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[Loolie 56]

hi,

ang wirdo naman na situation mo..pero in reality nangyayari din yan...pero bakit ka pa pupunta dito sa usa eh alam mo ng ganyan ang asawa mo? i mean halos lahat ng tao dream nila pumuntang america kaso di naman madali ang buhay dito...lalo na sa situation mo na 2 years conditional residence ka pa...anong gusto mong mangyari? makisama sa kanya at hintayin na babuyin ka nya at tsaka mo sya idivorce for abuse or whatsoever?para ka makapag file ng waiver for ten year green card? kasi kung pupunta ka dito sa usa at titira ka sa ibang bahay eh parang fraud din ang pag punta mo dito...di kayo nagsasama bilang mag asawa. wag kanang mag dalawang isip kasi kahit man mag tagumpay ka sa iyong mga iniisip or plano pero mahihirapan ka pa rin lalo na kung sa ganyang situation.

kasi di ko ma gets ano ba talaga balak mo...ano intensyon mo para pumunta pa ng usa at makipagsapalaran dito kung alam mong ang taong pakikisamahan mo ay di normal. pwede ka naman mag pa annull sa pinas...tapos magsimula ulit ng bagong buhay. hahay wag masyadong masilaw sa usa. God bless you always.

[loveme4ever 0]

Sorry poh s mga nguguluhan s akin. Wla poh akong balak at wala po akong masamang intention kung ppnta mn ako s US. Ang reason ko poh pra ppnta dun pra mpawalang bisa poh ung kasal nmn...cnsya na dko po alam na pwde pala ako d2 mgpa annul, akala ko poh kc s US lng pwde dhil dun kmi kinasal.. Ngaun, kng pwd poh d2 s pinas mapawalang bisa kasal nmn hindi ko na po sasayangin ang pnhon na ppnta pa jn. SAlamat poh s mga advice nyo...

DUn poh s mga nagpa annul d2 s pinas ano po ba requirements at mgkno po ung bayad? Thanks s lahat

[angel_eyes1976 0]

THanks po s lhat ng replies mga advice nyo tintanggap ko po lahat ng advice nyo at susundin ko un!!!...Khit huminto na sya ngaun s hiling nya pero takot prin ako bka pgdating ko dun ggwin na nya tlga at baka msaktan pa ako physically kng hndi ko sya susundin...

Ngaun ang tanong ko, if ever na ppnta ako dun pro hnd ako mgstay s knya,paano ko sya idivorce? Kc ayw ko nmn na mging legal prin ang marriage nmn s kbila ngmga ginagawa nya sakin. ANo ung mga requirements s pgdidivorce? At since 2 yrs greencard conditional ako, pwde ko prin bang mremove ung conditions after 2 yrs kht divorce na kmi? Or after 2 yeras kailngn kong umuwi ng pinas? Naguguluhan ako mga sis paano ko mapawalang bisa ung married nmn...

THANKS PO TLGA S LAHAT!!.....MABUHAY ANG PINOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anong ginagawa nang telepono sister?huag kang matakot...saka mo na isipin yang requirements sa divorce,isipin mo muna kung paano ka makawala sa kanya....God bless...

Right! Isipin mo muna kung paano ka makakawala sa tarantado mong asawa. Tutal naman, meron kang 2 years para ayusin ang buhay mo. For divorce, meron ka namang matinding ground.

By the way, kung saan ka man sa US, dapat alam mong contact numbers pati place na malapit sa yo na pwede mong lapitan kapag nagkaproblema ka sa asawa. Just in case, doon ka tumuloy sa kanya habang naghahanap ka ng masisilungan.

i don't think she really has grounds for divorce... it's all a case of he said, she said.... she's not in the US yet .... unless she taped all their conversations when he asked all those perverted things... he can deny everything... and she will come out as the girl who is just after the green card.... after the green card is on hand, she will divorce the husband... just my two cents...

[raquel_1208 1]

According to her she saved all their chat conversations. So I suggested that she get her divorce here kasi dito sa US sya ikinasal. To the OP, you need a lawyer. And its good na na-save mo mga chat ninyo. You need legal assistance to terminate your marriage.

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

Grabe, nman yang mister mo sis! kung mahal k nya baket Lord/Master ang gusto nya itawag mo sa kanya?? and u ano ka?? At kung mahal k tkga ng mister mo baket gnun ang turing nya sau?? prang sex slave?? then pati sis mo pinagnanasaan pah?? gosh!! katakot yan! taz my kung anu anu pang imagination at naiisip gawin.. grabe nman tlga yan..

You know what i think, ikaw mismo makakasolve ng problem mo. mahal kaba tlga nya?? o bka nman ikaw lang ang nagmamahal, mahirap yan..

kung ako sayo iiwan ko n yan, kc baka saktan kp nya kapag d mo naibigay ang gusto nya.. specially ibang bansa to, .. ang gusto ng asawa mo ay maling mali!

