of course...thats why there r about 3 choices..and ur score matters too

the problem is that there are not enough "prestigious" high schools

so the govt tries to convince ppl that the newer schools are just as good

they are really trying to change the education system but its waaaay to stratified and this is an entrenched thing

it will take GENERATIONS before it will change

[SupportOAFJF 0]

Irie - I hate for any parent to do that to a child...it PISSES me off! This was one of the reasons I stayed with me EX so long after my son was born, because I didn't want my son to go through that...but in the end I was suffering and I couldn't deal with it anymore.

I left Tierra's dad when she was 3 months old. He tried to KILL me when I was 9 months pregnant. I stayed long enough to make a plan and get the hell out. His wife now is a different kind of person than me. We talked about it once... she told me he tried to put his hands on her and she kicked his ####! I don't know how she did it! LOL .. but more pwer to her!

The touching questions and ####### make me so mad. After she stays in July this year I am going to "reasses" things. If I have to go through the reprogramming again I am going to have to go back to court. I want T to be able to see her dad, she misses him, but this family can only take so much!

OK...WOW..DID HE SPEND EVEN A MINUTE IN JAIL?

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Irie - I hate for any parent to do that to a child...it PISSES me off! This was one of the reasons I stayed with me EX so long after my son was born, because I didn't want my son to go through that...but in the end I was suffering and I couldn't deal with it anymore.

I left Tierra's dad when she was 3 months old. He tried to KILL me when I was 9 months pregnant. I stayed long enough to make a plan and get the hell out. His wife now is a different kind of person than me. We talked about it once... she told me he tried to put his hands on her and she kicked his ####! I don't know how she did it! LOL .. but more pwer to her!

The touching questions and ####### make me so mad. After she stays in July this year I am going to "reasses" things. If I have to go through the reprogramming again I am going to have to go back to court. I want T to be able to see her dad, she misses him, but this family can only take so much!

I have to do the same thing, if he's with his father for more than a week. My son goes to bed at 8pm I don't care if you're sleepy or not, you better be in your bed. I don't let him watch music videos or movies with cussin in it. The first time I heard my son say sh*t, I damn near fainted. I don't curse in my house, sometimes I might slip and say damn, but that's about it. After he gets back from his dad he's wants to do whatever and I'm not having that. His father also tells him that he's not to listen to my husband because that's not his dad and he can do whatever he wants. See, my EX was never punished by his mom, so he's a mummah bway rass spoiled bratt

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Legz; no baddah get mad, but since u blood a bubble areadi

My EX told me that he wanted to meet my husband I said fine and he was a no show; then he see him and tells everyone in church that I have a convict living with his son that smokes weed...wow, you can know that much about a person just by looking at them. He asked my son all sorts of questions and my son would come back and tell us. The worse was when we got back from Jamaica last year and my son told us that daddy hates me and hates your boyfriend; then my EX calls the police and tells them that my husband is beating my son, then the schools calls because my EX called them, then CPS got involved...when I tell you my husband deserves an award for sticking by and and I truly appreciate him, I really mean it, because he was about to go back to Jamaica.

Thank God for putting such an angel in your life. Lawny, this says a lot of good about you husband. God bless ya'll.

I just don't understand why it's so hard to just say...Okay...they are happy and my son is okay...so let them be. I don't wish anything bad on your EX...but I want him to learn that what he did was not cool. I hope he has grown up since then.