OO nga weird naman ang husband mo na yan at napaka-pervert. Okay lang mag-role playing kayo minsan master and servant pero bakit naman threesome ang gusto niya at mag-orgy pa kayo? Hay, hindi naman normal yan sa isang guy. Pero kasal naman na kayo. Bakit naman hindi mo napansin yang preference niya sa sex noong magkasama pa kayo?

[noel_jas 0]

alam mo yung asawa mo he reminds me dun sa case na napanood ko dati sa crime and investigation channel na yung lalake nagnanasa sya sa sister ng gf nya. kasabwat nya yung gf nya tapos they put the girl (sister) into drugs, raped her and eventually killed her. i know masyadong extreme yung example ko pero sa utak ng pervert at sira ulong tao anything can happen. tama yung sinabi ng mga tiga VJ na mas maganda dyan ka na lang sa pinas kase mahirap talaga dito lalo na pag nag-uumpisa ka pa lang tas makikisama ka pa sa ganyang klaseng tao. it will take a while bago ka makatayo sa sarili mong paa and during those times na nakadepende ka sa asawa mo you'll have limited choices. kahit na may friends or relatives ka pa mahirap pa din kase may mga sarili din silang buhay. yung mga tulad natin na nag-asawa ng tiga US importante na yung taong makakasama natin dito is somebody na supportive at hindi yung ilalagay tayo sa alanganging situation. it's good na habang nandyan ka pa lang nakita mo na yung totoong kulay nya kase pag andito ka na mas mahirap. mag-isip kang mabuti gurl kase hindi biro ang pagpunta dito. one more thing, dapat wake up call na din sa iyo yung paghingi nya ng naked pics ng mga sisters mo. since asawa ka na nya dapat itrato nya yung mga kapatid mo na bilang kapatid din hindi yung pinagnanasahan nya. nakakatakot nyan baka pag nagkaanak kayo ng babae one day baka pati yun galawin nya.

[sasha414 0]

Sorry poh s mga nguguluhan s akin. Wla poh akong balak at wala po akong masamang intention kung ppnta mn ako s US. Ang reason ko poh pra ppnta dun pra mpawalang bisa poh ung kasal nmn...cnsya na dko po alam na pwde pala ako d2 mgpa annul, akala ko poh kc s US lng pwde dhil dun kmi kinasal.. Ngaun, kng pwd poh d2 s pinas mapawalang bisa kasal nmn hindi ko na po sasayangin ang pnhon na ppnta pa jn. SAlamat poh s mga advice nyo...

DUn poh s mga nagpa annul d2 s pinas ano po ba requirements at mgkno po ung bayad? Thanks s lahat

wait a minute. where did you get married? in the usa? if so, i would assume your marriage is not registered in the philippines? if its not, then technically you are still single in the philippines. im not very good at legalities but i suggest you talk to a lawyer. i have a feeling your lawyer will tell you that you dont need to get annuled in the phils since your marriage wasnt registered here anyway. i have heard of some cases before where the american husband filed the divorce in the states and just sent the filipina wife the divorce papers, easy as that. i just hope your husband is kind enough to file the divorce in the usa to give you freedom because if he really wanted to piss you off, he could very well give you a hard time on this. so i suggest you discuss this with a good lawyer .

[rheanick 42]

Sorry poh s mga nguguluhan s akin. Wla poh akong balak at wala po akong masamang intention kung ppnta mn ako s US. Ang reason ko poh pra ppnta dun pra mpawalang bisa poh ung kasal nmn...cnsya na dko po alam na pwde pala ako d2 mgpa annul, akala ko poh kc s US lng pwde dhil dun kmi kinasal.. Ngaun, kng pwd poh d2 s pinas mapawalang bisa kasal nmn hindi ko na po sasayangin ang pnhon na ppnta pa jn. SAlamat poh s mga advice nyo...

DUn poh s mga nagpa annul d2 s pinas ano po ba requirements at mgkno po ung bayad? Thanks s lahat

wait a minute. where did you get married? in the usa? if so, i would assume your marriage is not registered in the philippines? if its not, then technically you are still single in the philippines. im not very good at legalities but i suggest you talk to a lawyer. i have a feeling your lawyer will tell you that you dont need to get annuled in the phils since your marriage wasnt registered here anyway. i have heard of some cases before where the american husband filed the divorce in the states and just sent the filipina wife the divorce papers, easy as that. i just hope your husband is kind enough to file the divorce in the usa to give you freedom because if he really wanted to piss you off, he could very well give you a hard time on this. so i suggest you discuss this with a good lawyer .

If she was married in the US and she did not report her marriage in the Philippines embassy, technically, she is still single in the philippines.

[mahalkita 0]

Sorry poh s mga nguguluhan s akin. Wla poh akong balak at wala po akong masamang intention kung ppnta mn ako s US. Ang reason ko poh pra ppnta dun pra mpawalang bisa poh ung kasal nmn...cnsya na dko po alam na pwde pala ako d2 mgpa annul, akala ko poh kc s US lng pwde dhil dun kmi kinasal.. Ngaun, kng pwd poh d2 s pinas mapawalang bisa kasal nmn hindi ko na po sasayangin ang pnhon na ppnta pa jn. SAlamat poh s mga advice nyo...

DUn poh s mga nagpa annul d2 s pinas ano po ba requirements at mgkno po ung bayad? Thanks s lahat

wait a minute. where did you get married? in the usa? if so, i would assume your marriage is not registered in the philippines? if its not, then technically you are still single in the philippines. im not very good at legalities but i suggest you talk to a lawyer. i have a feeling your lawyer will tell you that you dont need to get annuled in the phils since your marriage wasnt registered here anyway. i have heard of some cases before where the american husband filed the divorce in the states and just sent the filipina wife the divorce papers, easy as that. i just hope your husband is kind enough to file the divorce in the usa to give you freedom because if he really wanted to piss you off, he could very well give you a hard time on this. so i suggest you discuss this with a good lawyer .

I think their married was already reported here in Philippines kc nga my CR1 visa na sya last month nya nkuha. Syempre kailngan nila ng consul ng NSO marriage certificate so it means reported na ung marriage nila from US d2 s pinas....

Kung sakali bang mpawalang bisa ung kasal nila d2 s pinas nya ggwin, anytime pwde prin ba nya mgamit ung CR1 visa nya? if ever kng ppnta sya s mga kmg-anak nya dun for another purpose..

[maritoni 3]

If she was married in the US and she did not report her marriage in the Philippines embassy, technically, she is still single in the philippines.

Naguguluhan naman ako..ano pala requirements nya nung nag file sila ng petisyon,she's a 2 years green card holder di ba?

[Economist 0]

Sorry i cant write in tagalog as im still learning, but Before you make your decision, lets see what the bible has to say so we can get the moral issue out of the way and see if its right with God.

Matthew 19:7-9 They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?” He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.

Divorce is never commanded, but permitted by God in certain circumstances, and God permits it because of the hardness of human hearts. The ancient Greek word for sexual immorality is porneia. It is a broad word, covering a wide span of sexual impropriety. One may be guilty of porneia without actually having consummated an act of adultery.

This is why Jesus said in Matthew 5:28 "Whoever looks with lust has committed adultery already with that person in their hearts" God will judge us not just by the wickedness of our actions, but by the wickedness of our thoughts.

To this permission for divorce, Paul adds the case of abandonment by an unbelieving spouse (1 Corinthians 7:15)

The first Commandment is "I am the Lord your God who brought you out of Egypt and out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods before me." This means to put God first in your life. The term "gods" means basically anything you put alot of your focus on. "gods" doesnt just mean false gods like baal or sheva or whoever else. It could mean money, it could mean lust, basically anything that you love that consumes your thoughts night and day. From what my wife told me, it seems this man is trying to set himself up as your god. The bible also says in Matthew 6:24 "No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other" "Master" being the imperitive word there.

So my own advice to you is that staying with this guy would not only be bad for your life, but it is EXTREMELY dangerous for your salvation and entering the Kingdom of God. If you stayed with him and you picked up on some of his wickedness, it would be bad, and staying with him in a place where you are far from your family and friends and are only around him and his friends, they would surely get you into their wicked way of life.

[rheanick 42]

If she was married in the US and she did not report her marriage in the Philippines embassy, technically, she is still single in the philippines.

Naguguluhan naman ako..ano pala requirements nya nung nag file sila ng petisyon,she's a 2 years green card holder di ba?

Just a copy of marriage certificate. In her case, a copy of US marriage certificate.

If she did not report it to the Philippines consulate or Philippines NSO, then she is still single here in the Phillipines. Though she is considered married in the US.

[rheanick 42]

If she was married in the US and she did not report her marriage in the Philippines embassy, technically, she is still single in the philippines.

Naguguluhan naman ako..ano pala requirements nya nung nag file sila ng petisyon,she's a 2 years green card holder di ba?

Just a copy of marriage certificate. In her case, a copy of US marriage certificate.

If she did not report it to the Philippines consulate or Philippines NSO, then she is still single here in the Phillipines. Though she is considered married in the US.

Maritoni,

Mahalkita clarified the CR1 requirements. The OP US marriage is reported here in the Philippines. She has to file an annulment here in the Philippines if she wants out.

[mahalkita 0]

Yes u are right rheanick, the OP said their marriage in US was already reported here in Philippines. So best for her to get annulment here in PH..anyone can suggest how to get annuled here?

[sasha414 0]

Yes u are right rheanick, the OP said their marriage in US was already reported here in Philippines. So best for her to get annulment here in PH..anyone can suggest how to get annuled here?

she needs to consult a lawyer in the phils first , discuss what she wants and then take it from there.